DespLoveDennis 96 Posted July 9, 2021 Share Posted July 9, 2021 I sort of interpreted the "easier" as a psychological thing when I read the topic title. Because there is one important thing: as a man you aren't used to holding it in inconvenient situations. You might have held it because you sort of chose to, but not out of pure necessity. And some men like me grab every opportunity they have to do a quick pee. Just because it is a minor thing to quickly visit a toilet and relieve that bladder. But when situations suddenly arise where I cannot visit a toilet and my bladder is filling, I have noticed I get a lot of stress from it. While my female companions might feel equally uncomfortable, but are sort of more calm about it. For them it's like: we have been here before. While my brain is like: hey, I want to pee, what do you mean I cannot do that? So at that moment it often seems "easier" for women to hold it. For me as a guy it is psychological torture. And okay, we might be at the same level of desperation, the desperation is much more difficult to bear for me at that point. DesperateJill 1 Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,781 Posted July 10, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted July 10, 2021 @DespLoveDennis This again goes back to my other thread about women more patient waiting in line for the bathroom or waiting for the bathroom in general. Women are just expected to hold it and they get used to the fact that probably going to have to hold it in lots of situations where men are able to pee. For men that is extremely rare, so I imagine it is more frustrating on those rare occasions when it does happen because men have not learned to be patient about getting their urinary needs met, as they usually get themmet right away, where as for women a potential wait is an expected thing all the time. Quote Link to comment
D0nt45k 169 Posted July 10, 2021 Share Posted July 10, 2021 (edited) 28 minutes ago, DesperateJill said: @DespLoveDennis This again goes back to my other thread about women more patient waiting in line for the bathroom or waiting for the bathroom in general. Women are just expected to hold it and they get used to the fact that probably going to have to hold it in lots of situations where men are able to pee. For men that is extremely rare, so I imagine it is more frustrating on those rare occasions when it does happen because men have not learned to be patient about getting their urinary needs met, as they usually get themmet right away, where as for women a potential wait is an expected thing all the time. Speak for yourself, most of the guys I know are taught to be stoic about their needs and don't complain about it until it's almost unbearable if forced to wait for some reason (though, again, this usually isn't necessary). The main exceptions are older guys who probably suffer from enlarged prostates and so can't hold it as long. Edited July 10, 2021 by D0nt45k (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Spectator9 952 Posted July 10, 2021 Share Posted July 10, 2021 1 hour ago, D0nt45k said: Speak for yourself, most of the guys I know are taught to be stoic about their needs and don't complain about it until it's almost unbearable if forced to wait for some reason (though, again, this usually isn't necessary). The main exceptions are older guys who probably suffer from enlarged prostates and so can't hold it as long. I agree that some men are, indeed, stoic and don't complain until they're truly desperate. They feel that they're supposed to be "strong", and they avoid showing any sign of weakness - like needing to pee. Others are shy and feel embarrassed about mentioning the need. Quote Link to comment
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