SadisticSwitch 151 Posted June 8, 2022 Share Posted June 8, 2022 Hey fellow omorashi fans! So I actually most often use wetting and holding as ways to combat stress and shame. It makes me more acutely aware of my body and I like the feeling of it being "ok" to do something socially frowned on but doesn't hurt anyone. Of course I also enjoy a sexual aspect, but I mostly indulge that with my girlfriend, whereas the stress part I do on my own or with friends who have no romantic attachment to me. Are there others who have this duality too, that it isn't just a fetish but also a socio-emotional tool for acceptance and stress relief? How common is it to have a non-sexual aspect to it, and how do you people experience it? Quote Link to comment
pftish 174 Posted June 8, 2022 Share Posted June 8, 2022 it may not be the same thing, but I remember that I chatted with a girl many many years ago, she had many mental problems, including anorexia, panic disorder and social phobia .. so when she had to buy food or something, and for to avoid panic attack in the store, she put on a diaper before she left, and as soon as she felt the attack start to come, she just peed in the diaper .. and it made her calm down SadisticSwitch, WetOregonWoman, nappypants and 1 other 1 3 Quote Link to comment
HereToStay 1,298 Posted June 8, 2022 Share Posted June 8, 2022 Hm. In my case the sexual aspect and the naughtiness is always there and the primary reason to indulge in wet fun. Can’t remember a purely stress related wetting that did not turn me on. But I admit that it is also super relaxing, warm and comforting to casually let go and just don’t care. Especially after holding and feeling desperate for a bit, which is kinda self inflicted stress to make the relief even more worthwhile and relaxing.😊 1 hour ago, SadisticSwitch said: Of course I also enjoy a sexual aspect, but I mostly indulge that with my girlfriend, whereas the stress part I do on my own or with friends who have no romantic attachment to me. So you have friends that enjoy wetting themselves together with you? That sounds interesting. SadisticSwitch 1 Quote Link to comment
WetDave 650 Posted June 8, 2022 Share Posted June 8, 2022 I find it quite good for relieving stress. If I’ve had a hard and stressful day at work when I get home I’ll relax in my chair and wet myself. SadisticSwitch 1 Quote Link to comment
SoggyShorts 815 Posted June 8, 2022 Share Posted June 8, 2022 Wetting is a tremendous stress relief for me; holding, however, is just a means to an end. When I feel stressed, going out and doing a public wetting, or wetting my bed at night, is a sure-fire way to make me feel relaxed. I don't typically wear diapers, though. When I pee in my pants, they get wet, and that's all there is to it. SadisticSwitch 1 Quote Link to comment
MaleOmoFan94 169 Posted June 8, 2022 Share Posted June 8, 2022 There is something quite relaxing about just relaxing and emptying a full bladder wherever you happen to be. However, that's just my personal openion. For some people, wetting just feels relaxing and that's fine. SadisticSwitch and nappypants 1 1 Quote Link to comment
NerdyGayBoy 363 Posted June 9, 2022 Share Posted June 9, 2022 I grew up in an incredibly strict environment and under a lot of pressure to be perfect all the time. That sort of mentality continued throughout my early adulthood and still exists but to a lesser extent. The concept of being able to make a mistake and the idea of someone else comforting me is the biggest appeal of it. Even if I have to imagine that stuff, it feels nice. It's not too common, but I'm lucky when I find people who are into the same thing. Not necessarily romantic partners, but FWB usually. Anything where I don't have to be in control and perfect has the potential to be appealing to me. I want to be able to express my emotions without judgement when I do make mistakes. petitewonder, MaleOmoFan94 and SadisticSwitch 2 1 Quote Link to comment
MaleOmoFan94 169 Posted June 9, 2022 Share Posted June 9, 2022 I wonder if there is some kind of connection between trauma in our early years, pressure to be perfect, and general stress and either bladder problems and omo. People who are under a lot of stress often have physical problems and perhaps that could include bladder or bowel issues. Our bodies do strange things when we are stressed and everyone's brain is wired differently, so perhaps other fetishes are the result of stress and trauma as well. Maybe, wetting is so relaxing because it's a way of letting tension go and as adults we can get away with it. I also think it just feels good to do something that adults just aren't supposed to do. Perhaps, the world would be a less stressful place if wetting ourselves as a form of stress relief was socially acceptable. petitewonder, Nc-runner-guy, NerdyGayBoy and 2 others 3 2 Quote Link to comment
NerdyGayBoy 363 Posted June 10, 2022 Share Posted June 10, 2022 10 hours ago, MaleOmoFan94 said: I wonder if there is some kind of connection between trauma in our early years, pressure to be perfect, and general stress and either bladder problems and omo. People who are under a lot of stress often have physical problems and perhaps that could include bladder or bowel issues. Our bodies do strange things when we are stressed and everyone's brain is wired differently, so perhaps other fetishes are the result of stress and trauma as well. Maybe, wetting is so relaxing because it's a way of letting tension go and as adults we can get away with it. I also think it just feels good to do something that adults just aren't supposed to do. Perhaps, the world would be a less stressful place if wetting ourselves as a form of stress relief was socially acceptable. I know when I was younger, I would be really anxious that I wouldn't be able to find a bathroom when I go somewhere like an unfamiliar place. So it would make me have to go more often. All of that irritated my bladder and made me get used to needing to go more often. My family would get irritated and make fun of me a lot, and it made me feel bad. Eventually when I was about 15 or 16 I got tired of it. So rather than asking them to stop, I just did my best to hold it. It didn't always work perfectly, and it was really stressful. All this definitely influenced my kinks in a big way. Especially because when I was on long car rides trying not to have to ask to stop, I'd distract myself by thinking of attractive guys. But I found myself starting to think of them in my situation to make myself feel better and less like a disappointment. SadisticSwitch 1 Quote Link to comment
Cristiano97 300 Posted June 10, 2022 Share Posted June 10, 2022 I use it more for sexual reasons, to tell the truth I usually masturbate after urinating and at the same time I usually masturbate to fall asleep more easily and well from time to time when I'm lying in bed and I feel comfortable but not enough to fall asleep and since I haven't touched you yet, well, I tell myself, I'd better pee on myself a little and then nothing, I let it out. Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,406 Posted June 11, 2022 Share Posted June 11, 2022 (edited) On 6/9/2022 at 6:09 PM, MaleOmoFan94 said: I wonder if there is some kind of connection between trauma in our early years, pressure to be perfect, and general stress and either bladder problems and omo. People who are under a lot of stress often have physical problems and perhaps that could include bladder or bowel issues. Our bodies do strange things when we are stressed and everyone's brain is wired differently, so perhaps other fetishes are the result of stress and trauma as well. Maybe, wetting is so relaxing because it's a way of letting tension go and as adults we can get away with it. I also think it just feels good to do something that adults just aren't supposed to do. Perhaps, the world would be a less stressful place if wetting ourselves as a form of stress relief was socially acceptable. Yeah, as discussed before, we're initially conditioned to go to the toilet in our pants then a few years later told not to. That must have its psychological impact, as well as the "holding it" culture which means we can't always relieve ourselves quickly and easily. There is an intensely liberating feeling associated with just letting go in your pants/diaper, which must be connected to the above! Edited June 11, 2022 by nappypants (see edit history) MaleOmoFan94 and SadisticSwitch 1 1 Quote Link to comment
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