DamnDamien 1 Posted July 7, 2022 Share Posted July 7, 2022 Hi everyone! I'm super new to any of this and especially diapers. I tried wearing pull-ups for the first time yesterday (go me), but I found it really hard to actually use them without having to have an accident. I would love to just be able to pee when i felt the need, but I can't seem to make my body feel the same way. Does anyone have some advice they wanna share on how to get used to actually using them? Thank you in advance - Teddy rachelkirwan 1 Quote Link to comment
FluffyCloud 7 Posted July 9, 2022 Share Posted July 9, 2022 (edited) If you're having troubles letting go into the pull-up then you can try sitting with them on the toilet or standing with them in the shower (works better if you're already used to peeing in the shower) to familiarise your body that it's ok to let go into one. Just generally being desperate will help you get past that shy bladder threshold more easily. Edited July 9, 2022 by FluffyCloud (see edit history) RDFan2020 and chimera 2 Quote Link to comment
WeekendWetter 12 Posted July 9, 2022 Share Posted July 9, 2022 Practice makes perfect I think. Put them on and just get used to the feeling of it while dry. Drink a bunch of water or something and remember, relax don't push. If you're struggling try to do something to distract yourself i.e. not wetting related nappypants 1 Quote Link to comment
andrewWetter 331 Posted July 10, 2022 Share Posted July 10, 2022 Welcome to the wonderful padded world @DamnDamien I think a pretty universal challenge for most of us as we start out… after so many years of training our body to hold back (despite the pressure or pain of our full bladders) if we are still in our clothing, suddenly we are saying - “hey forget all of that, it’s ok to pee anyway”.. It will certainly help to be quite desperate for a pee, but then you can try a few different options to get started… either sit on the toilet, with pull-up on and relax until your body lets it go…. Or you could stand/sit in the shower or bathtub to let it happen. Your body might be more relaxed there and it could take less effort. You’ll get there in no time, and you will likely also learn to appreciate this wonderful sensation of filling diapers! 🤙🤙💦 nappypants 1 Quote Link to comment
RDFan2020 77 Posted August 1, 2022 Share Posted August 1, 2022 Closing your eyes (or looking off into the distance (or up at the clouds on a cloudy day)) and pretending that you are on (or standing next to) a toilet (or a urinal) can also help. That often worked for me in my mid 20s when I used to wear Goodnites off and on back in the early 2000s when I was studying in France for a year. Quote Link to comment
vincp44 500 Posted August 1, 2022 Share Posted August 1, 2022 On a side note, Teddy - why did you label your post "female"? LuierDraakje 1 Quote Link to comment
chimera 107 Posted August 2, 2022 Share Posted August 2, 2022 On 7/9/2022 at 3:52 AM, FluffyCloud said: If you're having troubles letting go into the pull-up then you can try sitting with them on the toilet or standing with them in the shower (works better if you're already used to peeing in the shower) to familiarise your body that it's ok to let go into one. Just generally being desperate will help you get past that shy bladder threshold more easily. Exactly sit on the toilet and do whatever else you do when you normally pee. If that doesn't work imagine the pee coming out soaking the diaper. Don't worry. If it overflows it will just go in the toilet. Quote Link to comment
TheLoneRanger 314 Posted August 13, 2022 Share Posted August 13, 2022 There is always a chance the ones you bought are too small. Quote Link to comment
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