Kinkhold 98 Posted May 5, 2023 Share Posted May 5, 2023 What do you do and how do you feel when you see someone having a genuine accident. Do you secretly take pleasure or do you feel bad for the person. Does this change when you know the person vs don't. Quote Link to comment
m3rmaid 247 Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 For me it depends on how the person who had the accident handles/reacts to having the accident. If they are upset, distressed or majorly embarrassed then there is no pleasure in it for me, and I feel sympathy for them. However if they are able to laugh or shrug it off, then I find that I can enjoy the event. No, knowing the person or not doesn't really change anything for me, the only exception to that I think would be if I ever saw it happen to a relative, I don't think I could ever enjoy witnessing that regardless of their reaction. Messy Missy and ShinraK 2 Quote Link to comment
agmukbooks 8 Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 for me. Consent is hot, like really really hot. So I dont associate Omo into it unless I know whats going on, and me and the other person have both agreed that its ok, and at that point its not usually a genuine accident outside of a few situations Genuine accidents can have a ton of stigma around them, and i dont personally agree with taking pleasure from someone elses potential pain. Now... Staged situations with a partner... Thats a different thing altogether, again. Consent is hot ghost girl, For The Peeple, IvyWilliams89 and 2 others 2 2 1 Quote Link to comment
Ian Newton 299 Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 I've not seen many, but I think it would be pretty awkward. Quote Link to comment
WellofSouls 34 Posted May 6, 2023 Share Posted May 6, 2023 For the most part, I would likely feel bad for them, unless I knew they were enjoying it too. I have heard about various friends of mine (mostly those of whom have had children) wetting themselves by accident but generally I feel bad for them as I am sure it is a very embarrassing experience for them. It all comes down to that notion of whether or not they enjoy it. Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted May 7, 2023 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted May 7, 2023 I've never witnessed it. But I think my feeling bad for them would override my fetish, unless they really seemed like they didn't mind. Quote Link to comment
tanin 224 Posted May 7, 2023 Share Posted May 7, 2023 Witnessed twice, both messing. Did not enjoy it, especially at the scene due to big stress and humilitation to people involved. Quote Link to comment
ghost girl 15 Posted May 14, 2023 Share Posted May 14, 2023 I would not be into it at all, I really only like omo if it's fictional or very purposeful (....porn), to the point where I even get super stressed out for somebody else if they need to use the bathroom and I'll help them find a bathroom or remind others we should make a bathroom stop soon. Also this might be relevant, but I don't like holding unless I'm at home totally alone, if I have to pee when I'm out in the world I do so immediately, like I won't hold it I'll peace out and find the bathroom. Quote Link to comment
petitewonder 480 Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 Same as @m3rmaid, if someone is very distressed by what's happening, I really can't enjoy it. I'm someone who gets easily embarrassed so the idea of any extreme form of that happening to me is terrifying. I hate the idea of someone being made helpless against their will. As a result, I end up feeling protective over people who are upset or distressed and will generally try to help if I can. If they're just a little shy about it and can laugh or joke about it or shrug it off, I'd be turned on without really being able to help it, but would try to hide it lmao. I wouldn't wanna make an unwitting party uncomfortable. I mean, I've been turned on just by people being desperate in front of me, which makes me feel awkward. (I do consider myself lucky though because I don't have a dick and can hide my arousal more easily lmao. Although that does make me wonder how hard it actually is to hide arousal with a dick...) (Although, if someone had an accident in front of me, who KNEW it was my kink and then proceeded to tease me about it? I think I'd perish on the spot lmao) AnotherGuy, The Dark Wolf and dandeliontea 3 Quote Link to comment
PetrichorDL 18 Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 I would feel sorry for that person and I think in most cases the person would be very embarrassed and upset. Not really something I would enjoy, there had to be special (impossible) circumstances for that to happen. 58 minutes ago, petitewonder said: (Although, if someone had an accident in front of me, who KNEW it was my kink and then proceeded to tease me about it? I think I'd perish on the spot lmao) Something like that maybe. I'm not sure if that would qualify as a real accident... Quote Link to comment
pman76 22 Posted May 15, 2023 Share Posted May 15, 2023 a long time ago i saw a woman wet herself. she stayed composed but you could see a neutral expression on her face and mortification. the pee flowed down her leggings and was a very strong yellow Quote Link to comment
DesperateDawn 359 Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 (edited) This is an interesting one. I always get a bit frustrated trying to find porn videos that are real-world scenarios without being overly scripted, it's always a little cringey and staged. Then again, I saw a video of a genuine accident recently and I felt terrible for the girl and it felt like it was a moment I shouldn't be witnessing. I think it's different when you know the person in the video is doing this voluntarily because they want to and it's not just happening to them against their will. Edited May 16, 2023 by DesperateDawn Typo (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
OldWetGuy 1,161 Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 I will go out of my way to help someone who is really desperate find a bathroom. I take no pleasure from someone else’s pain or humiliation. The only “accidents” I enjoy are those that I or I and another person have pre-arranged and don’t involve “civilians”. The Dark Wolf, wetskipants and DesperateDawn 3 Quote Link to comment
DesperateDawn 359 Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 43 minutes ago, OldWetGuy said: I will go out of my way to help someone who is really desperate find a bathroom. I take no pleasure from someone else’s pain or humiliation. The only “accidents” I enjoy are those that I or I and another person have pre-arranged and don’t involve “civilians”. Completely agree OldWetGuy 1 Quote Link to comment
Von To Late 0 Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 Never saw this happened. But i think that when i do i will feel bad about it, but i will recall te situation afterwards and then i will make pleasure out of it.. Spoiler Quote Link to comment
LupusCanis88 70 Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 This is a tough one...I enjoy a range of emotions in the person who is wetting, and one of them is shame. Not that I'm particularly proud of that. So I might enjoy watching someone wet themselves, I've if they're extremely embarrassed. That being said, I empathise with people who need to pee, and usually go into problem solving mode when that happens. So I would say: if they try to play it off, laugh about it, act casually or are frustrated but kinda...let it happen? I would be supremely turned on by that. As soon as distress enters the chat though...or if they were to start crying...it might turn me on, but that would be kind of overturned by feeling bad and trying to help. nappypants 1 Quote Link to comment
lovetohold 412 Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 I think I’ll always find the inherent action of someone accidentally wetting themselves hot - it’s never NOT going to be hot. But if they’re super distressed and embarrassed, feeling bad for them takes over, and I’ll help however I can. After time has passed, though, I may fantasize about the event when alone at home. DesperateDawn, peellbehaux, nappypants and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment
DesperateDawn 359 Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 The fact that I commented on this thread last night feels like foreshadowing considering the story I just posted... Quote Link to comment
IvyWilliams89 1,479 Posted May 16, 2023 Share Posted May 16, 2023 On 5/5/2023 at 8:16 PM, agmukbooks said: for me. Consent is hot, like really really hot. So I dont associate Omo into it unless I know whats going on, and me and the other person have both agreed that its ok, and at that point its not usually a genuine accident outside of a few situations Genuine accidents can have a ton of stigma around them, and i dont personally agree with taking pleasure from someone elses potential pain. Now... Staged situations with a partner... Thats a different thing altogether, again. Consent is hot I agree, THO what about CNC? Consensual Non Consensual (willing tho pretending they aren't willing)? Quote Link to comment
sorefuna 160 Posted May 24, 2023 Share Posted May 24, 2023 I actually dont know if i would like it oder have sympathy.. I know if i see a Person in wet pants and it looks somewhat like they peed i wonder if they did... an enjoy it a little. But i guess if it ould happen in front of my eyes regardless of knowing hte person or not, i would only enjoy it a little if the person isnt upset or is laughing about it. Quote Link to comment
Onedude 78 Posted May 26, 2023 Share Posted May 26, 2023 On 5/15/2023 at 3:48 PM, pman76 said: a long time ago i saw a woman wet herself. she stayed composed but you could see a neutral expression on her face and mortification. the pee flowed down her leggings and was a very strong yellow I liked your description of the pee flowing down while you watched the woman’s face. Could you give a few more details of the incident? Like, do you know how long she’d been holding it, or what circumstances caused her to have the accident (stuck someplace like an elevator or just denied the use of a restroom, maybe)? Quote Link to comment
Matias 125 Posted May 26, 2023 Share Posted May 26, 2023 If it will be laughed away like the person being a bit drunk or similar. Then I would like it. Also watching from distance would be enjoyable. but distress and someone I know that have a nightmare with having an accident I think I would have a hard time getting aroused by it. Quote Link to comment
Kinkhold 98 Posted May 26, 2023 Author Share Posted May 26, 2023 11 minutes ago, Matias said: If it will be laughed away like the person being a bit drunk or similar. Then I would like it. Also watching from distance would be enjoyable. but distress and someone I know that have a nightmare with having an accident I think I would have a hard time getting aroused by it. How about if they were completely drunk? Quote Link to comment
Matias 125 Posted May 27, 2023 Share Posted May 27, 2023 12 hours ago, Kinkhold said: How about if they were completely drunk? In general I don’t like complete drunk people. It’s not appealing in many ways! Quote Link to comment
Cristiano97 300 Posted May 29, 2023 Share Posted May 29, 2023 As an adult it never happened to me to see another person's accident, I only remember seeing another child in my classroom urinate on his chair but nothing more than that. If I saw an accident, I currently don't know how I would react and it would depend a lot on the person and why they had an accident. An example: it is not the same to see a child wetting his pants, an adult person wetting his pants, either out of genuine despair or in a state such as when he is drunk or sick, and not being able to get to the bathroom on time due to having a physical handicap. Quote Link to comment
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