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female Other bisexual men, and straight and bisexual women: do you find dicks attractive?


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Its a common kind of trope from (mostly straight women in my experience) that "dicks are ugly" but as a bi man I've really never understood this. The dick is like.. the whole point right? When it comes down to raw sexual attraction women have titties and pussies and men have cocks and balls and I love all four (six if you wanna count each ball and boob individually).

But yeah like, I think dicks are hot. A sexual organ that literally enlarges and hardens involuntarily depending on attraction? Are you fucking kidding me? That is the sexiest idea and whoever came up with it needs a raise. Aesthetically I just enjoy them too. I masturbate to nice looking dicks the same way I do to tits.

Are you on the same page as me and if not how do you conceptualize your sexuality when you find the genitals of the sex you like unattractive - I'm curious.

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I don't know why but your observations reminded me of this.

Taken from the film - The meaning of of Life.

 

 

As for my own, well body image and body shaming has taken its toll.

Even here where I am among like minded people I'm not willing to post full frontal nude pics or vids.

There was a suggestion in one post that someone wanted to watch a man peeing through a fleshlight.

Now although I am pushing myself by trying to recreate peoples fantasies, at the same moment for me that was a step too far.

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Yes! Omg I wanna cute guy cum in my mouth, I haven't experienced that yet!!! But I should mention my tastes in men are..unique. And I'm still exploring that whole side of my sexuality; I didn't fully accept that I was bi until a few years ago. It was there, and I'd dabble from time to time if the mood really struck me, but not something I really didn't dive into. Not until I met my most recent ex, who is('was' just makes it sound like they're dead or something) MTF.

We had as decent a sex life as possible; her biggest issue was she genuinely HATED the fact she had a penis. Which I completely understood, and did my best to let her know it truly didn't bother me, but she never felt 100% comfortable being naked in front of me. She did say once however that with me she would feel up to like, 98%; which was the most comfortable she'd ever been.

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On 8/27/2022 at 4:29 AM, caedar said:

Its a common kind of trope from (mostly straight women in my experience) that "dicks are ugly" but as a bi man I've really never understood this. The dick is like.. the whole point right? When it comes down to raw sexual attraction women have titties and pussies and men have cocks and balls and I love all four (six if you wanna count each ball and boob individually).

But yeah like, I think dicks are hot. A sexual organ that literally enlarges and hardens involuntarily depending on attraction? Are you fucking kidding me? That is the sexiest idea and whoever came up with it needs a raise. Aesthetically I just enjoy them too. I masturbate to nice looking dicks the same way I do to tits.

Are you on the same page as me and if not how do you conceptualize your sexuality when you find the genitals of the sex you like unattractive - I'm curious.

I’ve never heard someone describe a dick so well before.  Bravo sir.  

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I know you said gay/bi men and straight/bi women. But I'm going to give this a thought anyway. I'm a straight male.

On 8/27/2022 at 11:29 AM, caedar said:

Are you on the same page as me and if not how do you conceptualize your sexuality when you find the genitals of the sex you like unattractive - I'm curious.

Well, as a straight male, I don't find vaginas all that attractive. (And no it's not because I'm secretly gay) Looking at it isolated the vagina nor the penis is attractive in my opinion.

So how do I conceptualize my sexuality, well in my opinion there is much more to sexuality than simply the genitals. I am obsessed with anything feminine, so a pretty girl with feminine clothes, feminine hairstyle etc. I look at a partner as a whole, not just the boobs or the vagina. Sometimes a dressed woman is more appealing to me than a nude one. A nude woman... well yes you've seem it all. A dressed woman makes my mind work overtime, you know how does she look??, what is unique about her body.
So the "reveal" is a big part for me. And then looking at her face, listening to her voice while being intimate, does the trick for me.

I believe some women has it the same way with the penis.

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I am a Trans woman who loves all feminine people regardless of sex or gender. I have always found dicks hot all my life, I think they are the sexiest body part of existence! I love how they look and feel, and I especially love seeing them pulsate and cum. I adore my own and will probably never get bottom surgery. I am engaged to an AFAB but I don't mind that she doesn't have one because we have an amazing connection and I love her for the person she is. Besides she pegs me with a strapon, which is the next best thing

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