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female Isn't it strange how... non-sexual general discussion is here?


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I know a whole bunch of fetishists, many of them into other things than omo. What we all have in common is that we can talk for hours about our fetishes or about fetishism in general without mentioning the sexual parts of it.


There's so much more to a fetish than just sexual pleasure. Creativity, relaxation, esthetics, well-being, identity forming, exploration of all kinds of nerdy details... just to mention a few aspect of it. This is not at all unique to omo.

What is less common I think is to have safe platforms with room for this. It takes a well moderated forum that isn't primarily for porn and hook-ups. Even though some visit omorashi.org just to watch/share porn, many of us are here for other reasons too and it's great to have such a space.
 

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An interesting topic.

From the early days, this site has generally been portrayed as a community rather than just a sexual site. Although it's not particularly tight-knit in the way that something like Fetlife is, it's nice that there is a certain amount of community feeling. There is general a paternalistic level of moderation that fosters it too. I find that my 'closeness' to the site ebbs and flows, depending on who has been visiting lately, and I think most of us have some sort of cyclical approach to the fetish, whether we recognise it or not.

I'm sure a lot of people here are looking for a hook-up, a private webstream or something generally a bit more intimate than forum chat. I'm certainly not averse to the idea. And general good manners suggests you're not going to find a date by talking about how much you're jerking off.

Although I wouldn't go as far as @Tellnoone's zen-like approach, above, I do have a lot of fascination in just talking honestly and plainly with women about the fetish. I'm really fascinated by what makes women tick in general. Sorry, chaps, but you don't really do it for me.

Having said all that, unlike some other guys, I DON'T mind being told how much another man has jerked off. The reason being, if you cultivate a carefully-selected similarly-minded group of acquaintances, they can provide an excellent tip-off to where the good material is! That's so much easier than wading through pages and pages of something that doesn't turn you on if you're looking for some quick gratification. 😄

 

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@BB1BBB

"From the early days, this site has generally been portrayed as a community rather than just a sexual site. Although it's not particularly tight-knit in the way that something like Fetlife is, it's nice that there is a certain amount of community feeling."

I think that that's what makes a site like this a lot better than fetlife. In my experience when you go on a particular fetish website for a particular fetish that everybody shares in common there seems to be a lot of community among people and a lot of general respect and tolerance for one another. When you go out onto a general fetish place like fetlife or lit erotica I have found that some of the responses they are so toxic just to innocent questions that I realized why I don't participate in those sites very much compared to how I participate here. For a bunch of fetishists a lot of people on those general fetish sites can be some Judgy ass motherfuckers and I find it to be a toxic atmosphere.


Personally I have never felt that to be the case here, this is probably the better site that I am most active on because it's just the best one. People here are generally pretty tolerant and get along really well and I haven't really seen many problems with abuse or misuse of the forum. People are able to talk about things outside of a fetish context and able to really think about where the fetish comes from and why, I think that that is rare on fetish sites in general where most people are just there to watch videos and jerk off.

"I do have a lot of fascination in just talking honestly and plainly with women about the fetish. I'm really fascinated by what makes women tick in general. Sorry, chaps, but you don't really do it for me."

I think this is also a good website for that as I have said repeatedly I feel that men and women generally don't talk about things like bathroom experiences and live in two different worlds, I think that by talking about it like this it helps to educate people, so I'm always happy to talk to people about my experiences in hopes that they will find it enlightening!

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6 minutes ago, DesperateJill said:

I think this is also a good website for that as I have said repeatedly I feel that men and women generally don't talk about things like bathroom experiences and live in two different worlds, I think that by talking about it like this it helps to educate people, so I'm always happy to talk to people about my experiences in hopes that they will find it enlightening!

Enlightening, sure. And not a little bit erotic 😉

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On 8/27/2022 at 12:39 AM, caedar said:

I feel like that suggestion might seems ridiculous but its just something I've observed after looking at these forums for years.

I read a post in the video forum where someone linked a video and then ended it with "jacked off to this twice today" and that took me by surprise. I mean in a good way - I'm bi and love when dudes bring up jerking off. But! It was kind of strange because you see so little explicit sexual text on this website, I feel. Which is odd because that is ultimately the purpose of this site. This is our fetish, its a sexual thing - most people are here to find content to wank to in one way or another.

But if you were an alien studying humans and you came across this website, I think it would actually take you a long time to realize its users don't have a purely analytical interest in pee and omorashi.

None of this is like, criticism or anything, just an observation about how we communicate in this context. It's interesting, really.

Forums are kinda boring, I prefer just download video, but, most of them are censured since are JAVs.

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On 8/27/2022 at 7:57 AM, readingissexy said:

Yeah I find this really interesting too. I joined another site which concentrated on fetish content and it was definitely a place people were very overtly sexual. The conversation was almost entirely about sex, with pee being seen as simply a topic related to getting off. 
 

This site is far more analytical - I wonder if many of us end up here to figure out why we like what we like, rather than just as a place to share explicit content.
 

My only slight frustration is that sometimes I would like people to be just a little more overt without being crass if that makes any sense? It seems hard to find somewhere that has the right balance between acknowledging that most (not all) of us are sexually driven, but at the same time I don’t want to see some guy posting pictures of his dick and telling all the female members how he wants them to perform for him. Like be horny by all means, but also be respectful you know?

What is the other site you're referring to?

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6 minutes ago, StNick said:

What is the other site you're referring to?

It was a site called fetlife - way too serious and hardcore for the likes of me I’m afraid… I’m obviously pretty tame 😆

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I don’t have a strong opinion on how sexual a forum about omo should be. I like that there is room for both here, people that get off on the more sexual posts and threads and like to talk about it same as people that like having a fun nerdy discussion about bladder sizes 😉. And although I‘m straight, I still can appreciate a guy posting a story and pictures about his recent wetting experiences and how much fun it was.

What I do find remarkable though is that people here mostly seem to stick to the pace and tone of a topic and most of the time respect the intention of the original poster. That’s nice 🙂

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@Ms. Tito

"I mean I feel like it'd be kinda rude to tell people you just jacked off to something they wrote or a conversation."

I think it depends if it was erotica that might be seen as a compliment since you are creating something to get somebody all turned on. Although I do sometimes feel weird when I have been told something like that about something I wrote such as where I was in bladder pain. On the one hand yes that is why I share it with people, because I want people to be interested in reading about it, as that is the idea of a forum in the first place, but sometimes when it gets personal like that it does seem a little bit weird to think that I am suffering extreme bladder pain and that there are people who are jerking off to my accounts. I mean maybe it's a little bit different when you are writing specific erotica for getting people off, but at the same time not going to condemn people for that because what turns you on turns you on. But it is kind of a weird thought to think people might be actually jerking off to something that you wrote. I do think context matters, and you are talking about stuff on a specific board for a specific fetish naturally people are going to get turned on reading accounts. It would be weirder if you were talking about something personal that you didn't find erotic at all and the person was just getting off on it.

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@Raziel, @DesperateJill

"Off topic but I never understood why so many seemingly straight men enjoy watching another man have sex with a woman or especially receive oral from her from a non POV point of view."

 

When I thought I was straight (idk what I am now) I like/d/will like when a woman is enjoying herself (and/or really good at acting). I have only been with women sexually (unless you count one threesome that was MFM). I have watched friends make love (and have sex) in front of me. Seeing another man with a woman (and later women with women) doesn't turn me off or even necessarily make me imagine I was the guy in the video. 

I would say the turn on is her pleasure. I've never really liked getting oral. Maybe none of my partners were into it. The oral I've seen in most videos seemed to be or involve forcing/expecting/etc. a woman to give oral.

I would 100% rather give than receive oral. 

The turn-on is if the people involved are enjoying themselves. Omo or not. 

As to sex/intercourse and Omo fetishes (and related), I would absolutely prefer to have a partner who was into it/supportive. I've had mostly non-omo intimacy/sex/play/etc. Would I love it to have been more, absolutely. That being said, non-omo sex(etc.) was nothing less than the best thing ever. Hopefully it was for her as well.

I know it is OT, but maybe it explains my perspective. Oh, and POV oral really isn't exciting. 

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actually it is curious but it is not something that is not in the possibility It is true that many of us here come for sexual pleasure, but also many not necessarily.

I noticed that many members have related and told that their life in the world of omorashi began due to an accident as a child or curiosity to break the rules and decide to go against the established normal. In reality, omorashi is the term for pleasure that we develop by containing our desire to urinate and urinate for it, but like all pleasure, it is not always directed towards the sexual.

Many of us here wet our pants, our beds or our underwear for many reasons, from an impulse to release a load of stress, a form of psychological relief due to a feeling of conformity, the same that anyone can obtain in other ways, an example eating chocolate or getting into a hot tub.

For example, I must admit that my accident pranks are with a double intention, first to masturbate and second to do something I shouldn't, I feel naughty when I do it and I like it, in fact I have hidden my wet pants for 2 days with a urine stain on the front that I still haven't put to dry.

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