Xpgames 971 Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 So I’m taking a road trip with some friends next week to Austria. One of them is aware that I sometimes pee my pants. The others, not so much. Since there will be drinking involved, my ability to hold diminishes quickly. And I hate being the immediate cause for pee breaks every single time. Drinking less IS an option, but not very likely. Last year, I made the whole journey without having an accident, but the close calls were EXTREMELY close. In the past year, my ability to hold it keeps getting worse! So I’m contemplating just wearing a Northshore to be on the safe side…. BUT I don’t want anyone to find out I’m wearing a diaper!!!! Soooooo, in your opinions, is it worse to pee your pants in front of your friends? Or…. Is it worse to have your friends find out you are wearing a diaper? Not sure how many will comment, but I’m willing to go with the consensus on the one! Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,403 Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 How about a halfway option, a light discreet pull-up that will minimise any accident before you can get to a toilet? Xpgames, wee spurt and j2319 1 1 1 Quote Link to comment
NouveauWolf 85 Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 If the risk is that serious, I think I'd probably wear a diaper. Your odds of successfully hiding the diaper are much higher, and I don't think getting caught would go over any worse than a wetting. I'd lean further that direction if it isn't your car, plus I imagine the trip is less stressful if you don't have to worry about it. That said, only you know your friends. If the fallout of wetting(s) would be less than discovery, maybe it's worth letting it happen. You've got one friend who knows you have a problem. How do you think they'd react to the notion of you wearing for that reason? If it would seem practical to them, that's probably a decent baseline, and I imagine they'd back you up explaining things if anyone found out. Hell, maybe just ask them. PrincessEsther, Bisonwin and Xpgames 2 1 Quote Link to comment
Cristiano97 300 Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 It is better to pee your pants and risk being discovered than to wear a diaper, because wet pants can be more concealed or, in any case, the accident can be blamed on excessive drinking. Now, if you wear a diaper, it's publicly admitting that you're going to pee. it is better to let it happen and pretend that it is not common to put on a diaper, implying to the rest that you urinate so daily that you need diapers. Xpgames 1 Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 4, 2023 Author Share Posted March 4, 2023 31 minutes ago, nappypants said: How about a halfway option, a light discreet pull-up that will minimise any accident before you can get to a toilet? I actually was just at the store looking at some more discrete protection. I know the pull-ups don’t hold much, but that may be what I do…. Quote Link to comment
Snowpants 502 Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 I agree with @NouveauWolf. If one friend is aware of your issue, maybe telling him of your plan to wear. If he supports your decision, and the others end up finding out, you should have one in the group supporting you. Xpgames and ews21 1 1 Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 4, 2023 Author Share Posted March 4, 2023 37 minutes ago, NouveauWolf said: If the risk is that serious, I think I'd probably wear a diaper. Your odds of successfully hiding the diaper are much higher, and I don't think getting caught would go over any worse than a wetting. I'd lean further that direction if it isn't your car, plus I imagine the trip is less stressful if you don't have to worry about it. That said, only you know your friends. If the fallout of wetting(s) would be less than discovery, maybe it's worth letting it happen. You've got one friend who knows you have a problem. How do you think they'd react to the notion of you wearing for that reason? If it would seem practical to them, that's probably a decent baseline, and I imagine they'd back you up explaining things if anyone found out. Hell, maybe just ask them. Well one guy already suggested ordering 5 “pee bottles”, but that was shot down. At least one other is concerned hahahaha!! Maybe the pull-up, sweatpants plus some gortex on top is a good solution. Quote Link to comment
Uniee 2,990 Posted March 4, 2023 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted March 4, 2023 Some protection now looks just like underwear.. I'd protect myself.. much easier to wrap n throw a pad than huge pee stain. But definitely practice first.. know how much wee you can release Happy Holidays x Bisonwin, moiamigo and Xpgames 2 1 Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 4, 2023 Author Share Posted March 4, 2023 5 minutes ago, Snowpants said: I agree with @NouveauWolf. If one friend is aware of your issue, maybe telling him of your plan to wear. If he supports your decision, and the others end up finding out, you should have one in the group supporting you. I am sure everyone of those guys has peed themselves at some point. So, I should not be too worried. I think I’m leaning towards sneaking it if I go that path 🙂 2 minutes ago, Uniee said: Some protection now looks just like underwear.. I'd protect myself.. much easier to wrap n throw a pad than huge pee stain. But definitely practice first.. know how much wee you can release Happy Holidays x Thank you!!! Yes, every time I’ve tried the adult pull ups, they’ve leaked. I should have just bought them at the store (also kinda embarrassing for me to do for some reason… considering the fact that I’ve very publicly peed my pants on many occasions). However, I will buy them and have three options 🙂 Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,403 Posted March 4, 2023 Share Posted March 4, 2023 41 minutes ago, Xpgames said: I actually was just at the store looking at some more discrete protection. I know the pull-ups don’t hold much, but that may be what I do…. Yeah, and you can wear regular underwear over them. They may not hold a full bladder accident, but will deal with an “almost made it”. Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 4, 2023 Author Share Posted March 4, 2023 42 minutes ago, nappypants said: Yeah, and you can wear regular underwear over them. They may not hold a full bladder accident, but will deal with an “almost made it”. Boxer briefs will do the trick Quote Link to comment
pee_punk 61 Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 I'd wear the diaper, but still fall into to "let's stop soon I need to pee too," after the first person speaks up. Adds to the discreetness. Only problem would be the crinkle sounds. Keep a bag of crisps around too so the sound of the bag can blend the diaper movement. Xpgames 1 Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 5, 2023 Author Share Posted March 5, 2023 1 hour ago, pee_punk said: I'd wear the diaper, but still fall into to "let's stop soon I need to pee too," after the first person speaks up. Adds to the discreetness. Only problem would be the crinkle sounds. Keep a bag of crisps around too so the sound of the bag can blend the diaper movement. I like the idea of chirping up! Crinkle sounds are not too bad with the MEGAMAX Northshores … but they obviously do get pretty bulky when wet lol Quote Link to comment
KarenWets 809 Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 So you have a weak bladder. Wear the protection that makes you comfortable and don’t be ashamed. ews21, Tallpines, slothmallow and 3 others 4 2 Quote Link to comment
andrewWetter 331 Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 If you have time, I’d order some heavier duty pull-ups.. still aim to not use them, and they are obviously easy to drop to use the restroom breaks. The better ones can really hold a lot, and still pretty discreet. I tend to rely on the Abena Abri Flex level 3 (M3/L3). have a fantastic trip Xpgames 1 Quote Link to comment
soggybottoms 18 Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 Honestly, I think the padding would be easier to brush off, ESPECIALLY if you wind up having more than one accident. If you pee your pants, especially more than once, I'd expect quite a bit of teasing. But if you're wearing protection and get discovered, you can blame it on a medical condition (and I mean, if your bladder is weak enough that this is a serious concern, even if it's not strictly because of a medical condition I think that's still a fair explanation), and then if they're mean about it they'll look like real jerks. That being said, I hope your friends wouldn't be mean about it either way! But if teasing or rejection (or even just repeated accidents or making a mess) is something you're worried about, I'd go with padding. slothmallow and Xpgames 1 1 Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 5, 2023 Author Share Posted March 5, 2023 1 hour ago, soakingboy said: If you have time, I’d order some heavier duty pull-ups.. still aim to not use them, and they are obviously easy to drop to use the restroom breaks. The better ones can really hold a lot, and still pretty discreet. I tend to rely on the Abena Abri Flex level 3 (M3/L3). have a fantastic trip Thanks for the tip! No time to wait for them to come in, but will definitely order them for the future ! 51 minutes ago, soggybottoms said: Honestly, I think the padding would be easier to brush off, ESPECIALLY if you wind up having more than one accident. If you pee your pants, especially more than once, I'd expect quite a bit of teasing. But if you're wearing protection and get discovered, you can blame it on a medical condition (and I mean, if your bladder is weak enough that this is a serious concern, even if it's not strictly because of a medical condition I think that's still a fair explanation), and then if they're mean about it they'll look like real jerks. That being said, I hope your friends wouldn't be mean about it either way! But if teasing or rejection (or even just repeated accidents or making a mess) is something you're worried about, I'd go with padding. Throughout the trip, I’m guessing I will have more than one accident. But have an easy cover up with snow bibs once there. I’m leaning towards padding…. Also asked a couple people outside of here and they are also saying protection is the way to go. soggybottoms and Snowpants 2 Quote Link to comment
faffef 118 Posted March 5, 2023 Share Posted March 5, 2023 I had a companion in the highschool who pee and poop herself because she has epileptic attacks combined with other stuff so far as I know. Also, she used diapers and was kinda noticiable for the bulge. I always feel pity for she. Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 6, 2023 Author Share Posted March 6, 2023 So here are my options. I went to the store and bought two different types of men’s pull-ups. After trying one on, at the minimum, I’m wearing one of those. No one would ever know (unless it leaks of course). I have errands to run, so I plan to use the one I have on and hopefully also try the other one as well. I need to meet with a lawyer in about an hour and sipping tea and water 🙂 slothmallow 1 Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 6, 2023 Author Share Posted March 6, 2023 I also think the gortex pants are out. Although they would hide everything, I believe they are a bit suspect. I mean, if I saw someone wearing gortex, I’d immediately think they could be hiding something… but maybe that’s just me and my kink hahahahahaha Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 6, 2023 Author Share Posted March 6, 2023 (edited) First pull up trial was not 100% successful. I peed myself while driving and had some leakage. Obviously could probably hide this. Will head out to lunch shortly and try the other ones to see if they are better Edited March 6, 2023 by Xpgames (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,403 Posted March 6, 2023 Share Posted March 6, 2023 55 minutes ago, Xpgames said: First pull up trial was not 100% successful. I peed myself while driving and had some leakage. Obviously could probably hide this. Will head out to lunch shortly and try the other ones to see if they are better Pull-ups like that will generally handle moderate leaks or an “almost made it” scenario… they’re certainly not designed to hold a full bladder-emptying at once, especially while sitting down. Xpgames 1 Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 6, 2023 Author Share Posted March 6, 2023 13 minutes ago, nappypants said: Pull-ups like that will generally handle moderate leaks or an “almost made it” scenario… they’re certainly not designed to hold a full bladder-emptying at once, especially while sitting down. I know. … wasn’t even a completely full wetting either…. To be realistic, the trial needs to be sitting. Sitting in a restaurant right now and will try to hold it until I get to my car. My bladder is more full than last time, so we will see. I am also wearing the pants I plan to wear for the trip tomorrow Quote Link to comment
Xpgames 971 Posted March 6, 2023 Author Share Posted March 6, 2023 The second trial was a complete fail as well. I thought for a second that I might wet myself in the restaurant, but held on. Was going smoothly after getting in the car until I got stopped by a red light. Then…. “Medium” floodgates…. I guess the safest solution for tomorrow is flat out wearing the MEGAMAX !!! I will bring the pull-ups too, but they do not prevent much to be honest. Quote Link to comment
andrewWetter 331 Posted March 6, 2023 Share Posted March 6, 2023 @Xpgames- were you ‘pointing-down’ in those pull-ups? Although not as comfy for me, I find they hold a little better when I do… Quote Link to comment
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