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Am I the only one who prefers deliberate wetting?


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I feel like I'm the only one who  gets absolutely nothing from genuine accident content...which is unfortunately like, 99% of omo. But then, the part of this I find hot is the humiliation and degradation. To me it's far more embarrassing to have full control of your bladder and intentionally choose to wet because you were commanded to (or to a lesser degree, simply wanted to). It also feels more submissive to do so simply because you were told to. I guess that's because I don't think accidents are embarrassing in the same way psychologically as they aren't a choice, happen to everyone etc. Whereas you're choosing to be a...insert degrading term here.

 

Does anyone else feel a similar way (and even moreso, have any written or visual content fitting that theme rather than 'accidents').

In an unrelated note I think it's pretty hot and degrading to have someone else stick it down and pee YOUR pants, anyone else like that too?

 

(Would've made this a poll if I could, bc i'm curious about the number of people here who prefer deliberate to accidental)

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I'm speaking here as one who has it both ways. My "main squeeze" Pamela has been "accident prone" ever since her daughter was born, and in time she discovered that she enjoyed and was aroused by her accidents, so she eventually became a full on omo girl.

I have been with her twice during unintentional accidents brought on by her "stress incontinence," and I do find it very arousing when my girl wets her pants at the mall in font of everyone.

However, I get more joy from her deliberate wettings. We live far apart and sometimes are only able to get together a few times a year. And I always tickle her until she's soaked, and I love to hear her laughing and laughing in joy while she floods her pants. She sometimes puts on fancy lingerie and gives me a lap dance until we both get all sexed up and she relinquishes control and pees all over my lap in her exotic lingerie. All of these things are done on purpose, because it turns us on and gives us joy. I am also one who has no interest in desperation, holding, doubled-over-with-the-pain-of-it-all type stuff.

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11 minutes ago, Dunney said:

I wet myself deliberately, and always have. I have no interest in humiliation. I piss myself for pleasure. I wouldn't do it if I didn't love it. Like some of the other posters, I have no interest in desperation either. Just get on with it. You know you're going to wet yourself, and so do we, so just do it.

Exactly.  This, 100%.  

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In real life I definitely prefer deliberate wetting. In fiction humiliation is fun too but deliberate wettings are always fun in fiction or real life. In this case they are willingly playing out my biggest fetish, likely because they have a fetish for it themselves, and find it to be fun. If it's a real life instance, the pleasure they get out of it is as real as when I wet for fun. I know how fun I find it and how much I enjoy seeing them do it (in the event that they choose to post it for us), and (preferring female wetting) the knowledge that there are girls who absolutely love wetting themselves as much as I do... I have seen a few videos where they make this very clear, like one video of a girl peeing her jeans and saying "I love wetting myself."

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While I don't get 'nothing' out of accidents, I get far more out of doing it deliberately. I've never enjoyed humiliation but I enjoy being witnessed, especially by friends. With accidents I can't really guarantee I'll pee somewhere that I'll enjoy, but doing it on purpose means I can plan for it so I'll be prepared to clean up and mess I make and won't feel horribly guilty for leaving a mess somewhere.

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On 1/16/2022 at 5:48 AM, dobeesdream said:

I feel like I'm the only one who  gets absolutely nothing from genuine accident content...which is unfortunately like, 99% of omo. But then, the part of this I find hot is the humiliation and degradation. To me it's far more embarrassing to have full control of your bladder and intentionally choose to wet because you were commanded to (or to a lesser degree, simply wanted to). It also feels more submissive to do so simply because you were told to. I guess that's because I don't think accidents are embarrassing in the same way psychologically as they aren't a choice, happen to everyone etc. Whereas you're choosing to be a...insert degrading term here.

 

Does anyone else feel a similar way (and even moreso, have any written or visual content fitting that theme rather than 'accidents').

In an unrelated note I think it's pretty hot and degrading to have someone else stick it down and pee YOUR pants, anyone else like that too?

 

(Would've made this a poll if I could, bc i'm curious about the number of people here who prefer deliberate to accidental)

Exactly same here

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On 1/19/2022 at 10:17 PM, Dunney said:

You know you're going to wet yourself, and so do we, so just do it.

This sounds like a line from some desperation fantasy story that turns into deliberate wetting with a little coercion. XDD

I like accidental and deliberate wetting differently. Accidental because it's an expression of weakness and vulnerability, forcing that person to deal with being knocked down several pegs in ego and reputation. They may be any combination of unnoticed, ignored, avoided, comforted, teased/bullied, or even blackmailed. It's just a scenario with so many possibilities. My favorite is when it brings friends closer together.

Deliberate wetting though, I like because it's empowerment and rejection of social norms. Someone not afraid to passionately let their freak-flag fly in a way that challenges others' worldviews is my favorite kind of person. And specifically in girls and women, it's acknowledgement that they're not put off by at least one gross thing, which makes them a lot more approachable IMO. Like someone you want to learn more about rather than put on a pedestal. I doubt I could be more comfortable around anyone than someone who pees their pants for fun and isn't shy about it. 😄

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On 1/24/2022 at 2:20 PM, PeeHour said:

I 100% prefer deliberate wettings. The more nonchalant or casual, the better! There's just something about not caring about the norms/aftermath and doing what you wanna do...

I can share your perception that a lot of omo content appears to be more accidental, or at least framed that way, especially videos or stories of someone else. When it comes to written experiences, there just isn't as high of a likelihood that you'll spontaneously witness someone purposefully wetting themselves out compared to someone desperate and on the verge of accidentally wetting themselves. Most deliberate wettings occur with the author themselves (sometimes a significant other). 

This very predicament is actually what turned me on to the 'Fiction' stories on this site. There are many stories of deliberate wetting that still fall within the realm of realism (not just fanfics). Yeah, they don't have the excitement of being real, but they can tick more boxes and allow for more situations besides just privately wetting while standing in your shower. After all, it's not like we can actual confirm what's real without a video, so any content you read is as real as your perception!

(I guess I'll use this opportunity as a shameless plug - I have a few multi-part fiction stories that focus primarily on deliberate wetting. Especially since you mentioned you liked the idea of someone being 'commanded' to wet; while this doesn't explicitly occur in my stories, I do have on that centers around a mother who tells her daughter it's ok to wet on purpose).

 

I will try to search for your stories but I'd rather avoid any that mention family.  Incest or even the mention of family being involved/knowing is a massive turn off for me.

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On 1/24/2022 at 9:48 PM, Thinwetboy said:

I agree 100%.  I’ve wet my bed by accident plenty of times and I hate it.  But when I decide to wet the bed on purpose it’s the best feeling in the world.  Very strange.  

I couldn’t agree more. I just love wetting the bed deliberately even if it’s just because I can’t be bothered to get up to go to the loo.

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All of my own wettings are deliberate.  I can hold for a long time, and I'll use any bathroom, so no need to wet unless I want to.  I will admit if I am on a long trip an accident could happen someday if there are no rest areas around, it just hasn't happened yet.  There are some days I need to pee more frequently than others.   I don't like a lot of desperation and dancing around in videos on her.  If it is longer than about 3 minutes or so, try to fast forward through until they get on with it.  I'm sure it does happen, but I have never seen an accident in real life.

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I actually prefer accidental over deliberate. The humiliation isn't really where the interest lies but more the slow and steady struggle of someone holding their pee until an inevitable release. It's also why it can take so long in videos since their is a build up to that point. Deliberate wetting has never done anything for me.

From my experience, most of the new Omo content is more deliberate wetting or ABDL as opposed to accidental nowadays. (Unless I'm looking in the wrong places.) A lot of the accidental stuff is usually older videos or is very niche to find. I see way more videos of people doing deliberate wetting. I always reason it to it being faster and easier to do deliberate as opposed to accidental.

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On 1/26/2022 at 7:08 PM, WetJeans11 said:

New here, but I love deliberate wetting. I have been a pants wetter (on purpose) since I was 7. No better turnon in the world. I have searched everywhere for videos of girls peeing in their pants, talking about it (none of this audio-less nonsense) and orgasming IN THEIR JEANS (no nudity). I can't find one like that ANYWHERE!

Try this ! She rules.  

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On 1/30/2022 at 7:46 PM, thelastpee said:

I actually prefer accidental over deliberate. The humiliation isn't really where the interest lies but more the slow and steady struggle of someone holding their pee until an inevitable release. It's also why it can take so long in videos since their is a build up to that point. Deliberate wetting has never done anything for me.

From my experience, most of the new Omo content is more deliberate wetting or ABDL as opposed to accidental nowadays. (Unless I'm looking in the wrong places.) A lot of the accidental stuff is usually older videos or is very niche to find. I see way more videos of people doing deliberate wetting. I always reason it to it being faster and easier to do deliberate as opposed to accidental.

That is inaccurate imo. Its "deliberate" in that its porn, obviously. But its nearly all still pretending to have an accident which is so boring. I don't wanna see someone pretend to dance about for 3 minutes first, just get on with it, we know you're not -actually- incapable of holding.

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