Peepants31 28 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 For those of you who have seen a boy/man wet his pants (a real accident) what made him soak himself instead of simply peeing outside or in a bottle because that’s so easy for men? I feel like men have very few opportunities when relief isn’t available so I’m curious what makes a man pee his pants Quote Link to comment
Spectator9 957 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 Some men hate to admit they need to pee (it's not macho), so they hold it. Sometimes they hold it too long! Quote Link to comment
sammilove 835 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 Masculinity. Some think it’s part of being strong and an adult. And that only a kid will wet himself. Or that they can hold it for a long time and don’t think they can have an accident. But then again, I know a few women that have the same mentality too. Windows XPee and nappypants 2 Quote Link to comment
secretomoact 2,353 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 My partner recently had a real accident since he didn't have time for a toilet break at work, and the restroom was being cleaned just before he left. Then he got stuck in some traffic and just forgot that there was a bottle in the car. When he got home he couldn't get his zip down in time and just lost control. younggermangay, trekkie and Maybeweirdmayb 1 2 Quote Link to comment
BurstingSpurt 39 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 Most men are not used to holding for a long period of time, as they usually can always sneak a pee. When caught in a really crowded or public situation with no chance of relief some are more prone to wettng themselves. As I have witnessed a few times 😉 Anonymous12335 1 Quote Link to comment
kilianj74 442 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 I wet my pants in the car aged 30 - it was a complete accident in the middle of the day. A combination of having a beer at lunch, being alone in the car as a driver in the city (with no opportunity to pull over or a bottle) and the stress of IBS placing pressure on my bowel which transferred to pushing my bladder. I went from not thinking it was that urgent to a 10/10 desperation and soaking with no time to react. It was a set of circumstances which conspired against me one day and has not happened since. I also wet myself walking home in the dark with a friend from the pub in a built up area- I suppose that could have been avoided if I hadn't been embarrassed being with my friend and peed in someone's garden hedge, but wetting myself was the easiest option without drawing attention to myself. That was a bit more gradual than an immediate soaking though. Anonymous12335 and trekkie 1 1 Quote Link to comment
wetpantsboy 1,006 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 2 hours ago, kilianj74 said: I wet my pants in the car aged 30 - it was a complete accident in the middle of the day. A combination of having a beer at lunch, being alone in the car as a driver in the city (with no opportunity to pull over or a bottle) and the stress of IBS placing pressure on my bowel which transferred to pushing my bladder. I went from not thinking it was that urgent to a 10/10 desperation and soaking with no time to react. It was a set of circumstances which conspired against me one day and has not happened since. I also wet myself walking home in the dark with a friend from the pub in a built up area- I suppose that could have been avoided if I hadn't been embarrassed being with my friend and peed in someone's garden hedge, but wetting myself was the easiest option without drawing attention to myself. That was a bit more gradual than an immediate soaking though. Did your friend notice? What was their reaction? Quote Link to comment
kilianj74 442 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 12 minutes ago, wetpantsboy said: Did your friend notice? What was their reaction? He didn't realise - I managed to get away with it. He did think I spent a while in the bathroom but just thought I had fallen asleep on the toilet because I had drunk quite a bit! I wrote about the incident here: Quote Link to comment
Alex62 1,481 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 A shyness of admitting about there need and thinking there bladder is strong enough to hold to they can sneak a bathroom trip. Or they just like it like all of us😂 kilianj74 1 Quote Link to comment
Shawnie 144 Posted May 17, 2021 Share Posted May 17, 2021 Just not really giving a *truck* Wanting to feel shame cause it's better than feeling nothing At a concert and seeing other bois do it and it's like nobody cares Too lazy to find someplace else to go Being drunk or buzzed and not really knowing what's going on It's raining so nobody's gonna know Pee shy and it's like the only way to go Quote Link to comment
Guest superdarkens Posted May 18, 2021 Share Posted May 18, 2021 19 hours ago, Peepants31 said: For those of you who have seen a boy/man wet his pants (a real accident) what made him soak himself instead of simply peeing outside or in a bottle because that’s so easy for men? I feel like men have very few opportunities when relief isn’t available so I’m curious what makes a man pee his pants There is a sort of arrogance I guess. I think I can hold it when I can’t and end up wet. This mostly happens when I’ve been out to the pub and taking the tube home. London does not have public toilets really and I’ve often been dribbling in my pants by the time I reach my stop. You can’t just pee on the train as you’d be arrested for public indecency or something Quote Link to comment
Windows XPee 338 Posted May 18, 2021 Share Posted May 18, 2021 I actually feel like men have more choices because we can essentially whip it out anywhere easily and just go. I've seen a lot of guys laugh it off when they're bursting to go. Like, they can't keep still and they're definitely in pain (sometimes they try to hide the pain but not always), but generally laughing about it because it's funny and their mates are probably making fun of them etc. I feel like that often leads to accidents and they don't even care in the end given how much pain they were in for so long and the relief they felt when they finally lost control. Then there's festivals and places like that where you'll catch most people peeing wherever they can and sometimes in their pants. Sometimes by accident because the toilets are full and nobody can wait long enough, but other times because you can see others have pissed themselves so it's not that big-of-a-deal. There are often other situations where sometimes you might just not really care. Being seatbelted in to a car, bus etc for too long with no empty bottles or containers to use. Or being stuck in traffic both as a passenger or as a driver. Being in the rain and on your way home and trying to get there as fast as you can, but needing to go badly. Not wanting to stop because you're freezing cold, and certainly not wanting to stand there and whip you dick out in the cold weather. It essentially is a situation of NEEDING to go before you get home because you simply won't make it, but your focus remains on just getting home rapidly because you're cold and wet. At some point you start to wet yourself, however. Then there's just being drunk. I once had a mate tell me he loved me because he told me he wet himself in-between pubs on a pub crawl. He kept asking to piss every 5 minutes and most of the pubs we went in to was just for him to use the bathroom at first, then we'd stay and have a round before moving on to the next one lol scretkiddo 1 Quote Link to comment
WatchMeWiggle 112 Posted May 18, 2021 Share Posted May 18, 2021 (edited) Not to get defensive here, but..... It kind of bothers me when women assume that men "can pee wherever they want". Squatting for women and unzipping for men are just as physically easy to do. Why don't you see women squatting all the time? Because there are people around. Why don't you see men unzipping everywhere? Because there are people around. This matters more on the level of decency an individual has rather than the sex. For me personally, if I was with a female friend I would rather pee in my pants than expose myself and pee in front of her. On another note; If a man is sitting in the drivers seat of a car it is extremely difficult to pee in a bottle. Please read my story to find out what happened when I tried! Please don't take my comment the wrong way. I don't mean for it to have a condescending tone. I just wanted to let everyone see this from my eyes! Let me know if you have any questions. Edited May 18, 2021 by WatchMeWiggle (see edit history) behara, scretkiddo, Windows XPee and 3 others 6 Quote Link to comment
Jimmy Olsen 933 Posted May 20, 2021 Share Posted May 20, 2021 On 5/18/2021 at 4:21 PM, WatchMeWiggle said: Not to get defensive here, but..... I agree with what you said, and I also wanted to add something. There's the fear factor. The risk of someone seeing your penis or stream is tough on the nerves of some men even in situations where the chances of being spotted are nonexistent. Some men can do it a lot easier than others. I've heard guys talk casually about peeing in public spots like bushes and alleys. I'd be so nervous in that situation that my hands would probably shake too much to even unzip my fly. Just peeing in the forest while camping is rough enough. O.J. 1 Quote Link to comment
trekkie 1,098 Posted May 20, 2021 Share Posted May 20, 2021 Part of it is that the idea that we can just go ANYWHERE is a very big exaggeration. I know it seems like we can because it’s easier than for a woman, but you don’t see us just whizzing on the store floor or the office wall or the street where anyone in houses and buildings might see us, do ya? 😛 It’s easier to use what cover does exist, but sometimes it doesn’t exist. secretomoact, Melon91 and j2319 3 Quote Link to comment
strokeknight2 582 Posted May 20, 2021 Share Posted May 20, 2021 The risk of getting caught/arrested is pretty real if you're not out in the countryside or somewhere easy to hide. I've wet my pants at a pride parade a few years ago because the lines for the toilets were long. I waited longer than I should have, thinking I could hold it, but the beer in me had other plans. Thankfully I wore pants that didn't show wetness. j2319 1 Quote Link to comment
Jimmy Olsen 933 Posted May 22, 2021 Share Posted May 22, 2021 On 5/20/2021 at 2:00 AM, trekkie said: I know it seems like we can because it’s easier than for a woman, but you don’t see us just whizzing on the store floor or the office wall or the street where anyone in houses and buildings might see us, do ya? But if somebody wrote a story like this it could be interesting. 😁 Quote Link to comment
O.J. 249 Posted May 22, 2021 Share Posted May 22, 2021 This kind of subject is interesting, because you get to see a lot of different perspectives about sex/gender. I feel like I'm learning stuff here, lol. I also love male omo, so maybe my interest in this topic isn't 100% intellectual. Quote Link to comment
lovetohold 412 Posted May 23, 2021 Share Posted May 23, 2021 The only reason my past partner started wetting his pants was from waiting too long. Ultimately, the wetting began as we parked at home, but he jumped out of the car and violently peed all over the driveway with his penis hanging out, holding on to the drivers side door. That has been my issue, too. Just plain waiting too long. secretomoact 1 Quote Link to comment
Showerproof 114 Posted May 24, 2021 Share Posted May 24, 2021 Age? I'm 70 and I find that I sometimes leak if I start a physical activity (e.g. gardening) without first emptying my bladder. Once I'm wet, if I'm outdoors, there's no-one around and I'm wearing black pants as usual, well, might as well finish off in them. That way if anyone comes by, they probably won't notice anything, whereas if I were peeing on the ground it would be obvious. Quote Link to comment
coloradowet 502 Posted May 27, 2021 Share Posted May 27, 2021 when i was young it was anxiety and shyness, had some embarrassingly close calls "VERY" publicly in school. I even "whipped it out" at times in the bathroom yet didn't produce a drop of relief even though i was about to lose it and then had to return to class on the brink. . Had to hold the dam till i got home a few times and was entirely physically exhausted and physically ill. my kink says I wish i lost it to have had that experience but glad i didn't because that have really sucked at the time and may have effected my trajectory of my life. its schrodinger's piss ;-0 now that im older (31) working trades-man I can force myself into temporary incontinence, so i can plan my involuntary pee-scapade around my responsibilities, I have gotten out of hand and embarrassed by un-planned accidents but can roll with it better as i mature. ive had some very close calls and dampening's in my life, but being a "omo enthusiast" i can attest to being 'in-control" of being "un-controlled" dictates my accidents i lost my piss once at a concert not from holding intentionally, but couldn't find the bathroom. same alcohol abuse days, i came home puking it up and shitting my man-anties..... its not a fetish of mine and it was around friends, i think of the loss of control and fetish-ize it, but wasn't fun snd not my thing. lucky i got some good friends. secretomoact 1 Quote Link to comment
Acura17 311 Posted May 28, 2021 Share Posted May 28, 2021 Why would he pay $40 to park at the stadium, when he can pay $4 to take public transportation? He will then spend the other $36 on beer... After the game, the line at the men's room is so long, he skips it- thinking he'll stop at a bar on the way to the train station. The bars in the area all have a 20+ wait to get in. He walks in 7-Eleven, buys a drink, thinking they will let him use the toilet. There is a line there too. He waits for a few minutes, realizing he may miss his train. He thinks about the McDonald's just past where the train station is. Can he hold it for a 20 minute subway ride? The train ride is absolute misery. The packed train took his mind off it a bit, but it hurt more than it felt good. He somehow makes it to his stop, jumps off the train and sprints across two lanes of traffic to the McDonald's. Since when does this McDonald's close at 10?! Without thinking twice about it, he lets loose, right there in the McDonald's parking lot. There is so much pee inside him, he soaks the whole front of his pants to the point there's no dry spots. He heads back towards the station where he parked, but this time enjoying his 'walk of shame', using the crosswalk- waiting for the light to turn red. secretomoact 1 Quote Link to comment
Viralwolfe13 168 Posted May 28, 2021 Share Posted May 28, 2021 Usually holding it too long. The last time i had an accident was when working out in my fuel kiosk. My coworker had called off for the day, the store itself was short handed, and the person i called in to ask to go to the bathroom was an ass. I had asked to have someone come out so i could go pee and she got short saying they were short on people. When i pushed it she said she would TRY and get someone. By the time she passed on the message and they got someone out, I'd already wet my pants because it'd been about an hour and a half. And since i didn't have a bottle or anything to go in, I'd had to try and hold it. Poor guy who came out, i snapped his head off to let them know it was a little too late now Quote Link to comment
GreenChile 828 Posted May 29, 2021 Share Posted May 29, 2021 This was years ago at a casino but the guy didn't want to stop gambling and was a little tipsy, so I'm guessing alcohol and waiting equaled wet pants Quote Link to comment
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