skinnyjeans 45 Posted March 26, 2022 Share Posted March 26, 2022 I'll try to explain it the best I can. Whenever I have some me time, I think, "Alright, today's the day. I'm gonna do that hold I've been thinking about for weeks now." Thinking about omo usually gets me going, (kinda the point) so I usually end up pre-gaming with regular people masturbation methods. Thing is, once that's over, I seem to completely lose interest in doing anything omo related. Maybe I'm just more of an observer, or a victim of post nut clarity or whatever it's called, I don't know. Thing is, I've enjoyed the times I have done holds, wettings, etc. So I don't understand why the desire just vanishes. Does anyone else experience this? Or am I overthinking it? Quote Link to comment
Paillecia 211 Posted March 27, 2022 Share Posted March 27, 2022 This is me all the time! The moment I masturbate and finish, I lose all motivation for omo for the next few hours, even if I do it in the middle of a hold. I normally get around this by putting myself in situations where I cannot masturbate at all (like on a bus, playing a game, etc) Here4theFun 1 Quote Link to comment
Marr.Pizz 8 Posted March 27, 2022 Share Posted March 27, 2022 Whenever I masturbate, the omo interest goes away for a while. Quote Link to comment
Ian Newton 299 Posted March 27, 2022 Share Posted March 27, 2022 Yeah, I get this too! Not necessarily after masturbating, but sometimes I think of the clean up, and the time it takes for me to get desperate, and then can't be arsed anymore! Quote Link to comment
Varys 191 Posted March 27, 2022 Share Posted March 27, 2022 Definitely a bad idea to masturbate if you're planning on holding...unless you're feeling especially horny that day I guess. The act helps while holding, but the finishing...well, finishes off the hold for me, lol. Makes any pain and discomfort amplified so many times over the feelings that I actually like, so I almost always end up peeing then. Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted March 27, 2022 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted March 27, 2022 I often feel this. But usually by the time I reach this point I've either already wet myself or read/watched/fantasized something about it or one of my other fetishes. Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,781 Posted March 27, 2022 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted March 27, 2022 If you don't feel motivated to hold it I say become a woman with an outdoor job where there are no bathrooms all day, that will motivate you to hold it because you will have no choice to hold it, it won't matter if you really don't feel like holding it you will have no choice but to do so! BladderChamp 1 Quote Link to comment
Jonnaywets 204 Posted March 27, 2022 Share Posted March 27, 2022 (edited) As a man I just wait until a hold is over or I wet myself or whatever to “pleasure myself” because I know that once I finish I won’t want anything to do with anything omo. It’s a skill that took a long time to master 😂 Edited March 27, 2022 by Jonnaywets (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted March 27, 2022 Share Posted March 27, 2022 5 hours ago, DesperateJill said: If you don't feel motivated to hold it I say become a woman with an outdoor job where there are no bathrooms all day, that will motivate you to hold it because you will have no choice to hold it, it won't matter if you really don't feel like holding it you will have no choice but to do so! It's not much different for a man, if you are working outside in an urban area. You can't just pull it out and pee on nearest street lamp. 😉 Quote Link to comment
Spankerson 7 Posted March 28, 2022 Share Posted March 28, 2022 (edited) Definitely not the only one. My only assumption, at least from personal experience, is that after attaining the satisfaction of masturbation, the reasons for which one masturbated have been as well; if that makes sense. For example, after a good soaking and sitting I'ld need to satisfy myself. Then, when all is said and done, I'll be sitting there sometimes just feeling filthy, even though it's what caused the masturbation to begin with. Which also plays into masturbation before even doing the deed. I feel satisfied, so what's the reason I'm doing it? Edited March 28, 2022 by Spankerson (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
sammilove 835 Posted April 3, 2022 Share Posted April 3, 2022 The only way I’ve been able to regain interest after masturbation is just forcing myself to do it. It usually comes back as I start to feel the urge to pee. Or I’ll give myself a mental pep talk like “hey today is the day you get to do the thing” and sometimes that’ll even stop me from wanting to masturbate. But then again if sex is before the wetting I’ll usually lose interest and go. That part is way harder for me to get back into the grove. Quote Link to comment
univgirlkelsie 495 Posted April 4, 2022 Share Posted April 4, 2022 Cumming makes me lose interest too - however, it usually comes back after 20 minutes or so. So I just keep waiting, keep touching myself, and keep watchcing videos until i get horny again. Quote Link to comment
BladderChamp 50 Posted April 4, 2022 Share Posted April 4, 2022 I often experience the same thing. I think it’s pretty natural, as if your physiology is telling you “okay, that’s done and over with, we can stop now.” Even if I cum, I find I’m more likely to get back “in the mood” quickly if I’m holding with someone else, whether we’re just chatting, having a contest, or whatever else. Quote Link to comment
Drip Drop 52 Posted April 5, 2022 Share Posted April 5, 2022 I feel like that's how it's supposed to work. I think it's better to just hold off on all of that during a hold. While controlling the bathroom urge is the obvious kink in omo, I've always tied it with controlling the sexual urge too. So yeah, I'd recommend you hold back any sex stuff as well. It should enhance the experience. wetting_fan 1 Quote Link to comment
aumonier95 76 Posted April 5, 2022 Share Posted April 5, 2022 The orgasm and release for a man is the end of a process. It is a natural thing (including hormonal release...) that once it is achieved, the horniness disappears for a while, one of the reason being that a man have to take a few minutes to be able to expulse sperm again. It is known since very old times, the romans having an expression for it "post coïtum animal triste". So, as a man, I confirm that if you are planning on having a long and horny day, for example by holding you pee for hours, it is highly preferable not to reach orgasm and cum, tha would wipe away all good feelings about sexual things (it is true for omo but also for any other kink) for a while. The horniness can come back more or less quickly depending on your mood and general level of horniness. Sometimes it takes fifteen minutes until I am once again horny after masturbating (so just find something to do in that period until coming back to your game), but sometimes I am finished for a while and won't be in the mood for arousing stuff for a couple days. Quote Link to comment
P.P. King 94 Posted April 5, 2022 Share Posted April 5, 2022 Whenever I plan on having a good wetting session I make sure I don't masturbate for at least a couple of days before the event. That way I get more motivated. But if I go too many days without masturbating my urge for omorashi can get so strong that I start obsessing over it. I kinda get hypersexual about it. But sometimes you don't want to get a boner everytime you have to pee and risk getting yourself in situations you might regret later just because you couldn't control your sexual urges. It's a lot of fun, but sometimes a bit of moderation is best. I'm saying this because these days whenever I decide to wet myself it's a public wetting. Wetting my underwear in the shower normally doesn't excite me as much as a full public accident. I've gotten pretty brave over the years, sometimes a little too much lol. Of course when I'm out staging a public accident, I don't masturbate until I'm done pissing myself. That would totally kill my mood. Sometimes the excitement is so great that I come a first time hands free right after I pissed myself, and then a second time, usually hidden inside my car, that I use as a sort of a base where I keep clean clothes, towels, plastic bags, anything that I could need when I'm out wetting myself. [Of course I'm extra careful nobody sees me when doing this] The clean up can make me lose my motivation to wet, so sometimes I buy a pair of pants with the sole purpose of wetting them and then I throw them away. It's wasteful but sometimes I have no other option since I don't live alone. Once I've had a good wetting session I usually don't have another one for weeks or sometimes even months, although my sexual urges for Omorashi come back just as strong the day after. Quote Link to comment
skinnyjeans 45 Posted April 6, 2022 Author Share Posted April 6, 2022 It seems this is a common affliction. I did manage to find enough motivation (partially incurred by this thread) to do a little hold/wet when I had some me time the other day however. First time in a good while.. Sometimes you just need the right vibe I guess. Quote Link to comment
lovetohold 412 Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 On 4/5/2022 at 8:19 PM, Metalholding said: It seems this is a common affliction. I did manage to find enough motivation (partially incurred by this thread) to do a little hold/wet when I had some me time the other day however. First time in a good while.. Sometimes you just need the right vibe I guess. That’s great! Glad you were finally able to get in a good hold. Like others have said, I’m 100% the same way. I CANNOT have an orgasm if I plan on continuing the hold. It’s all done after I cum. I absolutely NEED to get in all the holding, wetting, squirming, fetish play first…Then take care of the other urge. Haha Quote Link to comment
Gothes 3,029 Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 I've noticed, that if you're planning on doing holds or anything pee related it only works when you're excited because ultimately it's the "hornyness" that makes you want to do that. That's why I never masturbate before having some pee fun, post nut clarity can be a party pooper sometimes. Quote Link to comment
slycat 74 Posted April 11, 2022 Share Posted April 11, 2022 I usually masturbate after a hold and wetting. I don't wet too often. I usually like to hold until I lose control, so I don't want to go through that too often. Friday night I did put on a pair of underwear and a diaper and went for a short run. I didn't want to get my shoes and orthotics wet but wanted the feeling of wet underwear. I planned on letting go right before I got done running, but right before I did so, I mostly lost control although I felt like I wasn't really holding that much. Quote Link to comment
megpoidchan 1 Posted April 12, 2022 Share Posted April 12, 2022 This happens to me a lot and it's frustrating. So if i don't have time i just enjoy to masturbate and continue with my life, but if i have time i like to not masturbate at all until i've wet myself or gone to the bathroom so i can enjoy everything. I suppose it's because of hormones? But I'm a female so I don't get if that changes between bodies. skinnyjeans 1 Quote Link to comment
skinnyjeans 45 Posted April 13, 2022 Author Share Posted April 13, 2022 On 4/12/2022 at 12:07 PM, megpoidchan said: This happens to me a lot and it's frustrating. So if i don't have time i just enjoy to masturbate and continue with my life, but if i have time i like to not masturbate at all until i've wet myself or gone to the bathroom so i can enjoy everything. I suppose it's because of hormones? But I'm a female so I don't get if that changes between bodies. Sounds like a similar situation to what myself and others have described. So it's not just a guy thing? Quote Link to comment
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