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Hello Everyone,
I am sometimes struggling with the omorashi fetish. I had one girlfriend who wet herself for me, one who judged me for it and one whi lightly judged me and told me she would never do anything omorashi related with me. This fetish is still seen as very strange and I think way less accepted than for example bdsm. And especially in Germany there seems to be almost no place for that. I sometimes even wonder why watching a woman wet herself turns me on so much, but well, it does.

Sometimes I thought I may have just seen too much pornographic media, some people claim your taste would get more and more odd.
But that isn't really the case. I began to love that when I was about 13 and read in youth magacines about accidents of girls after having one myself. So I guess it is not just grown because of consume of pornographic media, it seems to belong to me. 
But does it have to be this way? Will I always have the feeling to maybe miss out on something if my girlfriend wouldn't share this rare love for omorashi?
Couldn't I just stop liking it, fantasizing about it? Obviously not. I was not even able to stop wetting myself - I never was so much into my own pee but still like to pee myself when watching women doing the same thing. 

Did you ever want to stop fantasizing about Omorashi or doing it? Did it work for a time?
What do you think about that?

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I also thought Germany was the place to be.

But to answer your question as best I can.

 

I doubt it will ever go away for you. Unless your love for that other person is so strong. That you can deny who you are.

Equally if you are being honest and open with your partner, and they are appalled by your behaviour.

 

Is the relationship really going to work, if they can't make room in their head for your fantasies.

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When I was a kid, a parent discovered a different fetish of mine (wetlook) and screamed at me, told me I was perverted and angering god, etc.  It's a fetish that now a partner will be like "oh yeah that's super tame, I'll do that," but at the time I was taught to be disgusted with myself.  I ended up straight up trying to aversion-therapy myself out of it, and I started doing the same with this fetish too.  If someone offered to do shock therapy on me to get rid of it, my parents would've taken the offer and I probably would have accepted thinking I deserved it.

Now though I don't give a fuck.  I have the right to own these things.

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For many years, even some of my early adult years when they DON'T expect you to completely deny that side of yourself (like seriously), I would fight it and wish that it was gone, and even imagine in my head that I was killing it in almost a similar way to how Stan killed Bill Cipher (best example I could think of). I won't say my exact age but I was over 25 when I embraced it and joined this site.

And it becomes a fetish easily because people made up a whole bunch of "rules of the universe" about wetting being shameful and all that, some even saying it's inherently sexual. But sadly, for some reason, some people take it way further and say pee is as bad as necrophilia (which is NOT true, wetting is harmless, shouldn't be much different from getting wet with water, it's only embarrassing because people decided it was, even to many who love wetting in secret, like me - I love wetting when no one is around but I'd be mortified if anyone ever saw me doing it, deliberately or accidentally). It should be rated PG-13 at the highest as being tamer than nudity, but no, they had to make it as uncomfortable for everyone as possible, whether they are into pee or whether they (likely as a result of all this) absolutely hate pee, thus are afraid to say they have to go, and may end up wetting themselves as a result.

But, we all have the fetish and this wonderful site exists to help us feel at home and know we're not alone and that there is nothing wrong with us so long as we don't abuse it. If anyone is judgmental, that's either their problem or whoever brainwashed them.

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I sometimes wish this fetish to go away because it consumes too much of my time compared to the straight sex, or on a few occasions it has embarrassed me in public (without any lasting consequence though) or because the partner wasn't into it. But in the long term it is just that, the part of me, it just keeps coming back so I had to find the workarounds to every negative aspect of it and enjoy the positives.

It also comes and goes in waves for me. I may be enjoying it for a month or so, then it will disappear for, again, a month, only to come back later.

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Well my fetish started when I was way way you get them that! And I have often thought about what it would be like to not have it, however even if there was really a way to get rid of a fetish.. I would never get rid of my omo fetish! Even though sometimes it controls me completely and I literally can't help it, I would never change it because it's super sexy to me! 

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I can agree with what a lot of other people here said in that I don't think there's anything bad about the fetish or wrong or morally wrong about the fetish, but the inordinate amount of time that it takes up sometimes is truly unhealthy. I sometimes I get on these fetish binges where for like a week or more I can barely think about anything other than my fetish and the sexual frustration is truly maddening because I have very little outlet for it. I'm not balanced about it at all. But like some I can go sometimes weeks or months without really thinking about it all that much but other times is just so all-consuming that I can barely function in all honesty and I don't feel that I do it in a healthy degree of moderation. And sometimes I think given that that's a fetish that's focused on enjoying pain and humiliation that is perhaps a sign that it's an unhealthy fetish altogether. So I definitely have had thoughts like that.


And when you have a real minority sexual interest it makes it almost impossible to find partners. Like to me my primary turn on is a full bladder and sexual intercourse in and of itself really doesn't interest me all that much.

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On 8/14/2022 at 12:25 PM, Espor said:

Hello Everyone,
I am sometimes struggling with the omorashi fetish. I had one girlfriend who wet herself for me, one who judged me for it and one whi lightly judged me and told me she would never do anything omorashi related with me. This fetish is still seen as very strange and I think way less accepted than for example bdsm. And especially in Germany there seems to be almost no place for that. I sometimes even wonder why watching a woman wet herself turns me on so much, but well, it does.

Sometimes I thought I may have just seen too much pornographic media, some people claim your taste would get more and more odd.
But that isn't really the case. I began to love that when I was about 13 and read in youth magacines about accidents of girls after having one myself. So I guess it is not just grown because of consume of pornographic media, it seems to belong to me. 
But does it have to be this way? Will I always have the feeling to maybe miss out on something if my girlfriend wouldn't share this rare love for omorashi?
Couldn't I just stop liking it, fantasizing about it? Obviously not. I was not even able to stop wetting myself - I never was so much into my own pee but still like to pee myself when watching women doing the same thing. 

Did you ever want to stop fantasizing about Omorashi or doing it? Did it work for a time?
What do you think about that?

Sorry to hear that you struggle with your love for omo. And I‘d like to add to others here in saying that I don‘t see any reason why you should feel bad about it. Over the years I have become very much at peace with this side of me and I enjoy it to the fullest. And to answer to your question: No I never wished that my fetish would go away. But on the other hand it also never limited or controlled me in any way.

Also congrats that you had the courage to open up to your girlfriends at all 👍. It took me quite a bit longer to confess this special interest to my wife but luckily she reacted rather positively (let‘s  just say I should have asked waaaaaay earlier.😜). But also during the years when I enjoyed my fetish secretly by myself I wouldn’t say that I was less happy. There are more important things in a relationship.

Why do you think that especially here in Germany there is no place for it? There seem to be quite a number of German people here (myself included, Hallo). Also culturally we are much more relaxed when it comes to peeing in general (I think you really have to make an effort to get into serious trouble with the law for e.g. peeing in public here).

What is true though is that in recent years, there aren’t that many active German online platforms around wetting anymore than there used to be. Nevertheless, I wouldn’t say that omo is more or less odd than any other fetish. Maybe just less talked about?

21 hours ago, LifeIsStrange said:

I thought Germans in general were into really extreme porn though? So it seems really odd that they wouldn't be into omo.

Huh, what makes you think that we do? And what defines „really extreme porn“?

Just curious …

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54 minutes ago, HereToStay said:

Sorry to hear that you struggle with your love for omo. And I‘d like to add to others here in saying that I don‘t see any reason why you should feel bad about it. Over the years I have become very much at peace with this side of me and I enjoy it to the fullest. And to answer to your question: No I never wished that my fetish would go away. But on the other hand it also never limited or controlled me in any way.

Also congrats that you had the courage to open up to your girlfriends at all 👍. It took me quite a bit longer to confess this special interest to my wife but luckily she reacted rather positively (let‘s  just say I should have asked waaaaaay earlier.😜). But also during the years when I enjoyed my fetish secretly by myself I wouldn’t say that I was less happy. There are more important things in a relationship.

Why do you think that especially here in Germany there is no place for it? There seem to be quite a number of German people here (myself included, Hallo). Also culturally we are much more relaxed when it comes to peeing in general (I think you really have to make an effort to get into serious trouble with the law for e.g. peeing in public here).

What is true though is that in recent years, there aren’t that many active German online platforms around wetting anymore than there used to be. Nevertheless, I wouldn’t say that omo is more or less odd than any other fetish. Maybe just less talked about?

Huh, what makes you think that we do? And what defines „really extreme porn“?

Just curious …

Because i've seen several TV shows make jokes about how nasty German porn is(by extreme I mean "involves a lot of scat"), like this: 

 

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14 minutes ago, LifeIsStrange said:

Because i've seen several TV shows make jokes about how nasty German porn is(by extreme I mean "involves a lot of scat"), like this: 

 

Lol, if Family Guy is your primary source of evidence, I can’t argue with that 😂.

But no, European or German porn in General does not involve a lot of scat. You would have to specifically search for it as in any other country.

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Just now, HereToStay said:

Lol, if Family Guy is your primary source of evidence, I can’t argue with that 😂.

But no, European or German porn in General does not involve a lot of scat. You would have to specifically search for it.

Not just that show, i've seen other shows and films make the same kinds of jokes, that was just the one that immediately came to mind and was easiest to find.

It's just surprising to me that a European country would be close-minded in regards to omo as I keep hearing about how much more open-minded Europe is compared to the USA.

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2 minutes ago, LifeIsStrange said:

Not just that show, i've seen other shows and films make the same kinds of jokes, that was just the one that immediately came to mind and was easiest to find.

It's just surprising to me that a European country would be close-minded in regards to omo as I keep hearing about how much more open-minded Europe is compared to the USA.

No worries, just kidding with the Family Guy response. 😉

I‘ve also been in the USA for longer periods of time and it does seem that we are a bit more relaxed when it comes to nudity, sex or peeing and talking about it. Therefore, I also don’t think that we are more or less close-minded when it cones to omo. Would be interesting to have some statistics though…

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14 minutes ago, HereToStay said:

Lol, if Family Guy is your primary source of evidence, I can’t argue with that 😂.

But no, European or German porn in General does not involve a lot of scat. You would have to specifically search for it as in any other country.

All I can say is that, the first two scat video clips I ever saw were both using German speaking, actors and actresses. 🤪

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52 minutes ago, TheLoneRange said:

All I can say is that, the first two scat video clips I ever saw were both using German speaking, actors and actresses. 🤪

Well, I don’t know if that was a coincidence or if there is indeed a strong German scat video industry. I‘m not active in this playing field. All I can say is that also in Germany omo, messing and scat are very much small niches and probably not more generally accepted as for example in the USA. Same as I also don’t believe that in Australia wetting is more generally accepted because Wet Set Magazine originated there.

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I don't believe that your taste gets more strange by watching more porn. Most people tell that they discover their fetish quite early, or something like: "I've always known it deep inside.

To answer the question, No I never wish it would go away, wetting/pissing kind of "saved my life". Just so you are warned, this is going to be a long one, and there might be explicit descriptions.
Well.. I was raised in the 90's I consider myself lucky to live in a country where you are pretty free, also regarding pornography and sex. Sex would be something that was okay to discuss even in a young age, even in public. But... that kind of also had a downside. We had little to no sexual education back then, 95% of it was about girls period and the last 5 % was basically wear a condom. We did have very little material describing fetishes, but since everything was discussed so openly, this material was written in a humorous way almost like it was ment to be something you would laugh at. Well.. people did and it had the opposite effect, everyone tried to be 120% "normal", even something as normal as being gay, was something you'd get bullied with back then, at leased where I'm living. Anyhow, every other boy in my class at school had early experiences, some of them with girls some of them alone. I had none... it did not work out. They told about their first climax, in explicit details... they told about their gigantic boners etc.. That never happened to me. For a period of my early teen years I really thought that I was impotent. It was really hard. There were no internet in the common home back then, not where I liv that is, so porn was in magazines, which you wouldn't buy, they were quite expensive and it was also kind of embarrassing etc.. you know. Another solution was a channel on tv actually a free public channel, every night after 23:00 they'd show porn. But really old fashioned porn, where the actresses would have HUGE silicone boobs, fake faces, 100 tons of make-up and they'd mostly just sit and tough them self while licking a dildo, trying to look cheap, or something like that it was disgusting. Disgusting way to display a woman in my humble opinion. Anyhow at sleep overs the other guys would want to watch that, and compare boners (lame I know but you know.. boys) ..with the underpants still on that is.. again, did not work for me I was pretty much dead down there. So I was bullied...

One summer we were camping in the garden of one of my classmates' house. I was paired with a couple of girls, "lucky me", they were the popular once, and I was friend zoned big time, and none of the boys wanted me to join so here I was. One night before sleeping, the subject of sex etc.. came up, the convocation led to them wanted to see me "hard" through the underpants, to see if I was hiding something "large" since I for obvious reasons did not go around and brag. They looked disappointed at me because again nothing happened.. they even tried to make out!!!!! to make something happen, I literally had a stroke, but I did not get a single bit "aroused" even though I wanted to be "normal" SO bad for just one night!. I was crushed.

Then by accident I discovered pissing and later wetting.. and it changed my whole life!
I still remember the day, I was supposed to study for biology, it was about a year later and we had just had internet installed. Plus I had gotten a PC and a connection in my own room. So I was browsing the internet instead of studying. I was actually browsing a internetsite where you could buy all kinds of stuff. I was looking for some winter clothing(no name because it only existed in my country back then). Then suddenly I saw a picture from a private seller who sold women's underwear, I clicked for some reason, he also by chance sold toilet mats, there picture of the product was a girl on the toilet, you could obviously only see the legs and feet, but you could see the toilet in the background. For some reason I was drawn to the picture, it lit something inside me. Just by looking at that picture I got the urge to find pictures of girls on the toilet, which let to pissing and wetting. I discovered patches place (I believe it's called, it was so many years ago). I was for the first time of my life genuinely turned on. Not long after I also climaxed for the first time. Everything that for years had seemed SO hard were suddenly SO so easy. It all came so naturally after that. Even though it is a strange fetish to many, it made me feel normal. It boosted my confidence so much. And from that time and forward, I did not care about what anyone else thought. Of course I did not go and tell people, but it was my thing! 

And I never wanted it to go away.

I have also had multiple partners, some I told, some I didn't. But in parts of my life where I did not have a supportive partner I just enjoyed it by myself.

Great topic 🙂 

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@Ms. Tito

"The Japanese take it even further in both live action porn and hentai."

I have to admit my perverted mind saw this I thought Germany and Japan did a lot of bad things during World War II and thought then they said what can we do to make it up to the world, give them something really good and thus new forms of porn were born! I seriously do love Japan though, and I think it should be common knowledge in this community it is big in Japan, omorashi is after all a Japanese term.

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On 8/14/2022 at 12:25 PM, Espor said:

Hello Everyone,
I am sometimes struggling with the omorashi fetish. I had one girlfriend who wet herself for me, one who judged me for it and one whi lightly judged me and told me she would never do anything omorashi related with me. This fetish is still seen as very strange and I think way less accepted than for example bdsm. And especially in Germany there seems to be almost no place for that. I sometimes even wonder why watching a woman wet herself turns me on so much, but well, it does.

Sometimes I thought I may have just seen too much pornographic media, some people claim your taste would get more and more odd.
But that isn't really the case. I began to love that when I was about 13 and read in youth magacines about accidents of girls after having one myself. So I guess it is not just grown because of consume of pornographic media, it seems to belong to me. 
But does it have to be this way? Will I always have the feeling to maybe miss out on something if my girlfriend wouldn't share this rare love for omorashi?
Couldn't I just stop liking it, fantasizing about it? Obviously not. I was not even able to stop wetting myself - I never was so much into my own pee but still like to pee myself when watching women doing the same thing. 

Did you ever want to stop fantasizing about Omorashi or doing it? Did it work for a time?
What do you think about that?

Kann ich verstehen, in Deutschland machen das nicht viele.

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sometimes I have a little guilt for having this fetish, because I know that as a sexual impulse there are few justifications for having it, in fact I'm not even sure why I like it, but I really don't regret it, it's true that it happens to me from when I i pee and finish then say oh my god what a mess i made i need to clean this up asap and i shouldn't do it again (and then another day when i'm horny i forget and do it again) and still i don't regret liking it the omorashi in almost all its variants.

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10 hours ago, DesperateJill said:

I can agree with what a lot of other people here said in that I don't think there's anything bad about the fetish or wrong or morally wrong about the fetish, but the inordinate amount of time that it takes up sometimes is truly unhealthy. I sometimes I get on these fetish binges where for like a week or more I can barely think about anything other than my fetish and the sexual frustration is truly maddening because I have very little outlet for it. I'm not balanced about it at all. But like some I can go sometimes weeks or months without really thinking about it all that much but other times is just so all-consuming that I can barely function in all honesty and I don't feel that I do it in a healthy degree of moderation. And sometimes I think given that that's a fetish that's focused on enjoying pain and humiliation that is perhaps a sign that it's an unhealthy fetish altogether. So I definitely have had thoughts like that.


And when you have a real minority sexual interest it makes it almost impossible to find partners. Like to me my primary turn on is a full bladder and sexual intercourse in and of itself really doesn't interest me all that much.

Yes it is a frustrating fetish, in regards to finding a proper release for it. But not as much as other fetishes sometimes are, so we're lucky in this regard.

I also find that the feeling of the full bladder is satisfying on its own, without leading to intercourse. On some occasions I did the hold with the partner, we ended up cuddling, touching and caressing each other afterwards but not moving on further.

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