Are you fascinated by girls with big bladders? (and the dilemma)

[koyukoyu 83]

With a habit of automatically keeping track in mind of how often people use the toilet, I'm very fascinated by girls with big bladders. I think they are really cool. (Coincidentally, all girls I have dated or have had a crush on have big bladders -- at least bigger than mine.)

 

For me, there are mainly two measures of the "coolness". They're correlated but not exactly the same.

1. [more biological] Girls who urinates less often

2. [more socially] Girls who rarely got "caught short" (needing to pee in inconvenient situations, and/or having to show signs of desperation and losing their composure, e.g. in a car trip and have to make everyone stop, or during the movie and have to get out in the middle)

 

Of course, the biggest turn-on for me is seeing the "cool girls" with big bladders getting caught short. That's much more fascinating than girls with small bladders. (It's like seeing a rare event!)

However, it creates a kind of dilemma for me: on one hand, I'm super fascinated and aroused by this; but on the other hand, I don't want her to lose the coolness and the status of "a girl who never got caught short" that I admired. So I often get a mixed feelings - both excited and a little regret.

Edited September 25 by koyukoyu (see edit history)

[Sudoers 98]

That is exactly me.

When I stay with a big bladder girl I do not use the bathroom and see how long she can last. I also have complex feelings after more than 10 hours staying together without any sign of desperation from her.

Meanwhile I also like to stay with girls with extreme small bladder, like need a bathroom every 1 hour.

 

[WilllB 106]

Regarding the title, I am absolutely fascinated by this topic.

But I don't really have the same kind of conflict as you do, if I understood your statement correctly. Or maybe it's somewhat related.

I don't categorize people based on "coolness", so there's no coolness to lose.
It's a bit embarrassing to write, but I might have a somewhat similar "issue."

If I were in a situation with someone who has been holding for a long time, my "issue" might be that on one hand, I'd want the situation to continue as long as possible, and it's a bit disappointing when it ends. But on the other hand, I would hope for the opportunity to at least hear when they finally release a (long and powerful) stream. So, in a way, I wish the situation would go on "forever," but at the same time, I hope it comes to a conclusion while I'm in their company. This probably applies more to occasional interactions with people than those with whom I have constant contact over longer periods.

[Linxsquat 179]

I definitely get what you’re saying. While “small bladder” girls are great in their own right, I prefer the girls with big bladders who have steely self control and who can hold a large amount for a long period of time. My current gf is like this, she will regularly go most of the day without using the toilet and rarely makes a fuss about it. The few times she has been desperate are that much better because I know she’s about to explode and isn’t faking anything 

[OldWetGuy 818]

My late wife Kathy used to make a game of holding her bladder for very long periods. She would often go a whole day at work without using the toilet. A number of times she would be desperate when she got home, sometimes leaking down her pant leg and once in a while a full gusher in her jeans as she came through the kitchen door 💦😁 Great Memories 😁

[koyukoyu 83]

8 hours ago, WilllB said:

Regarding the title, I am absolutely fascinated by this topic.

But I don't really have the same kind of conflict as you do, if I understood your statement correctly. Or maybe it's somewhat related.

I don't categorize people based on "coolness", so there's no coolness to lose.
It's a bit embarrassing to write, but I might have a somewhat similar "issue."

If I were in a situation with someone who has been holding for a long time, my "issue" might be that on one hand, I'd want the situation to continue as long as possible, and it's a bit disappointing when it ends. But on the other hand, I would hope for the opportunity to at least hear when they finally release a (long and powerful) stream. So, in a way, I wish the situation would go on "forever," but at the same time, I hope it comes to a conclusion while I'm in their company. This probably applies more to occasional interactions with people than those with whom I have constant contact over longer periods.

I was thinking again about my dilemma, and now I think it's because of two reasons.

Imagine when we're watching a movie in a cinema, and during the movie she says she needs to pee. I'd seriously hope that she doesn't get off to the toilet in the middle of the movie. The first reason is simply because I want to enjoy her desperation as long as possible. But the second reason is that I don't want her to be a "girl who can't last a whole movie", which is kind of losing coolness, ruining the image of a "big bladder girl" that I admire a lot.

The same goes for when we are on a road trip. It's super exciting to see her desperation, but I don't want her to be the first one to ask everyone to make a rest stop because of the same two reasons. Of course, if we are stuck in a situation where she can't get off AT ALL, e.g. traffic jam, then it's the best situation!!

I understand your "issue". I also want to hear her peeing, but this is kind of rare, that I don't usually hope for it.

[AnotherGuy 122]

I don't really feel the conflict personally. My biggest fantasy is of a woman who has a strong bladder and who normally can hold it for a long time, but is then put in  a situation where she is forced to hold for much longer than usual and eventually ends up wetting herself. I don't find that less "cool" since everybody has a limit. Small bladdered women have an appeal too, but those who can hold for much longer and then fully soak themselves when they eventually wet, that's so much more exciting to me.

[koyukoyu 83]

2 hours ago, AnotherGuy said:

I don't really feel the conflict personally. My biggest fantasy is of a woman who has a strong bladder and who normally can hold it for a long time, but is then put in  a situation where she is forced to hold for much longer than usual and eventually ends up wetting herself. I don't find that less "cool" since everybody has a limit. Small bladdered women have an appeal too, but those who can hold for much longer and then fully soak themselves when they eventually wet, that's so much more exciting to me.

I totally understand that, and mostly agree with you. However, some part of me still consider getting caught short as “losing coolness” (socially). That’s why I have two measures of coolness: biologically and socially.

One of my favorite scenarios is when everyone EXCEPT HER had peed before a car trip, then she later got desperate in the car. In this situation, is she considered weaker or stronger? For some people, she may seem weaker socially as a “girl who got caught short in the car”; but for me, she is stronger biologically as she has held longer than other people.

This is the best scenario for me since I can enjoy her desperation while she doesn’t lose much of her coolness. (But this should happen only once in a while. If it happens too often, she will be seen as a “weak girl who often got caught short. Not to mention that actually wetting herself is losing het coolness (socially) in another level!!)

However, the worst scenario is when everyone had peed at the same time, yet she’s still the first one who got caught short. (This sometimes does happen!! A typically strong bladder girl also has some days that she pees more often than others.) I really wish this situation doesn’t happen as that means she’ll be weaker both biologically and socially. I want her to always stay a “bladder queen”.

[Sudoers 98]

4 hours ago, AnotherGuy said:

I don't really feel the conflict personally. My biggest fantasy is of a woman who has a strong bladder and who normally can hold it for a long time, but is then put in  a situation where she is forced to hold for much longer than usual and eventually ends up wetting herself. I don't find that less "cool" since everybody has a limit. Small bladdered women have an appeal too, but those who can hold for much longer and then fully soak themselves when they eventually wet, that's so much more exciting to me.

It is also my favorite one. But I never witnessed it on the bladder queen I know. When we go hiking together. Everyone except her visited the bathroom of the parking lot after a two hour ride. She just waited outside the bathroom. I heard another girl suggest her to take a pee because there is no bathroom on our hiking route. She just refused it. She did not pee during the hiking all day long, as well as before we took the bus back to city. After we were back to the city and found a place for supper, which is 12 hours since we departure in the morning. She finally went to the bathroom of the restaurant without showing any sign of desperation.

 I also have two more experiences that stay with her from morning to night. She even did not use the bathroom when we ate dinner together. 

 

[cwpee 627]

My personal favorite type is a bit of both - she has a relatively small bladder but can hold a really long time if she needs to. I don't really go out with people other than my wife so I can't study their habits, but lucky for me that's how she is. For example, at home she pees all the time, and its usually not a huge amount.  However, she doesn't like peeing at a public bathroom unless she absolutely has to. This means that it is VERY common for her to rush to the bathroom as soon as we get home from being out somewhere. Then sometimes she will even mention it while we are still at a store so I get to enjoy the ride home.

Then, there's the time when she holds to her limit, which is normally when driving as she hates gas station bathrooms unless its an emergency. Our game is that I just keep driving after she tells me she needs to pee until she tells me its an emergency and I need to stop immediately. I always stay by the door if its a single toilet bathroom and can sometimes hear her pee loudly. Its even better at home because I just hang out in the doorway and watch.

The dream is when she gets to the urgent "I need to pee NOW" stage, then can't pee. Its not uncommon for her to tell me its really time to stop, then its another 10 minutes until we get to a gas station. Even better, there are times where the gas station looks run down and she refuses to pee there. There's been times when she hold on for 20 or 30 minutes, and once it was over an hour! She isn't quite as strong now and leaks a little near her limit (which she hates and considers peeing herself), but used to it seemed like she could hold on absolutely forever if there wasn't a place to go.