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I'm bisexual, but I only like content with male omorashi. Is this normal?


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I tend to switch my preferences between male omo and female omo, depending on my feelings on a given day.  They have quite different vibes to them.  I could see preferring male omo, because it's so much more taboo for a man to wet his pants or bed or need to pee frequently.  Accidents are so emasculating and the humiliation is strong and exciting, so I understand having the preference for male omo.

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I'm a heterosexual male and don't like male porn or even peeing. BUT when it comes to desperation, and I mean REAL desperation (spurting, shaking, losing it), there are a few videos I find really cool, just because I can feel inside his situation. This is the only time where I even like to watch those videos. I don't want to see these videos every time but from time to time I like them and it can get me over the edge. It's not a sexual thing per sé but the visualisation of your naughty thoughts that can "help" you 😉

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I'm a heterosexual male. And I guess my Omo is also primarily heterosexual. I prefer female wetting and peeing or watersport. I have no problem wetting myself in front of a female also if it's an accident... But I fear that a man should see me wet myself. The same goes for talking about the subject I have never talked to male friends about Omo but I have talked to female friends. I can't explain the reason. However I have lately started to sometimes watch male wetting videos, as the same reason as other talk about, that I can imagine the feelings.

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I'm female, and I was exclusively into male omo during the many years when my kink was a hidden secret/fantasy that i didn't endulge in much. Even when i masturbated to fantasies of myself wetting i was imagining myself being a man.

I think this was a way to distance myself from the kink, and maybe also try to put it in the box of "normal heterosexuality" instead of seeing what it truly is to me- mostly a monosexual fetish not directed towards any particular gender.

When i got rid of the shame and started accepting and embracing this as an important part of me, I started to wet myself more often, and i also soon became much more interested in female content. Now I love all kinds, but i actually slightly prefer female omo since it's easier for me to imagine the physical sensations.

I'm not saying this applies to anyone else but me, but it could be an explanation to some people's preferences and why they sometimes change.
 

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@The Dark Wolf

"From what I've heard in my time here it doesn't seem uncommon for people's omo interest/fetish to not be consistent with their sexual orientation."

I think this is true as well, as I have talked to a very large number of people and it seems an overwhelmingly large number of supposedly otherwise heterosexual women seem to be more turned on by female desperation, and that female desperation seems to be more popular in general, even among straight women. But I think that in most cases it does align with your sexual orientation such as me being a lesbian and only being into female desperation.


Presumably if you are bisexual or pansexual or have a more fluid attraction to both sexes you probably find different things attractive in different sexes, so it is perfectly consistent that you might only find desperation to be attractive on one sex rather than the other even if you are attracted to both sexes in general.

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Thanks everyone. I'm just getting comfortable with this fetish even though I've liked it for as long as I can remember. I only have one friend who knows about this and she only knows because she wanted to read my works on Archive of Our Own and I made her guess what the main plot point was about. To my surprise she did after about thirty minutes of guessing. Now I trust her to edit my stories for me. She isn't into this kind of thing herself, but she enjoys reading and editing my works. Writing fiction about my fetish helps me to normalize it.

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10 hours ago, DesperateJill said:

@The Dark Wolf

"From what I've heard in my time here it doesn't seem uncommon for people's omo interest/fetish to not be consistent with their sexual orientation."

I think this is true as well, as I have talked to a very large number of people and it seems an overwhelmingly large number of supposedly otherwise heterosexual women seem to be more turned on by female desperation, and that female desperation seems to be more popular in general, even among straight women. But I think that in most cases it does align with your sexual orientation such as me being a lesbian and only being into female desperation.


Presumably if you are bisexual or pansexual or have a more fluid attraction to both sexes you probably find different things attractive in different sexes, so it is perfectly consistent that you might only find desperation to be attractive on one sex rather than the other even if you are attracted to both sexes in general.

It aligns with me in that way too. But there are other factors to female wetting being my preference. (I found it extremely rare in my younger days even among shows that do it to male characters, much like how some people prefer male omo cause they think it's less expected of men)

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I’m a lesbian.  When I imagine getting married or having a “normal” romantic relationship, it’s always with another woman.  
 

A lot of my wetting fantasies have to do with having accidents, being humiliated, being diapered, and being controlled.  It’s somewhat of a BDSM thing for me, I guess.  In my omo related fantasies, the other person is always a man.  I have no idea why.  I don’t want to sleep with men, but I want one to simultaneously make fun of me and comfort me after I accidentally wet myself.  Weird, right?

When I’m reading about stories and experiences, these days the gender of the person who wets isn’t that important.  

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@Rose writes

"A lot of my wetting fantasies have to do with having accidents, being humiliated, being diapered, and being controlled.  It’s somewhat of a BDSM thing for me, I guess.  In my omo related fantasies, the other person is always a man.  I have no idea why.  I don’t want to sleep with men, but I want one to simultaneously make fun of me and comfort me after I accidentally wet myself.  Weird, right?"

I don't think that that's weird at all. I have no physical or sexual attraction to men and I am totally lesbian, but at the same time I think that I get more excited by a situation where a man can relieve himself when I cannot. Something about the way that men can boldly flaunt their ability to relieve themselves I think makes me weak at the knees. Again I'm not attracted to seeing men peeing or anything like that, but the fact that they are able to relieve themselves while I am bursting, I guess because of my life history as I have related in other threads, that just seems to produce a very visceral reaction in me, sort of a bit of a masochistic buzz. You see a guy peeing while you are holding it and your whole body wants to scream in rebellion. So when I see guys laughing at you or mocking you in a situation where you can't relieve yourself I can get where you are coming from on that.

I actually noticed this from chatting with somebody about this very topic where somebody said that when they found me in a desperate situation but I came across as more feminine. And I think that there is some kind of truth to that, because when you are stand there crossing your legs and uncrossing them furiously as guys are making a loud trickle in the bushes it certainly does something to you mentally that makes you feel like you are in a really feminine situation, like you are sort of in a damsel in distress situation that can be kind of exciting in a masochistic way.


Likewise sometimes when I am on this board and I am posting about my situations where I can't go to the bathroom and I see guys making comments about how great it is or laughing or liking my status, I mean on one hand I kind of want to scream, but on the other hand it sort of like teehee I feel really girly right now, stuck with a full bladder and all of these guys having a grand old time at my expense. So it produces sort of conflicted feelings because I know I'm arousing people of the opposite sex because of my feminine tinkle troubles lol.


But again it still consistent with I think with my sexual identity because again I am only physically attracted to women or seeing women desperate and have zero desire for physical or sexual contact with. But something about a guy peeing when I cannot does sort of produce a weird sort of sexual feelings, a very submissive feminine feeling.

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What's Normal? 

Some would say that this whole omorashi thing that we like isn't normal. 

You are going to like, what you like. There is nothing wrong with that, and that is just part of who you are. Is it normal? maybe not, but who cares. As long as your aren't hurting anyone or breaking any laws, like what you like and just enjoy yourself. It may not be normal, but there is nothing wrong with it. 

I'm male, and I tend to like female wetting the best. But that being said, I do like male wettings as well, especially when it is in the context of mutual couples wettings. I think that those are really hot. If I get a chance to see anyone wetting, male or female, I'm certainly going to enjoy the moment. Is that normal? Maybe not, but who cares.

So again I ask you, what's normal? Maybe the better question is, what's normal for you? Only you can decide that. So stay wet, and enjoy yourself

Have you wet yourself today? Then it has been too long.

D

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On 9/26/2021 at 7:24 PM, MaleOmoFan94 said:

Hi, I'm a bisexual female, but I only like content with male omo. I love stories about men with weak bladders and poor control. I love stories about men wetting the bed as well. I have no interest in stories with female content. Are there others out there who are only into male omo?

Yup! 100% the same for me. Bi and only into seeing guys wet and wetting myself. No such thing as normal/not normal in my mind. We are all who we are 🙂 

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This could be for any number of reasons. In adults, male desperation and especially wetting is a lot rarer than female, for reasons obsessively explored on these forums. It can feel more shocking and special. There is also the emasculation element, which may be awakening your hidden domme tendencies. Additionally, due to the extraordinary organ we call the brain, a cis woman may have such intense empathy for another cis woman's physical sensations that it ends up being a turn-off because she can literally feel her pain.

 

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On 9/28/2021 at 3:36 PM, The Dark Wolf said:

From what I've heard in my time here it doesn't seem uncommon for people's omo interest/fetish to not be consistent with their sexual orientation.

Mine certainly isn't. I'm not sure why, but I prefer male omo. I think it's because I can identify with it, whereas female omo is wishful thinking, at least these days. One thing is a definite turn-off though, and that's a fat belly overhanging the belt line.

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Just wanted to add my perspective as well. It's not much different from everyone else.

I define my sexuality as 90% straight CIS male. There's part of my sexuality that is attracted to men on a purely sexual level (I have no desire to be loving with a male), but I'm mostly interested in woman. That includes this kink. When I watch male content I do so to project myself into the situation. It turns me on to imagine that I'm the one peeing my pants.

When I watch female content I'm looking at the woman. I want to be attracted to her and I enjoy it if they change on camera after the wetting. I like to see the panties, in particular. It's definitely sexual.

So, basically, whatever gets you going is cool.

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