Angusburger 156 Posted May 9, 2021 Share Posted May 9, 2021 Even when I hold 1L where my bladder leaks (but still no wetting) I am noticing nothing actually hurts and I dont really feel bladder strain. But I read desperation stories all the time about the pain the female was in. Are male/females different in this regard or is it because I hold it at home without public humilaition risk? Anyone like me that leaks but cant wet and doesnt feel any pain? Bismiris 1 Quote Link to comment
SpaceWonderer 699 Posted May 9, 2021 Share Posted May 9, 2021 I believe, to feel the pain you need stronger sphincters (holding muscles). If you start leaking before feeling any strain or pain, likely your bladder doesn't get to the pressure levels where it starts to hurt. FullBladder85, Bismiris and huberp76 3 Quote Link to comment
Angusburger 156 Posted May 10, 2021 Author Share Posted May 10, 2021 3 hours ago, SpaceWonderer said: I believe, to feel the pain you need stronger sphincters (holding muscles). If you start leaking before feeling any strain or pain, likely your bladder doesn't get to the pressure levels where it starts to hurt. Oh wow I thought I had pretty strong control. I can't wet though; to lose control do you have to keep leaking? All the pee desperation video on lvoe wetting never seem to have leakages and just full on wetting so I used to think my control was strong for just leaking Quote Link to comment
blackdiaper 76 Posted May 10, 2021 Share Posted May 10, 2021 We as adults barely can have a full blown accident. For me it kind of hurts as well (im male), but I never completely lost control. Only once I was high and I chained myself and the spasms where so big, so at some point I felt a huge wave of desperation/spasm coming and I knew I had let go or I thought I couldnt (dont even know that well anymore), so I pissed all over. Usually I keep leaking as well unfortunately until the pain becomes too severe and I masturbate and let go. Quote Link to comment
TheSenatesOmo 122 Posted May 10, 2021 Share Posted May 10, 2021 From my own experience, a full bladder is more on the painful side when it’s filled up over a longer period of time. That familiar tingle-y sensation that is, I think, much more fun for everyone involved is - again, from my own experience - from when the full bladder is something that happened more rapidly because the person drank a lot. For instance, when I wake up in the morning, my bladder often kind of hurts. If I tried to do a hold right then, I’d don’t think I’d really enjoy it. I think there could also then be a correlation made between how painful/not painful a hold is vs. the color of the pee (more yellow vs. more clear). Beyond that, however, I think there can be other factors to a hold that could cause pain, like urine getting trapped in the urethra between being in the bladder and being free. I have sometimes read that can be painful. Quote Link to comment
Acura17 311 Posted May 10, 2021 Share Posted May 10, 2021 I think everyone's body responds different- but basically a few things happen in your body when you need to go. Look at it like this: let's say you decide to join a fitness club and began lifting weights after a long period of inactivity. Your muscles are actually expanding (filling with blood) beyond what they are used to, many times becoming sore for periods of time. When the bladder is filled beyond what is 'regular', there is increased blood flow, causing the muscles to expand (squeezing harder). Now if you regularly stretch these muscles, among others, there is less and less soreness as time goes on. ALSO, as your bladder becomes extremely full, your blood pressure actually raises, which can cause other soreness in the body, such as headaches. Quote Link to comment
33applepies 42 Posted May 10, 2021 Share Posted May 10, 2021 I think it just depends on the person, and is partly the reason why some people have no problem holding it for hours and others can't stand it. I've always thought a full bladder was painful, but not terribly so. When I was younger, I couldn't stand any pain or discomfort at all, so I hated having to hold it. Now I like it (for the most part). Quote Link to comment
huberp76 3,804 Posted May 11, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted May 11, 2021 I agree with SpaceWonder. If your sphincter is not strong, you start leaking before it gets painful. If your sphincter is strong enough and trained to resist a strong pressure, if you are able to overfill your bladder to double size, or more, then it can get painful. A bladder can get hard as a rock, if your bodily and your will power are strong enough to hold it and that can hurt and that can get painful, but pain is not pain. I like this kind of pain from a bursting full bladder, the stronger my urge and my need to pee, the more i get aroused. Personally, i can get my bladder fuller, if i fill it slowly, if the bladder has time to stretch and to expand and if i have time to get used to that feeling. Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,793 Posted May 11, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted May 11, 2021 I don't think that men and women necessarily differ as far as bladder pain goes. What I have read is that women are able to deal with more long-term milder pain such as the pain of long-term pregnancy, whereas men are better able to take a punch, quick bursts of pain like that due to evolution. So in that regard women might be better at dealing with long term bladder pain, which is probably good seeing as women are more likely to experience long-term bladder pain. You really want to experience bladder pain, get a job as a woman outdoors without bathrooms, you'll experience plenty! Quote Link to comment
SpaceWonderer 699 Posted May 11, 2021 Share Posted May 11, 2021 22 hours ago, Acura17 said: Now if you regularly stretch these muscles, among others, there is less and less soreness as time goes on. I've been doing holds for almost 20 years, and it didn't get any less painful when I'm at my limit. The only difference, my bladder volume somewhat increased over time so it takes longer to get to the same level of fullness/pain. Quote Link to comment
BeeCat 42 Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 Have you tried pressing on your bladder? I started playing around with my partner and sometimes when I need to go they just put a bunch of weight on my bladder and it pleasurably hurts. If you're not hurting that's probably good, less likely to hurt yourself. But just shoving down on it might create the fullness pressure Also agree with above comment that slow fill makes it hurt more than rapid fill. Rapid makes me feel urgent, slow gives my muscles a chance to get tired while keeping control. Quote Link to comment
DlavalD 190 Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 I wish I could get to the leaking point without pain 😂 Personally it is really painful way before I reach my limits ! Quote Link to comment
China Girl 835 Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 People don't all experience the same thing. For example I don't experience too much pain while having an accident, whereas my friend (also female) was in really bad bladder pain before she actually agreed to wet herself because it hurt so much, and besides she wasn't going to make it. Quote Link to comment
SoBursting 497 Posted June 12, 2021 Share Posted June 12, 2021 On 6/10/2021 at 1:14 AM, BeeCat said: Have you tried pressing on your bladder? I started playing around with my partner and sometimes when I need to go they just put a bunch of weight on my bladder and it pleasurably hurts. If you're not hurting that's probably good, less likely to hurt yourself. But just shoving down on it might create the fullness pressure Also agree with above comment that slow fill makes it hurt more than rapid fill. Rapid makes me feel urgent, slow gives my muscles a chance to get tired while keeping control. I agree pressing on the bladder has a feeling of hurt but not piercing, when I was a boy and wanted to pee but was holding on for longer in a desperate state pressing on the bladder helped, not now though, Quote Link to comment
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