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One thing I've noticed about omorashi is that a vast majority of omo porn is female, desperation, wetting, peeing etc. However, something interesting I've noticed about when pee desperation is incorporated in non sexual media, usually for comedic relief, like in movies, tv shows and cartoons is that that a vast majority of desperation scenes involve males. This is particularly common in kids tv shows I've noticed. I can think of countless shows with scenes of male characters pee dancing, crotch grabbing and in some cases even wetting themselves. On the other hand I've noticed very few scenes of female desperation in media, and it's almost non existent in shows aimed at kids., I've always wondered why there is this big difference between sexual omorashi with predominantly females   vs desperation scenes in comedic, non sexual media with mostly males. I just wanted to get other people's thoughts on this. 

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I have thought about this so much but someone finally put it in words. I do have a theory about why this happens and it may be wrong but here ut goes.

What I think is that people already know that wetting yourself can be something sexual to some people. So they don't want a comedy scene to be seen as a sexual scene and hence avoid showing a girl wetting herself.

Now you may say that even male wetting can be sexual for some people. However, society has never really cared about sexualisation of men as much as it cares about sexualisation of women in popular media like movies, TV shows and books. So if a director wants to portray a comedy scene involving pee, they'll choose male over female.

Coming to why most of the 'good' omo porn is female, I guess there have been lots of topics regarding that in this forum. But basically, most of the surveys say that the majority of porn consumers are straight guys (Not sure how true that is) and so, most big porn production companies cater to them.

That being said, there are always exceptions. I have seen some great male omo porn and even seen girls peeing being used as a comedic relief(pun intended) in mainstream media. Out of the top of my mind, one of the instances was in the first episode of Dragon Ball when Bulma wet herself while hanging from a tree branch.

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4 minutes ago, ashishgamer said:

I have thought about this so much but someone finally put it in words. I do have a theory about why this happens and it may be wrong but here ut goes.

What I think is that people already know that wetting yourself can be something sexual to some people. So they don't want a comedy scene to be seen as a sexual scene and hence avoid showing a girl wetting herself.

Now you may say that even male wetting can be sexual for some people. However, society has never really cared about sexualisation of men as much as it cares about sexualisation of women in popular media like movies, TV shows and books. So if a director wants to portray a comedy scene involving pee, they'll choose male over female.

Coming to why most of the 'good' omo porn is female, I guess there have been lots of topics regarding that in this forum. But basically, most of the surveys say that the majority of porn consumers are straight guys (Not sure how true that is) and so, most big porn production companies cater to them.

That being said, there are always exceptions. I have seen some great male omo porn and even seen girls peeing being used as a comedic relief(pun intended) in mainstream media. Out of the top of my mind, one of the instances was in the first episode of Dragon Ball when Bulma wet herself while hanging from a tree branch.

Interesting theory about people thinking pee scenes can be sexual. I must strongly agree with you about society not caring about sexualised males compared to females.  For example, in media, men, and even boys are shown in their underwear as a joke. The act of a male in their underwear is supposed to be funny. When a woman is shown in her underwear on say a sitcom like Two And a Half Men, i find it's usually to convey to the viewer "Look how hot she is guys!". On a similar note females in kids shows are never shown in their underwear, but i can think of multiple examples of boys,( suite life of Zach and Cody, the Arthur cartoon, recess). Those scenes of minors in their underwear on tv never sat well with me, even if they were intended as jokes.

I think you're probably right about porn companies catering to straight men. However omorashi porn is like males are non existent. I can think of many companies that produce female omo, but none that produce male. It's not just videos, it's the art too. Like 95 percent of the omorashi pictures i see are of female. The exception i find is in amateur on sites like pornhub, where I see a fair bit of male video thumbnails. To be fair, i'm only into female omorashi, so i don't look for male, but even when browsing it doesn't come up often.

You mentioned the Dragonball Bulma scene, i think anime is a big exception to this theory. I know a lot of animes have peeing, desperation or wetting scenes. However anime tends to have a lot of "Fannservice", when compared to western media, so i think a good chunk of the peeing scenes might be intended as more sexual than comedic, as omorashi is very popular in japan. 

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This is a very good topic and it's something I have noticed and thought about this as well. I have also noticed this in regards to nudity, my other fetish, where female nudity is seen as inherently sexual whereas male nudity is seen for comic effect. Maybe I'm biased is a lesbian, but I think it's just as men are funny looking, whereas women are sexy looking, but it probably does go deeper than that. I think that with women pretty much everything is much more sexualized, so any scene of a woman in despair or grabbing herself or doing anything like that is apparently more sexualized. Where as a man needing to go to the bathroom I think that men are just more associated with toilet humor in general, so it's easier to see it as just comedic, probably because in most cases a man can relieve himself easily, so in situations where he can't it is seen as sort of zany and kooky.


That is actually why in a lot of my own female desperation stories I like there to be a lot of comedic aspects, something intrinsically funny about a woman not getting to go to the bathroom or needing to use the bathroom. And although my stories are geared towards people into omorashi, I feel that a lot of people who don't have the fetish could at least enjoy them as sort of dramatic comedies in other cases like that.


But as a huge huge fan of toilet humor, which many people always thought was inappropriate for a woman, I love any media that displays women having need such as the need to go to the bathroom, or having difficulty or awkwardness meeting that need, or just anything that basically suggest that women piss and shit just like everybody else, and that is even more hilarious when a woman is in that situation as far as I'm concerned. Maybe it just comes from personal experience and personal tastes, but I always thought it was more humorous to see a woman in need of a bathroom than a man simply, because it's a more relatable situation as this stuff happens to women far more often than for men. But you are right, there is more male desperation in media and cartoons compared to women, strangely enough despite female desperation by far being more common in reality.

Going along with your suggestion that this is more played for comedy and men I think that it just goes along with the idea of a man being in distress as being fundamentally unmasculine, a feminine man is often seen as something for comedic effect, such as a man in a dress being seen as humorous in a way that a woman in a tuxedo would not be seen as humorous. It's because it's weird to see men in a feminine or sexualized position and I think that people find that humorous, whereas for a woman the other way around doesn't have the same effect.

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16 minutes ago, DesperateJill said:

This is a very good topic and it's something I have noticed and thought about this as well. I have also noticed this in regards to nudity, my other fetish, where female nudity is seen as inherently sexual whereas male nudity is seen for comic effect. Maybe I'm biased is a lesbian, but I think it's just as men are funny looking, whereas women are sexy looking, but it probably does go deeper than that. I think that with women pretty much everything is much more sexualized, so any scene of a woman in despair or grabbing herself or doing anything like that is apparently more sexualized. Where as a man needing to go to the bathroom I think that men are just more associated with toilet humor in general, so it's easier to see it as just comedic, probably because in most cases a man can relieve himself easily, so in situations where he can't it is seen as sort of zany and kooky.


That is actually why in a lot of my own female desperation stories I like there to be a lot of comedic aspects, something intrinsically funny about a woman not getting to go to the bathroom or needing to use the bathroom. And although my stories are geared towards people into omorashi, I feel that a lot of people who don't have the fetish could at least enjoy them as sort of dramatic comedies in other cases like that.


But as a huge huge fan of toilet humor, which many people always thought was inappropriate for a woman, I love any media that displays women having need such as the need to go to the bathroom, or having difficulty or awkwardness meeting that need, or just anything that basically suggest that women piss and shit just like everybody else, and that is even more hilarious when a woman is in that situation as far as I'm concerned. Maybe it just comes from personal experience and personal tastes, but I always thought it was more humorous to see a woman in need of a bathroom than a man simply, because it's a more relatable situation as this stuff happens to women far more often than for men. But you are right, there is more male desperation in media and cartoons compared to women, strangely enough despite female desperation by far being more common in reality.

Going along with your suggestion that this is more played for comedy and men I think that it just goes along with the idea of a man being in distress as being fundamentally unmasculine, a feminine man is often seen as something for comedic effect, such as a man in a dress being seen as humorous in a way that a woman in a tuxedo would not be seen as humorous. It's because it's weird to see men in a feminine or sexualized position and I think that people find that humorous, whereas for a woman the other way around doesn't have the same effect.

I agree with your thoughts of needing to pee being uncanny. I don't know why but I always associated not being able to control your bladder with femininity. Also I didn't really think about how desperation can be more common in women irl due to men being able to pee in public easier. Maybe that's why so many more males are desperate in media, because they're more unlikely to be in that situation irl.

Also Seinfeld would agree with you that men are funny looking lol. There was a joke where Elaine says something like the male body is utilitarian and the female body is a work of art.

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@TJC

"I agree with your thoughts of needing to pee being uncanny. I don't know why but I always associated not being able to control your bladder with femininity. Also I didn't really think about how desperation can be more common in women irl due to men being able to pee in public easier. Maybe that's why so many more males are desperate in media, because they're more unlikely to be in that situation irl."

I think that that really is a big part of it, in fact I think that a lot of the reason why people and men in particular are attracted to female desperation is it triggers that damsel in distress situation which is something that is not something you are used to seeing men in, so there's something about male desperation that seems sort of off, something weird or something humorous about it simply because you never really see male desperation in real life.


I mean I haven't seen much general desperation from either sex but pretty much all that I have seen has been female because women have to go to the bathroom more but often don't get to go to the bathroom as quickly in sort of a double whammy situation, which is why I'm surprised you don't see more depictions of female desperation in media.


Although when you look at a lot of stuff like realistic situations depicting desperation you will more likely see a woman depicted. Like I think there is sort of that stereotype that if a person is asking they need a bathroom it is often a woman. Male desperation is sort of something you don't see very often so there is something that is just different about it.

"Also Seinfeld would agree with you that men are funny looking lol. There was a joke where Elaine says something like the male body is utilitarian and the female body is a work of art."

I actually love that quote as I always felt that perfectly summed up my feelings as a lesbian. The male body is like a tank, it's meant to destroy things, it's meant for practicality and not made for beauty really. Men are somehow simian and funny looking, whereas women are works of art. That is something I have always really felt, in fact I think one of the earliest indications that I was a lesbian and that I wasn't attracted to men is simply because I found the body hair was always one of the most repellent things to me, so to me men seem like hairy animals and beasts and I don't see why every woman is not a lesbian! But again I'm biased.


It also kind of reminds me of that other episode of Seinfeld where Jerry's girlfriend was going around naked all the time and he enjoyed it until she tried opening the jar of pickles. But he didn't like was seeing a female body that had all of the muscles moving around and stretching instead of being feminine and nice and everything like that. So he then went around naked and it was basically just playing up the idea that male nudity is funny and that men are funny looking whereas women are something that everybody likes to see and is a work of art.


I don't know how much of it is biological or how much is cultural, but I think that you see even heterosexual women are more likely to appreciate a nude female body than heterosexual men are to appreciate a nude male body, there is just something more aesthetically pleasing about the female form, but again it could be partially cultural due to all of the sexual objectification and whatnot. But you do see it reflected in the popular culture whereas female nudity is sexy and sexualized, whereas male nudity is played for laughs and the same seems to hold true for desperation.

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I've been doing a lot of searching of transcripts of shows for omo scenes(the Chrome Extension "search all tabs" is very helpful with that and highly recommend if you want to try it out for yourself) and i've noticed this too, though I have come across more comedic female omo scenes then I expected to (even in kids shows like Henry Danger and Bunk'D) so the male/female disparity is getting a bit better.  

The underwear thing is a good point too, the only time I can think of in a kids show when a female character was shown in her underwear for comedy was in "Unfabulous"(where Addie accidentally shows up to school in her boxer shorts and another instance where she runs outside her house forgetting to put pants on, though plenty of young boys watching those scenes no doubt found them kinda hot as well as funny).

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"The underwear thing is a good point too, the only time I can think of in a kids show when a female character was shown in her underwear for comedy was in "Unfabulous"(where Addie accidentally shows up to school in her boxer shorts and another instance where she runs outside her house forgetting to put pants on, though plenty of young boys watching those scenes no doubt found them kinda hot as well as funny)."

This again is rather interesting seeing as it's not considered to be necessarily sexual to show pictures of men and underwear or even in children's media. However I think that there is sort of an innate sexualization that goes along with women's underwear wear women's underwear is seen as inherently sexy. Like you have lots of Lacey and enticing underwear for women but not the same for men.


And I have found it interesting talking to so many people over the years and that I find a lot of men have a panty fetish for women's underwear, but I have yet to meet a single female who has a thing for men's underwear, not a single one. I don't know maybe they are out there, but I haven't come across any. If there any people reading that thread right now feel free to speak up. But I find it interesting that panty fetishism is exclusively like a male thing for women's underwear, you don't see women who have a fetish for mail underwear, but I think it's because of the fact that women's underwear is intensively designed to be sexy whereas men's is not, it is seen as more neutral.


Again this isn't to say that heterosexual women wouldn't be turned on by seeing a man in his underwear, but I feel that they are turned on by the fact that he is not wearing much rather than the underwear. I have never heard of any woman who has a fetish for men's underwear and I just always found that to be rather curious seeing as it seems to be a pretty strong fetish the other way around with lots of men having a real strong fetish for panties, including panties that might have been used. Or men wearing women's underwear. But you don't see the opposite in reverse, or at least I have never heard about it, so I have to assume if it is a thing that it's pretty damn rare compared to the other way around.

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Not sure if this adds to the discussion topic specifically but I've noticed over the last six months or so especially that male omorashi has significantly increased on Pornhub and other sites. Maybe it is just the algorithm recommending it to me more because the majority of channels seem to have years worth of videos but a lot of things have been discussed in this thread. My main contribution is that there is a lot of male omorashi content out there if you're looking for it.

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19 hours ago, ashishgamer said:

I have thought about this so much but someone finally put it in words. I do have a theory about why this happens and it may be wrong but here ut goes.

What I think is that people already know that wetting yourself can be something sexual to some people. So they don't want a comedy scene to be seen as a sexual scene and hence avoid showing a girl wetting herself.

Now you may say that even male wetting can be sexual for some people. However, society has never really cared about sexualisation of men as much as it cares about sexualisation of women in popular media like movies, TV shows and books. So if a director wants to portray a comedy scene involving pee, they'll choose male over female.

Coming to why most of the 'good' omo porn is female, I guess there have been lots of topics regarding that in this forum. But basically, most of the surveys say that the majority of porn consumers are straight guys (Not sure how true that is) and so, most big porn production companies cater to them.

That being said, there are always exceptions. I have seen some great male omo porn and even seen girls peeing being used as a comedic relief(pun intended) in mainstream media. Out of the top of my mind, one of the instances was in the first episode of Dragon Ball when Bulma wet herself while hanging from a tree branch.

According to me as to why i like female omo is simply becz women cant get relief without removing their pants atleast enough to show their bum which is a lot embarrassing and a obvious reason to hold it... while if its male most of the time they can just unzip their pant and without exposing much can relieve themselves which makes male omo senseless to me unless there's some nice plot

 

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@LifeIsStrange @DesperateJill

Now that you bring up the subject of underwear, i find something interesting. Men have very basic underpants, like there's little variety, basically boxers or briefs. Women's underwear comes in many varying styles on the other hand. Also lingerie is interesting. There's tons of lingerie for women, but I don't think much lingerie, if any for men. In my opinion, I guess women don't care as much about physical attraction to men as men do to women.

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@Crazi Mathx

"According to me as to why i like female omo is simply becz women cant get relief without removing their pants atleast enough to show their bum which is a lot embarrassing and a obvious reason to hold it... while if its male most of the time they can just unzip their pant and without exposing much can relieve themselves which makes male omo senseless to me unless there's some nice plot"

Exactly for women desperation is sort of an arduous ordeal but men can generally discreetly relieve themselves pretty easily. To me it would be more comedic to see a woman trying to relieve herself seeing as she would have to have her ass hanging out. I mean if you see a guy with his back towards you peeing up against the wall you don't really see anything, but you see a woman squatting with her ass hanging out and how can you not find that more interesting and embarrassing and humorous?

@TJC

"Now that you bring up the subject of underwear, i find something interesting. Men have very basic underpants, like there's little variety, basically boxers or briefs. Women's underwear comes in many varying styles on the other hand. Also lingerie is interesting. There's tons of lingerie for women, but I don't think much lingerie, if any for men. In my opinion, I guess women don't care as much about physical attraction to men as men do to women."

And definitely seem to be more visual, with women there has to be more of an emotional connection and women are more attracted to stories than pictures in a lot of cases. Which is not to say that we don't enjoy pictures but I have to admit reading a description of a woman needing to go to the bathroom is more exciting than anything.
I just think that once again it's a situation where men's underwear is practical where as women's is designed to entice, seeing as society basically feels that women are there for enticing people in general.

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5 hours ago, TJC said:

@LifeIsStrange @DesperateJill

Now that you bring up the subject of underwear, i find something interesting. Men have very basic underpants, like there's little variety, basically boxers or briefs. Women's underwear comes in many varying styles on the other hand. Also lingerie is interesting. There's tons of lingerie for women, but I don't think much lingerie, if any for men. In my opinion, I guess women don't care as much about physical attraction to men as men do to women.

 

My friend, it seem you are somewhat ignorant about men's underwear. There is plenty of men's lingerie even, but aside from that within all the spectrums from boxers, to briefs (and of course boxer briefs) there are many different cuts and materials. There are boxer brief spandex, both for athletic purposes and everyday comfort, there's low cut and knee length and countless materials, differences in compression or how they hug your body. The varieties are countless.

 

As someone who owns hundreds and hundreds of pairs of both women and men's underwear and lingerie I can tell you there is just as much variety in the underwear designs for both genders.

 

I think it is just a lot of straight guys don't think about their underwear very much and just buy whatever is cheap at the superstore or whatever but at least in the LGBTQ community we put a lot of thought into different varieties of underwear.

 

14 hours ago, Crazi Mathx said:

According to me as to why i like female omo is simply becz women cant get relief without removing their pants atleast enough to show their bum which is a lot embarrassing and a obvious reason to hold it... while if its male most of the time they can just unzip their pant and without exposing much can relieve themselves which makes male omo senseless to me unless there's some nice plot

 

 

It can be difficult to come up with good plots for men to need to have an accident. It is one of the most difficult aspects of a fantasy to come up with for me. Usually at school and being to shy to ask the teacher to go, trying to walk home but the street is too crowded or public and no good alley to piss in. you don't just want to run to the side of someone's house and piss on their wall, the classic latch key where need jumps from like 6 to 10 in an instant and then you can't find your keys, in a movie theatre and don't want to miss the movie, pretty sure you can make it but then start leaking, at a concert and don't want to miss the show, being desperate in public in general and then get to the the washroom and its locked of there is a massive line, etc. usually it is way easier for a guy to just relieve himself anywhere but if you get creative enough with it there are a good number of situations one can come up with where I guy would be forced to have a genuine accident. lol

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There is a pee desperation scene with Pinkie Pie in My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, Season 2 episode The Last Roundup. (She makes it, though even if she didn't, she's not wearing anything)

I do get the feeling that was specifically meant for people who are into desperation because, though mostly kid-friendly, they also know who else is in the audience besides the kids.

(Of course an overt wetting - unless it's a baby in diapers - isn't an option but there was something to go by in the human pony spinoff Equestria Girls, in the episode Holidays Unwrapped, where Rainbow Dash is inside a snowman for two days in an attempt to get a sneak attack in a snowball fight. Canonically the fiction physics and stuff probably kept her dry (as the ponies were locked up for the same amount of time in the Season 5 premiere but never had to pee once), and we're probably not meant to overthink it as it was a throwaway joke, but realistically she would have wet herself and we can certainly headcanon it if we wish. Furthermore, if she was actually willing to do this rather than abandoning her plan when she needed to pee, this would suggest she has wet her snowpants on a regular basis before this, when she's having fun in the snow and doesn't want to go inside. I know I've heard stories like that on here)

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1 hour ago, The Dark Wolf said:

There is a pee desperation scene with Pinkie Pie in My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic, Season 2 episode The Last Roundup. (She makes it, though even if she didn't, she's not wearing anything)

I do get the feeling that was specifically meant for people who are into desperation because, though mostly kid-friendly, they also know who else is in the audience besides the kids.

(Of course an overt wetting - unless it's a baby in diapers - isn't an option but there was something to go by in the human pony spinoff Equestria Girls, in the episode Holidays Unwrapped, where Rainbow Dash is inside a snowman for two days in an attempt to get a sneak attack in a snowball fight. Canonically the fiction physics and stuff probably kept her dry (as the ponies were locked up for the same amount of time in the Season 5 premiere but never had to pee once), and we're probably not meant to overthink it as it was a throwaway joke, but realistically she would have wet herself and we can certainly headcanon it if we wish. Furthermore, if she was actually willing to do this rather than abandoning her plan when she needed to pee, this would suggest she has wet her snowpants on a regular basis before this, when she's having fun in the snow and doesn't want to go inside. I know I've heard stories like that on here)

I get that same feeling about a number of pee scenes i've seen in kids shows, whenever those scenes come up I can't help but think to myself "whoever wrote this episode definitely has a fetish for this sort of thing"

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