TheNameIsLita 58 Posted April 5, 2021 Popular Post Share Posted April 5, 2021 (edited) It happened yesterday morning and I'm still a bit shocked! Since the restaurants are still closed, I went for a take-away brunch in a park with 3 friends, including the one I will call Elsa here. All of us are 29 years old, and Elsa gave birth 2 months ago. Everything is going well, we're enjoying our delicious bagels sitting at the picnic table, and all of a sudden Elsa says to her best friend sitting next to her, "oh I'll be right back, I really have to pee"! Nothing unusual so far, but I was surprised by the fact that she said this very suddenly, with a rather panicked tone. Elsa hurriedly gets up and almost runs off to the public restroom in the park located a little further away and in my line of sight...but there's already a long line, because we're not the only ones who want to enjoy the nice weather. I continued to talk with them, but I couldn't help but notice that Elsa looked really desperate : she was glancing left and right, sighing, squirming, etc. After a few minutes, I saw her leave the line and walk away, probably hoping to find other less crowded restrooms...but after a few steps, she suddenly stopped and stood still, clenching her fists. I should mention that for those few minutes, I was the only one in our group who could see her. Then she came back to us, obviously uncomfortable. Her cheeks were red and she looked both frustrated and sad. I heard her friend whisper "are you OK"? She just answered silently "the line was too long, I'll go home soon". At that moment, she seemed really furious about the situation! At the time, I didn't really understand the situation because obviously her jeans were dry and she didn't look that desperate anymore. But from then on, she remained strangely calm, whereas she is usually extremely talkative and outgoing. About 30mins later, we decided to leave and that's when I understood. We had to walk about 20mins to the parking lot, and several things made me realize that she had probably been rescued by wearing protection : she kept pulling down her t-shirt to cover her buttocks, passing her hand to check that there was no leakage. And the shape of her butt was strangely puffy, with a weird bulge in place of her butt-crack etc. That's when I made the link with the fact that she had just given birth : probably her bladder was still weakened, and she was forced to protect herself during public events like this. I couldn't help but feel sorry for her, but it was a really amazing sighting nonetheless! Have you ever seen similarly diapered adults in public too? PS : sorry for the mistakes, my english isn't great! Edited April 5, 2021 by TheNameIsLita (see edit history) Ultima01, rachelkirwan, TheOwl and 12 others 14 1 Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,406 Posted April 5, 2021 Share Posted April 5, 2021 Wow, that's an amazing sighting... everything does point to the fact she was wearing a diaper of some sort. I'd guess at an adult woman's pull-up, as they're the most common thing a younger woman with moderate bladder problems would wear, and those who wear them will generally do so as a backup while trying to get to the toilet. A lady wearing a full taped nappy would probably just go in it rather than trying to make it to the loo. TheNameIsLita 1 Quote Link to comment
Jota 129 Posted April 5, 2021 Share Posted April 5, 2021 8 hours ago, TheNameIsLita said: she kept pulling down her t-shirt to cover her buttocks, passing her hand to check that there was no leakage. And the shape of her butt was strangely puffy Well, those are surely very suspicious signs. And oh yes, I would be checking myself for leaks as well if I had a full wetting accident on a pull-up in public, especially if I couldn't control the flow. I only trust my diapers for that and even so I remember a couple times when I they leaked in public during my diaper adventures, pretty embarrassing. I bet she was panicking 😨 Quote Link to comment
TheIrreverend 485 Posted April 6, 2021 Share Posted April 6, 2021 I would totally be nervous as she was if I were in her place, I'm afraid to flood even a quite absorbent (and thick!) premium pullup and she was most likely wearing a much lighter type. I'm glad she didn't suffer the embarrassment of leaking! I did see a similar event happen with a woman with a young child, she was waiting for the toilet in a cafe to open up and after waiting for several minutes gave up and sat back down. When she left the cafe a little later (without ever using the toilet), I noticed wetness on the back of her jeans where the edges of a pullup would be. She must have been forced to use her protection and it leaked on her, as her jeans were definitely dry when she was standing. nappypants, moiamigo, REDstoplight and 3 others 6 Quote Link to comment
ascela 14 Posted April 6, 2021 Share Posted April 6, 2021 OH man sightings like this in the wild, as it were, are pretty rare. Nice spotting! TheNameIsLita 1 Quote Link to comment
xixi 167 Posted April 6, 2021 Share Posted April 6, 2021 Great one! Thankfully she didn't have any embarrassing leak TheNameIsLita 1 Quote Link to comment
TheNameIsLita 58 Posted April 6, 2021 Author Share Posted April 6, 2021 20 hours ago, croakierpaint said: What a sighting. It's one of those things that I feel madly turned on by, but feel quite guilty about this because I know deep down this is't a situation that is of pleasure for that woman, and it's most probably quite upsetting for her. Fantastic sighting, none the less. But the big question is @TheNameIsLita - why weren't you wearing your diaper? 😉 Of course I was wearing mine 😉 An AMD Slip, a french brand discreet enough to be worn in public but really comfortable! nappypants and Bluesman59 2 Quote Link to comment
sandy808 1,192 Posted April 6, 2021 Share Posted April 6, 2021 Sounds like she was wearing some form of protection to me. I have been there too, feeling a sudden urge to pee and hurrying to the restroom and hoping you make to the toilet before you bladder lets go. I often never made it in time and just stood still clenching my muscles as a dribble gives way to a spurt then a gush. It was humiliating and embarrassing to realize you just wet yourself like a baby. I wanted to sink into ground and the last thing I wanted to do was be around other people. nappypants and moiamigo 2 Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,406 Posted April 6, 2021 Share Posted April 6, 2021 If someone is obviously desperate, then without actually visiting the toilet or having a visible accident they suddenly no longer are, it’s quite a giveaway that they’re wearing a nappy or heavy incontinence protection. In such circumstances, the person concerned is probably best just quietly going in their pants so that, as long as they don’t have a leak, nobody notices anything! TheNameIsLita and TheIrreverend 2 Quote Link to comment
Will1994 136 Posted April 7, 2021 Share Posted April 7, 2021 I saw an article by a mother who gave birth that listed a number of items to have before/after a pregnancy. Incontinence protection was one of the items (I think it was the always discreet). And she told it straight. A pregnancy would put pressure on your bladder making you have to go more frequently, and possibly cause stress incontinence. While post-pregnancy, the physical strain could also cause incontinence. People recommended special exercises to reinforce certain muscles to reduce incontinence. nappypants 1 Quote Link to comment
silvermoon 564 Posted April 7, 2021 Share Posted April 7, 2021 8 hours ago, nappypants said: If someone is obviously desperate, then without actually visiting the toilet or having a visible accident they suddenly no longer are, it’s quite a giveaway that they’re wearing a nappy or heavy incontinence protection. In such circumstances, the person concerned is probably best just quietly going in their pants so that, as long as they don’t have a leak, nobody notices anything! In addition to this, it's possible the diaper was meant to be a last resort, and they were hoping to avoid using it. TheNameIsLita and nappypants 2 Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,406 Posted April 7, 2021 Share Posted April 7, 2021 7 hours ago, silvermoon said: In addition to this, it's possible the diaper was meant to be a last resort, and they were hoping to avoid using it. Yes, and I think that’s very likely for a newly incontinent young mother. She really won’t want to feel like she’s wearing a nappy like her baby, and even less so to actually wet it, probably reluctantly wearing some sort of discreet women’s pull-up as the only option to be able to leave the house without risking a major public accident (it’s unlikely she would choose a full tape-fastening nappy unless she has absolutely no control and getting to the toilet is not an option at all). Chances are she will be desperate not to use it, except as an absolute last resort... but that brings with it the risk of the “visibly desperate to suddenly no longer desperate” scenario as described, which is pretty much the equivalent of putting a sign on her back saying “I’m wearing an adult nappy and, what’s more, I’ve just wet it!” TheNameIsLita 1 Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,406 Posted April 8, 2021 Share Posted April 8, 2021 Anyway, I can imagine the first time an incontinent person has to trust their nappy or pull-up in public, it must be a very stressful situation. Will it leak? Will people see/hear/smell anything? Am I really going to the toilet in my pants in a crowd of people? TheNameIsLita 1 Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,406 Posted April 9, 2021 Share Posted April 9, 2021 (edited) On 4/7/2021 at 1:57 AM, Will1994 said: I saw an article by a mother who gave birth that listed a number of items to have before/after a pregnancy. Incontinence protection was one of the items (I think it was the always discreet). And she told it straight. A pregnancy would put pressure on your bladder making you have to go more frequently, and possibly cause stress incontinence. While post-pregnancy, the physical strain could also cause incontinence. People recommended special exercises to reinforce certain muscles to reduce incontinence. Yes, it's extremely common, as we see from the numerous adverts for women's light to moderate incontinence protection. For it to be severe enough for a woman to actually be left in nappies is somewhat rarer, but it does happen. On 4/6/2021 at 8:12 PM, TheNameIsLita said: Of course I was wearing mine 😉 An AMD Slip, a french brand discreet enough to be worn in public but really comfortable! So 50% of your group was in nappies, that's impressive! Or should I say at least 50%, who's to say one of the other two women didn't have a little secret as well? 😉 Edited April 9, 2021 by nappypants Duplicated quote (see edit history) Bluesman59 and TheNameIsLita 2 Quote Link to comment
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