KarenWets 809 Posted March 28, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted March 28, 2022 Hi all, I'm a mom of two kids in my 40s. I think that I have a pretty normal bladder. Over the years I wet myself a bunch of times but I guess that goes for most women. It's not a regular thing, except for the tittle "sneeze leaks". If I sneeze real hard and I happen to need the toilet...there will be a wet spot in my panties. Other than that, my accidents have been very few. There were a bunch of accidents during my second pregnacy, especially when I was throwing up (which was a big problem). On those occasions I experienced anything between little dribbles in my underwear to a puddle on the bathroom floor if I dashed from bed in the morning with my bladder full. But throwing up was just nasty, I would rather forget these episodes. Other than that...not much worth mentioning. Lately I've noticed that my sexual interests are shifting a bit. When I have a sneeze leak, one side of my brain will say "fuck no, not again" while the other side of my brain would sometimes be like "oops... I just could not help that" with a weird sense of excitement. I figure that there is something inside me that wants to loose control and be unable to help myself from something embarassing such as peeing in my clothes. I decided I want to be a naughty girl and get into this strange excitment a bit more... 😉 There was this one time a while ago where I was watching the children on recess and I had to pee very bad but had to hold it for a bit. By the time I got to the bathroom I found out I had actually leaked in my underwear just from holding it too long..! Big "oops", but also major excitement because I felt that I had completely accidentally been soo close to a real bladder accident. I have been trying to reproduce that feeling at home a couple of times, but all I experienced was a painfully full bladder and some mild nauseaus feelings, before I just went to the bathroom. I don't understand why I was leaking that day and so far it didn't come again. I guess I want to provoke somehow having a bladder accident... maybe my darkest desire I want to do it in public but surely I don't dare that. This site feels like a safe place to explore these fantasies... Thanks for listening, Karen Nc-runner-guy, Adrian6970wc, Tellnoone and 18 others 13 1 1 6 Quote Link to comment
C.omoboy 390 Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 welcome, I hope you have fun in this forum Omo25 and KarenWets 2 Quote Link to comment
Lasseman 99 Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 Welcome and hope enjoy this experience and have fun. Just relax the warm feeling will spread sooner or later...😘 Omo25 and KarenWets 1 1 Quote Link to comment
KarenWets 809 Posted March 30, 2022 Author Share Posted March 30, 2022 Thank you all for receiving me onto this community with such kindness and friendliness. This is a topic that makes me feel a bit insecure and vulnerable so your positive reactions mean a lot to me. HereToStay, waterrat, Lasseman and 1 other 2 2 Quote Link to comment
KarenWets 809 Posted March 30, 2022 Author Share Posted March 30, 2022 8 hours ago, PrincessPEEach said: Welcome! I’m in a similar situation in that I’ve been exploring this kink a bit later in life too. There’s something about the naughtiness of it that totally appeals to me as well. Hope you enjoy experimenting a bit more! Curious, is there any reason why you got sexually excited by it at some point in your life? I've had the leaks for a pretty long time, but only recently I realized that I find it more and more exciting. This feels kinda confusing to me. Looking forward to read from people who possibly went through similar experiences. Quote Link to comment
HereToStay 1,298 Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 Welcome from another 40s something dad. I also joined recently and this is a very nice community to explore more 😉. Have fun! KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
wetskipants 840 Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 Look forward to hearing more as you explore your newfound passion. I've had a thing for wetting since I was young but only well into my 40s did I find this site, a couple of years ago. It's a pretty friendly place to share a fetish that may not be an option in your normal life. Welcome ... KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
mypeesecret 130 Posted March 30, 2022 Share Posted March 30, 2022 @KarenWets if you are looking to re-create a leaking/loss of control type of scenario I have found a few things that seem to help that along. One obvious way to help is to load up on fluids, of course. Water works great, but adding in some caffeine, like a big cup of coffee (a natural diuretic) can really make a difference too. Also, I have found that it’s much harder to “hold it” after I’ve already had to hold it for a while. So for example, start with a bottle of water maybe, then enjoy a cup of coffee or two, then go back to sipping water. Hold off on peeing for a while, not till it hurts of course, but let yourself get fairly desperate and needing to “hold it” for a bit before you use the bathroom. Now, those muscles should be a bit more tired, and you will likely find yourself needing to go again quite soon. Trying to hold it this time is always much more difficult and you are much more likely to lose some (all?) control at this point. Seems to work on me anyways, whether I am trying for it or not, lol. Hopefully this helps!! KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
Lasseman 99 Posted March 31, 2022 Share Posted March 31, 2022 Something that also helping is to start drink (whatever you want) some 500ml then continue drink 250 ml every half hour than go pee every half hour to even that you dont need, do that the next four to six hours. Then continue drinking 250 ml every hour but dont use the loo... You maybe gonna leak within the next hour or so... (atleast i did after a six hours tryout) ☺️😘 KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
IzzyWizzy 284 Posted March 31, 2022 Share Posted March 31, 2022 On 3/28/2022 at 4:29 PM, KarenWets said: Hi all, I'm a mom of two kids in my 40s. I think that I have a pretty normal bladder. Over the years I wet myself a bunch of times but I guess that goes for most women. It's not a regular thing, except for the tittle "sneeze leaks". If I sneeze real hard and I happen to need the toilet...there will be a wet spot in my panties. Other than that, my accidents have been very few. There were a bunch of accidents during my second pregnacy, especially when I was throwing up (which was a big problem). On those occasions I experienced anything between little dribbles in my underwear to a puddle on the bathroom floor if I dashed from bed in the morning with my bladder full. But throwing up was just nasty, I would rather forget these episodes. Other than that...not much worth mentioning. Lately I've noticed that my sexual interests are shifting a bit. When I have a sneeze leak, one side of my brain will say "fuck no, not again" while the other side of my brain would sometimes be like "oops... I just could not help that" with a weird sense of excitement. I figure that there is something inside me that wants to loose control and be unable to help myself from something embarassing such as peeing in my clothes. I decided I want to be a naughty girl and get into this strange excitment a bit more... 😉 There was this one time a while ago where I was watching the children on recess and I had to pee very bad but had to hold it for a bit. By the time I got to the bathroom I found out I had actually leaked in my underwear just from holding it too long..! Big "oops", but also major excitement because I felt that I had completely accidentally been soo close to a real bladder accident. I have been trying to reproduce that feeling at home a couple of times, but all I experienced was a painfully full bladder and some mild nauseaus feelings, before I just went to the bathroom. I don't understand why I was leaking that day and so far it didn't come again. I guess I want to provoke somehow having a bladder accident... maybe my darkest desire I want to do it in public but surely I don't dare that. This site feels like a safe place to explore these fantasies... Thanks for listening, Karen Hey, welcome to the site! I think I speak for almost everyone when I say we’re overjoyed to have you here! 🙂 RewetC and KarenWets 2 Quote Link to comment
WetFunOne 57 Posted April 1, 2022 Share Posted April 1, 2022 Hello and welcome to the lovely community here! KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
pegasus42 38 Posted April 1, 2022 Share Posted April 1, 2022 Welcome and thanks for sharing your experience. As a middle aged fella I can say that it took me years to not feel ashamed that I actually enjoy this fetish. Once I worked through that it has been about experimenting and enjoying aspects that bring pleasure… and I still can’t quite figure out my body as it changes sometimes… This is a wonderful place of people though and I enjoy hearing about other people’s turn-ons with this and how they explore it too. Keep trying different things and hopefully you will be able to figure out how to have those exciting “leaks.” Welcome. 🙂 KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
DerekOmoso 371 Posted April 1, 2022 Share Posted April 1, 2022 Hey! Welcome! We're happy to have you here! KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
Toady567 235 Posted April 2, 2022 Share Posted April 2, 2022 Welcome to the game! When I was young, I had an amazing accident because I was too shy to ask to use the bathroom. Instead of leaking, I started bursting! I’ve never been able to recreate that. KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
Guest OmoSwitch Posted April 3, 2022 Share Posted April 3, 2022 What a lovely intro, welcome to the forum! I am also very new myself, but it's been super amazing so far : ) Have fun! Quote Link to comment
Quest 113 Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Amazing, Karen, wishing you happy and safe exploring! 🙂 KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
ilikeadultvids 338 Posted April 28, 2022 Share Posted April 28, 2022 Welcome. I too hope to eventually find a way to get myself to have a planned accident. It seems like it would be so delightfully naughty to play the game knowing that eventually, I will suffer defeat and helplessly wet myself. A few things that I have heard that could also help you if you are trying to explore this naughty side is to either go padded (wear a diaper or an underwear liner) to help containment. Please note that these won't hold a full bladder, at least not the ones I have tried so far, so you will probably need one of the bed pads as well to sit on. If you don't want to wear padding, you can find some clothes that you designate are your clothes that you can use for special fun. You may still want a pad or a towel beneath you to help with cleanup. If you find that your bladder is still a bit shy and you are having difficulty, you can just sit on the toilet. Your body most likely has already been trained that when you sit on the toilet, it's time to release. You can either sit on the toilet and try holding it, or sit on the toilet with your pants up and see if it helps you with bladder shyness. Quote Link to comment
iwapmp 1 Posted May 31, 2022 Share Posted May 31, 2022 On 3/31/2022 at 12:21 AM, mypeesecret said: @KarenWets if you are looking to re-create a leaking/loss of control type of scenario I have found a few things that seem to help that along. One obvious way to help is to load up on fluids, of course. Water works great, but adding in some caffeine, like a big cup of coffee (a natural diuretic) can really make a difference too. Also, I have found that it’s much harder to “hold it” after I’ve already had to hold it for a while. So for example, start with a bottle of water maybe, then enjoy a cup of coffee or two, then go back to sipping water. Hold off on peeing for a while, not till it hurts of course, but let yourself get fairly desperate and needing to “hold it” for a bit before you use the bathroom. Now, those muscles should be a bit more tired, and you will likely find yourself needing to go again quite soon. Trying to hold it this time is always much more difficult and you are much more likely to lose some (all?) control at this point. Seems to work on me anyways, whether I am trying for it or not, lol. Hopefully this helps!! Ah the old 'breaking the seal' 😀 Quote Link to comment
DouglasCande 106 Posted September 8, 2022 Share Posted September 8, 2022 Welcome to the community! Excited to see how your interest evolves with time as you try out different things! Quote Link to comment
HARDnHORNY2CU 85 Posted September 11, 2022 Share Posted September 11, 2022 Hello! I'm also a dad in my 40s. Quote Link to comment
Adrian6970wc 243 Posted September 14, 2022 Share Posted September 14, 2022 Hi and welcome, Karen. I think the experiences you've described are by no means unusual and for some people they can provide a way into wetting for more pleasurable reasons. It can take courage though to move from one thing to another. I've been wetting in private for years but, other than when I've been wearing protection in the form of Tena pants, I've not yet worked up the courage to wet in public. KarenWets 1 Quote Link to comment
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