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On 8/20/2022 at 5:22 PM, GoldenG8 said:

That’s so great that you love all the feelings AND the convenience the pull-ups give you. I see no down-sides here! My personal thought is if you’re pretty convinced the Tena ones aren’t working out, don’t make yourself suffer through them — go back to the ones that work. The whole point of this is to make life better, not give yourself something new to stress over, right?

From my experience, if I’ve been slowly leaking over a long period of time — whether that’s in a diaper or in a swimsuit at the beach — my body does get into a mode where “it’s okay to let it out.” So maybe if those involuntary leaks only happen when you’re in a pull-up and actively using it, it’s because you’ve sort of given your brain a message that it’s okay to take break from keeping the floodgates slammed shut. I mean, if it doesn’t happen once you change out of the pull-up, I think you’re fine! Just a theory, I’m not a scientist! 

Yeah, I totally get what you’re talking about with the feelings of shame from putting on a huge diaper. I’ve absolutely experienced that. I just wish we men had as many cool, effective pull-up products as you ladies do. That said, it’s also pretty awesome to know you can drink as much as you want, pee whenever you want, and still not need to visit a bathroom for several hours. I do get self conscious about the idea of wearing the big ones around people I know, but I’m not bothered by wearing them around complete strangers. Psychology is weird, isn’t it?

If you think your partner has the same trust and respect for you that you have for him, then it sounds like it would be worth broaching the subject — in the right way, and the right context. You have a problem that’s been really stressing you out, and you’ve found a solution that makes you feel great — in multiple different ways. Do you guys have an active sex life now? What sort of urges have you suppressed? And when you say you’ve never mentioned this although he knows about your past… How DID you get interested in pee in the first place? Was it long before you dealt with bladder issues of your own? 

Thanks! I may throw these out and start over but for now I have some samples to try lol we’ll see how they go! I am excited for Monday which is bizarre. I love my weekends. 
 

We had date night last night and I had two beers with dinner. Light padding. Went shopping after and wow. I peed three times and barely made it all 3 times. My pad was soaked and swollen. I had to say yeah stop taking I have to pee. Made him stop once on the 45 minute drive home to pee. It is crazy because my entire experience was focused around my bathroom needs. Not around the experience itself. So very frustrating. I did push him to tell me his most intimate desire, what do you watch on porn? What is the one thing you’d like me to do that I’ve never done? He was embarrassed and couldn’t come up with anything. We do have an active and good sex life. I can not complain. He finds me very attractive and lets me know that at every chance he gets. I have suppressed not only this but also my bisexual side. He knows this part, I however would consider it cheating to sleep with another woman so I won’t. I am sure he would also see that as cheating so again it’s off the table. I am adventurous in my sex life and he is content for us to go on as we have. Which isn’t altogether bad. Just boring sometimes.

The megamax are hiding in my closet until I think I might like to go there again. Right now I’m content with the pull ups. Friday I was feeling overwhelmed with even those but tonight I’m ready for my adventures with them tomorrow.

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2 hours ago, Wettinglady46 said:

Thanks! I may throw these out and start over but for now I have some samples to try lol we’ll see how they go! I am excited for Monday which is bizarre. I love my weekends. 
 

We had date night last night and I had two beers with dinner. Light padding. Went shopping after and wow. I peed three times and barely made it all 3 times. My pad was soaked and swollen. I had to say yeah stop taking I have to pee. Made him stop once on the 45 minute drive home to pee. It is crazy because my entire experience was focused around my bathroom needs. Not around the experience itself. So very frustrating. I did push him to tell me his most intimate desire, what do you watch on porn? What is the one thing you’d like me to do that I’ve never done? He was embarrassed and couldn’t come up with anything. We do have an active and good sex life. I can not complain. He finds me very attractive and lets me know that at every chance he gets. I have suppressed not only this but also my bisexual side. He knows this part, I however would consider it cheating to sleep with another woman so I won’t. I am sure he would also see that as cheating so again it’s off the table. I am adventurous in my sex life and he is content for us to go on as we have. Which isn’t altogether bad. Just boring sometimes.

The megamax are hiding in my closet until I think I might like to go there again. Right now I’m content with the pull ups. Friday I was feeling overwhelmed with even those but tonight I’m ready for my adventures with them tomorrow.

Looking forward to hearing how your Monday adventures go! So, in a situation like last night’s date night, would you have wanted to be wearing a pull-up? How would the evening have gone differently if you had been? (Detailed answers warmly welcomed!) And, supposing you had your partner’s support and encouragement to wear and use pull-ups or diapers when you’re together, would that effectively solve your problem? Or would you still be looking into other things like medication and surgery?

It’s great to hear that you guys do have an active and good sex life! Have you talked to him about your desire to involve other partners, and women in particular? Boundaries around that sort of thing are SO individual — and I don’t think they necessarily correlate with how kinky you are. I’m pretty kinky, but also pretty monogamous. Conversely, I’ve had partners who cringe at my piss kink, but practically beg to bring a third person into the bedroom. So, in my experience, the moral of the story is that it’s all about trust and communication. 

In the meantime, if you’re actually looking forward to Monday at work, then it’s clear you’re onto something! Good luck and please keep us posted!

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Well Monday was pretty boring. I tried a northshore supreme lite- too thick- it seems like all of the samples I got are huge and not discreet at all. I ended up throwing out the tena and bought more always, so I changed in to one of those and was more comfortable for sure! I am more nervous again, afraid everyone will notice. So I have only been using them actually as needed and using the toilet. Maybe it’s the ebb and flow of my fetish? Sometimes it’s all I can think about but then I can go a while without. I have still been using it on drives home to soak it. And yesterday I leaked again but I knew that might happen because I had to run errands, and really had to go with no time for a break. I made it home before it got too bad and cleaned up. I have had several involuntary leaks of substantial amounts. Luckily with padding, but one was only a pad and I was so worried but it was ok. It was at work and again the bathroom was occupied 🙄 I can’t remember how I discovered pee lol it was a long time ago, but I’ve always been the frequent one so not before that!

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On 8/24/2022 at 6:47 PM, Wettinglady46 said:

Well Monday was pretty boring. I tried a northshore supreme lite- too thick- it seems like all of the samples I got are huge and not discreet at all. I ended up throwing out the tena and bought more always, so I changed in to one of those and was more comfortable for sure! I am more nervous again, afraid everyone will notice. So I have only been using them actually as needed and using the toilet. Maybe it’s the ebb and flow of my fetish? Sometimes it’s all I can think about but then I can go a while without. I have still been using it on drives home to soak it. And yesterday I leaked again but I knew that might happen because I had to run errands, and really had to go with no time for a break. I made it home before it got too bad and cleaned up. I have had several involuntary leaks of substantial amounts. Luckily with padding, but one was only a pad and I was so worried but it was ok. It was at work and again the bathroom was occupied 🙄 I can’t remember how I discovered pee lol it was a long time ago, but I’ve always been the frequent one so not before that!

Interesting about the samples! Was it a Supreme Lite (tape-on) or a GoSupreme Lite (pull-up)? I haven’t experienced the Always products firsthand, so I’ve always considered the GoSupreme Lite pretty discreet. Thanks for the perspective!

When you say you’ve only been using them actually as needed… what does that look like? Are you still peeing in them intentionally, or only when you lose control? When you do wet them, do you pee until you’re empty? And does that have to happen slowly, like you were doing before? What precipitated the change in how you’re using them?

On drives home, are you deliberately leaving work with a full bladder, or does it become full during the drive even without trying?

My own experience is that it’s totally normal for this fetish to ebb and flow. I’ll have three omo-related experiences in a day, and then maybe none for a week. I’m glad to hear you’re still exploring, and eager to hear more!

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