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Well as a kid I always had a few more accidents than other kids my age- even when I was a bit older I would occasionally get really shy and wet myself at an age where I really shouldn’t have. Once I became a young teenager I started to sort of fantasize about women wetting and messing themselves- which continued for a while until one day I decided I wanted to pee my pants. So I kinda just sat around playing video games for a while, trying to get my bladder to cooperate and go potty in an unusual place. Eventually, I got it to cooperate, and from that first spurt of pee in my pants I knew I loved this and wanted to continue.

I continued for the rest of that day- sneaking in wettings whenever I got the chance- and then did so the next couple of days. Eventually I had a day to myself where I just completely soaked my pants in pee- and absolutely loved it. I discovered that there was a community dedicated to this soon after, which I waited to join for years until I was an adult (ended up joining a bit later than anticipated lol), and the rest was sort of history.

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Good old patches.net back in the late ‘90’s/early 2000’s. Found the site, was hooked and have been ever since. 

For me it first started (innocently) in primary school when a strict teacher told one bit he had to wait for the toilet until home time. I was fascinated by the way he moved and squirmed and could har

Well as a kid I always had a few more accidents than other kids my age- even when I was a bit older I would occasionally get really shy and wet myself at an age where I really shouldn’t have. Once I b

Well thinking back as a kid i was a little different. The accidents you usually had that most kids would cry over i never got upset about. I remember once we got shut out of my summer day camp building when i was 4 or 5. I ended up wetting myself and no one noticed at first. It never bothered me and i didn't get caught so i just kept playing out side. But what really cemented it later on was when i hit puberty and first started looking up porn. Looked through the more regular options amd got curious what other kinds of things there were. Some of the first things i found was wetting porn and i got fascinated by it. Always kept going back and looking up about people wetting themselves quite a bit and wondering what it would be like to do it on purpose like them. Finally after about 6 or 8 months of just watching it, i decided i have to try it. And after that first time of a simple wetting in my underwear on the toilet, i been hooked ever since

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Thank you guys for the feedback! I’ve read all of these and seem to notice a common theme of gradual events leading up to the big discovery. It’s always exciting to find something you enjoy, especially when it’s unique to just you. Everyone needs their own thing. I know some people out there suffer from stress and depression. People always need to look forward to doing something. For me those things are sports, video games, exercising, and visiting this site. 

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I first learned how to masturbate a year or two after being potty trained. It was just the natural result of the sensation I felt when I had to hold my pee. 3 or 4 years after that, I saw the only accident I've ever seen when I was 7. From that point on I had this image to think about when I would masturbate at night (not sexually but to help me sleep). I created all kinds of fantasies about wetting or peeing on the floor! I even peed on the floor at my grandparents house once when I was home alone, just to see what it felt like.

I stopped thinking about it as often when I got to middle and high-school. It wasn't until I found porn sites in college that one random night I thought of the way I used to masturbate to various wetting scenarios, so I decided to look one up. I pretty much knew I had a fetish after that!

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Looking back, there's definitely some stuff that hinted at the fetish before I knew what it was called or even before adolescence kicked in, going all the way back to grade school. I think the first definitive proof would be when I read a book called How Do You Go To The Bathroom In Space? by William R. Pogue, one of the astronauts involved in the Skylab program. I was very interested in space travel in my youth (still am, although not to the same degree) and the book itself first caught my eye as a scientific reference, but I ended up reading and re-reading the part that gives the book its title, especially where he describes the specialized absorbent underwear worn by women astronauts during the space shuttle launch. Later I got access to a copy of the Mayo Clinic Health Book and ended up reading the sections on stress and urge incontinence over and over.

There's no clear transition point where I suddenly figured something out, although getting access to the internet definitely helped answer some questions that had been bouncing around in my head for many a year. Ironically, I first tripped over some pee related stuff in the Erotica section of the Textfiles.com website, built to archive and commemorate the BBS era just before the modern internet, while the survivalism section is what led me to the site to begin with... so those aspects of my personality are more closely related than one might think.

The stories and anecdotes I read on Textfiles ended up giving me the crude direction needed to search for more "specialized" websites like Shara and Ger's, not to mention a few others that have not survived the Internet's evolution and commodification. One of them started a chain of different websites with different links that eventually lead me here.

And, as Paul Harvey would say, now you know... the rest of the story.

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6 hours ago, Jaieee said:

I first learned how to masturbate a year or two after being potty trained. It was just the natural result of the sensation I felt when I had to hold my pee. 3 or 4 years after that, I saw the only accident I've ever seen when I was 7. From that point on I had this image to think about when I would masturbate at night (not sexually but to help me sleep). I created all kinds of fantasies about wetting or peeing on the floor! I even peed on the floor at my grandparents house once when I was home alone, just to see what it felt like.

I stopped thinking about it as often when I got to middle and high-school. It wasn't until I found porn sites in college that one random night I thought of the way I used to masturbate to various wetting scenarios, so I decided to look one up. I pretty much knew I had a fetish after that!

You've Masturbated since you were a young child? How?

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Well I don’t think I can pinpoint when I found out omo was a thing I was a young teenager. But even before then I would look on the internet (YouTube and eventually porn sites) for videos of people peeing their pants. 
 

I guess I always had like a thing with pee. I mean I was a frequent bedwetter till 9/10 years old. And I had accidents quite often. I think the first time I peed myself in purpose was after going to the pool and I had to pee so I just peed in my already wet swimsuit and it felt as if I was peeing my pants.

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So this was also from a message to someone I am talking with in a DM

My story

So in elementary school grade 1-4 I went to school with a girl who would always hold her pee, I mean daily.  She would seat in a chair holding herself or do the classic rock side to side, seat on the edge of the chair so the side of it would put pressure on her pee hole.  

She would openly hold herself on the playground all the time, classic pee dance.   I remember asking her if she had to pee and she said no. 

I also remember standing behind her with clearly wet pants,  I think when we got in to 3rd and 4th grade she got more discreet about it, she would always hold it, but I think she was able to make it home. 

 

So a little exposure on how and why I like to see women desperate to pee and have an accident. 

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I have this vivid memory of being at a friend's birthday party, it must have been around 3rd or 4th grade. Having always been really shy, I never asked to use the bathroom somewhere else but at some point I had to go so bad, I eventually did speak up and the guy replied with "Really, you have to go? I'll come with!". Being as shy as I was, I didn't protest and so he and his brother joined me in the bathroom, watching me, waiting for their turns. I remember him making a comment about how much I peed, so I didn't even fully empty my bladder, I cut my stream off and let them have a go. 

I remember later during the party having to go really badly again and this time his mother was around and she told him to stop following people into the bathroom lol. I bet that guy has an omo fetish as well these days.

Apart from that I remember many a times around the same age that I just had to go so bad and peed my pants, all because I was too shy. It happened on vacations or in my own backyard. Oh, and I also loved peeing standing up over the toilet as a kid, it wasn't sexual though, just really fun.

After 4th grade I found out about masturbation and before I found out about porn sites I looked up people peeing outside on Youtube and touching myself to it. I never really thought about why I was doing it or why I thought it was hot. A few years later I remembered all this and actually looked at omo adult content and nothing ever turned me on the same way, it's incredible.

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I know I have already mentioned this in a number of threads on here, but I had a friend when I was maybe in grade school and she was a year younger, but she would still occasionally have accidents.  I rode the same van to school as she did and she would sometimes wear different clothes to school than she did on the way home.  She told me that there was a boy in her class that would put on her pants and wet them.  Ever since then, I have been fascinated by the idea of a girl wetting my clothes and blaming it on me.  I remember she had a bag that she had some of her wet clothes in and she asked me if I wanted to look and I did.  I don't remember seeing the clothes, but I remember the scent of her pee I LOVED IT.  I also found out that she would sometimes wear a diaper and I asked her for one.  She brought it with her one day and said that if I wanted it, I would need to show her that I needed it.  I would need to wet myself for her.  My mind raced and eventually, I was able to let out a little spurt in my pants and she gave me the diaper.  I have always thought of this as my first introduction to this kink.  Long before it was ever something sexual, it was something that made me feel funny in my pants.

I don't remember the first website I went to for finding content that I enjoyed, but it was back in the late 1990s.  I know someone mentioned wetset and I certainly went there as well as patch's place.  A while later, I found the treasure trove of videos that was Lumito's site.  This is where I first learned of the word omorashi, though if I remember, it was listed as "omorasi" on his site.  Either way, I looked up the word and found out what it meant.  I have also had a few subscriptions to different websites including wettingherpanties.com and a few sister sites.

I don't know when I first discovered this site, but I do know that I had found it from Google by searching for stories years before I ever joined.

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A few years back when I was in college and discovered porn. I watched my fair share of skwirting videos before looking at piss videos. While free-wetting is nice to look at, omo is what really does it for me. I’m pretty sure I wet my bed once when masturbating and thinking I came. But besides that I’m too scared to do it 😬 for now… 

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On 4/24/2021 at 1:45 AM, Will8724 said:

I discovered omo in middle school. Following some vandalism incidents, my school had locked the boys bathrooms and made us go to the office and under the bathroom there. I started holding all day so as to not deal with that, and I got online to see if it was safe. After some googling, I eventually find Katrina's Hold Your Bladder Forum, and as I was reading through those posts I was suuuuuper turned on.

The same thing happened to me. They would only let one boy in the bathroom at a time and there would be big lines, especially during lunch. I think about half the boys in that line would be bent over holding their crotch. 

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As far back as I can remember I’ve been hooked on watching female desperation, The more desperate and closer to an accident the better, it’s the anxiety and the worry if they won’t make it, the embarrassment if they are shy and are visibly holding it in by figiting, dancing or holding themselves,

i like when they are trying to hide that they are desperate and if no chance to go they have to say they are desperate as it’s now urgent, I like to hear them say how urgent like instead of ‘I need the toilet or I need to pee’ I hear ‘I’m bursting or I’m dying to pee’

I’d rather they made it than not, or I like to witness a public pee if not able to wait any longer, 

i prefer voyeur to staged as it’s not controlled, I like being in the company of a female who is desperate and she doesn’t say as opposed to some who openly admit to their need, I still enjoy either bur prefer the former,

and I have no idea why ?

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Asking "when did you discover your omo fetish?" makes it sound like first I knew about and had experienced sexual feelings and then after that I discovered that wetting was something that connected to those feelings. 

 

That's not the order in which things happened.

 

I had feelings; didn't know what they were, I was so young I had no concept of sexual appetite or sexual feelings.  I knew about reproduction but no one had told me there was an appetite associated with it!  So at that age you think I associated the human crotch area with reproduction?  Uh uh!  That's where you PEE FROM!  I was fascinated with the anatomy of my girl classmates, yeah there THAT part of their anatomy, the shape they had, how it would show in their pants or their underwear or swim suits or dance leotards.  I was secretive about this fascination, figuring it was harmless but damned weird and would get me teased and mocked if people knew — so essentially I knew I was a pervert!  Desperation was a definite turn-on, the combo of drawing attention to you-know-what and you-know-where plus the squirming and the sense of being unable to control one's own bodily reactions.  I wanted to see wetting.  If possible I wanted to make it happen.  (Definitely a toppy / sadistic inclination, which is interesting because I'm not that way about sex in general, it all seemed to get funnelled into wanting to make girls wet themselves).  I didn't yet know about "wet" in the sexual sense but maybe I was wired to find that general notion arousing, who knows?  At that age "wet" definitely meant in the omo sense of wetting.

Found out about adult-type sexuality, appetite and pleasure and being turned on and all that, later on, and realized I wasn't quite as unusual or perverted as I'd thought.  Except that apparently most people don't connect it in their minds with peeing or wetting.  They seem more obsessed with the back side of people's pelvic region, which is definitely just a vague afterthought for me, it's all about the view from the front, shapes and functions.

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On 4/24/2021 at 4:32 PM, EmeraldAvalon said:

It started for me when I was about 8. I was reading a story about someone with autism and the struggles people with autism face. One of those problems was not knowing what is acceptable in society and what was not. To illustrate this point, the story had a kid taking a swimming test in front of an audience (the parents of all the children that came to watch). The kid was up next, being in front of the line and needed to pee. The autistic kid, who was standing behind this kid as second in line, whispered to just pee on the floor. It would fix the problem, and nobody was watching as everyone was only focused on the kid that was swimming right now. And the kid who needed to pee followed up on this advice.

That's funny... it sounds like perfectly reasonable advice. Of course, I'm autistic too, so maybe it shouldn't. But, if you're in swimwear and water is everywhere and nobody will know, it's perfectly reasonable to stay as expressionless as possible and let it out. And if it's an illustration of the sort of socially unacceptable thing the autistic kid only thought of because of their disability keeping them from realizing you don't do that, how come the desperate kid took the advice right away? See, it is good advice. 😛

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I first discovered it in junior high when saw a commercial for the condition of Overactive Bladder, for some reason I found myself looking that up online and reading some stories about women who ended up caught short and desperate due to their condition and that really turned me on and led to me discovering Patches and other similar sites and i've been hooked ever since.

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When I was 16 I went to a party with my then boyfriend who was a couple of years older and had loads of beer. One of his friends was stuck in the toilet puking and you can guess what happened when I had to pee. My skirt got wet let's just say. After that I lost my virginity to him and it stuck in my brain as a deeply sexual thing to this day. Unfortunately I don't think I'm allowed to tell the whole detailed story because I was under 18 at the time, though I was over the legal age where I live, but it was a clear moment for me.

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Well....

As I've mentioned before, I was four years old when I started wetting myself on purpose.  I know why I did it the first time (curiosity) but I still have no idea why I liked it at the time.  Needless to say, it became a lifelong habit.

Around age 12 or so was the first time I masturbated, and it was immediately after wetting my pants.  I was wearing a pair of gym shorts that I had just drenched, and I just rubbed myself through them until I came.  I do know why I like that at the time.  I think the important part to get here, though, is that this tied sex and wetting together pretty solidly.

Around age 22 or so, I was laying in bed in my dorm room, fantasizing about one of the women I knew from college, imagining cuddling her in my bed with me, and then my brain just went, "what if she peed in her pants right at this point in the fantasy?" and I came right at that moment.  This, I think, is the moment it became a kink, but I don't think I realized it yet.

Somewhere along the line here, I had a conversation with a friend of mine, the details of which are boring, but the summary of which was that I learned the term "watersports" from this conversation.

One last jump, to age 24, I'm out of college, I'm at home in my apartment after work, surfing porn (would have been on Usenet at the time) and a spam message appeared in the feed, looking for girls who love to wet their panties . . . and I said to myself, "Wait!  Thats a thing?  It's not just me who wants to see this?"

The very next thing I did was look to see if there was an alt.sex.fetish.watersports or similar and lo and behold!  There was.  From then until I met my next girlfriend, I would spend my nights sitting at the computer, a pitcher of iced tea next to me, in soaking wet shorts while I masturbated to every picture and story I could find about girls going piss in their clothes, later migrating from Usenet to Monty's Watersports Forum, then to WetSet.net, then to Experience Project, and then to here.

So, honest answer?  Not all at once.  It was at ages 4, 12, 22 and 24.

 

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On 4/21/2021 at 7:30 PM, Redboi said:

Have you ever sat back and wondered when looking at these posts: what got me to this point? What flipped on the switch for this certain kink? How did I come to like seeing people pee themselves? For some it could be just recent memories but for people like me it’s a trip down memory lane back to 4th grade.

At this time I had no idea there was a thing for this nor did I even know I could like pee. One day in school we were all lead out to conduct a fire drill and be in a crouching position against our lockers. One girl, who I knew very well at that point, was talking with the teachers. I heard her saying something about needing to pee really bad and the teacher wouldn’t let her go. We went into crouching formation and I overheard her crying right next to me. The boys to my left were laughing while I didn’t know how to feel. At that moment I was just an innocent little 4th grader and didn’t know what it was liked to be aroused. She was able to make it to the bathroom and she said to me afterwards that she was about one minute away from peeing herself. This was my first experience and afterwards about a year later during summer break I started looking up videos on YouTube of girls wetting their pants. Thankfully my incompetent sixth grade persona wasn’t able to find much. I eventually read stories about Omo and got really into it last year during the pandemic. I wrote my first unpublished story just 6 months ago and made my first short story here on Omo.org just one month prior to now. To think 3 years ago when I was 16 I never knew about this community. I’m curious though to know when others found out their love for omo and if it involved scenarios closer to adulthood or in their childhood/adolescence. Thank you for reading!

Just a correction, it was a tornado drill.

Your story is exactly the same as mine except I heard about a friend I had, who was a girl, had an accident in her class I didn’t witness it at all but I can remember being very interested in how and why it happened and how she felt. I had no idea at the time why it was so intriguing to me but as I got older and many YouTube and experience project stories later, my omo obviously shifted to be more of an adult pleasure. But I can’t tell you the origins or any reason that kicked off my original interest in someone having an accident in their pants! 

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Hmmmm....

I honestly don't know anymore at this point. All I really have for reference that I can remember is that I found TwoKinds (favorite webcomic) through this website, funnily enough.

This was—and still is—the first time I saw anything related to TwoKinds and that was probably around 2015 or something, soooo, probably got into omo a few years before then...

So, 2013, maybe?

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For me it first started (innocently) in primary school when a strict teacher told one bit he had to wait for the toilet until home time. I was fascinated by the way he moved and squirmed and could hardly take my eyes off him. He was sitting at the same group as me and he kept whispering over to me that he was bursting to pee and that he might pee himself. I think the fact I never used school toilets myself so I could empathise with him greatly meant I could almost feel his urgency and I was anxious how things would end. In totally he had to wait at least an hour and it’s the most memorable time I can recall from primary school! In the end as he stood at the door of the class he went pale, stood still and pee arched out of his crotch onto the floor in front I’d throw classroom. I stood silently open mouthed then when I was home I decided to drink lots and imagine I was him in my room holding on for so long. I had a strange feeling of enjoyment but didn’t wet myself. 
 

During my high school days I hated using school toilets and would hold all day. I was always fascinated when others asked to go to the loo because I was desperate to ask too but far too shy. I was always watching out for anyone else who might be feeling like me and so saw quite a number of others who either whispered they needed to pee but didn’t ask the teacher to go or just wriggled around like I was or sat tightly crossed legged. When I walked home a couple of times I often saw my brothers friend holding himself telling my brother he didn’t think he would make it home. A few times I even saw him standing at a bush obviously peeing and my brother would sometimes say he wished he could do the same as we both always came home bursting. 
 

Then at university I left home and stayed in the halls of residence. Where I was was a hall with rooms off and a shared toilet and shower room for the whole corridor. I was always very shy about walking down the corridor to the bathroom when others were around so I would hold in my room as long as I could, often for a full evening rocking, pee dancing and holding myself while I studied or did an assignment desperately listening for a time the hall was quiet so I could rush to the loo. Through holding myself loads I naturally found myself masterbating which always helped me hold so it became a pretty much daily thing I did but kept secret.

 

A few years later I was married and working. I still kept my love of pee desperation secret but one evening I was working long hours and got home late. I was self employed in sales and had to input my whole weeks sales figures into the computer by 10pm or I would lose the sales. My only toilet was downstairs and my computer was upstairs so I took up a mug of tea and started work. I started at 8:15 and by 9 pm the water I had drunk at dinner and my now empty mug of tea had filled my bladder and I really had ti pee. But if I stopped I risked not getting the sales through in time so I ploughed on and squirmed back how I had at university. The longer I held the more I got turned on and when the sales figures were submitted at 9:45 I clicked on google and typed in for the first time ever ‘male desperate to pee’ and came across a video that blew my mind! It was a simple short clip of a guy working at his desk squirming but when he went to leave his office the door was locked. He phoned to see what the problem was but got more and more desperate waiting for an answer and had an accident. I came to that twice that night!

 

Since then I have googled the same thing so often, held my bladder almost daily and read and written so many omo stories and watched so many videos. Nothing turns me on more than a man squirming for ages desperate to pee and even more so if I am bursting myself while watching. 
 

This site has given me the opportunity to be part of a community I never knew existed, boosted my metal health, made me feel I am not alone and given me opportunities to share that have helped my confidence and sexual desires grow. I love it here! 

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@Mbgpeelover brilliant history of your love of the omo thanks for sharing,

for me another incident apart from the experiences as a boy in the 70’s was a girl at primary school peed herself in class,

a teacher was off and the class split up, we had about 8 kids in ours, they sat on the floor in a circle at the front as no spare desks,

probably for me was the shrill scream the girl let out as she sat in her pee, it was startling to hear,

the girl was frozen sobbing, the teacher had to lift her up,

i didn’t witness her desperate or anything before hand just heard the scream,

i conclude her being in a strange class strange teacher was too much out of her normal routine to deal with her need to pee.

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