More, Less or the same?

[Acura17 240]

As you've gotten older, have your wetting habits increased, decreased, or stayed the same?

For me, it's definitely been more.

I've always wet myself by choice. I don't recall any real accidents and I've never been a bedwetter (though I do enjoy it). I began wetting as a teen. Feeling weird and unaccepting, I tried many years to grow out of it. Weeks and months would go by, then I'd get the sudden urge to pee my pants or shamefully rent the one or two of the only pee related VHS tapes at the porn shop. 

Things really started picking up in my 20s with high-speed internet, I finally came to terms with it. I was able to tell my adult dating partners, many being accepting and willing to participate, some having a fetish of their own.  I don't know if this was a good thing or a bad thing, because for 20+ years now, I've been a wet mess! So have you, right?

In my 30s, I became a homeowner; with more privacy, comes more wetting! This is when the wettings started becoming less of a sexual thrill, and just an overall fun thing to do.

Now married/family in my 40s, I get the urge to wet myself every single day- but limit it to about once a week. Sometimes it's less, sometimes it's more, sometimes it's a lot more! 

 

[Guest readingissexy]

How is your partner with the wetting - are they aware of it? I’m guessing they are if you are able to do it regularly. 
 

Personally I have always felt lucky to be take it or leave it with the pee stuff. I love to watch it and have done some stuff with partners when they asked me to, but I can go for weeks without really thinking about it as well. I’ve always been the same, and that hasn’t really changed over the years. I do think I’m a lot more comfortable with it now though, which took quite a long time to accept. 

[TheLoneRanger 244]

I go through periods of wanting to be wet and not.

I've always been voyeuristic, my go to, is always watching vids.

But in the past two weeks I've been learning things about myself that I never realised before.

I think partly my wanting to be wet, has a correlation to my general mood and stress level.

Well after a heart attack my stress levels were through the roof, and it's led me back here.

Thinking back I can measure periods in my life, when I was playing wet games heavily, and can correlate it to times of stress.

Now I'm not talking fear wetting. As in a haunted house someone jumps out and you wet yourself. This is something quite different.

[Guest Aries]

On 8/24/2022 at 2:24 AM, TheLoneRanger said:

I go through periods of wanting to be wet and not.

I've always been voyeuristic, my go to, is always watching vids.

But in the past two weeks I've been learning things about myself that I never realized before.

I think partly my wanting to be wet, has a correlation to my general mood and stress level.

Well after a heart attack my stress levels were through the roof, and it's led me back here.

Thinking back I can measure periods in my life, when I was playing wet games heavily, and can correlate it to times of stress.

Now I'm not talking fear wetting. As in a haunted house someone jumps out and you wet yourself. This is something quite different.

I'm the same way. I have a lot of anxiety, and I find it's comforting for me, and in times when I'm more stressed I tend to get back into wetting. I wanna try diapers for this reason, I think it would be really relaxing to be padded and be able to just let go. 

[TheLoneRanger 244]

On 8/25/2022 at 10:10 PM, Aries said:

I'm the same way. I have a lot of anxiety, and I find it's comforting for me, and in times when I'm more stressed I tend to get back into wetting. I wanna try diapers for this reason, I think it would be really relaxing to be padded and be able to just let go. 

I find I miss the wet feeling with diapers.

When I really got back into wetting about three weeks ago, I've tried all sorts of clothing.

With jeans the wetness just stays wet right where you want it.

Diapers are great for mess control, and now after trying real diapers to Pull-ups I can see that there is a difference, between the two.

Diapers hold so much more.

But I miss the wet feeling.

[Can'tFoolOwls 287]

I definitely started wetting a lot more once I moved out and had more privacy, and even more so after I got my own flat and didn't have to share with housemates anymore. Since then I don't think much has changed, besides usual upswings and downswings in my level interest over weeks/months.

One thing I would say is that at a younger age I did things I wouldn't be brave enough to try now. E.g. wetting my unprotected bed on purpose while living at home then having to go to great lengths to hide it from my parents. But I think that comes down to having a choice now to do things in the privacy of my own home, whereas at a young age I simply didn't have the option, so it was risky things or nothing. On the other hand I do some things now which are even more daring, like wetting on my bike in broad daylight, which I never would have done back then.

[CarmenCD 1,183]

They changed and frequency increased dramatically over the years.

When I was a kid and in early teen, I mostly had wetting accidents when scared or nervous, rarely when I couldn't hold it long enough to get to a bathroom (except when bullied and was not allowed to use a bathroom). Big, visible wetting happened few times per month, but it was very stressful, because they were real wettings and I was a kid.

In late teens when I got aware of my fetish and later, when in college, I started to hold pee for fun and have planned wetting accidents. Sometimes I even peed in my pants on purpose for fun. Occasional real wetting accidents due to fear and nervousness never stopped, they just didn't happen as often as when I was a kid. Frequency of planned wetting accidents went up over the years, because I started to engage in omo activities more and more. When I moved out of parent's house in my own apartment and could engage in omo whenever I wanted, omo became way of life for me. More or less every day, sometimes even several times per day, I have some kind of wet episode, from leaks, just enough to get a bit wet between my legs, up to full wettings, when I empty my bladder. Full wettings happen 2-3 times per week, mostly because of omo fun and planned holdings, but I have occasional real one as well. Not all holdings and wettings happen from omo reasons, I have to hold pee regularly because of necessity too. I have small bladder and frequently have to pee (at least every 2 hours, after meals, 2 or 3 times in next 2 hours).Because I have to pee so often, bathroom is not always available everywhere I need it and have to hold it.

Because of regular holding and probably age too, I started to notice weakening of my bladder over the years, especially when I past 40 and real wetting accidents increased, because my ability to hold it decreased. Nowadays I have more real wetting accidents than ever before, because I can't hold it as good and long as before. I even became bed wetter in recent years and have to use diapers when sleeping. 

 

 

[grsy97 61]

Increased I would say. As I get older, I have more independence and time but myself to indulge in wettings. And now that I drink alcohol, that helps with the peeing haha