Charlie Kirby 829 Posted August 3, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted August 3, 2021 Hey, This isn’t the first time I’ve wet the bed in my sleep, but it was equally unnerving as the first. I was staying in a hotel for work. It’s less common now than before COVID. Back then, my partner didn’t know about my fetish so was opportunistic with nights away. I was always extremely cautious about leaving the rooms pristine. I would conduct games on bed pads / in diapers, and took sufficient wipes and disinfectant to thoroughly cleanup after. It’s only when I confessed my fetish that my partner admitted finding some ‘wetting kit’ in my packing once. Bless her, she kept quiet all this time to avoid embarrassment. I was mortified but admittedly very endeared by her discretion. I’m grateful such secrecy is no longer needed. Besides the dishonesty, when I’m away for work it’s because I have long physical days on location, so passion in the hotel room was always finite. I digress. About 10 days ago I checked in with my colleagues late after an extremely tiring day. I emptied my bladder in the shower, bedded down, then called my partner to say our goodnights. Perhaps goodnites would have been more appropriate. (Fabulous pun, you’re welcome!) I didn’t feel turned on. I had a dehydration headache. I hadn’t drunk alcohol. My bladder was most definitely empty. I was very, very tired. In the night the unthinkable woke me. I was lying on wet sheets. Unlike previous times this has happened, I hadn’t been dreaming about pee or anything erotic. In fact, I hadn’t dreamt at all. I also didn’t wake while peeing, feeling the unmistakable trickle and instantly clenching up. None of that. I woke with no indication of incontinence at all, other than wet sheets. Besides where I was laying, they were cold. The mishap evidently occurred a while before I stirred. Definitely not time of the month. My second sleepy thought was that, because I was near a window, this was condensation or rain or something that had made it somehow into the bed. But I took long breaths under the covers and the aroma was unmistakable. I traced the damp patch with my fingers and confirmed it was centred around my bottom. Indeed, my panties were soaked through too. Perhaps this was done by a previous occupant and my weight on the sheets had simply pushed the liquid to the surface? I know, sounds silly. I was half asleep when I thought this and it was enough of an explanation for me to drift back to sleep. The light of morning confirmed that I had wet the bed. I felt awful. It was unclear just how much disobedient pee had made its escape from my sleeping body, but it was clearly substantial. Not only by the smell in the room, but by the distinct large yellow stain I had inadvertently created. After so many times I had peed in hotel beds and left the room evidence free, I had failed spectacularly. I felt awful. Before checkout, I stripped the bed to find the hotel had a protector on the mattress. Thank goodness. The mattress itself was dry. Unfortunately the duvet cover was not waterproof. I bundled it all so it could be handled by dry patches alone, and left the mess in the shower along with a very apologetic note. My panties were sacrificed in a sanitary bag in the bin. If I carried cash, I would have left a tip. I can only hope housekeeping were not offended by my accident. To be brutally honest, I was also very worried about an additional service charge being seen by my boss. I can’t imagine the embarrassment there. I planned an unimaginative cover story about a spilled drink and hoped the conversation would never occur. It hasn’t yet, so looks like that’s the end of it. The whole experience has left me extremely nervous. Subconscious bed wetting has been a long running fear for me. My sister had problems with it into her teens and I totally empathise with the pain it caused. Luckily I’ve had very few actual accidents but all the time I was with my partner before she knew my fetish, I was terrified of something occurring. Both awake during playtimes and asleep. Now, thankfully I feel an event like this at home would be generally acceptable. My fear is this could happen again while on business, or worse staying with my partner’s family sleeping in her bed. The only rational explanation I can think of was that I was extremely tired and sleeping in a different bed. Could that cause a slip up? If so I fear diapers may have to be used for trips away from home. The real worry was that all the things I can think would prevent it were already done. As I said, I peed before bed. I was unhealthily dehydrated after a long day, and I had no alcohol in my system. Scary. Missypee, xixi, rachelkirwan and 4 others 5 2 Quote Link to comment
sandy808 1,192 Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 Omo fun aside it sounds like you had an unnerving experience. If you are worried about it then wear a diaper or other protection and sleep soundly. Charlie Kirby 1 Quote Link to comment
Kaneki 6 Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 Loved your story! Thank you for sharing! Sorry that it was a mortifying experience for you. Hope you still had a good day/trip. It’s always my nightmare scenario to wet a hotel bed. Always so nervous when I travel or do vacation stuff without being100% prepared because just when I think I’ve had some dry nights in a row I’ll wet when I least meant to. Quote Link to comment
xixi 167 Posted August 4, 2021 Share Posted August 4, 2021 I'm no specialist, but I'd guess that, because you were too tired, your body decided not to wake you up to empty your bladder and rather just kept you asleep for a longer, much needed rest. I second Sandy, if are worried it will happen again, maybe you could use protection just in case. After this event doesn't repeat itself you can be assured that this was a exceptional occurrence. Charlie Kirby 1 Quote Link to comment
Charlie Kirby 829 Posted August 5, 2021 Author Share Posted August 5, 2021 19 hours ago, xixi said: …After this event doesn't repeat itself you can be assured that this was a exceptional occurrence. Thanks for your kind words. This is what I’m hoping! Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted August 6, 2021 Share Posted August 6, 2021 This happened to me too many years ago. I was not a regular bedwetter back than and only had occasional wetting accidents at night, maybe a few per year, but it had to happen right when I was on a business trip and stayed in a hotel. It was so embarrassing to call the receptionist in the middle of the night and tell her what happened. I was also afraid they will charge bed cleaning to a company credit card which I used for booking the room, but luckily they didn't. That would be really embarrassing conversation when I would have to explain what happened. I would probably lie and tell I spilled something on the bed. Admitting at work that I peed my bed would not be really an option. Quote Link to comment
Big Girl Stacy 926 Posted August 6, 2021 Share Posted August 6, 2021 Thanks for sharing your experience. Bedwetting is incredibly unpredictable, and I'm sorry that you ended up wetting your bed at that moment. I think many of us who struggle with sleeping dry at night can relate to your experience here. Thank you for sharing! <3 Quote Link to comment
Reeve 1,868 Posted August 6, 2021 Share Posted August 6, 2021 I'm sorry to hear this happened to you and how it affected you. I recently had an accidental bedwetting a couple weeks ago, though thankfully it happened at home in my own bed. I have a mattress protector but it doesn't quite work 100%. I didn't sleep well for a couple nights before so I was really tired and I took a cannabis edible to sleep better. I emptied my bladder before bed though I was maybe a little too hydrated and I must have been too knocked out, so I woke up feeling the slightly cold wetness around me. You mentioned you were really dehydrated, well that can actually cause urine to be really concentrated and can irritate your bladder, so its possible that could have been a factor. Its best to stay properly hydrated and probably stop drinking any liquids a couple hours before bed time. I don't think housekeeping would be offended by it. I'm sure it happens more than you think, and of course accidents do happen. One product I would recommend is a PeaPod Mat, which is a waterproof and washable mat. They're pretty comfy and not noisy when you move around on them and can absorb quite a lot. If you were to have an accident on it while away from home, you could fold it up and put it in a garbage bag and bring it home to wash. Big Girl Stacy 1 Quote Link to comment
Big Girl Stacy 926 Posted August 6, 2021 Share Posted August 6, 2021 43 minutes ago, Reeve said: I'm sorry to hear this happened to you and how it affected you. I recently had an accidental bedwetting a couple weeks ago, though thankfully it happened at home in my own bed. I have a mattress protector but it doesn't quite work 100%. I didn't sleep well for a couple nights before so I was really tired and I took a cannabis edible to sleep better. I emptied my bladder before bed though I was maybe a little too hydrated and I must have been too knocked out, so I woke up feeling the slightly cold wetness around me. You mentioned you were really dehydrated, well that can actually cause urine to be really concentrated and can irritate your bladder, so its possible that could have been a factor. Its best to stay properly hydrated and probably stop drinking any liquids a couple hours before bed time. I don't think housekeeping would be offended by it. I'm sure it happens more than you think, and of course accidents do happen. One product I would recommend is a PeaPod Mat, which is a waterproof and washable mat. They're pretty comfy and not noisy when you move around on them and can absorb quite a lot. If you were to have an accident on it while away from home, you could fold it up and put it in a garbage bag and bring it home to wash. I second the PeaPod mat. Ever since I got mine, it's been a constant on my bed. Really nice to have some assurance that if I leak, the pee has somewhere to go besides my mattress protector. Quote Link to comment
Stanley79 636 Posted August 7, 2021 Share Posted August 7, 2021 Reviewing the points above. (I'm an irregular bed flooder. In September I'll need to tell a cousin I bed wet so she will know before we stay in a motel.) 1. Hotel policy usually allows for some for food, beverage and bladder spills. They don't want to lose future customers. 2. Diapers: A. Before using a diaper in a hotel, make sure it can contain you entire capacity and will not leak with you in you normal sleeping position. B. Be sure you can sleep in the style you choose before depending on it during a trip. C. Pack odor-confining disposal bags. 3. Cannabis can make some people sleep though bladder signals, can reduce inhibitions to releasing urine and in some people has a strong diuretic effect. All that's good for age play. Also, a cannabis and beer sleepover great game for who will wake dry and who not. But for bed wetting. . . 4. Dehydration does indeed make urine more irritating and sometimes hard to hold. 5. Extra tired: Almost always some controlling person can set up another to get extra tired. 6. A Pee Pod Mat is my number one always use item for containing my unpredictable night floods. Quote Link to comment
slothmallow 367 Posted September 11, 2021 Share Posted September 11, 2021 Hey, I'm so sorry this happened to you. 😞 It sounds like it was quite scary and mortifying. You're quite brave for sharing. A lot of people struggle with incontinence, and I think it should be talked about more to normalize it and remove the shame and stigma. I hope that you find the right products, diapers or whatever, to help with your dilemma. ❤️ Charlie Kirby 1 Quote Link to comment
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