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I’m a female-girly af. A stripper at that lol and no one expects it but I’m so into omo im almost obsessed sometimes lol  I know a few other omo loving gals 

As others have said, it’s not that women are less into it. It’s that cishet men are more comfortable talking about/objectifying/sharing photos of women on porn sites. There is more female content than

I thought sites like these were always for guys. But as I looked around I realized there are women on here like me too and they get treated respectfully. It’s really fun to share stories so I jumped i

I don’t think this community, or any online community is a good base of this information. According to this article https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/all-about-sex/201803/surprising-new-data-the-world-s-most-popular-porn-site PornHub reports a 75%male to 25% female user demographic. I don’t know of any relationship between gender and our kink. I think it is likely a feeling we get because women are statistically much leas likely to consume pornography. 
This could impact the amount of people who know they have this kink, because I think it likely that some people discovered their kink through porn— especially squirting porn. So maybe there are more women who would be interested if they stumbled upon the fetish/kink. 
 

Summary: I think women are less common on this site because women are statistically less common users on most porn sites.

 

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I'd like to add on that many fetish forum sites like this one are cis male dominated. And there's a lot of reasons for this, for example, misogyny is present in fetish forums. So when you go on the forum, the reason it appears like there's a lot of men here is because there are a lot of men here. Idk what the exact statistics are, but until proven otherwise, I'm going to assume that the percentage of people who are into Omo is roughly the same no matter what gender you identify as.

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I think a lot of women are embarrassed to admit they have a kink like this. As tragic as it is, the fact of the matter is, it is still a new occurrence for women to have the freedom to state that they like sex at all! Let alone a piss kink. A lot of women probably do like omorashi, but society has restricted them from coming forward about it.

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I imagine it's a stigma thing. Women on average tend to keep lewd stuff to ourselves unless we're very candid and tactlessly open about kinky stuff (like me) but I know so many cis women and trans women both who after getting into conversations about kinky stuff will admit to at least having tried or openly enjoying it. It was after coming out as female that I realized how open women are with other women about stuff they'd never bring up in front of just anyone.  

But yeah, even before the powers that be began using this fetish to demonize trans people under the assumption that we want to hear anyone piss that doesn't consent to it in some gross public bathroom (we don't) this fetish is already so niche and misunderstood that people are afraid to be thought of as weird/be involved with it etc.

Being who I am and being forward about my interests is only due to living somewhere that i feel safe existing in the first place, and it took a ton of courage to finally talk to anyone but my partner about it. The end result of discussing it was finding out that a LOT OF PEOPLE secretly have this fetish. Trans people, cis women, anti-trans senators hard drives for some reason 😂 hhhmmm but yeah. It's not something most people are comfortable admitting to unless they're VERY comfortable with the person they're talking to, and I think the already societal expectation of women having to be more proper and junk just messes with the statistics

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On 4/27/2023 at 6:33 PM, Golden Guard said:

I'd like to add on that many fetish forum sites like this one are cis male dominated. And there's a lot of reasons for this, for example, misogyny is present in fetish forums. So when you go on the forum, the reason it appears like there's a lot of men here is because there are a lot of men here. Idk what the exact statistics are, but until proven otherwise, I'm going to assume that the percentage of people who are into Omo is roughly the same no matter what gender you identify as.

This is a very good point. I've felt pretty objectified and alone with being female on porn forums. A lot of places see girl and flood dms with creepy stuff so.. Not always comfy places.

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7 hours ago, Omonomiyaki said:

But yeah, even before the powers that be began using this fetish to demonize trans people under the assumption that we want to hear anyone piss that doesn't consent to it in some gross public bathroom (we don't)

Yup 👆👆👆

What it actually feels like to be trans and peeing in a women's bathroom, at least in my case:

"Alright, cross arms and look away while waiting, try to ignore the fact that I'm 6ft tall and no one else is.  Fuck, missed a stall being open, that's embarrassing.  Alright sit.  Pee.  Cmon pee.  God dammit the sound of my pee hitting the water sounds different coming from a penis.  Alright, someone flushed, push it out.  I said *out.*  Finally.  Aaaand it's taking forever.  Alright done, finish, walk straight to the sinks.  No Katie, not right now, please wait to talk to me til after we leave.  Alright, walk out of the bathroom.  One male outside staring at me, just keep walking away.  Pls no hatecrime.  And, yes!  Mission accomplished.  Fuck, I set up my gaff wrong."

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3 hours ago, Weather said:

Yup 👆👆👆

What it actually feels like to be trans and peeing in a women's bathroom, at least in my case:

"Alright, cross arms and look away while waiting, try to ignore the fact that I'm 6ft tall and no one else is.  Fuck, missed a stall being open, that's embarrassing.  Alright sit.  Pee.  Cmon pee.  God dammit the sound of my pee hitting the water sounds different coming from a penis.  Alright, someone flushed, push it out.  I said *out.*  Finally.  Aaaand it's taking forever.  Alright done, finish, walk straight to the sinks.  No Katie, not right now, please wait to talk to me til after we leave.  Alright, walk out of the bathroom.  One male outside staring at me, just keep walking away.  Pls no hatecrime.  And, yes!  Mission accomplished.  Fuck, I set up my gaff wrong."

The struggle is real

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I've overheard people telling stories about either themselves or someone else wetting themselves, and with one exception, everyone I've heard tell these stories is female. One of them shamelessly said "I peed my pants once", and another loudly announced in the theater that she peed her pants during a jumpscare in Zootopia (not sure if she was being serious or not) and that got me wondering whether girls are actually less embarrassed by it.

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16 minutes ago, The Dark Wolf said:

I've overheard people telling stories about either themselves or someone else wetting themselves, and with one exception, everyone I've heard tell these stories is female. One of them shamelessly said "I peed my pants once", and another loudly announced in the theater that she peed her pants during a jumpscare in Zootopia (not sure if she was being serious or not) and that got me wondering whether girls are actually less embarrassed by it.

I'm making super broad generalizations since of course this varies by culture and age, but I do think its true the women tend to be less embarrassed by pee, but more embarrassed by fetishes or pee as a fetish due to socialization.

Edit and obviously by the individual too.  

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I wouldn't say less women are into omo, there are probably a ton of women who are into omo, whether it's the desperation or wetting portion. If you mean women into the fetish or willing to try the fetish, just ask. You'd be surprised what answer you'd get, just be sure to not force the issue. 

Now, if you're talking about women who post about it on the internet or in forums, that can be chalked up to a number of factors.

 

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@Omonomiyaki

"It's not something most people are comfortable admitting to unless they're VERY comfortable with the person they're talking to, and I think the already societal expectation of women having to be more proper and junk just messes with the statistics"

This is definitely true but the irony is that I think that societal expectation of women having to be more proper is actually one reason why a lot of women will develop a holding fetish. Women are taught not to talk about their needs to go to the bathroom and stuff like that in polite company, and the polite thing to do is to go on holding it and not to mention it, and I think that that actually drives a lot of these fetishes. So I think that there are lots of women into it as evidenced by this website but almost all sites like this will be dominated mostly by cis hetero men in general.

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"I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve considered deleting my account because of the way cishet men on this site objectify and talk about women. The lack of caring about consent, for example in a lot of “sighting” posts, is unbelievable. It’s exhausting. Instead of asking why “less women are into this,” maybe think about why less women feel comfortable engaging on porn sites."

This is kind of understandable, it's sort of a weird thing, especially as a lesbian, when you share your stories of agonizing bladder pain here just how many men seem to enjoy that and perhaps want to see it continue even in situations where you would prefer not to be in that situation. I take a nonjudgmental attitude towards it but at the same time I could see how a lot of people would probably feel very weird about that and find it a bit offputting.

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7 minutes ago, DesperateJill said:

@wannagetwet

"I can’t tell you the amount of times I’ve considered deleting my account because of the way cishet men on this site objectify and talk about women. The lack of caring about consent, for example in a lot of “sighting” posts, is unbelievable. It’s exhausting. Instead of asking why “less women are into this,” maybe think about why less women feel comfortable engaging on porn sites."

This is kind of understandable, it's sort of a weird thing, especially as a lesbian, when you share your stories of agonizing bladder pain here just how many men seem to enjoy that and perhaps want to see it continue even in situations where you would prefer not to be in that situation. I take a nonjudgmental attitude towards it but at the same time I could see how a lot of people would probably feel very weird about that and find it a bit offputting.

I don’t see it as a matter of having a judgmental attitude or not. That’s not even what I’m talking about. Obviously this is a porn site, people are going to make sexually charged comments and share sexually charged content. That’s the whole point. I get that. I’m here for the same reason everyone else is. What makes me not want to continue being here is men who don’t care whether they have consent to share a story/photo/video/whatever as long as they can get their rocks off to an unsuspecting woman caught in an embarrassing situation. It makes me wonder what stories about myself I’ve shared with a sexual partner in confidence might end up on a porn site one day. 

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"I don’t see it as a matter of having a judgmental attitude or not. That’s not even what I’m talking about. Obviously this is a porn site, people are going to make sexually charged comments and share sexually charged content. That’s the whole point. I get that. I’m here for the same reason everyone else is. What makes me not want to continue being here is men who don’t care whether they have consent to share a story/photo/video/whatever as long as they can get their rocks off to an unsuspecting woman caught in an embarrassing situation. It makes me wonder what stories about myself I’ve shared with a sexual partner in confidence might end up on a porn site one day."

Anonymous stories don't bother me as much as the idea of pictures or videos. When I think of all of those days when I was at my job I know that nobody was filming me as far as I know, but it does kind of make you wonder about all of those days where I was standing with my legs crossed very obviously desperate if somebody unsuspectingly has a video of me out there somewhere. It is sort of a weird thought honestly.

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2 minutes ago, wannagetwet said:

I don’t see it as a matter of having a judgmental attitude or not. That’s not even what I’m talking about. Obviously this is a porn site, people are going to make sexually charged comments and share sexually charged content. That’s the whole point. I get that. I’m here for the same reason everyone else is. What makes me not want to continue being here is men who don’t care whether they have consent to share a story/photo/video/whatever as long as they can get their rocks off to an unsuspecting woman caught in an embarrassing situation. It makes me wonder what stories about myself I’ve shared with a sexual partner in confidence might end up on a porn site one day. 

Thank you SOOO much for explaining this! Just like Jill, I was confused at first. I know I never would - and hope most guys wouldn't either - share stories or videos they are not supposed to. Having and not having consent are a BIG difference! This is a porn website and I hope you are comfortable with the normal (consensual) content here.

I know a lot of women are probably grossed out by men and their fetishes in general, but as you yourself said, this website is dedicated to that as well. And not just for men! Women should also have a place on this site to share about (consensual) stories of their significant others, fictional stories, videos, life, etc. And I hope women do enjoy this site as well and hopefully one day, there will be more content for all of you!

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