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14 minutes ago, UrineLover1 said:

Thank you SOOO much for explaining this! Just like Jill, I was confused at first. I know I never would - and hope most guys wouldn't either - share stories or videos they are not supposed to. Having and not having consent are a BIG difference! This is a porn website and I hope you are comfortable with the normal (consensual) content here.

I know a lot of women are probably grossed out by men and their fetishes in general, but as you yourself said, this website is dedicated to that as well. And not just for men! Women should also have a place on this site to share about (consensual) stories of their significant others, fictional stories, videos, life, etc. And I hope women do enjoy this site as well and hopefully one day, there will be more content for all of you!

I’ll say that the sharing of nonconsensual content happens a lot more often than you might think it does. For the record, I have never been grossed out by a man for having this fetish. I’ve been grossed out by men talking about women like they’re objects and sharing content about people who, given the opportunity, probably wouldn’t consent to content about them being posted on a porn site. I’m not saying it’s all men. But it’s ENOUGH men.

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I’m a female-girly af. A stripper at that lol and no one expects it but I’m so into omo im almost obsessed sometimes lol  I know a few other omo loving gals 

As others have said, it’s not that women are less into it. It’s that cishet men are more comfortable talking about/objectifying/sharing photos of women on porn sites. There is more female content than

I thought sites like these were always for guys. But as I looked around I realized there are women on here like me too and they get treated respectfully. It’s really fun to share stories so I jumped i

I do sort of feel like this is one particular kink where it can be hard to determine where someone's level of comfort is. Personally when reading this kind of stuff, fantasizing about it, etc i really need some implication that the people involved either have the kink themselves (or are performing for someone who does) or are just generally comfortable with people knowing what's going on around them. 

I'll admit, it's really hard not to talk about how people here can get... really creepy. I don't really know how to explain it but there's just a certain vibe sometimes that I REALLY don't like, and it especially comes up in fiction or art where women are forced to hold it while men are allowed to go. It almost gives the impression that some people actually want more spaces in real life to be like the spaces we see in erotica, things like the whole "City without a women's restroom" situation. And it's generally pretty distressing because to me, erotica and smut are places to explore complicated feelings (like someone wanting another person to force them to hold their pee without their consent) in an explicitly fictional setting where nobody actually gets hurt. 

I dunno, this post probably reads as a drunken ramble. TL;DR I think more smut should include expressly-communicated enthusiastic consent because it's hot as hell

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11 minutes ago, Lapis Lazuli said:

I do sort of feel like this is one particular kink where it can be hard to determine where someone's level of comfort is. Personally when reading this kind of stuff, fantasizing about it, etc i really need some implication that the people involved either have the kink themselves (or are performing for someone who does) or are just generally comfortable with people knowing what's going on around them. 

I'll admit, it's really hard not to talk about how people here can get... really creepy. I don't really know how to explain it but there's just a certain vibe sometimes that I REALLY don't like, and it especially comes up in fiction or art where women are forced to hold it while men are allowed to go. It almost gives the impression that some people actually want more spaces in real life to be like the spaces we see in erotica, things like the whole "City without a women's restroom" situation. And it's generally pretty distressing because to me, erotica and smut are places to explore complicated feelings (like someone wanting another person to force them to hold their pee without their consent) in an explicitly fictional setting where nobody actually gets hurt. 

I dunno, this post probably reads as a drunken ramble. TL;DR I think more smut should include expressly-communicated enthusiastic consent because it's hot as hell

This ONE THOUSAND fucking percent. Couldn’t have said it better. Some people on here literally fantasize about making the world an EVEN LESS comfortable place for women than it already is. Men are conditioned to find sexual satisfaction in disregarding their partners wants and needs, and it showwwwws.

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1 hour ago, wannagetwet said:

I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve considered deleting my account because of the way cishet men on this site objectify and talk about women. The lack of caring about consent, for example in a lot of “sighting” posts, is unbelievable. It’s exhausting. Instead of asking why “less women are into this,” maybe think about why less women feel comfortable engaging on porn sites.

For the record, despite my extreme fetish for female wetting, I do care about consent (at least if it is real life), and if a real life woman were to wet herself, I would feel bad for her unless she didn't mind or enjoyed it.

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As others have said, I think they may not admit to it as freely.  However, I remember that the majority of girls I knew in high school on even a casual basis seemed to hold their urine all day when they certainly didn’t have to.  Our high school was only a year old when I started there, and there were plenty of clean bathrooms. Invariably, though, by the last class period, they would complain about how bad they had to go, and more so on the way home when I rode the bus.  I briefly had one girlfriend then who had this habit, but I had a couple of them in college who we’re definitely into holding.  It was only then that I began to understand the sexual connotations of it for a female ( the ‘peegasm’ thing).  Both these two would often wait until the last minute to pee, when they were sometimes right on the verge of an accident.

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@Lapis Lazuli

"I'll admit, it's really hard not to talk about how people here can get... really creepy. I don't really know how to explain it but there's just a certain vibe sometimes that I REALLY don't like, and it especially comes up in fiction or art where women are forced to hold it while men are allowed to go. It almost gives the impression that some people actually want more spaces in real life to be like the spaces we see in erotica, things like the whole "City without a women's restroom" situation. And it's generally pretty distressing because to me, erotica and smut are places to explore complicated feelings (like someone wanting another person to force them to hold their pee without their consent) in an explicitly fictional setting where nobody actually gets hurt."

This is a very good point, as a person who started a very popular thread about that very topic I mentioned in my topic that it's sort of a bit of an exercise in masochism to some degree to read about all of these guys who really get off on situations where women cannot go to the bathroom when you have been in that situation yourself a lot, and I feel conflicted about that for a couple of reasons.


It sort of reminds me of this one guy that I chatted with years ago that I have mentioned in numerous threads. He was a big fan of female desperation but to the point where it was perhaps unhealthy where he thought about locking ladies rooms and all of this stuff and was thinking of all these fiendish ideas about how to get women in situations where they can't go to the bathroom and he had to sort of ask me about why didn't seem to think that I would be on board with that if we were say hanging out together and I had to point to him that if he locks the ladies room where will I go to the bathroom?


And that sort of like another point that I have brought up in numerous threads there is this sort of weird thing where guys basically get a free show of seeing the women desperate and getting to take advantage of those situations and the opposite case pretty much never happens, so there is an inherent unfairness in the whole situation or in most situations in which you are likely to witness female desperation, and I've often said that this fetish might not really even exist in a world where things were truly fair.


And yes there is definitely a contingent, especially among men who would like to see things even more unfair with less female restrooms and things of that nature. And again I try to be nonjudgmental about that but at the same time you are sort of like crossing your legs with frustration at the fact that these guys will probably end up getting what they want at our expense! The fact is women are often in these situations of dire desperation the guys will never experience that they get to enjoy consequence free basically where is the same is not true for women.


And again I try not to be judgmental about the fetish because I wouldn't share all of these accounts and things like that otherwise in the first place. But it is sort of a weird feeling such as when I was at my job without bathrooms all that time holding it all day and there were so many people who were just loving hearing about that even though it's a situation that was maddening to actually live through.


But then there is also the conflict over the fact that yes it was excruciating, yes it was unfair, but those are situations that were also perhaps the most exciting situations. It sort of a conflict because you sort of have a love-hate relationship with the fetish, you absolutely can't stand those situations where men can pee and you can't and yet those are the ones that press your fetish buttons like nothing else so you can't really get mad at other people for enjoying it because that would be hypocritical, and again if I didn't want people to enjoy this I wouldn't share my own personal experiences, but it is sort of a very weird feeling.


And I'll admit that there are plenty of women who like also seen women in really dire situations of not getting to go to the bathroom in really unfair situations if they can avoid them themselves. As a person who is a lesbian attracted exclusively to female desperation I totally get that. Even if you don't want to see someone suffer a real unfair situation when you see them in that situation and you are not responsible for that situation you can't help but feel the fetish circuits firing in your brain.


This is why I have talked numerous times about how I experienced the cruel wheel of karma and poetic justice. Like one of my favorite situations to hear about involving female desperation were situations where women were having to hold it all day and deprived of toilets, such as in a work situation because those are perhaps the most intense and frustrating situations and for that reason the most interesting.


So again I totally understood a certain degree of lack of sympathy when guess who ends up getting a job where they are working outdoors without toilets all day while every single person I used to enjoy hearing about in those situations was now working at home with their toilet 5 inches away! For years I had enjoyed listening to accounts like this from the relative comfort of my home and the luxury of toilet privilege, and then to suddenly find myself entirely on the receiving end of that for nearly 2 years straight where I was holding for six or seven hours a day and so many people were basically cheering that when I was recounting these tales it really is sort of like a state of schizophrenia.


So yeah I again I get the fact that people do somewhat enjoy people in these really dire situations that they wouldn't really want to be in, and the irony again is that after enjoying it from afar for so long I had to experience it regularly and constantly on the receiving end while everybody else was basically being a spectator to my bladder busting madness. It was two solid years of holding it all day while my male coworkers were watering the bushes all day and it was total madness, and yet I can't get mad at people for enjoying that because as much is that situation drove me crazy it was also one of the most intense experiences of my life and I get how that is the appeal of a situation like that even if you wouldn't really want to be in that situation.


So yeah it's sort of a weird thing. It's almost like that time I recounted how I was in the park and I saw that woman with her daughter and they were both desperate. I could feel sympathy for them but at the same time even as I was desperate myself I was thinking these women really have to pee. But again, is cruel because at the end of the day they got to go to the bathroom away lots sooner than I did while I was left holding their in the park.


So yeah I get how unfairness is inherent to the fetish and it definitely is a conflict, and even after all of my experiences it still is interesting to hear of others in those situations now that I am free from them which is why I always have the creeping fear that maybe I will find myself in that situation again.

@wannagetwet

"This ONE THOUSAND fucking percent. Couldn’t have said it better. Some people on here literally fantasize about making the world an EVEN LESS comfortable place for women than it already is. Men are conditioned to find sexual satisfaction in disregarding their partners wants and needs, and it showwwwws."

Amen. Although I will say once again going with everything that I explained above there is always a conflict because desperation is inherently a fetish where you are enjoying somebody else's discomfort.

And actually I was originally going to respond to this thread before all of these other discussions got started with the reason why not more women are into this fetish is that they have to experience the practical difficulties of being desperate, the men listening to the stories do not!

@Onedude

"As others have said, I think they may not admit to it as freely.  However, I remember that the majority of girls I knew in high school on even a casual basis seemed to hold their urine all day when they certainly didn’t have to.  Our high school was only a year old when I started there, and there were plenty of clean bathrooms. Invariably, though, by the last class period, they would complain about how bad they had to go, and more so on the way home when I rode the bus.  I briefly had one girlfriend then who had this habit, but I had a couple of them in college who we’re definitely into holding.  It was only then that I began to understand the sexual connotations of it for a female ( the ‘peegasm’ thing).  Both these two would often wait until the last minute to pee, when they were sometimes right on the verge of an accident."

Are you sure they didn't have to though? I have talked about my school experiences in numerous threads. There are some women who just will not use the bathroom at school because they don't like using public bathrooms or because they are disgusting or because they are mean girls in the bathroom and a whole host of other reasons. And also there is the fact that even when you have a clean bathroom that doesn't mean that the girls are always necessarily able to get to the bathroom between classes due to there being long lines. So a lot of girls who are holding it in school might not be holding it just for the pure pleasure of it but maybe because circumstances make it prohibitively difficult or unpleasant to have to use a girls bathroom.

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3 hours ago, DesperateJill said:

@wannagetwet

"I don’t see it as a matter of having a judgmental attitude or not. That’s not even what I’m talking about. Obviously this is a porn site, people are going to make sexually charged comments and share sexually charged content. That’s the whole point. I get that. I’m here for the same reason everyone else is. What makes me not want to continue being here is men who don’t care whether they have consent to share a story/photo/video/whatever as long as they can get their rocks off to an unsuspecting woman caught in an embarrassing situation. It makes me wonder what stories about myself I’ve shared with a sexual partner in confidence might end up on a porn site one day."

Anonymous stories don't bother me as much as the idea of pictures or videos. When I think of all of those days when I was at my job I know that nobody was filming me as far as I know, but it does kind of make you wonder about all of those days where I was standing with my legs crossed very obviously desperate if somebody unsuspectingly has a video of me out there somewhere. It is sort of a weird thought honestly.

This! Consent should be key no matter what. I've had my consent ignored in more ways than I'm comfortable reliving 

2 hours ago, DesperateJill said:

@Lapis Lazuli

"I'll admit, it's really hard not to talk about how people here can get... really creepy. I don't really know how to explain it but there's just a certain vibe sometimes that I REALLY don't like, and it especially comes up in fiction or art where women are forced to hold it while men are allowed to go. It almost gives the impression that some people actually want more spaces in real life to be like the spaces we see in erotica, things like the whole "City without a women's restroom" situation. And it's generally pretty distressing because to me, erotica and smut are places to explore complicated feelings (like someone wanting another person to force them to hold their pee without their consent) in an explicitly fictional setting where nobody actually gets hurt."

This is a very good point, as a person who started a very popular thread about that very topic I mentioned in my topic that it's sort of a bit of an exercise in masochism to some degree to read about all of these guys who really get off on situations where women cannot go to the bathroom when you have been in that situation yourself a lot, and I feel conflicted about that for a couple of reasons.


It sort of reminds me of this one guy that I chatted with years ago that I have mentioned in numerous threads. He was a big fan of female desperation but to the point where it was perhaps unhealthy where he thought about locking ladies rooms and all of this stuff and was thinking of all these fiendish ideas about how to get women in situations where they can't go to the bathroom and he had to sort of ask me about why didn't seem to think that I would be on board with that if we were say hanging out together and I had to point to him that if he locks the ladies room where will I go to the bathroom?


And that sort of like another point that I have brought up in numerous threads there is this sort of weird thing where guys basically get a free show of seeing the women desperate and getting to take advantage of those situations and the opposite case pretty much never happens, so there is an inherent unfairness in the whole situation or in most situations in which you are likely to witness female desperation, and I've often said that this fetish might not really even exist in a world where things were truly fair.


And yes there is definitely a contingent, especially among men who would like to see things even more unfair with less female restrooms and things of that nature. And again I try to be nonjudgmental about that but at the same time you are sort of like crossing your legs with frustration at the fact that these guys will probably end up getting what they want at our expense! The fact is women are often in these situations of dire desperation the guys will never experience that they get to enjoy consequence free basically where is the same is not true for women.


And again I try not to be judgmental about the fetish because I wouldn't share all of these accounts and things like that otherwise in the first place. But it is sort of a weird feeling such as when I was at my job without bathrooms all that time holding it all day and there were so many people who were just loving hearing about that even though it's a situation that was maddening to actually live through.


But then there is also the conflict over the fact that yes it was excruciating, yes it was unfair, but those are situations that were also perhaps the most exciting situations. It sort of a conflict because you sort of have a love-hate relationship with the fetish, you absolutely can't stand those situations where men can pee and you can't and yet those are the ones that press your fetish buttons like nothing else so you can't really get mad at other people for enjoying it because that would be hypocritical, and again if I didn't want people to enjoy this I wouldn't share my own personal experiences, but it is sort of a very weird feeling.


And I'll admit that there are plenty of women who like also seen women in really dire situations of not getting to go to the bathroom in really unfair situations if they can avoid them themselves. As a person who is a lesbian attracted exclusively to female desperation I totally get that. Even if you don't want to see someone suffer a real unfair situation when you see them in that situation and you are not responsible for that situation you can't help but feel the fetish circuits firing in your brain.


This is why I have talked numerous times about how I experienced the cruel wheel of karma and poetic justice. Like one of my favorite situations to hear about involving female desperation were situations where women were having to hold it all day and deprived of toilets, such as in a work situation because those are perhaps the most intense and frustrating situations and for that reason the most interesting.


So again I totally understood a certain degree of lack of sympathy when guess who ends up getting a job where they are working outdoors without toilets all day while every single person I used to enjoy hearing about in those situations was now working at home with their toilet 5 inches away! For years I had enjoyed listening to accounts like this from the relative comfort of my home and the luxury of toilet privilege, and then to suddenly find myself entirely on the receiving end of that for nearly 2 years straight where I was holding for six or seven hours a day and so many people were basically cheering that when I was recounting these tales it really is sort of like a state of schizophrenia.


So yeah I again I get the fact that people do somewhat enjoy people in these really dire situations that they wouldn't really want to be in, and the irony again is that after enjoying it from afar for so long I had to experience it regularly and constantly on the receiving end while everybody else was basically being a spectator to my bladder busting madness. It was two solid years of holding it all day while my male coworkers were watering the bushes all day and it was total madness, and yet I can't get mad at people for enjoying that because as much is that situation drove me crazy it was also one of the most intense experiences of my life and I get how that is the appeal of a situation like that even if you wouldn't really want to be in that situation.


So yeah it's sort of a weird thing. It's almost like that time I recounted how I was in the park and I saw that woman with her daughter and they were both desperate. I could feel sympathy for them but at the same time even as I was desperate myself I was thinking these women really have to pee. But again, is cruel because at the end of the day they got to go to the bathroom away lots sooner than I did while I was left holding their in the park.


So yeah I get how unfairness is inherent to the fetish and it definitely is a conflict, and even after all of my experiences it still is interesting to hear of others in those situations now that I am free from them which is why I always have the creeping fear that maybe I will find myself in that situation again.

@wannagetwet

"This ONE THOUSAND fucking percent. Couldn’t have said it better. Some people on here literally fantasize about making the world an EVEN LESS comfortable place for women than it already is. Men are conditioned to find sexual satisfaction in disregarding their partners wants and needs, and it showwwwws."

Amen. Although I will say once again going with everything that I explained above there is always a conflict because desperation is inherently a fetish where you are enjoying somebody else's discomfort.

And actually I was originally going to respond to this thread before all of these other discussions got started with the reason why not more women are into this fetish is that they have to experience the practical difficulties of being desperate, the men listening to the stories do not!

@Onedude

"As others have said, I think they may not admit to it as freely.  However, I remember that the majority of girls I knew in high school on even a casual basis seemed to hold their urine all day when they certainly didn’t have to.  Our high school was only a year old when I started there, and there were plenty of clean bathrooms. Invariably, though, by the last class period, they would complain about how bad they had to go, and more so on the way home when I rode the bus.  I briefly had one girlfriend then who had this habit, but I had a couple of them in college who we’re definitely into holding.  It was only then that I began to understand the sexual connotations of it for a female ( the ‘peegasm’ thing).  Both these two would often wait until the last minute to pee, when they were sometimes right on the verge of an accident."

Are you sure they didn't have to though? I have talked about my school experiences in numerous threads. There are some women who just will not use the bathroom at school because they don't like using public bathrooms or because they are disgusting or because they are mean girls in the bathroom and a whole host of other reasons. And also there is the fact that even when you have a clean bathroom that doesn't mean that the girls are always necessarily able to get to the bathroom between classes due to there being long lines. So a lot of girls who are holding it in school might not be holding it just for the pure pleasure of it but maybe because circumstances make it prohibitively difficult or unpleasant to have to use a girls bathroom.

All of this!!! YES! plus, I too have had a couple creeps lately as well. This site has been better than most about it, but overfamiliar, detailed DMs disgust me, I report that shit.

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It's sad that some male users here are being creeps about it to the point that some female users here want to leave. This is supposed to be a safe place to express our omo fetishes, and given what people say about women being more reluctant to express sexuality, this goes double for them. I thought the mods actively took steps to prevent people from being creeps here (and that's what the "newbie" restrictions are for).

I am absolutely against any videos or images of real people where the one wetting herself did not consent to having it posted here or anywhere else. All the videos I have ever enjoyed, she is wetting herself specifically for our pleasure and, in most cases, seems to really enjoy it.

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3 hours ago, Lapis Lazuli said:

I'll admit, it's really hard not to talk about how people here can get... really creepy. I don't really know how to explain it but there's just a certain vibe sometimes that I REALLY don't like, and it especially comes up in fiction or art where women are forced to hold it while men are allowed to go. It almost gives the impression that some people actually want more spaces in real life to be like the spaces we see in erotica, things like the whole "City without a women's restroom" situation. And it's generally pretty distressing because to me, erotica and smut are places to explore complicated feelings (like someone wanting another person to force them to hold their pee without their consent) in an explicitly fictional setting where nobody actually gets hurt.

Yeah, I've never really fantasized about that scenario either. I've fantasized about plenty of situations where she can't go (in some cases due to stuff like bondage, which of course I'd never wish on anyone in real life unless they are into that sort of thing), but not something specifically like this, I agree it just has a vibe I dislike and I absolutely do not want it to become a reality, it would not be fair.

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1 hour ago, The Dark Wolf said:

It's sad that some male users here are being creeps about it to the point that some female users here want to leave. This is supposed to be a safe place to express our omo fetishes, and given what people say about women being more reluctant to express sexuality, this goes double for them. I thought the mods actively took steps to prevent people from being creeps here (and that's what the "newbie" restrictions are for).

I am absolutely against any videos or images of real people where the one wetting herself did not consent to having it posted here or anywhere else. All the videos I have ever enjoyed, she is wetting herself specifically for our pleasure and, in most cases, seems to really enjoy it.

It’s not just the stuff that’s blatantly gross, like noncon content or creepy messages. Maybe others feel differently but for me it’s having every part of your body and brain and sexuality picked apart and discussed and fetishized. “Do women do this?” “Do women do this more than men?” “Do you like watching women do this?” “One time I saw a woman do this, have YOU ever seen a woman do this?” Like we’re fucking zoo animals. Or you post something, and it’s “next time do it this way” or “show us more” or “let me watch next time.” 

You know what, this has all shown me that it’s time to deactivate. I’m obviously not having fun here anymore. 

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4 minutes ago, wannagetwet said:

It’s not just the stuff that’s blatantly gross, like noncon content or creepy messages. Maybe others feel differently but for me it’s having every part of your body and brain and sexuality picked apart and discussed and fetishized. “Do women do this?” “Do women do this more than men?” “Do you like watching women do this?” “One time I saw a woman do this, have YOU ever seen a woman do this?” Like we’re fucking zoo animals. Or you post something, and it’s “next time do it this way” or “show us more” or “let me watch next time.” 

You know what, this has all shown me that it’s time to deactivate. I’m obviously not having fun here anymore. 

I'm fighting the urge to share a recent DM and just hoping the mods take care of it

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7 minutes ago, wannagetwet said:

It’s not just the stuff that’s blatantly gross, like noncon content or creepy messages. Maybe others feel differently but for me it’s having every part of your body and brain and sexuality picked apart and discussed and fetishized. “Do women do this?” “Do women do this more than men?” “Do you like watching women do this?” “One time I saw a woman do this, have YOU ever seen a woman do this?” Like we’re fucking zoo animals. Or you post something, and it’s “next time do it this way” or “show us more” or “let me watch next time.” 

You know what, this has all shown me that it’s time to deactivate. I’m obviously not having fun here anymore. 

Not every man is picking these things apart.  I understand how this is frustrating though, and I can't say I can't been guilty of this in the past.  Unfortunately, this happens both ways though

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1 minute ago, Omonomiyaki said:

I'm fighting the urge to share a recent DM and just hoping the mods take care of it

Have you reported it? I’m so sorry you have to deal with that.

3 minutes ago, Tonsor said:

Not every man is picking these things apart.  I understand how this is frustrating though, and I can't say I can't been guilty of this in the past.  Unfortunately, this happens both ways though

Yes, hashtag not all men. But my guy, it’s ENOUGH men.

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4 minutes ago, wannagetwet said:

Have you reported it? I’m so sorry you have to deal with that.

Yes, hashtag not all men. But my guy, it’s ENOUGH men.

I understand it is.  And while I know it means nearly nothing, I want to apologize for all the males who can't conduct themselves as civilized adults

5 minutes ago, wannagetwet said:

Have you reported it? I’m so sorry you have to deal with that.

Yes, hashtag not all men. But my guy, it’s ENOUGH men.

As a side note, I know this isn't what you mean, but I'd love to be "your man" lol.  But I mean that in a way that it would be an honor cause relationships are a gift from one person to another

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2 minutes ago, Tonsor said:

I understand it is.  And while I know it means nearly nothing, I want to apologize for all the males who can't conduct themselves as civilized adults

As a side note, I know this isn't what you mean, but I'd love to be "your man" lol.  But I mean that in a way that it would be an honor cause relationships are a gift from one person to another

This is the funniest thing I’ve ever read. On that note, I’m out.

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14 hours ago, chimera said:

If it makes you feel better I don't think I would be able to distinguish a pee coming from a penis from a pee coming from a vulva sound if I was in a bathroom and IMO its not really any of my business what people are doing in the stalls anyway.

Totally agree with this. Whatever genitals a trans woman has, should be no concern of anyone else when she is in a private cubicle?? As a gay man I'm far from an expert on how a cis woman sounds peeing... But out of laziness I pee a lot sitting down at home.. for a trans women would the sound not be similar I'd you sat further back on the seat? 😀

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These threads:

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OP: 'Where are all the women?'

1st comment: 'Hi, I'm a woman! I get why it seems like we aren't here, but sometimes we don't advertise it because these places don't seem very safe'

OP: 'Oh, I'm sorry to hear that. How do you mean, it's not safe?'

Next four comments:

  • 'NOT ALL MEN'
  • 'ill protec u, DM me quick'
  • 'hi, do you live on the east coast??'
  • **barely comprehensible sexual proposition**

Fucking embarrassing if we're being honest

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16 hours ago, chimera said:

If it makes you feel better I don't think I would be able to distinguish a pee coming from a penis from a pee coming from a vulva sound if I was in a bathroom and IMO its not really any of my business what people are doing in the stalls anyway.

Oh yeah, it definitely is something that's there if you're looking for it, but most people aren't looking for it.  I know it's not supposed to be a big deal, but yeah I get nervous about that sort of thing lol.

On the matter of posts on the site:  when my sex drive was more masculine, I liked those stories but felt guilty about them, and I also like the reversed one someone made.  Also the ridiculous "hand me the catheter, I'll hold it for you" type stories lol.  Now I honestly don't know, my attractions and libido have yet to settle out from HRT.  I do know that if I fantasize about this with a man, with one particular (somewhat famous) guy I imagine him preventing me from going, when I want a more submissive imagination that day. 

So yeah, I do think there's a place for some of it, just not like this.  I personally feel like the majority of these stories would be fine if it weren't for the fact that they're so ubiquitous.  Combine that with the "guys have you ever heard a woman pea?!?!?" type posts, and the sharing of nonconsensual media.

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On 4/28/2023 at 11:20 PM, Omonomiyaki said:

This is a very good point. I've felt pretty objectified and alone with being female on porn forums. A lot of places see girl and flood dms with creepy stuff so.. Not always comfy places.

If any of this happens to your here, please report it to us. We restrict being able to start DM's to members who have been active for a bit to help combat this abuse, but if people are being creepy or harassing to you in personal messages, just use the Report button on their posts and we will intervene as necessary. We want to ensure everyone has a safe and comfortable experience on OmoOrg.

 

18 hours ago, DesperateJill said:

@wannagetwet

"I don’t see it as a matter of having a judgmental attitude or not. That’s not even what I’m talking about. Obviously this is a porn site, people are going to make sexually charged comments and share sexually charged content. That’s the whole point. I get that. I’m here for the same reason everyone else is. What makes me not want to continue being here is men who don’t care whether they have consent to share a story/photo/video/whatever as long as they can get their rocks off to an unsuspecting woman caught in an embarrassing situation. It makes me wonder what stories about myself I’ve shared with a sexual partner in confidence might end up on a porn site one day."

We take matters of consent extremely seriously. If you see content being posted without consent, please report it. In many cases, it is a permanent ban on first offense. We have hundreds of thousands of members here, and we issue bans and delete content every week to combat this, but we unfortunately will miss things from time to time due to this sheer volume. In those situations, we rely on users reporting it to us to ensure whatever we miss is removed as quickly as possible. These reports are all almost always reviewed within 24-hours or less.

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11 hours ago, The Dark Wolf said:

I thought the mods actively took steps to prevent people from being creeps here (and that's what the "newbie" restrictions are for).

We do, and I think it is incredibly unfair to us to imply otherwise. Almost all of the content we delete and all of the users we ban for violating these rules you never see, as we do our best to keep it out of the public eye and prevent it from negatively impacting others enjoyment of the community.

For issues that occur in private messages, it is physically impossible for us to act on these issues if they are not reported to us, as we do not monitor private conversations between users unless a report is filed against a user in one of these conversations. That is the only way our moderation team can help you in this area.

Again, we sometimes do miss things on the public forum as well, but between our forum and Discord communities, we process hundreds of reports every month in regards to these things and almost all of this offending content is removed within 24-hours, to the point most users will never even notice it.

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17 hours ago, Lapis Lazuli said:

I do sort of feel like this is one particular kink where it can be hard to determine where someone's level of comfort is. Personally when reading this kind of stuff, fantasizing about it, etc i really need some implication that the people involved either have the kink themselves (or are performing for someone who does) or are just generally comfortable with people knowing what's going on around them. 

I'll admit, it's really hard not to talk about how people here can get... really creepy. I don't really know how to explain it but there's just a certain vibe sometimes that I REALLY don't like, and it especially comes up in fiction or art where women are forced to hold it while men are allowed to go. It almost gives the impression that some people actually want more spaces in real life to be like the spaces we see in erotica, things like the whole "City without a women's restroom" situation. And it's generally pretty distressing because to me, erotica and smut are places to explore complicated feelings (like someone wanting another person to force them to hold their pee without their consent) in an explicitly fictional setting where nobody actually gets hurt. 

I dunno, this post probably reads as a drunken ramble. TL;DR I think more smut should include expressly-communicated enthusiastic consent because it's hot as hell

I just want a socialist paradise where people can have sex and pee freely with anyone who is of age and is able to consent. Sure it's unlikely that such a world will ever happen. but a girl can dream, can't she? 

And yeah some people give off that creepy vibe. It's usually the ones that DM you out of nowhere and only say "hey" every so often until they either give up or escalate for no reason. 

On 4/28/2023 at 11:08 PM, Omonomiyaki said:

I imagine it's a stigma thing. Women on average tend to keep lewd stuff to ourselves unless we're very candid and tactlessly open about kinky stuff (like me) but I know so many cis women and trans women both who after getting into conversations about kinky stuff will admit to at least having tried or openly enjoying it. It was after coming out as female that I realized how open women are with other women about stuff they'd never bring up in front of just anyone.  

But yeah, even before the powers that be began using this fetish to demonize trans people under the assumption that we want to hear anyone piss that doesn't consent to it in some gross public bathroom (we don't) this fetish is already so niche and misunderstood that people are afraid to be thought of as weird/be involved with it etc.

Being who I am and being forward about my interests is only due to living somewhere that i feel safe existing in the first place, and it took a ton of courage to finally talk to anyone but my partner about it. The end result of discussing it was finding out that a LOT OF PEOPLE secretly have this fetish. Trans people, cis women, anti-trans senators hard drives for some reason 😂 hhhmmm but yeah. It's not something most people are comfortable admitting to unless they're VERY comfortable with the person they're talking to, and I think the already societal expectation of women having to be more proper and junk just messes with the statistics

In my experience, queer people in general are more open about their kinks, especially when talking to other queer people. I have like a couple friends in my college's LGBTQ alliance and whenever I said something like "Peeing outside is based and cool" they wholeheartedly agreed with me. 

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On 4/29/2023 at 6:55 AM, Weather said:

Yup 👆👆👆

What it actually feels like to be trans and peeing in a women's bathroom, at least in my case:

"Alright, cross arms and look away while waiting, try to ignore the fact that I'm 6ft tall and no one else is.  Fuck, missed a stall being open, that's embarrassing.  Alright sit.  Pee.  Cmon pee.  God dammit the sound of my pee hitting the water sounds different coming from a penis.  Alright, someone flushed, push it out.  I said *out.*  Finally.  Aaaand it's taking forever.  Alright done, finish, walk straight to the sinks.  No Katie, not right now, please wait to talk to me til after we leave.  Alright, walk out of the bathroom.  One male outside staring at me, just keep walking away.  Pls no hatecrime.  And, yes!  Mission accomplished.  Fuck, I set up my gaff wrong."

I just piss standing up and hope to god no one notices. 

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14 hours ago, wannagetwet said:

It’s not just the stuff that’s blatantly gross, like noncon content or creepy messages. Maybe others feel differently but for me it’s having every part of your body and brain and sexuality picked apart and discussed and fetishized. “Do women do this?” “Do women do this more than men?” “Do you like watching women do this?” “One time I saw a woman do this, have YOU ever seen a woman do this?” Like we’re fucking zoo animals. Or you post something, and it’s “next time do it this way” or “show us more” or “let me watch next time.” 

You know what, this has all shown me that it’s time to deactivate. I’m obviously not having fun here anymore. 

God, this just reminded me, there's a topic that was recently posted on General called... Jesus Christ..."female poop smells." I cringe every time I see it. 

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