dobeesdream 20 Posted January 16, 2022 Share Posted January 16, 2022 I feel like I'm the only one who gets absolutely nothing from genuine accident content...which is unfortunately like, 99% of omo. But then, the part of this I find hot is the humiliation and degradation. To me it's far more embarrassing to have full control of your bladder and intentionally choose to wet because you were commanded to (or to a lesser degree, simply wanted to). It also feels more submissive to do so simply because you were told to. I guess that's because I don't think accidents are embarrassing in the same way psychologically as they aren't a choice, happen to everyone etc. Whereas you're choosing to be a...insert degrading term here. Does anyone else feel a similar way (and even moreso, have any written or visual content fitting that theme rather than 'accidents'). In an unrelated note I think it's pretty hot and degrading to have someone else stick it down and pee YOUR pants, anyone else like that too? (Would've made this a poll if I could, bc i'm curious about the number of people here who prefer deliberate to accidental) Shawnie, luvmybladder4, Lasseman and 1 other 3 1 Quote Link to comment
Skippyboy 88 Posted January 19, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 19, 2022 I'm surprised I'm the first to reply, but yeah for me deliberate wetting is everything. It's the intention that I find such a turn on. The want to do it for pure pleasure and enjoyment. Most of the videos I watch are girls doing it in their knickers deliberately, always made so much better if they are talking about how much they like it while they're doing it. A glorious turn on, especially if they come too ! miska_avadi, GoldenG8, The Dark Wolf and 4 others 7 Quote Link to comment
mystic dreamer 298 Posted January 19, 2022 Share Posted January 19, 2022 (edited) I'm speaking here as one who has it both ways. My "main squeeze" Pamela has been "accident prone" ever since her daughter was born, and in time she discovered that she enjoyed and was aroused by her accidents, so she eventually became a full on omo girl. I have been with her twice during unintentional accidents brought on by her "stress incontinence," and I do find it very arousing when my girl wets her pants at the mall in font of everyone. However, I get more joy from her deliberate wettings. We live far apart and sometimes are only able to get together a few times a year. And I always tickle her until she's soaked, and I love to hear her laughing and laughing in joy while she floods her pants. She sometimes puts on fancy lingerie and gives me a lap dance until we both get all sexed up and she relinquishes control and pees all over my lap in her exotic lingerie. All of these things are done on purpose, because it turns us on and gives us joy. I am also one who has no interest in desperation, holding, doubled-over-with-the-pain-of-it-all type stuff. Edited January 19, 2022 by mystic dreamer (see edit history) nappypants, AliasnameTO, luvmybladder4 and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment
Showerproof 114 Posted January 19, 2022 Popular Post Share Posted January 19, 2022 You are not the only one, there are many different aspects that appeal to different people. For me desperation does nothing, it's just boring to watch, and humiliation is just cringe, but I respect that other people feel differently. What turns me on personally is casual deliberate wetting, myself or others of either gender, although sexually I'm a straight male. It's something to do with the freedom, and rejection of taboo. Best is where someone casually pees themselves while involved in some other activity ( e.g. running, hiking, gardening, cycling, computer gaming, beach games, whatever) and totally ignores their wetness. SirPAlot, RDFan2020, peepantsrunner and 4 others 7 Quote Link to comment
Dunney 475 Posted January 20, 2022 Share Posted January 20, 2022 I wet myself deliberately, and always have. I have no interest in humiliation. I piss myself for pleasure. I wouldn't do it if I didn't love it. Like some of the other posters, I have no interest in desperation either. Just get on with it. You know you're going to wet yourself, and so do we, so just do it. GoldenG8, Acura17, Foxy5420 and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment
Bluesman59 173 Posted January 20, 2022 Share Posted January 20, 2022 11 minutes ago, Dunney said: I wet myself deliberately, and always have. I have no interest in humiliation. I piss myself for pleasure. I wouldn't do it if I didn't love it. Like some of the other posters, I have no interest in desperation either. Just get on with it. You know you're going to wet yourself, and so do we, so just do it. Exactly. This, 100%. Quote Link to comment
Ironylord 21 Posted January 20, 2022 Share Posted January 20, 2022 Humiliation and embarrassment are massive turn offs for me too. I much prefer somebody holding because they like how it feels, than because they're stuck in public with no where to go. I want to see them enjoying themselves, not suffering through the worst day of their life. Dunney 1 Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted January 22, 2022 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted January 22, 2022 In real life I definitely prefer deliberate wetting. In fiction humiliation is fun too but deliberate wettings are always fun in fiction or real life. In this case they are willingly playing out my biggest fetish, likely because they have a fetish for it themselves, and find it to be fun. If it's a real life instance, the pleasure they get out of it is as real as when I wet for fun. I know how fun I find it and how much I enjoy seeing them do it (in the event that they choose to post it for us), and (preferring female wetting) the knowledge that there are girls who absolutely love wetting themselves as much as I do... I have seen a few videos where they make this very clear, like one video of a girl peeing her jeans and saying "I love wetting myself." RDFan2020 1 Quote Link to comment
ParadoxicEros 129 Posted January 22, 2022 Share Posted January 22, 2022 While I don't get 'nothing' out of accidents, I get far more out of doing it deliberately. I've never enjoyed humiliation but I enjoy being witnessed, especially by friends. With accidents I can't really guarantee I'll pee somewhere that I'll enjoy, but doing it on purpose means I can plan for it so I'll be prepared to clean up and mess I make and won't feel horribly guilty for leaving a mess somewhere. Quote Link to comment
David_E 116 Posted January 22, 2022 Share Posted January 22, 2022 YES, like everyone here, I think deliberate wetting - maybe with a bit of embarrassment is by far the most sexy! Shawnie 1 Quote Link to comment
Omoluv 63 Posted January 23, 2022 Share Posted January 23, 2022 On 1/16/2022 at 5:48 AM, dobeesdream said: I feel like I'm the only one who gets absolutely nothing from genuine accident content...which is unfortunately like, 99% of omo. But then, the part of this I find hot is the humiliation and degradation. To me it's far more embarrassing to have full control of your bladder and intentionally choose to wet because you were commanded to (or to a lesser degree, simply wanted to). It also feels more submissive to do so simply because you were told to. I guess that's because I don't think accidents are embarrassing in the same way psychologically as they aren't a choice, happen to everyone etc. Whereas you're choosing to be a...insert degrading term here. Does anyone else feel a similar way (and even moreso, have any written or visual content fitting that theme rather than 'accidents'). In an unrelated note I think it's pretty hot and degrading to have someone else stick it down and pee YOUR pants, anyone else like that too? (Would've made this a poll if I could, bc i'm curious about the number of people here who prefer deliberate to accidental) Exactly same here Quote Link to comment
Shawnie 144 Posted January 23, 2022 Share Posted January 23, 2022 I way love pissing my pants any time I can. Like on a dare or playing a wetting game is way hawt. SirPAlot 1 Quote Link to comment
justfeelsgood 25 Posted January 24, 2022 Share Posted January 24, 2022 I like it too. There are times I like when it's accidental but for the most part I like when it's deliberate, especially when the person doing so expresses enjoyment at wetting themselves. HereToStay and Pantywetter77 1 1 Quote Link to comment
Thinwetboy 163 Posted January 24, 2022 Share Posted January 24, 2022 I agree 100%. I’ve wet my bed by accident plenty of times and I hate it. But when I decide to wet the bed on purpose it’s the best feeling in the world. Very strange. Quote Link to comment
AliasnameTO 335 Posted January 24, 2022 Share Posted January 24, 2022 On 1/19/2022 at 10:17 PM, Dunney said: You know you're going to wet yourself, and so do we, so just do it. This sounds like a line from some desperation fantasy story that turns into deliberate wetting with a little coercion. XDD I like accidental and deliberate wetting differently. Accidental because it's an expression of weakness and vulnerability, forcing that person to deal with being knocked down several pegs in ego and reputation. They may be any combination of unnoticed, ignored, avoided, comforted, teased/bullied, or even blackmailed. It's just a scenario with so many possibilities. My favorite is when it brings friends closer together. Deliberate wetting though, I like because it's empowerment and rejection of social norms. Someone not afraid to passionately let their freak-flag fly in a way that challenges others' worldviews is my favorite kind of person. And specifically in girls and women, it's acknowledgement that they're not put off by at least one gross thing, which makes them a lot more approachable IMO. Like someone you want to learn more about rather than put on a pedestal. I doubt I could be more comfortable around anyone than someone who pees their pants for fun and isn't shy about it. 😄 luvmybladder4 1 Quote Link to comment
dobeesdream 20 Posted January 25, 2022 Author Share Posted January 25, 2022 On 1/24/2022 at 2:20 PM, PeeHour said: I 100% prefer deliberate wettings. The more nonchalant or casual, the better! There's just something about not caring about the norms/aftermath and doing what you wanna do... I can share your perception that a lot of omo content appears to be more accidental, or at least framed that way, especially videos or stories of someone else. When it comes to written experiences, there just isn't as high of a likelihood that you'll spontaneously witness someone purposefully wetting themselves out compared to someone desperate and on the verge of accidentally wetting themselves. Most deliberate wettings occur with the author themselves (sometimes a significant other). This very predicament is actually what turned me on to the 'Fiction' stories on this site. There are many stories of deliberate wetting that still fall within the realm of realism (not just fanfics). Yeah, they don't have the excitement of being real, but they can tick more boxes and allow for more situations besides just privately wetting while standing in your shower. After all, it's not like we can actual confirm what's real without a video, so any content you read is as real as your perception! (I guess I'll use this opportunity as a shameless plug - I have a few multi-part fiction stories that focus primarily on deliberate wetting. Especially since you mentioned you liked the idea of someone being 'commanded' to wet; while this doesn't explicitly occur in my stories, I do have on that centers around a mother who tells her daughter it's ok to wet on purpose). I will try to search for your stories but I'd rather avoid any that mention family. Incest or even the mention of family being involved/knowing is a massive turn off for me. Quote Link to comment
Philbo 15 Posted January 26, 2022 Share Posted January 26, 2022 On 1/24/2022 at 9:48 PM, Thinwetboy said: I agree 100%. I’ve wet my bed by accident plenty of times and I hate it. But when I decide to wet the bed on purpose it’s the best feeling in the world. Very strange. I couldn’t agree more. I just love wetting the bed deliberately even if it’s just because I can’t be bothered to get up to go to the loo. Dunney 1 Quote Link to comment
WetJeans11 7 Posted January 26, 2022 Share Posted January 26, 2022 New here, but I love deliberate wetting. I have been a pants wetter (on purpose) since I was 7. No better turnon in the world. I have searched everywhere for videos of girls peeing in their pants, talking about it (none of this audio-less nonsense) and orgasming IN THEIR JEANS (no nudity). I can't find one like that ANYWHERE! Quote Link to comment
slycat 74 Posted January 30, 2022 Share Posted January 30, 2022 All of my own wettings are deliberate. I can hold for a long time, and I'll use any bathroom, so no need to wet unless I want to. I will admit if I am on a long trip an accident could happen someday if there are no rest areas around, it just hasn't happened yet. There are some days I need to pee more frequently than others. I don't like a lot of desperation and dancing around in videos on her. If it is longer than about 3 minutes or so, try to fast forward through until they get on with it. I'm sure it does happen, but I have never seen an accident in real life. Quote Link to comment
thelastpee 126 Posted January 30, 2022 Share Posted January 30, 2022 I actually prefer accidental over deliberate. The humiliation isn't really where the interest lies but more the slow and steady struggle of someone holding their pee until an inevitable release. It's also why it can take so long in videos since their is a build up to that point. Deliberate wetting has never done anything for me. From my experience, most of the new Omo content is more deliberate wetting or ABDL as opposed to accidental nowadays. (Unless I'm looking in the wrong places.) A lot of the accidental stuff is usually older videos or is very niche to find. I see way more videos of people doing deliberate wetting. I always reason it to it being faster and easier to do deliberate as opposed to accidental. Quote Link to comment
Skippyboy 88 Posted January 31, 2022 Share Posted January 31, 2022 On 1/26/2022 at 7:08 PM, WetJeans11 said: New here, but I love deliberate wetting. I have been a pants wetter (on purpose) since I was 7. No better turnon in the world. I have searched everywhere for videos of girls peeing in their pants, talking about it (none of this audio-less nonsense) and orgasming IN THEIR JEANS (no nudity). I can't find one like that ANYWHERE! Try this ! She rules. GB Komplett.mp4 Quote Link to comment
WetJeans11 7 Posted February 4, 2022 Share Posted February 4, 2022 On 1/31/2022 at 5:32 AM, Skippyboy said: Try this ! She rules. GB Komplett.mp4 I have seen her and the wetting is great! It's not quite what I'm looking for because I don't speak German! Quote Link to comment
dobeesdream 20 Posted February 4, 2022 Author Share Posted February 4, 2022 On 1/30/2022 at 7:46 PM, thelastpee said: I actually prefer accidental over deliberate. The humiliation isn't really where the interest lies but more the slow and steady struggle of someone holding their pee until an inevitable release. It's also why it can take so long in videos since their is a build up to that point. Deliberate wetting has never done anything for me. From my experience, most of the new Omo content is more deliberate wetting or ABDL as opposed to accidental nowadays. (Unless I'm looking in the wrong places.) A lot of the accidental stuff is usually older videos or is very niche to find. I see way more videos of people doing deliberate wetting. I always reason it to it being faster and easier to do deliberate as opposed to accidental. That is inaccurate imo. Its "deliberate" in that its porn, obviously. But its nearly all still pretending to have an accident which is so boring. I don't wanna see someone pretend to dance about for 3 minutes first, just get on with it, we know you're not -actually- incapable of holding. Quote Link to comment
Skippyboy 88 Posted February 7, 2022 Share Posted February 7, 2022 Wetting myself and Cumming through Jeans (pornhub.com) derektor_2000 1 Quote Link to comment
Adrian6970wc 243 Posted February 7, 2022 Share Posted February 7, 2022 I much prefer deliberate, on purpose, wetting to genuine accidents. Having said that, I've had a few genuine desperation sightings in my time and found them quite hot. derektor_2000 1 Quote Link to comment
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