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Told my partner I'm into this


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One of my ex gfs asked me if i have kinks as she told me about two or three she likes. So i thought i should tell her because she seemed very open minded. And i was right about that. She told me she never tried it but mostly she loves kinks more if she can arouse her partner with it.

So on another day i was at her place. She didnt clear up the place but idc about that. She even had a old towel lying around. We made us a nice day and at the evening drank wine. 

After that she was a little... lets say tipsy? Things got also a little naughty. As she wanted to arouse me she just said "i need to pee. I know excactly what ill do!" Now she stood up and went to her towel. She stood on it and well.. just went in her wonderful tight light blue jeans. 

SHe only did it that one time. She liked it but its nothing to do often in her opinion. Well and 6 months later we broke up :3 

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I have told both my wives (NOT simultaneous wives, I'm a serial monogamist.). My ex pretended she was interested and then used it against me.  (Luckily, I survived.) My current wife didn't do more than not talk about it (or anything sexual) for a few weeks. Then she said she didn't like /want anything to do with it. 

To be fair, a lot of her issues have to do with being brought up in a religious household in which everything was wrong and being abused by a maternal grandparent. 

I am glad for anyone whose partner(s) are accepting of them. 

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Congrats! That's a nerve-wracking experience.  I told my ex about it and had trouble getting the words out because I was so scared.  Thankfully she wasn't judgmental.  She told me that was harmless compared to what she thought I was going to say 😂 

She did hold for me a lot but only wet for me a couple times.  She was a little nervous to try it but I think she was into it.  Unfortunately we broke up before we could have too much fun.

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Congrats, @AlwaysOmo! It's a precious thing to have a partner who you can be honest with. i think a lot of relationships suffer due to a lack of healthy, honest communication. Emphasis on healthy honesty (because assholes love to claim that being rude to everyone is "honest"). Your partner is someone you love, and who loves you. 💗 Worst case, if there's some awkwardness, you should both be eager to work it out and be happy. That's what good couples do. 

Unfortunately, there are too many good people in relationships with ... people who are not-so-good 😅 or have simply never stopped to think about these things. It's something that should really be covered in social studies in school (although i question how much of a positive impact today's schools can really have, in this end-stage capitalist dystopia of a world). 

(Anyway ... enough of my political bitterness. 😅😬) i'm happy for you! You are indeed very lucky. Not just for the pee acceptance, but to have someone good! i haven't touched a human being even once (not even a handshake) since February 2020. Take it from me: loneliness is a shitty thing. You find unusual ways to handle it, but it's never easy. Cherish your blessing! ^ ^

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P.S. @AlwaysOmo - forgive me, i'm a baka. Just realized i didn't answer your request! 😂

i haven't ever really had to bring up pee with a partner before. But i have taken a gamble on admitting to an interest in ... other bathroom-related desires before 😳🚽😄, with two of them. In both cases, it went surprisingly well! The following is a generalization but i think nowadays, with so much porn of every imaginable kind and niche everywhere on the internet ... people are becoming a lot less hung-up than 10 to 30 years ago.

And because governments consistently demonstrate that they don't care about us or the survival of the planet ... i think many of us have internalized the message of "find what makes you happy, and hold onto it." Whether it's sexually or economically (sorry, my political bitterness is showing again www) ... we're way less into jumping through hoops and colouring within the lines, so to speak, than our parents' generation was. After all, doing so nowadays won't get you a house, spouse, family, car, stable job and a collection of quality pornography that heaven itself would envy. Nope ... things are rough, and almost entirely out of our hands. So it's up to us to make the best of whatever we've got. 

Life is long. But it's too short to waste on sexually repressing yourself. If a partner isn't into your favourite desire, OK ... but they should at least want you to be happy. This is the only life we're sure that we experience. Hopefully you can share it with someone. But whether coupled or alone: 

Find what makes you happy, and hold onto it. ✨💛  

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I have told five women none were turned off or had any issue with me peeing my pants.  Three were willing to wet themselves for me and one could not wet her pants but offered a golden shower which she did very well both giving and receiving.  One was very willing to pee herself, though it was intense and was surprised in her 38 years no one have ever asked her to pee herself.  The last girl just could not understand why I continued to do it as an adult.

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My ex didn't really like it for herself but she indulged me because she liked how much it turned me on. She'd occasionally wet herself for me and also a couple of times in my lap while making out. i loved that!

My current girlfriend wants nothing to do with it. Lucky for me she has the occasional real little accident. Mostly when coming home after a long ride on public transport or when she's tipsy. Sneezing also does it sometimes.

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I have told it to my partners. The first one did not like it and did not want to pee herself for me. She was brought up in a strict religion family, also usually sex was problem for her. 

The second one did not like it as well but she had some kinks too. So sometimes she peed for me or we palyed some roleplays with holding etc... sometimes I played what she liked. I could pee myself too, she did not have problem with it.

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With my previous partners, they were pretty negative about omo. One was absolutely horrible and tried telling all my circle of friends and even co-workers about my interest which was terrible. What a terrible gf haha but I learned from bad experiences.

But I also had partners who tried to pretend but weren't interested and they couldn't perform well at all.

I dunno, it just felt so depressing when one partner would drink a lot of tea and water for hours, then she strains herself and has her face all squished up trying hard to pee herself and cannot, then she goes into the toilet and I literally hear niagara falls lol. She even tried to pretend and say "Oh yeah I don't really feel like peeing I can't do it" then she turns on the facet to try to hide the sound of her peeing but it didn't. 

My current partner is really good, she'll surprise me and she can do omo really well and of course I will perform for her too. She loves it and gets extremely turned on from a long hold. It's much better now and we're much happier. 

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  • 1 month later...
On 5/17/2022 at 1:44 PM, KarenWets said:

I haven't had the nerve to tell my husband, but I have included him in a playful manner. I got into a tickle fight with him (ok, I started the tickle fight 😉 ) with some alcohol in my system and a somewhat full bladder. Obviously that didn't didn't stay dry very long (also because I made no effort to control my muscles down there). When I showed him what happened there was a lot more laughing and also more tickling from him. 

As people say, "actions speak louder than words". Him tickling me after he knew that I had already leaked... for me that means he's "in". Hubby just got himself invited to more wet fun, although he doesn't know that yet 🙂 

It's cool that your husband seems to enjoy your little leaks and damp panties. I think it's rare that a man is really disgusted by pee. In fact, every man dribbles a little in their underwear after urinating (even if we wipe with paper). So we are used to having our underwears a little damp every day. 😅🤭

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I never have to tell my partners about my kink. They all figure it out naturally just by being with me for a while. I’m not good at faking my reactions or emotions so anytime pee comes up in a conversation they can see my disproportionate intrigue. Ultimately, every single person I had relations with was open to engage in my love for desperation + wetting. 

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After 20 years of marriage, about 2 years ago I kind of told my wife about my fetish.

I mean, I told her about the more "water sporty" side of it but not about liking to wet myself in my clothes or wetting the bed. She toke it very nicely. She is not at all into it but had no problem let me watch her pee or pee on my hand but when we try it, it seems that she can not relax and release her bladder  in a situation like this. And it really annoy her to be desperate to pee and not being able to pee. So, for now, she let me watch sometimes when she pee in the toilet or outdoors so she can become more relaxed about the idea of peeing next to me.

We did, ones, a joined pee when she is seating on me, facing me, and I am seating on the toilet, which was really fun. Other two times she pee on my hand in the toilet.

I still don't have the  courage to tell her about how much I like wetting my pants and my bed. I do it only when I am home alone and just before I do the laundry.

We are happily marriage and have good sex life and I really appreciate her effort to try these thins for me.

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  • 2 weeks later...

i told my gf, she´s fine with me wetting myself, ond today she wet her jeans for me for the first time, she´s also peed on me and worn diapers. i told her guite early in our relationship, luckly she is very open to kinks, and have some of her own

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I think that in general, a good partner hears about their partners fetish and then imagines how they could make their partner feel with that knowledge.  There's something about being able to use your body to fulfill a partner's desires in a way that no one else does.  I hope as many people here as possible find that sort of person.

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