China Girl 835 Posted August 20, 2021 Share Posted August 20, 2021 (edited) Does "mixed things" mean sex, then? If that's what you're using I'll go with that instead... Edited August 20, 2021 by China Girl (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
peelion 413 Posted August 23, 2021 Share Posted August 23, 2021 en tout cas je suis heureux pour toi @jota et même un peu jaloux XD 😂 profite bien de tout les aspects de ta relation ! Anyway I'm happy for you @jota and even a little jealous XD😂 enjoy all aspects of your relationship! Quote Link to comment
China Girl 835 Posted August 23, 2021 Share Posted August 23, 2021 (edited) I hope they enjoy intercourse together...maybe we have to use polite language now on this fetish site. Edited August 23, 2021 by China Girl (see edit history) nex, moiamigo and GermanShepherd 1 2 Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,398 Posted August 23, 2021 Share Posted August 23, 2021 (edited) 14 minutes ago, China Girl said: I hope they enjoy intercourse together...maybe we have to use polite language now on this fetish site. Don’t bring all that up again, I’d closed the debate and moved on until the person above started wading in with personal insults, which I don’t take kindly to. Leaving that with the mods to deal with now. Edited August 23, 2021 by nappypants (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
vincp44 500 Posted August 23, 2021 Share Posted August 23, 2021 For me, it's not about the language per se... what still baffles me, China Girl, is why you keep asking the same intimate question in this particular topic, about a relationship that is still fragile. Quote Link to comment
China Girl 835 Posted August 23, 2021 Share Posted August 23, 2021 (edited) It was a hope, not a question. I don't understand why you could be so happy to share the most intimate details of incontinence and using diapers in a relationship, which I hope she consented to sharing, but sex is suddenly obscene. We were all conceived that way, and yet here we are on this fetish site recoiling like church ladies over it. I'd be a lot more happy for my husband to tell people he fucked me than that I wear diapers and piss myself. Though I do consent to sharing that information. Edited August 23, 2021 by China Girl (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Etuhanlo 125 Posted August 24, 2021 Share Posted August 24, 2021 (edited) Y'all freaking out for no reason, like China girl said, its a kink website, maybe the language barrier doesnt help but, bringing attention to a question (That could have been ignored) and derailing the thread for no reason is *fucking* stupid. Move on 🙄 Jota I'm glad youre taking things slow! Keep us posted if you can but for your sake, I'd rather you dont update us if she doesnt feel comfortable about it. Her value is higher than ours in your life. Don't jeopardize your relationship for us. Wish you the best. Edited August 24, 2021 by Etuhanlo typo (see edit history) xixi, peelion, nex and 3 others 6 Quote Link to comment
MrCapricorn 4 Posted August 27, 2021 Share Posted August 27, 2021 On 8/19/2021 at 5:42 PM, China Girl said: My English has got really good from using sites like this. Aside from this one slip up, which apparently really offended some people, I have had no problems communicating here. Though my spoken English is a lot worse than written. I too would be happy to leave this thread be, unless the poster does want to talk about kinky diaper sex. I feel after this message you have truly learned from your mishap, It is kind of a grey zone on where & how the word Fuck is used but you have learned well.. On 8/20/2021 at 1:24 PM, Jota said: Jesus, things escalated quickly. Let's not read to much on China Girl's less polite words... It's part of the persona, all her posts are like that. I got a little baffled at first, but I didn't take offense. I made some friends over the years a who are just as direct, it's part of them and they don't mean any harm. And truth is, sometimes they are the only ones with the guts to say things others can't muster the courage... Still I agree we always should measure our words, especially with strangers. And that's important even online, without a respectful environment these kind of forums don't work. Anyway, as I said, she is not from the community, although she was aware of this kink. Given so, we haven't mixed thigs and we'll take things slow. If we feel like sharing in the future, we will, but it's not something we even thought about yet. We need time to understand us first. Well put Joto!!! Quote Link to comment
Alex_nb 40 Posted October 9, 2021 Share Posted October 9, 2021 On 4/6/2021 at 6:05 PM, TheIrreverend said: Between 1-2% of adults wet the bed on at least a weekly basis, with about a 4:3 ratio of males to females. (Yeung et al 2004) I don't think anyone's ever done an epidemiological study on this kink though lol. Sorry if I arrive a bit late on this thread, great story, thanks for sharing and I wish you good luck with this relationship. Concerning this comment, I have always been wondering if someone ever tried to quantify the percentage of people that are involved in this kink. If yes, what's the result, if not, why nobody has ever tried? I did some research and found nothing, but maybe people here have better information. Quote Link to comment
Eliah 3 Posted March 31, 2022 Share Posted March 31, 2022 Sorry to wake this post from the grave, but any life updates from you and the diaper nurse @Jota? Really hope the lovestory continues nappypants and GoldenG8 2 Quote Link to comment
Guest DesperateDiapy Posted May 3, 2022 Share Posted May 3, 2022 On 8/15/2021 at 2:54 PM, Jota said: ...lonely it is not having someone to share the ABDL part of me and how that feeling is common in the ABDL community.... It really is though. It is nice to have a community like this, and good, respectful, and well moderated one too. Quote Link to comment
Jota 129 Posted May 5, 2022 Author Popular Post Share Posted May 5, 2022 (edited) After all the ruckus in the topic I thought this was better to be forgotten, that’s the reason I didn’t wrote to you anymore. But things are in the past and I’m certain we can all behave now. We are getting along, 6 months and still dating. We have a toothbrush and some clothes at each other’s house, so I guess we are doing fine. One main thing that changed for us is that we now never work in the same shifts, we prefer to separate our personal and work life. As you know, my girlfriend knew about the abdl/omorashi kink before we met (apparently, if you are an adult buying diapers online nowadays even on google you are bound to find some abdl diapers). That was actually good, because when I told her about my abdl/omorashi interests she was not taken by surprise and, from her side, it was also good to find someone who didn’t care about her bedwetting issues... Her bedwetting issue is actually not that severe, accidents tend to happen when she is more stressed, very tired, when we go for drinks or when she sleeps in new places (we both can’t explain the reason for the last one). The reason she uses protection during her nightshifts at work is the fear of wetting the hospital bed, which would be very embarrassing, she keeps using them although she hasn’t had an accident at work in years. She never wears diapers at her house and at my place she insisted in using them in the beginning, but that’s in the past. Regarding the abdl/omorashi side of our relationship, well, it evolved in an enjoyable way actually. At night, she only wears diapers when she feels she needs them, and prefers the regular diapers, she used abdl diapers at night sometimes in the beginning but not anymore. She doesn’t want to mix things; bedwetting is an issue for her and we both agree we should not engage in any behavior that may make it worse. During the day, at the weekends, she now often puts a pull-up or abdl diaper on to tease me since she knows I love it and she enjoys being pampered and gets along with some light ageplay 😊 I’m strictly forbidden to take pictures and even more to share them, so for now that’s off the table. But we are planning on going on vacations abroad soon, we never know how she’ll feel about that then, I guess we will be packing some diapers 😛 (she doesn’t know about this last phrase yet hehe). Also of interest, she is yet to decide about how she feels about me using diapers; she doesn’t mind, but she doesn’t find it attractive either. As a result, I actually have been using them less and less, but I don’t really mind, I still use them from time to time when I do a hold. So yes, life is good! Makes you wonder how your life can change due to the smallest coincidence… Edited May 5, 2022 by Jota (see edit history) nappypants, xixi, Etuhanlo and 8 others 6 5 Quote Link to comment
NeutralPion 2 Posted May 15, 2022 Share Posted May 15, 2022 I'm so happy that things worked out well for you – it was really fun reading this thread. Prior to injuring my back quite badly (thoracic anterior wedge fracture and a "tiny" myelopathy) last year I was in a hospital a lot as an employee (and then as a patient!) too. I've never even encountered anyone with the kink IRL, but I _have_ encountered many doctors who have married nurses and enjoy life. Other friends of mine look down on doctors who marry nurses, which I've never understood. I really hope it goes good long term! One thing I dearly would love to know though – your description of nights sounds idyllic. It's not like that in the NHS, I can assure you! The idea of sleep is a luxury half the time and on one memorable occasion in the distant past early in my training I fell asleep at about 0400 in the middle of a liver transplant operation while waiting to act as a glorified courier for histology samples on lN2. Got locked out, yelled at, and embarrassed all at once… Jota 1 Quote Link to comment
Eliah 3 Posted May 17, 2022 Share Posted May 17, 2022 This @Jota was a great update! I am atleast very happy for you and really like that the story so far has had an happy ending. have a great vacation when the time comes Quote Link to comment
Jota 129 Posted May 17, 2022 Author Share Posted May 17, 2022 (edited) On 5/15/2022 at 8:40 PM, NeutralPion said: I'm so happy that things worked out well for you – it was really fun reading this thread. Prior to injuring my back quite badly (thoracic anterior wedge fracture and a "tiny" myelopathy) last year I was in a hospital a lot as an employee (and then as a patient!) too. I've never even encountered anyone with the kink IRL, but I _have_ encountered many doctors who have married nurses and enjoy life. Other friends of mine look down on doctors who marry nurses, which I've never understood. I really hope it goes good long term! One thing I dearly would love to know though – your description of nights sounds idyllic. It's not like that in the NHS, I can assure you! The idea of sleep is a luxury half the time and on one memorable occasion in the distant past early in my training I fell asleep at about 0400 in the middle of a liver transplant operation while waiting to act as a glorified courier for histology samples on lN2. Got locked out, yelled at, and embarrassed all at once… Oh, I believe you, in our main hospital, where he have the acute patients, there is no time for sleep either. Day or night, patients are always coming in. In the ER we receive hundreds of patients each day and in the wards, with so many acute patients, we receive calls all night for patients with acute decompensations. It's hard to recall a night, in the main hospital, where any of the staff could stop a little mid shift to rest. But this takes place in a separate secondary facility for chronic patients in the late stages of recovery, we move them to that place to make room for acute patients in the main hospital when they are stable. That's the reasons why it is so calm there and why there is only a doctor and a few nurses for all the facility at night. Between the team we call the nights there "rest nights" but at least one doctor must stay their during the night in case something happens (it's the best for the patients and it's also required by law). Usually, we divide the turns in the secondary hospital fairly between the team and they are all done as extra hours, you cant just do more shifts their to run from the shifts in the main hospital 🤣 From what I know, and I have a few friends in the NHS, our emergency departaments work in a similar way, with chaos all night both for the surgical and medical specialities 🤣 nurses, aids and doctors, we all suffer together through the night 🤣 Edited May 17, 2022 by Jota (see edit history) Apertado, waguy762 and xixi 3 Quote Link to comment
TimmyTrihard69 366 Posted May 23, 2022 Share Posted May 23, 2022 Man, it was so awesome to read all of this! I'm so glad things worked out for you in the end. I'd like to second some of the comments above me and say that if it comes down to it please ignore this thread and any of the community members, don't jeopardize your relationship for us 🙂 Quote Link to comment
andrewWetter 331 Posted June 8, 2022 Share Posted June 8, 2022 Incredible experiences @Jota. And on top of all of that, you are a doctor too!! 🙌💪 Quote Link to comment
Jota 129 Posted June 8, 2022 Author Share Posted June 8, 2022 1 hour ago, soakingboy said: Incredible experiences @Jota. And on top of all of that, you are a doctor too!! 🙌💪 It's just a job. With the years you get to understand that. Without the nurses, the assistant staff, the radiology technologists who operate CT scanners and MRIs, the engineers who keep the oxygen flowing and other vital equipment running, the IT department who keeps the informatic systems alive, without all of them a doctor is nothing special 🙂 we have to take decisions, we have knowledge and skills to help our patients, but we rely on teamwork to be able to provide treatment and care. NeutralPion, xixi, waguy762 and 1 other 4 Quote Link to comment
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