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I am older than most of you and I have had my fair share of experiences, but I have always wondered about other folks on websites like this one.

How many of you have NEVER had a real life omo experience with another person?

How many have had one or just a few omo "incidents" with another person?

How many have had only online experiences with other people?

How many of you have shared a real relationship with another person who was into omo?

How many of you have had more than one "real time" or real life relationships with other people who were into omo?

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I can say other than seeing my coworkers desperate at my job more recently I have had very few real life experiences other than my own experiences of desperation. And as far as relationships goes I am 37 years old, nearly 38 years old, and I have never been in a romantic or sexual relationship with anyone, and I barely have a social life and hardly ever leave the house, so my opportunity to see others desperate or to find others who are into the fetish are pretty limited in that regard. I mean since Covid has happened I haven't even seen my family in nearly 2 years, but I'm hoping that maybe this Thanksgiving that will change.

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As of this writing I'm realizing just how blessed I've been in a lot of ways in regards to this fetish. I'm not into holding, wetting, desperation, or diapers for myself but I love seeing women in those states. So without a partner I'd really have no real life experience at all. As for "real" omo incidents I haven't had any partners have true accidents but each of them have been extremely desperate at times. The ones that knew about my fetish many have played their need up a bit more at times but I've seen every one of them desperate at one point or another. I'm actually reminded of a couple of incidents where my wife had become so desperate she had to pull over and squat at the side of the road. 

Since really coming to terms with the fetish I have told the last three women I've been in relationships with. Of those three none were actually into the fetish per say but they did indulge me with varying degrees of enthusiasm. The first woman had a very small leaking problem when sneezing or laughing too hard. Needless to say it really helped improve my sense of humor as their was a real incentive to making her laugh. On a couple of occasions she wet her panties or her pants for me but it really wasn't her thing. As I've also got a bit of a cloth training panty fetish she even wore a pair once but that really wasn't for her and she never did it again.

The second woman to actually know never wet anything for me. Again this wasn't her fetish but she did indulge me in other ways. She would often tease me with the knowledge that she needed to go or talk about having an accident (this she did a lot during sex). She also wore a pair of cloth training panties for me once and was a lot more receptive to the idea. That relationship didn't last for reasons outside of the fetish however so we never truly explored too much.

Last there is my wife. I told her quite early on about my fetish because after telling the first two I had a bit more confidence about the fetish. Plus after telling the first two it just seemed silly to hide it and I knew even if my partner didn't share this fetish I couldn't keep it secret. She like the others did not share this fetish but she does indulge it quite a bit. She has tried everything from wetting, to training panties, plastic pants, and even diapers. It's not something that happens all the time but multiple times a year I can expect her to wet something or wear something just for me. She has also been kind enough to pose for pictures and even a video once which was above and beyond to me. So when the omo mood strikes me and I want to see this kind of thing I can always look at her photosets and video which are way better than anything I can find online simply because its my wife and I know she did those things just for me. In our "regular" sex life she occasionally teases me with her need to go, or talks about omo during sex but otherwise its pretty nonexistent.

I think unless you actively search the fetish community or come across that special someone the odds of finding someone into this fetish are pretty slim. However that's not to say the right someone wouldn't be willing to indulge you from time to time. I think the best thing you can do is search for someone that you really love and connect with. Then just be open and honest about the fetish; though I don't have a huge track record I've found that is the best way to handle finding an omo partner. Though everyone is different and this fetish may be more important to some people than others. As for me I'm quite happy with what I have with or without omo. 

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I think unless you actively search the fetish community or come across that special someone the odds of finding someone into this fetish are pretty slim. However that's not to say the right someone wouldn't be willing to indulge you from time to time. I think the best thing you can do is search for someone that you really love and connect with. Then just be open and honest about the fetish; though I don't have a huge track record I've found that is the best way to handle finding an omo partner. Though everyone is different and this fetish may be more important to some people than others. As for me I'm quite happy with what I have with or without omo. 

I tried my luck with the fetish community in my area, and I did meet a couple of women with a mild general interest in water sports who agreed to wet their pants for me, but it wasn't really a big interest for them. I have been fortunate in the last seven years in connecting with not just one but two (!!!) women who are into it, and your comment about "coming across that special someone" really hit home with me, since I met both women not through any fetish oriented activity but through very normal means. Pamela was someone I knew vaguely from an online group who came for a vacation in San Miguel Allende and stayed at the B&B I was managing because she already knew my name from our online group. I met Lisa because I was dating a gal whose brother was married to her, but then I broke it off with the girlfriend and discovered about three months later that Lisa had separated from her husband. I still had her email, and she had always impressed me by the way she talked as probably being a total pervert, so I asked her out for a date and it was true. Sometimes you stumble onto the right person.

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Being 19 (aka very young compared to a lot of people on this site 😳), I've only been aware that I'm into omo for roughly 5 years, so I haven't had as much time to have experiences with other people yet. I've only had about a dozen experiences I can recall in which there was another participant around (mostly just friends joining me because they find it funny).

That said, I have had a much larger number of witnessed scenarios, though I don't think that quite counts as what you're looking for. Finding a person who will participate by request is hard and frankly kinda scary for my social anxiety sometimes.

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As much as there's obvious appeal to sharing a fetish with a partner, I also think it's important that you find someone who you connect with and have other things in common as well, otherwise the relationship itself isn't going to last.

Very true, LizJWetting, and I must admit that the two friends with whom I currently enjoy this fetish are just "friends with benefits." My ex-wife was happy to participate, and I was blessed to have had a long term relationship which included omo, and I do think it is probably comparatively rare. But... possible!

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I'm in my late 30s 😭 I've had one relationship with a person who was mainly into holding but the wetting was more accidental. She enjoyed it, and was into it. Unfortunately, just like love isn't enough to make a relationship work, neither is omo. The other two relationships were with people who weren't into it but they indulged in it, so those don't count as much. 

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I didn´t get the chance to share omo with any previous partners which is not strange because I never asked. It took me a long time to get there, but as soon as I had reached the level of self acceptance that I could be honest with a partner I was very lucky. My current partner had no interest in anything pee-related before we met, but he has another fetish so we can understand each other, and truly enjoy exploring each other´s kinks and what it does to the other person.  Now he´s in it for everything I could wish for. We´re wetting our own or each other´s pants, we´re role playing different scenarios , we´re having holding contests and we combine our kinks in a great way. 

I agree with those who say it´s more important that everything else connects than sharing the same kinks. 

 

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I have had a total of two partners into it, as I met both from this community. Every other relationship I've had they were not into it, but it was fairly easy to get them to indulge me. One really liked it but not as a concept; they literally had a kink for turning their partner on, so given omo can turn me into kind of a mess they enjoyed it for that reason immensely and would find reasons to engage in it more.

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1 hour ago, KozmoFox said:

I have had a total of two partners into it, as I met both from this community. Every other relationship I've had they were not into it, but it was fairly easy to get them to indulge me. One really liked it but not as a concept; they literally had a kink for turning their partner on, so given omo can turn me into kind of a mess they enjoyed it for that reason immensely and would find reasons to engage in it more.

I have never thought of "being turned on by turning someone else on" as a kink, but I can totally relate to that. I think that´s the reason why it works so well with my partner. 

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@LizJWetting

"As much as there's obvious appeal to sharing a fetish with a partner, I also think it's important that you find someone who you connect with and have other things in common as well, otherwise the relationship itself isn't going to last."

True but I think that it works both ways. On the one hand you have the fetish if you're going to build any type of relationship that's going to be anything other than just may be some type of occasional hook up to share the fetish with, but if they don't share your fetish it will probably never become a deeper relationship and will remain just a friendship. I couldn't picture myself being involved in a romantic or sexual relationship with people who didn't share my fetishes, so when I am looking for partners I kind of look for fetish first then just hope that they will share some other interest with me. But at this point I have had so little experience that if I found someone who was just a fetish hook up I would be satisfied with that at this point.

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1 hour ago, DesperateJill said:

@LizJWetting 

I couldn't picture myself being involved in a romantic or sexual relationship with people who didn't share my fetishes, so when I am looking for partners I kind of look for fetish first then just hope that they will share some other interest with me. But at this point I have had so little experience that if I found someone who was just a fetish hook up I would be satisfied with that at this point.

It's a shame we live in different parts of the world. 

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My last 2 girlfriends were either very open-minded to that stuff or really enjoyed it for some reason. 

We filmed videos, took photos, they peed outside and inside for me, held to the limit and wet their panties. 

Once I was rubbing my girl through her panties as she was peeing through them , after that we had sex. Also she was constantly talking in bed about her desperate situations which drove me crazy. 

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Throughout my 20s, I mostly explored this fetish on my own or through online fandom communities. There's a lot of talented omo fic writers out there! I met my spouse through fandom on tumblr; we knew that we were both into omo long before we got together. (We would have met in 2015, I think. Those were some good fandom times, before the porn got nuked. At least my partner and I can be pervy IRL now.... I'm really grateful for that.)

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I'm in my late 20s. I've had 1 semi-experience: my gf at the time kind of had an accident while she was riding me. We were both feeling a mix of confusion and arousal, it wasn't very clear lmao. That was the end of it though, we never explored further, we never even really talked about it. However, I'm still very curious about omorashi and I think that semi-experience is what started it all.

I love watching videos of it, but I haven't had much experience irl, so I'm not even sure I'd enjoy it. Hopefully one day I'll find someone willing to explore that fetish with me so I can have a definite answer :p

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I have been married for 20 years to someone who occasionally refers to Omo things in a way that I might find interesting if it were anyone else--but I ever ask as I do not want that complication. Before we married, there was a girl who I had a relationship with--not exactly a girlfriend, though occasionally we had sex--who was apparently into Omo, bit I only discovered later. Too late. The two other girlfriends to whom I proposed Omo activities ended the relationship at that point, so I'm not trying that one again.

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On 11/19/2021 at 3:53 PM, ParadoxicEros said:

Being 19 (aka very young compared to a lot of people on this site 😳), I've only been aware that I'm into omo for roughly 5 years, so I haven't had as much time to have experiences with other people yet. I've only had about a dozen experiences I can recall in which there was another participant around (mostly just friends joining me because they find it funny).

That said, I have had a much larger number of witnessed scenarios, though I don't think that quite counts as what you're looking for. Finding a person who will participate by request is hard and frankly kinda scary for my social anxiety sometimes.

Keep your eyes and ears wide open. I've found people around your age to be much more open than older people. The door seems to start closing in the mid twenties.

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I'm fortunate enough to have blundered into a relationship with someone with compatible kinks. We met in high school, and immediately fell in love. Over the years, as we've grown more comfortable with each other, we've gradually revealed more and more of our kinks. As it so happens, she also had a habit of holding her pee and grinding her legs together. I confessed my interest in desperation, and then a year or so later, and somewhat more bashfully, ABDL. A few years after that, we got married! By that point  we had both mostly figured ourselves out and really just accepted that we enjoyed these kinks together and it makes both of us happier. Just last weekend we were diapered together.

Its like we somehow knew when we first met that we were compatible in many more ways than we knew.

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I'll preface this by saying that the piece of omo that gets me every time is the increasing desperation and pain from filling, but not the release... so maybe I'm not omo at all. My SO *loves* delivering this sexual pain by making me drink throughout our love-making while increasing her levels of tease and denial. The look in her eyes as my desperation grows is to die for. She herself is not into holding at all which I would love to change at some point, but I am blessed to have someone one who knows how to push all my buttons, especially that big one right below the bellybutton :)

 

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I'm very lucky at the moment.  I've been involved in the past with someone with the same fetish, but when two people get together like that it can become all consuming as there is not enough balance.  I think that getting together through sexual interests temporarily hid that we actually had nothing much else in common.

Currently I'm dating a wonderful woman who has no specific interest in this but is very lively, let's say, loves an open bathroom door and at least finds pee (and more) amusing, plus she is interested in at least talking about pretty much anything.  This stops me fixating on fetish to the exclusion of other things.

I think that she is the perfect solution I have been seeking all these years.  As long as I can express myself about peeing and she's open about everything in the bathroom, I don't think I HAVE to have  specific omo related sex.  She's even keen for me to watch any videos that I like alongside. I think she was sent to me by divine intervention, actually!!

There IS more to life... 

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