GreenChile 828 Posted October 16, 2022 Share Posted October 16, 2022 All the time around the house when I'm working or doing household chores. Usually will set a list of things I need to get done and I'm only allowed to use the toilet once I've accomplished them all. Some days I make it, most times I'm either leaking on the way to the bathroom or I'm pissing myself Quote Link to comment
Renatatswet 9,710 Posted October 16, 2022 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted October 16, 2022 I do this unconsciously all the time and I can't get myself to stop doing it. It has caused me to leak or more quite often. I've been doing it since I was a child and still do. Mbgpeelover 1 Quote Link to comment
Sbones 118 Posted October 16, 2022 Share Posted October 16, 2022 I don't feel like going unless I really have to go or won't have bathrooms available for a long time. Quote Link to comment
MelodySeeker 57 Posted October 17, 2022 Share Posted October 17, 2022 I used to be terrible for this at Uni, especially while studying. I would say I would go and pee after a chapter or lecture, and then get focused on the next bit, or be like 'oh just 10 more slides' and then next thing I'd be hobbling to the loos. DesperateJill, SpaceWonderer and waterrat 3 Quote Link to comment
wetting_fan 499 Posted October 17, 2022 Share Posted October 17, 2022 Oh I definitely tend to be like this. I haven't gotten to the point of actually having an accident, but definitely to where I would have leaked if I wasn't actively focused on holding it. I did this during some recent holding that I posted about actually. I was playing some mario and was using that to try and have an accident. One more level, then another, etc. I came soo close, I actually had forgotten about my need it was so great lol. Quote Link to comment
petitewonder 480 Posted October 18, 2022 Share Posted October 18, 2022 Yeah lol. Only to the point of having an accident once because I was also super sleep deprived. But yeah if I'm super focused on something, needing to pee, remembering to drink and eat enough etc. might get forgotten lol. A lot of times, if I'm laying or sitting down, I won't realize how bad I have to pee until I stand up. Quote Link to comment
holding-myself 355 Posted October 18, 2022 Share Posted October 18, 2022 Happens to me when I'm playing video games. Like "just one more round" and so on. Until I'm achingly full. Or when it's just inconvenient to go to the loo. On the weekend I was changing the car's tyres for the winter and had to pee when I started. But I couldn't be bothered to get my gloves and shoes off and go inside to the bathroom. So I just held it in and was nearly bursting by the time I was finished. Mbgpeelover 1 Quote Link to comment
Imabedwetter 316 Posted October 18, 2022 Share Posted October 18, 2022 On 10/16/2022 at 12:04 AM, blasseroz said: Sounds like a version of childhood 'play-delay'. I have intense concentration and would catch myself doing this. I always did this growing up and had many accidents because of it. It is a habit that followed me into adulthood and I still have accidents because of it sometimes. blasseroz 1 Quote Link to comment
moiamigo 213 Posted October 18, 2022 Share Posted October 18, 2022 all the time. I usually make it!! Quote Link to comment
wetmaster 70 Posted October 20, 2022 Share Posted October 20, 2022 Often when shopping, i'll get distracted by another shop then i'll end up running to the toilets, fortunately there's never a queue for the male toilets Quote Link to comment
OldWetGuy 1,160 Posted July 17, 2023 Share Posted July 17, 2023 On 10/20/2022 at 3:31 AM, wetmaster said: Often when shopping, i'll get distracted by another shop then i'll end up running to the toilets, fortunately there's never a queue for the male toilets My late wife Kathy and I used to do “just one more little project” or “just one more game of cards” until one of us had an “accident”. The dry partner would then have an accident too out of sympathy💦😁 wetmaster and WhoIsStupidNow 2 Quote Link to comment
SoggyRunner 96 Posted July 18, 2023 Share Posted July 18, 2023 I have done this as long as I can remember, and as an adult still put off peeing until the absolute last minute both at home and sometimes at work, too. At work, I’m often in a lab in a satellite building, and I have to walk up to the main building for a bathroom. I don’t want to stop what I’m doing and will often wait until I am pretty desperate before finally going. I am usually by myself when working there, so no one can see me pee dancing and trying to hold on, but then I have to walk through the main building trying to look normal as I’m about to burst. It is especially challenging if I eat lunch at one place with really good iced tea that just sets my bladder off. Two glasses of that tea and I have to pee every half hour or so for the rest of the afternoon, with the urgency meter going from 1 to 10 in minutes. It’s like rapid desperation on steroids for me. One day recently when I had that tea with lunch, I pushed it a bit more than usual. I was working late trying to finish up a project and I told my coworker to go ahead and lock/set the alarm in the main building as I would leave soon too. I ended up working longer than I expected, and needed to pee again when I was ready to go. I didn’t want to deal with re-setting the alarm and locking up again, so I just headed home. On my way, my wife texted me to pick up a few things at the store. As I was shopping, the tea-induced urgency continued to build, and by the time I got through the long line at checkout, I was starting to worry it may be a challenge to make it home with dry pants. I thought about using the store restroom, but that requires getting a code so I just tried to not make my desperation obvious at the register while the very slow bagger packed up items for the woman in front of me. I finally checked out, rushed to my car, spread a protective mat on my car seat, and somehow managed to hold on for the drive home. I brought in the three bags of groceries as well as my laptop and gym bags and, of course, decided I had to put everything away before going to pee. While in the kitchen, my wife started to tell me about a difficult client at work, and I didn’t want to interrupt her story, so i continued listening to her while desperately trying to hang on as my ability to hold rapidly vanished. I was trying to not show my desperate state, but eventually couldn’t wait any longer and quickly turned away toward our bathroom saying, “Sorry, I really have to pee!” Just as I turned, a big leak escaped, and I could feel a trickle down my leg as a small wet patch appeared on the front of my pants. I was leaking in spurts the whole way to the bathroom, and by the time I made it to the toilet, my briefs were soaked and my pants had a wet patch that trailed halfway down to one knee. My wife followed me into our bedroom to finish her story, and although she didn’t seem to notice my pants when I came out of the bathroom, I must have had a funny look on my face because she asked if I was ok. At first I said I was, then felt both daring and really little, and I sheepishly admitted I didn’t quite make it. I told her how I “had” to hold it since at work and wasn’t expecting to stop at the store, so thought I could make it home. Getting caught, I had a mix of excitement and embarrassment that felt like I did as a little kid when my mom would see me rushing inside from playing with a wet spot on my shorts after I waited too long and had an accident. My wife was very sympathetic and apologizing for keeping me from going, but I told her I was the one who waited, not her. I think she thought I was upset about the accident, but I assured her I wasn’t (she knows about my omo/diaper interests but doesn’t usually participate). I changed into dry shorts and we went about our evening with my wet pants and undies hanging to dry on the shower rail as a reminder that I waited too long and wet my pants. wetaccident 1 Quote Link to comment
SoggyRunner 96 Posted July 18, 2023 Share Posted July 18, 2023 Apologies for multiple postings. It looked like nothing was happening when I pressed the Submit Reply button, but obviously there was! Quote Link to comment
WhoIsStupidNow 24 Posted July 19, 2023 Share Posted July 19, 2023 My adhd brain rarely lets me go straight to the toilet when I need to pee. It's usually more along the lines of I'll realize I need to go, wrap up whatever I'm doing and start going that way. Along the path I'll most likely see something that needs to be addressed, like taking out the garbage, so I'll stop, do that, then realize I still need to pee, and start heading there again. It's a vicious cycle that takes a few times to finally get there. Even sometimes when I go to run errands, I'll be thinking about what I need to do and where to go, and I'll forget to pee before leaving the house. My bladder's needs seem to be amplified by the car's movement, so I'll realize I need to pee shortly after I've left. I don't like using public restrooms, so all of a sudden I'm on an unplanned holding session, and there's been more than a few times I didn't make it home dry. Thankfully I've never had a full accident in a store, and the worst I did was a softball sized wet spot on my shorts, that I was able to cover up and make a quick exit of the store without anyone seeing. OldWetGuy 1 Quote Link to comment
eliska_91 876 Posted August 3, 2023 Share Posted August 3, 2023 Well.. This is the story of my life!! Being PDA Autistic means relieving myself is the last thing on my to-do list. I only figured out I could hold so much for so long after my 2 hospital stays in the last 18 months, and the nurses would comment on how big my pees were, the bed pans were never deep enough!! As a little kid I was constantly shouted at for having accidents because I was too busy to bother going to the loo, so I must somehow trained myself to hold like a trooper. As recently as today, going to the loo was far less important than finishing a scene I was writing for my Fanfic, so I kept holding and delaying for well over an hour until I had finished writing. Made it to the loo!! wetaccident 1 Quote Link to comment
Guest Posted August 7, 2023 Share Posted August 7, 2023 Yeah but I kind of like to use it as an excuse to have an accident or become much more desperate before going, like if I’m playing a video game I’ll be saying “just one more match/stage” or if there’s some chores I need to do I’ll make sure to do everything before even thinking about going to the bathroom, dishes need cleaning? Can’t pee until I’ve finished them, bed needs to be made? I’ll go after it’s done, and before I know it I’m either unbelievably desperate and end up either going to the toilet normally or voluntarily pissing myself, or I find myself losing control whilst taking a trash bag down my driveway, in my seat playing a game, doing dishes, etc. I enjoy it simply for the excuse, especially cause my mother is fairly similar, and has had a couple accidents cause she had to finish cooking before peeing, then had to clean up the pots she used, then has to take some bins out, I don’t think she does it for the same reason I do it though. Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,585 Posted August 7, 2023 Share Posted August 7, 2023 23 minutes ago, YassmineK said: Yeah but I kind of like to use it as an excuse to have an accident or become much more desperate before going, like if I’m playing a video game I’ll be saying “just one more match/stage” or if there’s some chores I need to do I’ll make sure to do everything before even thinking about going to the bathroom, dishes need cleaning? Can’t pee until I’ve finished them, bed needs to be made? I’ll go after it’s done, and before I know it I’m either unbelievably desperate and end up either going to the toilet normally or voluntarily pissing myself, or I find myself losing control whilst taking a trash bag down my driveway, in my seat playing a game, doing dishes, etc. I enjoy it simply for the excuse, especially cause my mother is fairly similar, and has had a couple accidents cause she had to finish cooking before peeing, then had to clean up the pots she used, then has to take some bins out, I don’t think she does it for the same reason I do it though. I appreciate reading this as I love doing this as well. If I make through dry, I like to find something else that needs doing until oops, I can't stop it from coming out. Quote Link to comment
slothmallow 366 Posted August 11, 2023 Share Posted August 11, 2023 On 7/17/2023 at 6:01 PM, OldWetGuy said: My late wife Kathy and I used to do “just one more little project” or “just one more game of cards” until one of us had an “accident”. The dry partner would then have an accident too out of sympathy💦😁 I just want to say that it's always a pleasure when you talk about your late wife here on the forums. You speak about her so tenderly. I can tell that the love you two shared must have been really special. I'm so sorry for her passing. OldWetGuy 1 Quote Link to comment
trekkie 1,098 Posted August 12, 2023 Share Posted August 12, 2023 Sometimes when focused on something I put my bladder needs off a little more, a little more, until it's too late to do anything but be really thankful for the fact that my bed is one step away and protected. wetaccident 1 Quote Link to comment
Peena 165 Posted August 12, 2023 Share Posted August 12, 2023 I do this for fun my mom does this too but it’s not fun for me when she does it Quote Link to comment
02Durty 105 Posted August 12, 2023 Share Posted August 12, 2023 I either go pretty much right away or I decide that I am just going to continue doing things till I leak. Sometimes that choice is made by a magic 8 ball app on my phone. Then wherever I leak I empty my bladder in my pants right there. Which has ended in a couple less than stellar places but those are the rules. Quote Link to comment
Gamerman 125 Posted August 12, 2023 Share Posted August 12, 2023 Currently me as we speak lol Quote Link to comment
Stanley79 636 Posted August 21, 2023 Share Posted August 21, 2023 Trekkie and all, Regarding bladder control while stimming in the thread at: https://www.omorashi.org/topic/69796-accident-right-before-getting-dressed/page/2/ around September 4 & 5 2021 On the 4th you said, “It'd be funny if you brought a clock and she brought a small fan that moved at the right speed and direction. . .” On the 5th Silvermoon told her experience. From which I get the impression she can't predict her bladder's reliability while stimming. Neither can I predict mine. As mentioned in her post, the scorekeeper was needed and would be in any future such contest. On 10/15/2022 at 5:27 AM, trekkie said: And yeah, I do miss her. And this made me wonder who'd stay dry longer, you distracted by a special interest versus her distracted by a fan. 😛 (Then I got a bit carried away and imagined myself as a scorekeeper because someone had to be keeping track, An educational toy product line carrying the brand or copyrighted names, Play Monster, Mableocity and Tinkineer includes kits for fans, clocks, marbles spiraling inward, marbles spiraling outward and a great many other motions. (Many 0pictures on the internet.) Plus the kits can interconnect. Given the battery-powered motors the speed could be changed rather easily. Wonder how a simmer would respond to combined motions. Quote Link to comment
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