Cassiopeia8 51 Posted October 23, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2021 Hi, this is my first post. I'm extremely turned on by men having public wetting accidents, and while I am turned on by having an accident myself, I am and always have been terrified by the idea of it actually happening in front of people in public. I developed an overactive bladder as a teenager and had many close calls. I've had several accidents as a teen and adult and while I was so humiliated and ashamed at the time, I at trying to write about them now, because the most recent one was pretty traumatizing. It happened a few weeks ago. I live in NYC and the bar scene has been thriving for the last few months as the vaccination rate went up and the Covid rates went down. I was on a date with a guy I'd been seeing for about a month. We had gone to a couple of rooftop bars and had a few drinks. We decided to leave to go back to his apartment. When I drink, I need to pee like every 30 mins and it becomes urgent pretty quickly and my ability to hold it for a long time decreases. So needless to say, I had peed at the last bar twice, including right before we left. He was going to call an uber but I suggested we take the subway since I was really anxious about being stuck in traffic as I already had to pee again. We hopped on the train, which came right away. It was only 5 stops from his apartment and then a 2 block walk so I wasn't worried, the whole trip typically would take 15-20 mins. Being drunk and horny, we were a bit all over each other on the train. My need to pee quickly increased as he inadvertently pressed on my bladder but I told myself we were 2 stops away and I'd be fine. But then things took a turn. If you've every lived in NYC or even visited, you know that the emergency break being pulled in between stations can be a nightmare. The emergency breaks can be activated for many reasons - anything from a simple track issue to a fire to a jumper to a police situation, etc. The conductor announced that the emergency breaks were pulled because of police activity in the train ahead of us. He apologized for the delay and said we'd hopefully be moving shortly. I began to panic, because "shortly" can mean 2 mins, or 30 mins, or emergency evacuation. We were between stations so it wasn't like we could just be let out. Everyone on the subway groaned. My date was clearly a bit annoyed since he had wanted to take an uber and now it would take longer to get back to his place. My anxiety was going through the roof and only made my need to pee worse. I had drank 3 margaritas, plus a lot of water. It felt like my bladder was at full capacity and my heart was pounding. I nervously bounced my legs up and down and he asked me what's up. I hadn't told him anything about wetting since it takes a lot for me to trust someone with that information and we definitely were not there. I am just as hesitant to share that I have an overactive bladder and crippling fear of wetting myself in public as I am to share my fetish for guys having accidents. I just told him that I hate being stuck on the train and that I needed to use the bathroom. He wasn't too sympathetic but just said we'd probably move soon. I was doing kegels like my life depended on it, squeezing every muscle in my pelvic region to hold onto my pee. I crossed my legs but that put pressure on my bladder because of my tight high-rise skinny jeans. I stood up so I could raise them and relieve some pressure. It helped a bit, and sat down again and crossed my legs, trying to just control my breathing as I know anxiety makes it worse. 5 minutes passed and we still hadn't moved. The conductor just said the same message again. I was sweating, my heart was pounding out of my chest, and it felt like heart was in my bladder, contracting and spasming. I kept my legs crossed and couldn't even speak. My bladder was throbbing. The pee felt like it was at the very tip of my urethra, begging to be released from my tortured bladder. My bladder began to feel numb, which I know is a very very bad sign. I actually got lightheaded from the panic of thinking I might pee in my pants in front of my date and at least 15 other people on the train car, most of whom were other young drunk people out. I decided to stand up because switching positions usually helps shift the pee in my bladder and the pressure can decrease. It worked for a few moments but gravity took over and my bladder was crying out to be relieved so I sat back down. My date tried to talk to me but I told him I had to concentrate. I get really quiet when I need to pee. He looked at me weirdly and my cheeks flushed even more. I felt a few drops escape into my panties. There was no wet spot on my light blue faded jeans but I was just a wreck internally. And then it happened. My bladder was bursting, and I felt a shiver pass over me. It was like a faucet had been turned on slowly then at full blast. I attempted to squeeze my pelvic muscles but it was useless. I completely lost control of my bladder. I was peeing in my pants. On the subway. As a 28-year old woman. I felt my panties and jeans get soaked. My butt got warm and wet as the pee pooled under me. My date jumped up as he noticed what was happening and my pee pooled towards him and reached his leg. In a fight or flight instinct I jumped up too as if to run away but there was nowhere to go. I heard him say "what the f***" and tell the people near him "I don't know what's wrong with this chick". I just turned away from him and the rest of the staring passengers as I continued peeing in my pants. My face was bright red and I felt my eyes fill with tears from shame. The front and back of my jeans were soaked, all the way down my legs and my high heeled booties. The puddle under me grew and slowly rolled down the subway bench and floor as people jumped out of their seats. At last my bladder emptied and the last trickles ran down my legs, my mind went blank. I heard a mixture of "ew"s, "damn"s, laughs, and people saying "hey, leave her alone, don't make it worse". I couldn't look at anyone. My date had literally walked away from me and began chatting/flirting with a group of girls who hadn't wet their pants. I just sat back down in my own pee with my head down and tears falling on my face. A guy came over and said "are you okay?" but I couldn't look up. The train finally moved. When the doors opened I bolted out of the train and raced up the stairs to exit the station. I was completely humiliated walking with very obviously peed-in pants. I didn't want to be seen by anyone but that's kind of impossible in NYC on a Saturday night even at 2am, so I just power-walked back to my apartment several avenues and a bunch of city blocks away. When I got to my neighborhood I prayed I wouldn't see anyone I knew or anyone in my building. I didn't, unless they saw me, and raced into my apartment. I stripped out of my wet clothes and tried to process what had just happened. I took a shower and lay down in bed crying. I was so upset I couldn't touch myself or think about anything pee-related for a week. Finally I began to heal and am able to get aroused by men wetting again, but I still am not ready to feel turned on by this experience. Hopefully that will change with time. Needless to say, I'm not seeing that guy anymore. Bismiris, Missypee, waterrat and 42 others 32 2 1 3 7 Quote Link to comment
notthewees 248 Posted October 23, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted October 23, 2021 Your ex is a tool. I'm glad you dumped his ass. Padded_girl, TheGreatNobody, RainbowUnicorn and 8 others 11 Quote Link to comment
Cassiopeia8 51 Posted October 23, 2021 Author Share Posted October 23, 2021 2 hours ago, notthewees said: Your ex is a tool. I'm glad you dumped his ass. Thanks, agreed. If he had been supportive and into it, it probably wouldn't have been nearly as traumatic and maybe it would've lead to some great sex. But I am glad I saw his true colors sooner than later. Solomorashin, MikeyW and bangboom 3 Quote Link to comment
Cassiopeia8 51 Posted October 23, 2021 Author Share Posted October 23, 2021 2 hours ago, LizJWetting said: Yeah, that sounds tough. As much as we might be turned on by wetting or even find the idea of this exciting, the reality of wetting yourself in public like that must be rather traumatic. I appreciate that! I wish my date had been sympathetic or even better, into it. It would have made the experience so different. Traumatic as it was, I think in time I will be able to be turned on by my loss of control and wetness and even humiliation, especially since it was my own. As much as I like to watch guys have accidents, I don't want anyone to feel trauma from it. Quote Link to comment
Bedwettingchik12 322 Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 That is horrible!! I’m so sorry that happened to you. yes, while we get aroused by wetting and even accidents of ourselves and others, public accidents are never something we want to experience, and I can’t imagine someone reading this and thinking “yeah this is good stuff” as we can tell it was a horrible experience for you. in my opinion, and experience, I don’t know if you’ll EVER get turned on by this experience. But that’s okay. You’ll get to a point where you can even laugh about it. I hope you’re okay now!! Padded_girl, Shoshana and Bismiris 3 Quote Link to comment
Shoshana 69 Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 I'm so sorry you went through this. There's no reason for you to be turned on by what happened. If there comes a time when you are, so be it. But this was not your plan for the evening. Hopefully you won't experience it again. Quote Link to comment
Tellnoone 2,400 Posted October 23, 2021 Share Posted October 23, 2021 This is a very well told story and I liked reading it, but i definitely don´t like that it happened to you for real. I´m often fantasizing about and sometimes role playing having humiliating accidents like that, but I doubt I´d like it as a real event. Since you´re sharing it here I guess at least you´re recovering from the trauma, and I look forward to hear more of your stories, maybe some more enjoyable memories of yours? Marco 1 Quote Link to comment
Pee24NYC 0 Posted October 24, 2021 Share Posted October 24, 2021 Hey! I saw your post and I’m so sorry that happened to you! I’m 24 and based in NYC and I always get so nervous about revealing this kink! Usually takes me a few dates in, and sometimes after that they leave. Quote Link to comment
ews21 310 Posted October 24, 2021 Share Posted October 24, 2021 (edited) 13 hours ago, Cassiopeia8 said: I was so upset I couldn't touch myself or think about anything pee-related for a week. Finally I began to heal and am able to get aroused by men wetting again, but I still am not ready to feel turned on by this experience. Hopefully that will change with time. Needless to say, I'm not seeing that guy anymore. Welcome to the site fellow New Yorker! Also was the name Cassiopeia because of this event or because you like astronomy? I am glad you are not seeing that guy anymore you deserve way better and I am sorry that you had to experience that. I dont know if it is too early, but that was a really well written story. Here is a virtual hug! Edited October 24, 2021 by ews21 typo (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
liesjeversteven 1,826 Posted October 24, 2021 Share Posted October 24, 2021 I'm really sorry this happened to you darling, but it was a good read. I hope you get over it. I know how it feels. I've had my share of accidents in my life too so it was quite recognisable. As for the completey and utter tool of a guy you were with that evening: good riddance. The least he could have done is comfort you and help you home. What an arse! nappypants and leepee43 1 1 Quote Link to comment
Ian Newton 299 Posted October 24, 2021 Share Posted October 24, 2021 And the Bellend of the Week award goes to...that man! Quote Link to comment
jrs1989 132 Posted October 24, 2021 Share Posted October 24, 2021 Fuck that guy. Part of living in NYC is understanding that the subways are a force of chaos, and being a human about it — with strangers but even more so with your friends/people you're on dates with! What an ass. Quote Link to comment
Pisikak 147 Posted October 24, 2021 Share Posted October 24, 2021 They were seeing each other for a month, and yet instead of being supportive, the guy acted like a complete stranger - fetish or not. If anything, that was a good opportunity to realize that relationship was going nowhere. That being said, I feel trust issues often complicate relationships for us. Many people simply don't tell their significant other what they like, what they get turned on, what they fear. Even when they're already married. The sooner they know what makes you tick - the better. For people like us relationships with those who don't appreciate nor tolerate our fetishes often have no sense. My ex would arrive on every date after extensive preparation which included lots of tea and coffee. She was well aware I'm into this, that I'd liked her bladder to be as full as possible, and that she absolutely couldn't go during a date unless I said so. She would normally be restless and impatient from the moment she said hi - crossing her legs, unable to neither stand nor sit still. Of course, as it happens one day I simply pressed on her bladder way too hard and she had an accident in her dress and panties. Fortunately, it wasn't really noticeable, it's just her bottom was really wet. We kissed and laughed it off like it's no biggie. Can't imagine reacting differently to a girl who was dying for a pee for hours and wouldn't even look in the direction of the toilets - all to make me happy. luvmybladder4 and kamina 2 Quote Link to comment
Guest Posted October 24, 2021 Share Posted October 24, 2021 I'm sorry for the awful experience, but that story is super hot. If it was me, you definitely would've had a different ending to the night ;-). Why can I never find girls like this? I'd appreciate them right 😄 Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,584 Posted October 24, 2021 Share Posted October 24, 2021 I was enjoying your story until I read how profoundly you were humiliated, and you date was such a dick. I get no pleasure from people getting so seriously embarrassed like that. I am sorry tjis happened to you. You write well ,however , and I hope you have stories that were not so painful for you. Quote Link to comment
chimera 107 Posted October 24, 2021 Share Posted October 24, 2021 If that hadn't happened you might not have learned what an ass he is until later. Still a terrible thing that happened though. It's not your fault though. Quote Link to comment
Cantholdit95 72 Posted October 25, 2021 Share Posted October 25, 2021 Sorry to hear about your experience, can't believe your date was such a dick. That could literally have happened to anyone. Hopefully one day your able to look back and maybe even enjoy it, since your into public wetting. I've always thought it would be kinda hot to have an experience like that, tho I'd probably also be traumatized in the moment lol. Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted October 25, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted October 25, 2021 Really sorry to hear about this. As much as I am into female wetting, I too can't take any pleasure in an utterly humiliating pee accident, male or female. I hope it can get better someday. Quote Link to comment
umbilicalnoose 30 Posted October 25, 2021 Share Posted October 25, 2021 I work in the medical field, there's a real gamut of cruelty in every way you can imagine, but sometimes things like this catch you off guard and you realize that cruelty is a spectrum, and there are some real assholes out there. I am sorry for your experience Quote Link to comment
Lovetoholdin 38 Posted October 25, 2021 Share Posted October 25, 2021 Just a side note. Very long time ago I saw someone on a different but related site with your username Cassiopeia8 what happened to the pee in your username lol. I also would have felt humiliated by that experience as I don't have wetting experienced in public. I'm sorry that happened to you. Welcome to the site. Quote Link to comment
cumonerybody 78 Posted November 29, 2021 Share Posted November 29, 2021 Yeeeeeeerrrrrr...fellow dweller of the 5 boroughs here, I am so sorry this happened to you. It is definitely not a turn on when it is unplanned and unwanted. My only positive prospect for you on this is that I am almost certain that everyone who was there that day totally forgot about it. You know the vibe living in this city; stupid shit happens so often we New Yorkers can't keep up, especially in my borough. Not tryna cap and desensitize your feelings about this event, but I promise you it aint the end of the world. If NYPD wasn't involved and if it ain't make The Post, it didn't happen. Plus with all the fucking homelessness and vagrancy we have going around lately in the city (Thanks Diblasio) I can almost guarantee you were not the only head who pissed themselves on the subway that night. Nah no funny though but I remember like 2 years ago my friends and I were riding the R to downtown Brooklyn, and this fucking drunk ass dude deadass threw up all over himself, and then proceeded to just lay back down in it. Shit was so fucking foul but dude didn't seem to care. Anyway, the guy you were with was an asshole with a small ass dick, like most guys here in New York. You deserve better. Anyway, as it has been a month I am sure you recovered from this ordeal by now, but if you haven't, I am here if you wish to talk 😄 Quote Link to comment
PrincessInTheP 3,328 Posted November 29, 2021 Share Posted November 29, 2021 Making out on the subway. Yum. Dates that are dicks. NEXT! And you lived my dream, humiliation and all. I'm so so sorry this happened to you as it is obvi not YOUR dream. But if it's any consolation I've had gfs stone sober puke or shit in handbags on it while waiting for the subway. It gets desperate down there. Lost count of how many people I've seen puke or piss. It happens. Hugs. Quote Link to comment
jboarder64L 766 Posted November 29, 2021 Share Posted November 29, 2021 What a dick! I’m so sorry you had to deal with that. There’s literally nothing you could have done in that situation that would have changed anything. Not that it’s much consolation but at least being in the city, it’s extremely unlikely you’d ever see any of those people again. Hang in there! Quote Link to comment
Mariner62 1,552 Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 Even when you're into omo, a public accident can still be very embarrasing. Had I been with you, I would have wet my pants so you wouldn't have to be the only one embarrassed. Quote Link to comment
ssjammerz 614 Posted November 30, 2021 Share Posted November 30, 2021 Wow. What an asshole. I'm glad you recovered though. Also good to know there were some other empathetic people out there. Quote Link to comment
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