Pollock25 16 Posted August 12, 2022 Share Posted August 12, 2022 Has anyone ever admitted to a stranger that they’re desperate for the toilet? blakgrlmajic91 and Alex62 1 1 Quote Link to comment
Vect0r 3 Posted August 15, 2022 Share Posted August 15, 2022 (edited) Based on how nobody has commented on this imma say no Edited August 15, 2022 by Vect0r (see edit history) PeeLovebug 1 Quote Link to comment
strokeknight2 582 Posted August 15, 2022 Share Posted August 15, 2022 No. It's really messed up to involve strangers in your kink without their consent. Alex62 and behara 1 1 Quote Link to comment
Amiff 3 Posted August 15, 2022 Share Posted August 15, 2022 17 hours ago, strokeknight2 said: No. It's really messed up to involve strangers in your kink without their consent. You say that like urinating is a choice. There may be times when one has to admit they're desperate so they can ask for the restroom or they risk actually wetting themselves, getting your panties in a twist over this makes no fucking sense whatsoever. Quote Link to comment
wether 578 Posted August 15, 2022 Share Posted August 15, 2022 Maybe not directly what you ask about, but numerous times I have heard a girl/woman complaining to her friend/collegue she needs to pee so loudly that I had no problem hearing it, too. PeeLovebug, blakgrlmajic91, Mary127 and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment
Renatatswet 9,723 Posted August 16, 2022 ✨ Legendary Member Popular Post Share Posted August 16, 2022 On 8/15/2022 at 2:58 AM, strokeknight2 said: No. It's really messed up to involve strangers in your kink without their consent. Aren't you a bit quick to judge? Who says it's for the kink? I have for instance asked a bus driver when the next stop was going to be because I was desperate. That is not involving anyone in my kink. I was genuinely concerned I was going to piss myself on his bus and didn't want that to happen. potte, SecretWetter97, blakgrlmajic91 and 13 others 15 1 Quote Link to comment
potte 156 Posted August 16, 2022 Share Posted August 16, 2022 42 minutes ago, Renatatswet said: Aren't you a bit quick to judge? Who says it's for the kink? I have for instance asked a bus driver when the next stop was going to be because I was desperate. That is not involving anyone in my kink. I was genuinely concerned I was going to piss myself on his bus and didn't want that to happen. Yeah, that's a natural thing. I mean even if you did enjoy telling a stranger I don't see how it could offend anyone. With that said I haven't told a stranger that I was desperate. I have never admit to anyone other than this forum that I was desperate. I would always try to act as calm and controlled in public, if I were to ask for directions to the bathroom, I don't know why. But I've had others tell me many times on my former job. TimmyTrihard69, SirPAlot, PeeLovebug and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment
OmoKittyCrysta 112 Posted August 16, 2022 Share Posted August 16, 2022 I’ve sometimes asked for a bathroom, but didn’t say I was desperate, I looked fine but inside I can be really desperate. When that “Stranger” tells me I go, squirming. PeeLovebug and Finn is Sleepy 2 Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted August 16, 2022 Share Posted August 16, 2022 Well, I asked strangers a few times, if they know where the nearest public bathroom is, when I was desperate to pee and looking for a bathroom, trying not to have a wetting accident. Quote Link to comment
TheLoneRanger 314 Posted August 16, 2022 Share Posted August 16, 2022 I had a stranger yesterday ask me if I knew where the toilet was. I didn't think he was into anything other than being a stranger in a place he didn't know. My best experience was being stuck in traffic. It had taken two hours to get to the nearest McDonald. In a time that would normally take two minutes. My desperation was real, I managed to hold it and get to the toilet without having an accident. As I'm leaving the toilet area a lady is quickly walking in, our eyes met as I held the door open for her, in that split second, it was as if I knew her life story. Yes she kept her dignity, no she did not appear to have enjoyed her extra two hours hold. Mary127 and theAnalyzer 2 Quote Link to comment
WBxx 219 Posted August 16, 2022 Share Posted August 16, 2022 In a park ten or so years ago two teenage girls approached with one nervously asking where the nearest bathroom was. I pointed and they made a beeline for the facility. Guess I could be wrong, but didn’t get the impression they were involving me in their kink. theAnalyzer and TheLoneRanger 2 Quote Link to comment
strokeknight2 582 Posted August 16, 2022 Share Posted August 16, 2022 7 hours ago, Renatatswet said: Aren't you a bit quick to judge? Who says it's for the kink? I have for instance asked a bus driver when the next stop was going to be because I was desperate. That is not involving anyone in my kink. I was genuinely concerned I was going to piss myself on his bus and didn't want that to happen. There was no context in the post, and this is a fetish site. There are clearly situations, like yours, where it's totally harmless to bring it up so a stranger. Bedwettingchik12 and Alex62 1 1 Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,793 Posted August 16, 2022 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted August 16, 2022 Admitting you have to pee to a stranger has nothing to do with the fetish even if you have a fetish. It wouldn't necessarily be a weird thing. I am sure there are plenty of people who have no fetish who are around strangers and admit to one another that they have to pee. During my job I was in numerous situations where I communicated with members of the public where I mentioned that I needed to go to the bathroom and strangely enough even chatted about the fact that I wasn't peeing all day. Really annoyingly though was that one of them actually left the park and went home to go to the bathroom and then came back later and was chatting with me and I never got a chance to go to the bathroom as I wasn't able to leave the park. That was rather awkward and frustrating and I think that they were fascinated by my situation. But there have been other situations where I had been waiting in line with people or around other people who clearly needed to go to the bathroom and we discussed mutually the fact that we needed to go to the bathroom. I am sure that they didn't think that it had any fetish implications. CarmenCD, potte, blakgrlmajic91 and 2 others 4 1 Quote Link to comment
Renatatswet 9,723 Posted August 16, 2022 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted August 16, 2022 16 minutes ago, strokeknight2 said: There was no context in the post, and this is a fetish site. There are clearly situations, like yours, where it's totally harmless to bring it up so a stranger. Well, then you shouldn't immediately jump to the conclusion that the intension was wrong! I always give people the benefit of the doubt, until proven differently... Quote Link to comment
Guest Posted August 18, 2022 Share Posted August 18, 2022 (edited) No, but I can see why someone would. Would be incredibly sexy if some stranger told me they really needed to pee, tho ^^, On 8/15/2022 at 2:58 AM, strokeknight2 said: No. It's really messed up to involve strangers in your kink without their consent. What's with this recent trend of people assuming the worst possible intentions when someone makes an innocent OP with a request? OP: "So has anyone had some really god chocolate bars lately?" Reply: "WTF I don't condone shoplifting candy, mods plz close." Edited August 18, 2022 by Hopeful (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,793 Posted August 18, 2022 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted August 18, 2022 @LizJWetting "It's fairly normal in various situations to ask someone where the nearest toilets are. I generally wouldn't mention anything about being desperate though, there's no need to say that." I probably wouldn't say I was desperate either but if someone brought it up I would probably admit I had to go really bad but there is sort of an embarrassing self-conscious feeling admitting to somebody that you need to go to the bathroom, especially if they also don't have to go to the bathroom or you are in a situation where you can't use the bathroom. It's not like you are getting out of that situation anytime soon, so simply letting them know that you have to go to the bathroom is sort of like knowledge they didn't need to have but now that they have could be thinking about it. Again probably a person without this fetish wouldn't feel self-conscious about it though. Shoshana 1 Quote Link to comment
wetchris 208 Posted August 24, 2022 Share Posted August 24, 2022 A friend and I once shared a taxi with a stranger because trains were cancelled. We both needed the toilet but because I have a weak bladder I was in real trouble and couldn't keep still. The stranger obviously realised my predicament and said something like "dreadful when you need to piss so bad." As he got out of the taxi he said "hope you make it mate.". By this time I was being forced to hold myself through my trousers. Quote Link to comment
petitewonder 480 Posted August 26, 2022 Share Posted August 26, 2022 I think the only time I've done so is out of commiseration in response to someone else telling me they're desperate for the toilet (like if we're both stuck in a long line or something). I'd be too embarrassed to bring it up myself due to scolding and criticisms I got when I was younger. I don't know if this is the case for everyone, but in my experience, plenty of other women have said this to me, the same way they'd ask if I had a tampon or a pad handy. blakgrlmajic91 1 Quote Link to comment
TimmyTrihard69 366 Posted August 26, 2022 Share Posted August 26, 2022 I’ll say it sometimes if I suspect someone also might have the link to try to get a reaction, but generally I’m scared to admit to having to pee because internally it feels like I’ll be found out for talking about it blakgrlmajic91 1 Quote Link to comment
pantstain 8 Posted August 27, 2022 Share Posted August 27, 2022 Sometimes I'll go out to a familiar restaurant or bar where I can build a rapport with a bartender or waitress, and in conversation I'll talk about how I pissed myself at some occasion. They don't have to know it's a kink and, because I'm not staging an accident, there's nothing to clean up. Sometimes the fun is having a reputation for pissing yourself and the familiarity you share is the gift that keeps on giving. Quote Link to comment
blakgrlmajic91 152 Posted October 21, 2022 Share Posted October 21, 2022 On 8/26/2022 at 11:16 AM, TimmyTrihard69 said: I’ll say it sometimes if I suspect someone also might have the link to try to get a reaction, but generally I’m scared to admit to having to pee because internally it feels like I’ll be found out for talking about it This right here! This is how I feel about it. TimmyTrihard69 and Hedonist 1 1 Quote Link to comment
blakgrlmajic91 152 Posted October 21, 2022 Share Posted October 21, 2022 On 8/12/2022 at 4:08 PM, Pollock25 said: Has anyone ever admitted to a stranger that they’re desperate for the toilet? So I love this question…first of all. Secondly not a stranger. I am too shy. But actually now that I think about it I may have a couple of times but I don’t know if I let them know how bad I had to go. I usually tell them if I’m at the pee pee dance stage and it’s obvious and awkward and they bring it up. Now this is something I have wanted to do. It is on my goal list in the hopes I can overcome being so shy about admitting it. Quote Link to comment
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