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Those who enjoy the idea of wetting out of convenience/lazyness, where do you think is the line between sexy and just gross?


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I do love the idea of someone letting go just for the hell of it or out of laziness, but I think you can only do it so much before it just becomes gross. 

 I like the idea of someone wetting in the middle of an otherwise ordinary task like doing yoga or cleaning. I suppose others are into it too based on the wealth of omo-media where the main draw is "she pees wherever she wants."  But there's nothing attractive about those 4chan gaming dungeons where you see some guy has filled bottles on bottles with pee because he didn't want to leave his gaming chair.  Same goes for a retirementhome rooms that smell like stale urine because of the incontinent grandma/grandpa living there. How about a homeless man who always seems to have an obvious wet patch in his pants?

I wonder if anybody else is conscious of the separation of the two. Where do you think the line is between kinky and gross?

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I think the answer lies in "intent."

Most of the time, for people like us, the intent is that it's our fetish and turns us on. 

For others, the intent is laziness. That's gross. Lazy is gross.

Then you have this 3rd tier of legitimate incontinence, which I find just to be sad... unless of course the person who is incontinent is turned on by it.. that is sexy too

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For me there is a third state. I suffered a spinal cord injury that abolished my ability to sense a full bladder or control a full bladder. To be certain my ex-wife, who divorced me in part because I had taken to wearing diapers full time, thought it was gross and I was doing it just to get her attention. Prior to my spinal cord injury and the birth of our kids I frequently held until I wet my pants; sometimes wearing a diaper, sometimes wearing plastic panties. For just over 5 months I lived in a so-called assisted living facility. My assigned eating place was a table with 3 other people including a man in his 90’s. One dinner when it was time to take him back to his room the aide discovered he had wet his pants. The aide immediately yelled “George you know better than that” and all the other aides and the on duty nurse all repeatedly yelled “George you know better than that”. Later that evening I discovered I had wet my diaper and called for help. The on duty nurse and another aide came. They got a dry diaper and wipes for me. The nurse, who was pregnant, said “the baby kicked”. She quickly had a wet spot rapidly growing and spreading down her legs. Later that evening she came in to check me and we talked. She said she wet her pants at least once a week since the baby started kicking. We had talked before about what it was like to be pregnant. One thing she said was of course she wet her pants. 
So where do these things fit; kinky, gross or something else?

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Yeah, I wouldn't enjoy the examples you mentioned either. Of course the "bottles" scenario doesn't involve wetting, but I like the idea of someone wetting repeatedly while gaming, provided they chose it over pausing their game of course. The "incontinent grandma/grandpa" I wouldn't fetishize, partly due to being really old and partly due to not so much finding the situation fethisizeable as it could be a little more serious. I try not to fetishize "homeless" situations either as they're also more serious (same with my olfactophilia fetish which is also likely to overlap there).

Even among situations I fetishize in fiction that I wouldn't in real life.

As real life goes, I like the idea of anyone deliberately wetting or re-wetting, though of course there are some lines that should not be crossed (like peeing on someone else's property without their consent).

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10 minutes ago, John said:

Everytime I engage in pee play I always shower off soon afterwards and the play itself doesn't usually go on too long. Yeah those examples you gave were nasty definitively.

I'm the same with this. After play I'll typically take off whatever I was wearing and chuck it in the wash, about at the moment when that warm feeling is gone.

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Agree on the “who the person is” aspect. I do find pregnant wettings/adult nappy wearing in pregnancy a turn-on, I think particularly because it’s one of the situations where younger women are most likely to be affected by bladder issues.

In terms of specific scenarios, I like accidental wettings (though not with extreme distress and humiliation) and discreet/playful deliberate ones. Not keen on the destructive/defacing of property type of deliberate wetting, even if staged in a consensual way.

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I don't think wetting is ever gross. It is only a turnon in the right situation though.

As for the old people wetting, well accidents happen. When people get old, it is sometimes harder to control it. In the previous story, the staff should not have berrated "George" for wetting his pants. That is purely unprofessional and uncalled for. They should just help him get cleaned up, and be respectful. That is what part of their job.  That situation is not a turnon, but it is not gross. It is just a part of life.

I have also seen younger people have wetting accidents. And even though I might enjoy the sight at first, I don't really enjoy seeing anyone wet themselve if they don't want it, or are humiliated or embarrased by it. I want wetting to be fun and sexy, and humiliation has no place in sexy.

 

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I like humiliation but only if it's not too traumatic. I did see one wetting once where a girl was just hopping around desperate in a toilet queue and eventually wet her dress. She broke down in tears and was really upset by it. It was really hot, but I do wish she'd been less hurt by it, like when my friends or I pee ourselves. Fortunately her boyfriend came up to her and comforted her. He looked a bit turned on, but I don't know if that was just my imagination...

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10 hours ago, China Girl said:

I like humiliation but only if it's not too traumatic. I did see one wetting once where a girl was just hopping around desperate in a toilet queue and eventually wet her dress. She broke down in tears and was really upset by it. It was really hot, but I do wish she'd been less hurt by it, like when my friends or I pee ourselves. Fortunately her boyfriend came up to her and comforted her. He looked a bit turned on, but I don't know if that was just my imagination...

I guessing that it wasn't your imagination.

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17 hours ago, PrincessPeeach said:

but to answer the original question, what makes wetting for convenience kinky to me is when it is purposeful (not just habitually lazy, or because of Incontinence), when it is more spontaneous (for whatever reason someone who wears diapers daily for convenience does nothing for me, versus someone who only occasionally indulges 🤷‍♀️) and clean up is important to me. I don’t personally like yellow stains or the smell of old pee, so that aspect is a bit of a turn off. But again, just my two cents. Everyone’s got their own preferences! 

I personally don’t see much of a divide between the “habitual” versus “spontaneous” versions of lazy wetting. Either one is kind of a turn on. BUT the frequency of cleaning is what turns it from kinky to gross for me.

I wouldn’t mind sharing a bed with someone who lazily pees it every night just because. Hell, I’d kind of enjoy it. But I’d also expect them to launder the sheets and everything every 2 days, 3 days tops. I think I often find the habitual lazy pee-ers gross because if someone is normally too lazy to get up from gaming, that same person is probably going to be too lazy to throw away the piss bottle in a reasonable amount of time before it turns that yellow-brown color and gets cloudy.

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It looks like the line between gross and cute/sexy is very different for everybody...

For me it has to be on purpose. Not to go to the toilet until you wet yourself also counts as planned/on purpose 😛. It gets gross when it gets to extreme. Like pissing in the same clothes, underwear,.... for days without changing/washing. Stains are usually gross....

It also depends on the person who is wetting it its sexy or gross. If someone looks nice/cute ist's sexy independent of the rest. I think most will think like that.

Being lazy and just pissing your pants is sexy, but only if the "lazyness" is reasonable. Like if someone is pissing all the time while gaming/in his bed and never doing any cleanup causing the whole house/flat to smell is just gross.

 

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39 minutes ago, CatFood said:

The person's enjoyment is key. I'm not sure I'd like to share a space with somebody who likes to piss everywhere but it is kind of hot from a distance. 

That's a good thing to point out too. The idea of "piss where ever you want to" is definetly a fun fantasy (atleast for me) but I feel it would be a lot less fun having to deal with all the real life reprecutions of that kind of life. For example the freguency of cleanup, the smell, etc.

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24 minutes ago, waffle<3 said:

That's a good thing to point out too. The idea of "piss where ever you want to" is definetly a fun fantasy (atleast for me) but I feel it would be a lot less fun having to deal with all the real life reprecutions of that kind of life. For example the freguency of cleanup, the smell, etc.

Totally agree with that. In the fantasy it sounds fun. In reality, with all the consequences, I would hate it.... 

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23 hours ago, PrincessPeeach said:

but to answer the original question, what makes wetting for convenience kinky to me is when it is purposeful (not just habitually lazy, or because of Incontinence), when it is more spontaneous (for whatever reason someone who wears diapers daily for convenience does nothing for me, versus someone who only occasionally indulges 🤷‍♀️) and clean up is important to me. I don’t personally like yellow stains or the smell of old pee, so that aspect is a bit of a turn off. But again, just my two cents. 

Yeah as I've thought about it, what is attractive definetly comes down to intent and all those things that separate a sexual fantasy and reality. 
 

The idea about casual wetting and peeing for convenience are super common material for a lot of porn and erotica. But they're just fantasy and the idea stops beeing fun after you think about the real life consequences. 
 

I definetly find noticeable pee stains gross, but what really takes me out of the mood is the smell. I'm very strict with clean up, not only because I still live with my parents but also because I just don't like those things.

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I use diapers to casually wet at work or while travelling and it makes no mess. It's great fun and I can enjoy the omorashi lifestyle without making life intolerable for everyone else. I would suggest that to anyone else who wants to wet a lot in public responsibly.

I've never found the idea of constant public wetting without diapers appealing. It would make travelling on trains very unpleasant for most people...

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I agree seeing a person that is at least somewhat attractive pee cause they don't wanna get up is very appealing but if the pee is sitting around in bottles or something that would be gross and diapers are much more convenient and less messy for casually peeing more than once or in places where it would be impossible to clean it though it doesn't do anything for me visually and I don't get into the adult baby stuff.

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When my partner and I wet ourselves, we prefer to clean it off pretty quickly since it stops feeling good after a bit. I do have a definite thing for peeing into unusual containers, and am always turned on when I see my partner go in a bottle or anything else; He's done it a few times either from being caught short, part of a holding game, or because he wasn't feeling well enough to get out of bed, all of which I found cute. When we got our second COVID vaccine a little while ago, it really wiped us out for whatever reason and we had to stay in bed for a while. Since neither of us wanted to get up, we peed into a bottle instead. 

But, whatever containers we use for that always get either tossed or washed out not too long after being used. I'm fairly confident that my reaction to seeing some guy with, like, a big drawer filled with old pee bottles would be entirely different from how I react to my partner filling a bottle when he's desperate and can't wait anymore. 

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I think it’s a matter of separating play time from normal behavior.  I often have a wetting accident in my laundry room before starting a load of laundry.  I may put on a diaper when playing a video game.  Both of those things are probably gross, but no one can smell it.  I try to do laundry or take out the trash before the wet clothes or diapers get too smelly.  I would be really mortified if someone discovered my diapers or wet clothes though.

A staged or genuine accident can be fun if the person is sexy.  It quickly gets kind of gross or sad when it starts to smell like ammonia.

 

 

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