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@Omonomiyaki

"All of this!!! YES! plus, I too have had a couple creeps lately as well. This site has been better than most about it, but overfamiliar, detailed DMs disgust me, I report that shit."

I'm glad to say that this site actually has been very good as I can't recall any significant experiences of harassment. A couple of messages a little bit maybe awkward or rude or uncomfortable but not in a harassing way. For the most part I can say that everyone I have interacted with year has been pretty kind polite and respectful and have been able to chat with men and women alike in a fairly nonjudgmental way about this fetish.

@The Dark Wolf

"Yeah, I've never really fantasized about that scenario either. I've fantasized about plenty of situations where she can't go (in some cases due to stuff like bondage, which of course I'd never wish on anyone in real life unless they are into that sort of thing), but not something specifically like this, I agree it just has a vibe I dislike and I absolutely do not want it to become a reality, it would not be fair."

This is where I felt conflicted because the unfair situations are the ones where the most interesting desperation happens, but the irony for me as having been in that situation very regularly entirely on the receiving end it certainly not something you want to experience in reality. But the fact is a lot of things like that are reality, the reality of the fact is that women are often shortchanged when it comes to toilets and that that's where a lot of the desperation does result from. I've often said again and again if we lived in a society that was truly fair and equal fetishes like this might not even exist in the first place.

@wannagetwet
"It’s not just the stuff that’s blatantly gross, like noncon content or creepy messages. Maybe others feel differently but for me it’s having every part of your body and brain and sexuality picked apart and discussed and fetishized. “Do women do this?” “Do women do this more than men?” “Do you like watching women do this?” “One time I saw a woman do this, have YOU ever seen a woman do this?” Like we’re fucking zoo animals. Or you post something, and it’s “next time do it this way” or “show us more” or “let me watch next time.”  

Yes I have noticed this a lot, not specifically here but just on the Internet in general. Guys seem to be very mystified by female bodily functions and by women in general as though they are somehow another species. It's also not surprising in that regard that the people making laws about women's bodies in Congress don't seem to know the basics of female anatomy and reproductive systems. So I do think that men have just a natural tendency to other women in general. This is probably where the whole idea of women not going to the bathroom or not needing the bathroom at all comes from. It's an absurd notion that I think most people know is not true but on some level I think that a lot of guys almost treated like a woman going to the bathroom is like some mystical creature like a unicorn.

@Ms. Tito
"I just want a socialist paradise where people can have sex and pee freely with anyone who is of age and is able to consent. Sure it's unlikely that such a world will ever happen. but a girl can dream, can't she?"

Amen to that! I've wanted a socialist paradise on earth since I was 15 but 25 years later it's sad to see that the world seems to be moving very steadily in the opposite direction. There will never be bathroom equality under capitalism, I firmly believe that! There's no incentive to provide adequate bathrooms if there is no way to make a profit off of it.

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I’m a female-girly af. A stripper at that lol and no one expects it but I’m so into omo im almost obsessed sometimes lol  I know a few other omo loving gals 

As others have said, it’s not that women are less into it. It’s that cishet men are more comfortable talking about/objectifying/sharing photos of women on porn sites. There is more female content than

I thought sites like these were always for guys. But as I looked around I realized there are women on here like me too and they get treated respectfully. It’s really fun to share stories so I jumped i

6 hours ago, Kyuu said:

We do, and I think it is incredibly unfair to us to imply otherwise. Almost all of the content we delete and all of the users we ban for violating these rules you never see, as we do our best to keep it out of the public eye and prevent it from negatively impacting others enjoyment of the community.

For issues that occur in private messages, it is physically impossible for us to act on these issues if they are not reported to us, as we do not monitor private conversations between users unless a report is filed against a user in one of these conversations. That is the only way our moderation team can help you in this area.

Again, we sometimes do miss things on the public forum as well, but between our forum and Discord communities, we process hundreds of reports every month in regards to these things and almost all of this offending content is removed within 24-hours, to the point most users will never even notice it.

This will be my last post here, but I wanted to pipe up again and say that I have never implied, on this thread or anywhere else, that y’all don’t take it seriously. In fact I never said a word about the mods. I’ve reported LOTS of content and always gotten a prompt response. What I can’t handle anymore is the “sheer volume,” as you put it. It’s the fact that there’s so much content TO report. My leaving is a setting of a boundary for myself and nothing more.

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3 hours ago, Ms. Tito said:

I just piss standing up and hope to god no one notices. 

I was sitting before I realized I was trans, something just felt weird that I couldn't place. Getting my SRS this year though, so thankfully I'm prepped for sitting lol

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7 hours ago, Kyuu said:

We do, and I think it is incredibly unfair to us to imply otherwise. Almost all of the content we delete and all of the users we ban for violating these rules you never see, as we do our best to keep it out of the public eye and prevent it from negatively impacting others enjoyment of the community.

For issues that occur in private messages, it is physically impossible for us to act on these issues if they are not reported to us, as we do not monitor private conversations between users unless a report is filed against a user in one of these conversations. That is the only way our moderation team can help you in this area.

Again, we sometimes do miss things on the public forum as well, but between our forum and Discord communities, we process hundreds of reports every month in regards to these things and almost all of this offending content is removed within 24-hours, to the point most users will never even notice it.

Good to hear that is still going. Forgive me, all I really got to imply otherwise was what was being said here.

It's such a shame that some female users here still feel uncomfortable to the point of leaving due to some of the male users here and I am kind of considering leaving now just in case I ever had any part in this (and if I did it was never my intention).

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Also, I think part of what is described above is people being raised on stereotypes (and in my case, it was more the idea that they don't fart, I never thought they didn't pee), and for the first five years they are really interested, are pretty much forbidden from it, and if they fight it like I did rather than secretly acknowledge and understand it (hence why I was so ignorant of some things when I first joined here, as despite being about 27, I had not allowed my sexual side to grow or be understood before then so it was still kind of on a teenage level, which is why some people on here thought I was underage due to my lack of knowledge of female anatomy, and it seems I wasn't the only one), it can become a habit lasting into the adult years and we don't even bother finding out these things, which is why to some of us women could seem so mysterious, and some people get curious when they realize the stereotypes they were raised on might be false.

But of course they are still people like men and should be treated with respect.

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47 minutes ago, Omonomiyaki said:

I was sitting before I realized I was trans, something just felt weird that I couldn't place. Getting my SRS this year though, so thankfully I'm prepped for sitting lol

I've been trying to tell mom to take me to electrolysis (because I can't drive) so I can get SRS. She wants me to have second thoughts but I've been having second thoughts, and third thoughts, and fourth thoughts, and fifth thoughts, and 100th thoughts and they're all "yeah i'd do anything for SRS"

Like, the doctor told me there was a possibility that (warning for medical stuff)

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 some fecal matter could get into my neo-vagina during the surgery

and it didn't faze me at all.

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11 minutes ago, Lapis Lazuli said:

I've been trying to tell mom to take me to electrolysis (because I can't drive) so I can get SRS. She wants me to have second thoughts but I've been having second thoughts, and third thoughts, and fourth thoughts, and fifth thoughts, and 100th thoughts and they're all "yeah i'd do anything for SRS"

Like, the doctor told me there was a possibility that (warning for medical stuff)

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 some fecal matter could get into my neo-vagina during the surgery

and it didn't faze me at all.

Ugh, I'm sorry you're stuck with doubting family. People outside our realm really don't understand how much we exhaust of our options before figuring ourselves out. The assumption that we one day woke up and thought "huh, maybe no penis" and that ANY healthcare would just do it immediately is something that needs to be fucking demystified NOW. 

Even in Portland, where I have state insurance now, there are still so many hurdles to cross and gates being kept outside of our own personal struggles. 

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On 4/29/2023 at 4:26 PM, DesperateJill said:

@Lapis Lazuli

"I'll admit, it's really hard not to talk about how people here can get... really creepy. I don't really know how to explain it but there's just a certain vibe sometimes that I REALLY don't like, and it especially comes up in fiction or art where women are forced to hold it while men are allowed to go. It almost gives the impression that some people actually want more spaces in real life to be like the spaces we see in erotica, things like the whole "City without a women's restroom" situation. And it's generally pretty distressing because to me, erotica and smut are places to explore complicated feelings (like someone wanting another person to force them to hold their pee without their consent) in an explicitly fictional setting where nobody actually gets hurt."

This is a very good point, as a person who started a very popular thread about that very topic I mentioned in my topic that it's sort of a bit of an exercise in masochism to some degree to read about all of these guys who really get off on situations where women cannot go to the bathroom when you have been in that situation yourself a lot, and I feel conflicted about that for a couple of reasons.


It sort of reminds me of this one guy that I chatted with years ago that I have mentioned in numerous threads. He was a big fan of female desperation but to the point where it was perhaps unhealthy where he thought about locking ladies rooms and all of this stuff and was thinking of all these fiendish ideas about how to get women in situations where they can't go to the bathroom and he had to sort of ask me about why didn't seem to think that I would be on board with that if we were say hanging out together and I had to point to him that if he locks the ladies room where will I go to the bathroom?


And that sort of like another point that I have brought up in numerous threads there is this sort of weird thing where guys basically get a free show of seeing the women desperate and getting to take advantage of those situations and the opposite case pretty much never happens, so there is an inherent unfairness in the whole situation or in most situations in which you are likely to witness female desperation, and I've often said that this fetish might not really even exist in a world where things were truly fair.


And yes there is definitely a contingent, especially among men who would like to see things even more unfair with less female restrooms and things of that nature. And again I try to be nonjudgmental about that but at the same time you are sort of like crossing your legs with frustration at the fact that these guys will probably end up getting what they want at our expense! The fact is women are often in these situations of dire desperation the guys will never experience that they get to enjoy consequence free basically where is the same is not true for women.


And again I try not to be judgmental about the fetish because I wouldn't share all of these accounts and things like that otherwise in the first place. But it is sort of a weird feeling such as when I was at my job without bathrooms all that time holding it all day and there were so many people who were just loving hearing about that even though it's a situation that was maddening to actually live through.


But then there is also the conflict over the fact that yes it was excruciating, yes it was unfair, but those are situations that were also perhaps the most exciting situations. It sort of a conflict because you sort of have a love-hate relationship with the fetish, you absolutely can't stand those situations where men can pee and you can't and yet those are the ones that press your fetish buttons like nothing else so you can't really get mad at other people for enjoying it because that would be hypocritical, and again if I didn't want people to enjoy this I wouldn't share my own personal experiences, but it is sort of a very weird feeling.


And I'll admit that there are plenty of women who like also seen women in really dire situations of not getting to go to the bathroom in really unfair situations if they can avoid them themselves. As a person who is a lesbian attracted exclusively to female desperation I totally get that. Even if you don't want to see someone suffer a real unfair situation when you see them in that situation and you are not responsible for that situation you can't help but feel the fetish circuits firing in your brain.


This is why I have talked numerous times about how I experienced the cruel wheel of karma and poetic justice. Like one of my favorite situations to hear about involving female desperation were situations where women were having to hold it all day and deprived of toilets, such as in a work situation because those are perhaps the most intense and frustrating situations and for that reason the most interesting.


So again I totally understood a certain degree of lack of sympathy when guess who ends up getting a job where they are working outdoors without toilets all day while every single person I used to enjoy hearing about in those situations was now working at home with their toilet 5 inches away! For years I had enjoyed listening to accounts like this from the relative comfort of my home and the luxury of toilet privilege, and then to suddenly find myself entirely on the receiving end of that for nearly 2 years straight where I was holding for six or seven hours a day and so many people were basically cheering that when I was recounting these tales it really is sort of like a state of schizophrenia.


So yeah I again I get the fact that people do somewhat enjoy people in these really dire situations that they wouldn't really want to be in, and the irony again is that after enjoying it from afar for so long I had to experience it regularly and constantly on the receiving end while everybody else was basically being a spectator to my bladder busting madness. It was two solid years of holding it all day while my male coworkers were watering the bushes all day and it was total madness, and yet I can't get mad at people for enjoying that because as much is that situation drove me crazy it was also one of the most intense experiences of my life and I get how that is the appeal of a situation like that even if you wouldn't really want to be in that situation.


So yeah it's sort of a weird thing. It's almost like that time I recounted how I was in the park and I saw that woman with her daughter and they were both desperate. I could feel sympathy for them but at the same time even as I was desperate myself I was thinking these women really have to pee. But again, is cruel because at the end of the day they got to go to the bathroom away lots sooner than I did while I was left holding their in the park.


So yeah I get how unfairness is inherent to the fetish and it definitely is a conflict, and even after all of my experiences it still is interesting to hear of others in those situations now that I am free from them which is why I always have the creeping fear that maybe I will find myself in that situation again.

@wannagetwet

"This ONE THOUSAND fucking percent. Couldn’t have said it better. Some people on here literally fantasize about making the world an EVEN LESS comfortable place for women than it already is. Men are conditioned to find sexual satisfaction in disregarding their partners wants and needs, and it showwwwws."

Amen. Although I will say once again going with everything that I explained above there is always a conflict because desperation is inherently a fetish where you are enjoying somebody else's discomfort.

And actually I was originally going to respond to this thread before all of these other discussions got started with the reason why not more women are into this fetish is that they have to experience the practical difficulties of being desperate, the men listening to the stories do not!

@Onedude

"As others have said, I think they may not admit to it as freely.  However, I remember that the majority of girls I knew in high school on even a casual basis seemed to hold their urine all day when they certainly didn’t have to.  Our high school was only a year old when I started there, and there were plenty of clean bathrooms. Invariably, though, by the last class period, they would complain about how bad they had to go, and more so on the way home when I rode the bus.  I briefly had one girlfriend then who had this habit, but I had a couple of them in college who we’re definitely into holding.  It was only then that I began to understand the sexual connotations of it for a female ( the ‘peegasm’ thing).  Both these two would often wait until the last minute to pee, when they were sometimes right on the verge of an accident."

Are you sure they didn't have to though? I have talked about my school experiences in numerous threads. There are some women who just will not use the bathroom at school because they don't like using public bathrooms or because they are disgusting or because they are mean girls in the bathroom and a whole host of other reasons. And also there is the fact that even when you have a clean bathroom that doesn't mean that the girls are always necessarily able to get to the bathroom between classes due to there being long lines. So a lot of girls who are holding it in school might not be holding it just for the pure pleasure of it but maybe because circumstances make it prohibitively difficult or unpleasant to have to use a girls bathroom.

Yes, I’m sure they were doing it intentionally.  I learned about this stuff pre-Internet.  In other words, through real-life experience.  I didn’t entirely understand what I was seeing in high school.  For example, more than once, I’ve witnessed my female friends actually comparing bladder bulges at the end of the day.  There was simply nothing preventing them from going and using the many restrooms available, but they preferred to hold. I had an idea they were getting some kind of sexual pleasure from it, but I had really nothing at the time as reference material to confirm that. And I didn’t even understand at the time how to approach that in a conversation. In college, I had a wider variety of experiences and kind of learned how to approach this awkward topic on conversation.  I’ve come to the conclusion that there are more women than we realize who like to hold for the sake of holding.  There is another category who are shy about going in public even if they have the opportunity.  For example, I have had one girl admit to me that she had to go very bad, but didn’t want to do it on the available public restroom because she had a lot of pee and didn’t want other people to hear her peeing for a long time.  Now, I would never enjoy anyone denying someone a restroom who wanted to use it, but I love when women choose to hold it on their own for whatever reason.

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Ok I'm not going quote every message because I'd be here all day and I already delayed my "personal time" to deal with this explosion of a simple question(which i dont have a problem with). The main thing someone seemed to have a problem with is the fact that I'd ask a question about woman, the second being concent when it comes to DMs and videos(if you care let me know if I forgot something as important). The reason I would ask this question is because I was looking on people's opinions on the matter. If we we're being honest if I asked the other way around it would be "Are you dumb I'm getting a Creepy guy in my dms every other day". With that, not to be Rude or To honest, To some People women are a different species when it comes to how they sexually think. I haven't had the plesure of asking these questions to someone i feel comfortable enough with sexually because ive never had a person like that. The only thing to blame is my confidence really but I'm a very curious person and like to learn how people think and I've learned that With the hardships of the bathroom for women It may not be a popular fetish but women are still into it if not sometimes more than men. If I'm being honest I don't the question should be of any offense because There was no intent or point to prove, just me wanting to make my first post and learn some opinions on the matter. Secondly, when it comes to consent I don't think there much more to say other then how the "tea and concent" video puts it. Though I'd like to add that No one should ask anyone To do a kink if they're not willing to do with themselves. Like how someone said something about Having the girl's bathroom locked, id hope the guy/partner has no bathroom privileges the next day fair and square. But all in all what I'm going to take away from this is Is holy crap an admin responded to my first post that's gotta go in an award book somewhere. Sorry for and negativity this post mightve made.

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4 hours ago, Notthatold69 said:

Ok I'm not going quote every message because I'd be here all day and I already delayed my "personal time" to deal with this explosion of a simple question(which i dont have a problem with). The main thing someone seemed to have a problem with is the fact that I'd ask a question about woman, the second being concent when it comes to DMs and videos(if you care let me know if I forgot something as important). The reason I would ask this question is because I was looking on people's opinions on the matter. If we we're being honest if I asked the other way around it would be "Are you dumb I'm getting a Creepy guy in my dms every other day". With that, not to be Rude or To honest, To some People women are a different species when it comes to how they sexually think. I haven't had the plesure of asking these questions to someone i feel comfortable enough with sexually because ive never had a person like that. The only thing to blame is my confidence really but I'm a very curious person and like to learn how people think and I've learned that With the hardships of the bathroom for women It may not be a popular fetish but women are still into it if not sometimes more than men. If I'm being honest I don't the question should be of any offense because There was no intent or point to prove, just me wanting to make my first post and learn some opinions on the matter. Secondly, when it comes to consent I don't think there much more to say other then how the "tea and concent" video puts it. Though I'd like to add that No one should ask anyone To do a kink if they're not willing to do with themselves. Like how someone said something about Having the girl's bathroom locked, id hope the guy/partner has no bathroom privileges the next day fair and square. But all in all what I'm going to take away from this is Is holy crap an admin responded to my first post that's gotta go in an award book somewhere. Sorry for and negativity this post mightve made.

You're... cool? I think? 

I dunno, I don't think anyone was mad at you. I wasn't, anyway, but I can't speak for everyone... It just seemed to me like  you asked a question with genuine intent of understanding and the conversation developed from there. Yeah, scary stuff can happen on threads like this but it's not like it's your fault. 

This thread probably does seem really discouraging, hah. I think the most important thing is just to hang out and be respectful, and you'll do just fine. I'm about as socially competent as a rock and I've been having a good time here, LMAO

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@Onedude

"Yes, I’m sure they were doing it intentionally.  I learned about this stuff pre-Internet.  In other words, through real-life experience.  I didn’t entirely understand what I was seeing in high school.  For example, more than once, I’ve witnessed my female friends actually comparing bladder bulges at the end of the day.  There was simply nothing preventing them from going and using the many restrooms available, but they preferred to hold. I had an idea they were getting some kind of sexual pleasure from it, but I had really nothing at the time as reference material to confirm that. And I didn’t even understand at the time how to approach that in a conversation. In college, I had a wider variety of experiences and kind of learned how to approach this awkward topic on conversation.  I’ve come to the conclusion that there are more women than we realize who like to hold for the sake of holding.  There is another category who are shy about going in public even if they have the opportunity.  For example, I have had one girl admit to me that she had to go very bad, but didn’t want to do it on the available public restroom because she had a lot of pee and didn’t want other people to hear her peeing for a long time.  Now, I would never enjoy anyone denying someone a restroom who wanted to use it, but I love when women choose to hold it on their own for whatever reason."

Wow, that's an interesting school you went to! In my school though it was definitely because they didn't have enough bathrooms for the girls because most of the time you would go in there would be a long line, and then after they closed most of the girls bathroom it became all but impossible to go to the bathroom during the day for the most part, and yet I didn't really hear that many people complaining, so maybe a lot of the girls weren't bothered by the fact that they got stuck holding all day.

 

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One recurring theme I've seen in research articles on kinks (idk they're fun to read lmao) is the caveat that the actual incidence of a particular kink is difficult to measure, given that a lot of these studies rely on self-reporting. I'm in my early 30s and from the US, and I'd say many people in my generation and living in my part of the world can still relate to having the whole "being ladylike" mindset thrust upon them. (I wasn't even allowed to say the word "pee" growing up lmao). So it's hard to know if less girls are into it, or if less girls are open about it.

For me personally, yeah I look at omo porn on PornHub and ThisVid and other sites; but I don't have an account on any of them, so I wouldn't be included in user statistics. I have seen magazine articles here and there talking about how it's common for women to enjoy the feeling of needing to pee, but they were from like Cosmo and similar publications. I've also read that the incidence of women with incontinence issues is higher overall, and so for a lot of those women, it may be moreso associated with negative feelings. 

I think what's been surprising to me is that I've had more partners okay with me being into omo than not (and I've dated both men and women) where even if they haven't wanted to participate, they haven't had an issue. So at the very least I think there's more people that are okay with it than we think lmao. 

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18 hours ago, Lapis Lazuli said:

You're... cool? I think? 

I dunno, I don't think anyone was mad at you. I wasn't, anyway, but I can't speak for everyone... It just seemed to me like  you asked a question with genuine intent of understanding and the conversation developed from there. Yeah, scary stuff can happen on threads like this but it's not like it's your fault. 

This thread probably does seem really discouraging, hah. I think the most important thing is just to hang out and be respectful, and you'll do just fine. I'm about as socially competent as a rock and I've been having a good time here, LMAO

...yeah threads sometimes have a way of going one way or the other at times. Sometimes it's better to just lurk because as every cop show says, "anything you say can and will be used against you" 🤫🤐

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12 hours ago, DesperateJill said:

@Onedude

"Yes, I’m sure they were doing it intentionally.  I learned about this stuff pre-Internet.  In other words, through real-life experience.  I didn’t entirely understand what I was seeing in high school.  For example, more than once, I’ve witnessed my female friends actually comparing bladder bulges at the end of the day.  There was simply nothing preventing them from going and using the many restrooms available, but they preferred to hold. I had an idea they were getting some kind of sexual pleasure from it, but I had really nothing at the time as reference material to confirm that. And I didn’t even understand at the time how to approach that in a conversation. In college, I had a wider variety of experiences and kind of learned how to approach this awkward topic on conversation.  I’ve come to the conclusion that there are more women than we realize who like to hold for the sake of holding.  There is another category who are shy about going in public even if they have the opportunity.  For example, I have had one girl admit to me that she had to go very bad, but didn’t want to do it on the available public restroom because she had a lot of pee and didn’t want other people to hear her peeing for a long time.  Now, I would never enjoy anyone denying someone a restroom who wanted to use it, but I love when women choose to hold it on their own for whatever reason."

Wow, that's an interesting school you went to! In my school though it was definitely because they didn't have enough bathrooms for the girls because most of the time you would go in there would be a long line, and then after they closed most of the girls bathroom it became all but impossible to go to the bathroom during the day for the most part, and yet I didn't really hear that many people complaining, so maybe a lot of the girls weren't bothered by the fact that they got stuck holding all day.

 

Okay, I have to ask why, in a school where the women's restrooms already had long lines, they started CLOSING them? 

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On 4/30/2023 at 11:51 PM, Onedude said:

Yes, I’m sure they were doing it intentionally.  I learned about this stuff pre-Internet.  In other words, through real-life experience.  I didn’t entirely understand what I was seeing in high school.  For example, more than once, I’ve witnessed my female friends actually comparing bladder bulges at the end of the day.  There was simply nothing preventing them from going and using the many restrooms available, but they preferred to hold. I had an idea they were getting some kind of sexual pleasure from it, but I had really nothing at the time as reference material to confirm that. And I didn’t even understand at the time how to approach that in a conversation. In college, I had a wider variety of experiences and kind of learned how to approach this awkward topic on conversation.  I’ve come to the conclusion that there are more women than we realize who like to hold for the sake of holding.  There is another category who are shy about going in public even if they have the opportunity.  For example, I have had one girl admit to me that she had to go very bad, but didn’t want to do it on the available public restroom because she had a lot of pee and didn’t want other people to hear her peeing for a long time.  Now, I would never enjoy anyone denying someone a restroom who wanted to use it, but I love when women choose to hold it on their own for whatever reason.

That must have been very exciting and arousing to see the girls bladder so overfilled and expand that they are bulging out of their bellies and it must have been a turning on that the girl told you that she had to go very bad did not want to use a pubic restroom.

Just knowing that she is needing to very bad, but don’t go is very arousing!

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On 4/29/2023 at 11:11 PM, Onedude said:

As others have said, I think they may not admit to it as freely.  However, I remember that the majority of girls I knew in high school on even a casual basis seemed to hold their urine all day when they certainly didn’t have to.  Our high school was only a year old when I started there, and there were plenty of clean bathrooms. Invariably, though, by the last class period, they would complain about how bad they had to go, and more so on the way home when I rode the bus.  I briefly had one girlfriend then who had this habit, but I had a couple of them in college who we’re definitely into holding.  It was only then that I began to understand the sexual connotations of it for a female ( the ‘peegasm’ thing).  Both these two would often wait until the last minute to pee, when they were sometimes right on the verge of an accident.

That must have been absolutely arousing for you to hear the girls talk about how bad they had to wee at the last class period.

To know that they were holding their urine all day long, that they were needing to wee really bad, but still did not go, especially at the bus rides home, must have been very exciting and turning on!!

It would be great if you would tell us something about your girlfriend with this holding habit.

Maybe some experiences with her, or about her!!

 

 

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12 hours ago, huberp76 said:

That must have been absolutely arousing for you to hear the girls talk about how bad they had to wee at the last class period.

To know that they were holding their urine all day long, that they were needing to wee really bad, but still did not go, especially at the bus rides home, must have been very exciting and turning on!!

It would be great if you would tell us something about your girlfriend with this holding habit.

Maybe some experiences with her, or about her!!

OK, here’s one. So this particular girl was 5’4”, and fairly slim. She was part Native American, and so had kind of an exotic look. Anyway, because I’m interested in this stuff, I picked up right away that she enjoyed holding. And it wasn’t long before she began letting me go with her to the bathroom whenever I wanted, so that was awesome. One of my favorite memories was when she arrived at my apartment late one night after having been out with some other friends. As soon as I opened the door, I could see the desperation on her face. She just said something like ‘I gotta go pee real bad!” and shuffled past me kind of holding her crotch under her skirt. As she neared the bathroom, she pulled her skirt up in preparation (and gave me a peek at her shiny purple panties :-). She went straight to the toilet without closing the door and started pissing a hard stream almost before she got fully seated. I was right behind her to try and watch, but something said, wait, why not time it? I don’t know- I just had a feeling this one would be epic. Boy, was I right. She peed and peed, straight onto the water like someone had turned on a faucet. Obviously, she’d been drinking quite a bit, probably beer. I couldn’t believe she was able to drive her car while holding such a full bladder. I was a little late getting started with the timing, but I remember counting a bit over 2 minutes of solid peeing, probably about 2 minutes 20 seconds including my delay getting started. And I don’t remember it letting up until right at the end. Amazing! Of course, I needed to relieve myself in a different way afterward. I never had a real discussion with her about exactly why she liked to do this, but I understood she got some kind of pleasant sensation from it. Although I’ve seen her very close to wetting her pants quite a few times where she just barely made it. Anyway, she was sort of crazy as well, but man, what a bladder! Interestingly, the other one I remember from college who was kind of into holding was also part Native American. Likely that’s pure coincidence, or maybe there’s something there; i wish I had a larger sample size!

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I'm pretty sure the gender balance of people with a (potential) omo kink is more equal than most think, and it's skewed due to reasons often mentioned in this thread already.

I used to scour the internet for omo and found many, many places that made me very uncomfortable, until I found this site. It's the best in terms of making everyone feel safe, if there's a better one I haven't found it. The bar to be the best is extremely low however, and it requires some very active moderation. Thank you mods. I don't think it's a coincidence that of all the omo sites I've seen, this is the one that has the most active women users.

Still, the amount of times I roll my eyes when reading descriptions of women's bodies... But usually it's not a thing that warrants it being deleted and I just learned to kinda skip over them. There's loads of little things like that, that I think will only be fixed by society as a whole changing for the better. Because many issues aren't specific to omo or even porn in general, but due to most societies in this world being sexist.

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@Lapis Lazuli

"Okay, I have to ask why, in a school where the women's restrooms already had long lines, they started CLOSING them?"

They found drugs and alcohol in one of the girls bathroom so they decided that they would lock the bathroom on every floor except from the first floor because the first floor bathroom was right across from the nurse's office so the nurse can see right into the girls bathroom to see if anyone was doing anything bad. It's always my personal pet peeve though, well one of them, when everybody is punished for the actions of a few. Because a few girls did drugs and alcohol in the bathroom every single girl in the entire school was punished for it for something as basic as going to a bathroom. Again a bathroom should be a basic right not something that is a reward or punishment for good behavior.

@Ms. Tito

"It's a high school. Those places are run by people who could be eligible to be tried in the Hague. What did you expect, really?"

I think that this is definitely true and it doesn't surprise me that a lot of people discover their fetish when they were in school because in school is a case where you are under the authority of others and authority that many will abuse. In school you basically can go to the bathroom at the whim of the teacher, and the teachers didn't really give a damn about how the students would suffer if they close the bathrooms. I do think that even being in a small position of power like a teacher would probably appeal to people with authoritarian tendencies.


I wonder if perhaps history teachers have that more than most since their reading about dictatorships and all of these terrible things in history. Like we had this one history teacher like in 10th grade and everyone was afraid of them and then one day he just sort of closed the door on us and stood in front of the door blocking the exit and asked are you afraid of me and we all thought he was going to shoot us or something!


So yeah maybe a teacher isn't quite as bad as the dictator but I think that a lot of petty bureaucrats and people in minor positions of power like school administrators are aspiring dictators in their own way. It kind of makes you wonder what the bathroom situation is in places like Fascist Italy or Nazi Germany. And now just like that I have my new fixation to wonder about!

@TheGreatNobody

"I used to scour the internet for omo and found many, many places that made me very uncomfortable, until I found this site. It's the best in terms of making everyone feel safe, if there's a better one I haven't found it. The bar to be the best is extremely low however, and it requires some very active moderation. Thank you mods. I don't think it's a coincidence that of all the omo sites I've seen, this is the one that has the most active women users."

I have to agree this is the only major omorashi message board that I really participate on and it definitely seems to be one where most people feel relatively welcome and it does seem like women and men participate in fairly equal numbers, again like any fetish site they are going to be more men who dominate and everything, but I think this is a very active board where you can hear from all sides from both men and women and I think most people have been pretty respectful and I can say that in the entire time I have been here I have never experienced any harassment or ever had to report anybody for bad behavior.

"Still, the amount of times I roll my eyes when reading descriptions of women's bodies... But usually it's not a thing that warrants it being deleted and I just learned to kinda skip over them. There's loads of little things like that, that I think will only be fixed by society as a whole changing for the better. Because many issues aren't specific to omo or even porn in general, but due to most societies in this world being sexist."

This reminds me that somebody once pointed out that the Japanese writer Haruki Murakami, who writes lots of really awesome and weird stuff and I'm a big fan, somebody pointed out that he's very obsessed with female's physical appearance going in great detail describing the breast and everything. Until it was actually pointed out it just didn't really realize that I'm like yeah this guy is kind of really obsessed with graphic depictions of the female body. Again not necessarily a bad thing but I do think that a lot of male writers in particular become obsessed with seeing women as a bunch of body parts and little more and that that is the main attribute that they focus on in their female characters to a large degree.


Personally I have always been very light on physical description because when I am reading stuff I usually don't remember that much about physical description. Again maybe that's just my weakness as a writer and some people feel that you should be more physically descriptive of characters, but I usually don't get more descriptive than say she was a short Asian woman she had black hair. I can honestly say I have never went on for several pages describing a character's breasts, but there are plenty of writers out there, overwhelmingly male writers, who do.

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