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Does body type affect your enjoyment of desperation content?


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I'm curious about how common this is because for me it does, and what I find particularly interesting is it's separate from my general sexual preferences. I don't have much of a body type preference in terms of people I'm attracted to - the most I can say is I'm less attracted to extremes (eg. extremely skinny/fat/muscular). With desperation though I find I enjoy it more when it features larger and softer (no toned muscle) individuals, especially with women.

I can't pinpoint what it is that I get from it with larger bodies that I don't otherwise, but maybe it has to do with the nature of the kink - because I very much enjoy extreme desperation and bladder bulges, I guess the person being chubby or large in general just also excites that base desire for bigger and rounder? 🤔 I'd love to hear some other perspectives on the matter!

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I find the same preference. I think the reason is that with a skinny person, I feel like they can't be holding much if I can't see the bladder obviously bulging because there isn't much space in there. Although if I skinny person did have an obvious bulge I'd be into that.

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It's interesting that you say that you prefer to see larger women and chubby women desperate and that is distinct from your general sexual preferences. My general preferences is for petite women in general, particularly Asian girls, but there is something about seeing a big fat woman really desperate to pee and jiggling around that is especially satisfying. Sometimes I feel it makes me feel kind of cruel and evil that I take particular delight in seeing full figured women suffering agonizing bladder pain. Like there is this one woman that I chat with who is a BBW for some reason the thought of a fat woman suffering bladder pain is just more satisfying to me than seeing a skinny person suffering from bladder pain.


I think that there could be two possible reasons for this. The fact was that prior to being sick all the time I used to be close to 300 pounds myself, so I know what it's like to be a fat woman with a full bladder! NOw I'm about half that but I still remember being fat and full bladdered.


I think the other reason is experience, I have been in a couple of situations where obese women have somehow beat me to the bathroom. I have seen them desperate and then they managed to get relief before me and then I kind of had to interact with them while their bladders were empty and mine was full so maybe there is sort of a vindictive desire to see them squirming around.

One final thing that I think influenced it was my first experience ever of seeing female desperation was on the show Ren & Stimpy where this really big fat woman is waiting in front of a fire hydrant grabbing herself waiting in line with a lot of dogs who also have to go to the bathroom. So maybe it's simply a matter of my first experience of seeing a woman desperate, even in a cartoon, was a morbidly obese woman.


Again I don't know exactly what it is but something about seeing a larger woman squirming around and grabbing herself and dancing around with all that body fat is just really entertaining to see. Maybe it somewhat comical, but something about it is pretty funny to me.

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Guest shortmetalboi

A little bit but not always. Im not really interested in big girls (no shame just not me) and tbh I actually kind of prefer smaller girls. Liz Raw and Wet Brianna might be good examples. Skinnier girls wetting jeans lol

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I think it might have to do with two things, your body size and what you grew up with watching and seeing.

1. Your body size. This can have a direct correlation or inverse. Overweight people might like seeing skinny people wet or they could like fellow overweight people wetting. It really can be said that society values thin people over overweight people when it comes to actors and actresses. I fall into the same boat as well, I’m not as attracted to overweight girls as I am to petite, thin girls, especially when it comes to wetting. I never really thought race mattered though, but weight was different. I can tell you this: I’m skinny as a toothpick. 130 pounds at 19 is underweight by BMI standards, and BMI calls healthy weights overweight.

2. What you’re used to. This one is a big one, as here in Midwest America there aren’t that many overweight girls in the age range 13-20. I always remember in both middle school and high school always seeing the popular girls and realizing two things:

a. Their boobs and butt were abnormally big for a middle/high school girl.

b. They all had little to no sympathy for anyone who was overweight, skinny, or just not physically fit in general.

I may be the same, as I prefer to look at girls whose bodies overshadow their personalities. I’m willing to watch wettings from overweight people for sure, it just doesn’t get the same reaction as from watching a skinny woman wet.

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I definitely have a preference and it has slight differences from my normal sexual preferences. 

I'm already not a big fan of skinny women, but when it comes to Omo I appreciate the women being soft and doughy. I saw some posts above talking about being able to see bulging bladders, but I prefer behavioral signs of desperation over physical. So jiggling legs, stomach, knees, are more interesting than a bulging bladder. More meat to jiggle is better.

But I don't require anyone to be overweight. Thick thighs save lives, and also save my interest in videos. A little chub in the lower stomach, thighs, and breasts, are good enough.

Personally it probably feels more authentic. I tend to connect skinny models to very fake acting in pornography. They seem too made up and in it for the camera (though one of the models I love most is a terrible actress despite not being 'skinny'... Oh well).

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I don't really have a 'type' to be attracted to in general, at least not consciously, so when it comes to my taste for desperately full women it doesn't really matter. Generally I will enjoy desperation in women I'm not even especially attracted to in other ways, so whatever that says about me.

I do like real, genuine sort of people rather than airbrushed porn types, and for me the situation and context is vital to my desperation interests, so again just keeping it real.  It's like asking if I prefer big breasts.  I like the breasts of the woman I'm with 😆

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Doesn’t matter to me it’s about the desperation,

live seen larger girls put on super sexy desperation shows although I don’t fancy them equally I’ve seen slim girls desperate who I don’t fancy or want to have sex with its again about their desperation if I like it or not,

there were models in project pee, a pretty sexy woman think she was Ava who’s desperation was more discreet and a larger woman who put on genuine super desperate show before peeing for the camera, I liked them both the larger woman more as the desperation was fantastic,

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My preference for body type is no different between omo and non omo content. As long as they aren't very over or under weight I don't care much.

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I was about to say that I find a little desperation to make any body type more attractive, but then I re-read the question.  I would think that the body type would definitely affect my enjoyment of content.  I do think that there are times when I have found been less attracted to someone based on their body type, even if they were desperate.  I would be lying to myself if I said that 2 different aspects of physical attraction would have no effect on one another.  I think the implication of this question is that if someone with an average body type would make me enjoy a desperation scenario less, but if you think about it the other way around, it becomes more obvious  If you have 2 videos of the same type of desperation, but one is with a person who is not your preferred body type, but then you have the same scenario with someone who is a perfect match for your preferred body type, sure I think that would affect my enjoyment of the scenario.

That said, I think it's somewhat obvious that there isn't a one size fits all preferred body type.  I think that there are people of all body types that can pull off a great desperation scenario.

Also, people tend to be incredibly critical of their own self in general, body type or otherwise.  You don't need that type of negative criticism.  Let your freak flag fly and people will love you for who you are and what you're doing.

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I'm only 5'8 Ft, and average/ leaning towards athletic for my body type. I like women who are similar in height (or shorter) and shape to me. There are some bigger women I've seen in pee and porn videos that I found attractive, but they are few and far between.

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20 hours ago, petitewonder said:

When it comes to this particular kink, for me personally, I feel like it's more to do with whether or not I like the desperation scenario and find the desperation itself to be believable. 

 

Heh, I get where you are coming from, but as long as the situation is tangentially believable, I'm ok with it.  I can watch a traditional porno and not worry if her cable gets fixed or wonder if it was even out in the first place.

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