Mbgpeelover 8,721 Posted June 20, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted June 20, 2021 Sometimes I feel I can hold my bladder for ages squirming as I read a book or do housework or having to hold discreetly in a business meeting. Of course I love that tingling pressure feeling and how that makes my body and mind feel. But I also love being sexually teased and foreplay and love edging sexually for hours too. Sometimes I can control my bladder even in extreme situations but other times I can’t, and the same with holding back an orgasm. Somwhatbdo you feel you can control the most: your need to pee when desperate or your need to climax when very sexually arroused? DespAndHold, Despguy123 and Shoshana 3 Quote Link to comment
DlavalD 190 Posted June 20, 2021 Share Posted June 20, 2021 (Unfortunately) I have more control over my need to pee I think ! Not that I suffer from premature ejaculation often but if I get really aroused, for example through Omorashi foreplay or with a new partner, I won't last long in bed after that ^^' Another thing is when I'm holding to the limit purposely and horny I usually cum from pee desperation (hands free) then start to leak pee. I think it's kinda hot but it hurts when it happens and usually I give up on holding on at this point because the pleasure is gone and the pain gets unbearable. Quote Link to comment
Guest cauallywet Posted June 20, 2021 Share Posted June 20, 2021 I am much better at controlling my bladder that my need to climax. Ive gotten better at the later though Quote Link to comment
China Girl 835 Posted June 20, 2021 Share Posted June 20, 2021 Absolutely terrible at both. Although it could be that my husband is just very good at sex/tickling. Quote Link to comment
astralis 728 Posted June 21, 2021 Share Posted June 21, 2021 Holding my bladder for sure. I can draw my orgasm out a good bit but once it hits that certain point it's just gonna happen, whereas I've never involuntarily leaked or fully wet myself, no matter how much I hold. Quote Link to comment
secretomoact 2,353 Posted June 21, 2021 Share Posted June 21, 2021 Bladder, definitely. I have had a few... embarrassing incidents with the other, but my partner just takes it as a sign that he's really good at pleasuring me, lol. Quote Link to comment
Calvin1 340 Posted June 21, 2021 Share Posted June 21, 2021 Bladder. It seems the older I get, the quicker I will orgasm. Not a big deal since I am alone. When I was young I used to masturbate on the long drive from my parents back to work, to keep from wetting myself. Those days are long gone. Now if I try that, instantly finished, and then urgent pee. Quote Link to comment
PrincessEsther 272 Posted June 21, 2021 Share Posted June 21, 2021 okay. so i know i’m the sometimes oab, sometimes urge incontinent girl who’s about to sound ridiculous, but i have an easier time holding in my pee literally my oab attacks and bouts of urge incontinence make me cum, reflexively, from clenching my muscles to try to hold my pee honestly though, with partners or even sometimes just myself, trying to manually get off, i have trouble sometimes. so that’s almost the opposite problem. most of my lewdity that isn’t pee related ends up being edging nappypants 1 Quote Link to comment
liesjeversteven 1,826 Posted June 21, 2021 Share Posted June 21, 2021 Definitely my ability to orgasm. I orgasm very easily and I'm very happy about that. I can actually think/fantasize myself to an orgasm without touching myself. My bladder control on the other hand is much less trustworthy. Quote Link to comment
China Girl 835 Posted June 21, 2021 Share Posted June 21, 2021 I've had an orgasm without being touched too, but it was while wetting myself in front of my husband. I wasn't being touched physically but the fact he was so turned on by it pushed me over the edge. liesjeversteven and nappypants 2 Quote Link to comment
sandy808 1,192 Posted June 21, 2021 Share Posted June 21, 2021 For sure my orgasms, usually. I have no bladder control so that's not an option. But I can tease myself for many hours and enjoy several mini orgasms along the way. One thing that often pushes me over the edge is when the sudden urge to pee hits while I am touching myself. A unexpected spurt or gush intensifies the feeling and I have to enjoy all the wetness. nappypants and liesjeversteven 2 Quote Link to comment
Holdon 148 Posted June 21, 2021 Share Posted June 21, 2021 On 6/20/2021 at 3:09 PM, Mbgpeelover said: Sometimes I feel I can hold my bladder for ages squirming as I read a book or do housework or having to hold discreetly in a business meeting. Of course I love that tingling pressure feeling and how that makes my body and mind feel. But I also love being sexually teased and foreplay and love edging sexually for hours too. Sometimes I can control my bladder even in extreme situations but other times I can’t, and the same with holding back an orgasm. Somwhatbdo you feel you can control the most: your need to pee when desperate or your need to climax when very sexually arroused? That would be an interesting board meeting to be at, if I knew you had a full bladder. 🙂 Quote Link to comment
EmeraldAvalon 25 Posted June 22, 2021 Share Posted June 22, 2021 Probably my need to pee, honestly. If I have a very full bladder, my desire to masturbate gets overwhelming, even more so than my desperation. Quote Link to comment
China Girl 835 Posted June 22, 2021 Share Posted June 22, 2021 I do get a desire to masturbate/have sex but it's not overwhelming. I wouldn't get sacked from my job for sticking my hand up my skirt at work. Quote Link to comment
cumonerybody 78 Posted June 23, 2021 Share Posted June 23, 2021 holding my bladder. I recently started edging and after three minutes, my dick is pulsating and depending how stimulated I am, I involuntarily cum even if I stopped stroking Quote Link to comment
wannawatch 255 Posted June 24, 2021 Share Posted June 24, 2021 this is interesting to hear, thanks for sharing . When extremely desperate to go I'll have a hard time holding back my pee,while when just sexually aroused I can delay an orgasm better and longer I think. It's the combining of the two that gives me the most trouble . Since omorashi is SUCH a big part of my sexual preference,and arouses me so m u c h, I often feel that the extreme need to pee also increases my need to orgasm. Weird ,I know, but I'm not complaining.. 😉 Quote Link to comment
Mbgpeelover 8,721 Posted June 25, 2021 Author ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted June 25, 2021 22 hours ago, wannawatch said: this is interesting to hear, thanks for sharing . When extremely desperate to go I'll have a hard time holding back my pee,while when just sexually aroused I can delay an orgasm better and longer I think. It's the combining of the two that gives me the most trouble . Since omorashi is SUCH a big part of my sexual preference,and arouses me so m u c h, I often feel that the extreme need to pee also increases my need to orgasm. Weird ,I know, but I'm not complaining.. 😉 Not at all weird to me as exactly what I experience too. Quote Link to comment
richard3 57 Posted June 25, 2021 Share Posted June 25, 2021 Bladder control is easier. With the ladies ... ejaculation control has always been hot or miss Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,405 Posted June 26, 2021 Share Posted June 26, 2021 Definitely bladder, as I can't seem to have a true involuntary wetting, there's always at least an element of choosing to release to relieve the discomfort. Whereas with the other, I do have the occasional "accident" where it happens before I want it to. richard3 1 Quote Link to comment
DiaperedGuy 100 Posted June 27, 2021 Share Posted June 27, 2021 When I get really desperate I sometimes rub myself to maintain control and at that point its 50/50 on which is going to happen first. Quote Link to comment
fullride 11 Posted October 25, 2021 Share Posted October 25, 2021 Definitely holding my bladder is easier. My SO has become an expert at teasing, edging... then backing me off from the FBO point of no return with a stern "Don't you DARE cum!" Pure torture with the bladder pressing relentlessly on all those trigger nerves. When she finally grants permission with me buried in her to the hilt, she merely has to gently probe the bulge once. Quote Link to comment
richard3 57 Posted October 25, 2021 Share Posted October 25, 2021 Bladder. There are more "work-arounds" for any kind of premature ejaculation than there are for making a bathroom appear out of nowhere Quote Link to comment
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