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Well, this happened to me yesterday and I am still baffled. I wrote this down as soon as I could to not lose any details. A diaper sighting is very rare, even more one like this. Also it involves a co

Sorry for only replying after such a long time... But one plays his cards well till the day he doesn't. And I almost ruined my chances. Fortunately, things turned out ok and now I write to you again..

So, Saturday night I did another shift in the secondary hospital I told you about and saw her again, working in the 3rd floor. I spent a little time in my office in the 2nd floor since I had no paperw

Sorry to break in here... it's my first post on this website, but I've been hanging around longer.

China Girl, as much as I like your excitement on this site... in this particalur topic maybe we should all take a bit more care than blasting out such things.

Jota has just told in detail how fragile the relationship still is, after the hard times they had when she found out that all details about her possible bladder problem were already posted here.

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Well I don't think it's out of place to ask about sex on a kink website. Given this partner has been described wetting herself in a fetish context, hopefully with her consent, how much more is to talk about sex?

It seems strange to be happy to talk so candidly and happily about pee and kink, and then as soon as penis goes in vagina, suddenly it's taboo...

But after all, we share what we want to share.

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I think you have that confused with rape, fucking can certainly be a consensual thing. There's plenty of consensual porn which uses that word.

Do we need to censor our words on an erotic site? In China "肏" (fuck) is obscene and censored, though it is certainly not only for rape but also consensual sex. But I would hope that on a site where people happily talk about pissing ourselves in diapers, we could talk freely...

I do really like the word "肏" actually. It's made up of 入 (enter) and 肉 (flesh), and that's what happens!

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15 hours ago, China Girl said:

Well I don't think it's out of place to ask about sex on a kink website. Given this partner has been described wetting herself in a fetish context, hopefully with her consent, how much more is to talk about sex?

It seems strange to be happy to talk so candidly and happily about pee and kink, and then as soon as penis goes in vagina, suddenly it's taboo...

But after all, we share what we want to share.

YES,  we share what we want. I do beleive this is not a place to be sharing about fucking. It's a place for people who like diapers, and who beleive in being little. 

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11 hours ago, China Girl said:

I think you have that confused with rape, fucking can certainly be a consensual thing. There's plenty of consensual porn which uses that word.

Do we need to censor our words on an erotic site? In China "肏" (fuck) is obscene and censored, though it is certainly not only for rape but also consensual sex. But I would hope that on a site where people happily talk about pissing ourselves in diapers, we could talk freely...

I do really like the word "肏" actually. It's made up of 入 (enter) and 肉 (flesh), and that's what happens!

There’s no rule against discussing sexual stuff on here (unlike a certain other ABDL forum I could mention!), just appreciate that not everyone wants to share those details.

In terms of using the F-word in its literal sense, again, I’d do so with caution. It doesn’t necessarily imply non-consensual but there are more tasteful ways of putting it in certain contexts, particularly if you’re asking someone about their relationship for example. I appreciate as a non-native English speaker it will be harder to judge when it’s right, using profanity in the “right” way is supposed to be one of the hardest things to learn in any language, despite those words being the first ones a lot of students want to learn!

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8 minutes ago, China Girl said:

What's the forum that doesn't allow sex? Given this is a fetish website, I would expect openness here compared to other places, but it seems like some people react almost prudishly to saying fuck, while surrounded by fetish content. Surely this isn't the place to restrict our sexual language like we do when talking to our parents.

As I said, it’s more about the right context, which only a native speaker can really get. I suppose I’d say it more alludes to aggressive/pornographic contexts than loving relationships.

I won’t promote/name and shame the other forum, but yeah, you’d be banned in 5 minutes… full of people who think ABDL should just be this cuddly, innocent thing, and over-sensitive incontinent people who should stick to medical forums if they can’t handle people who actually like diapers!

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Of course I know to change my language. I certainly don't say "肏" (fuck) in front of my parents here, that would be so inappropriate. But I certainly do use it with my husband, and I do think it is appropriate for a fetish forum, which is described as lewd...

Cuddles are fun too, but why do people get so incredibly angry just because someone used a sexual word, that refers to something that had to happen just for them to be born?

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I honestly don't know on what planet using "f*ck* automatically means "unenjoyable sex", and there are loads of people who use the word casually, so let's not split hairs hair or nitpick at what someone is saying. Its not a word you would use around children or in a professional situation perhaps, but literally everyone I know use "have sex" and "f*ck" interchangeably, and this is adult content we are discussing. If you don't want to say f*ck, that's fine, but let's not be unnecessarily condescending and confusing here at another user, and lets also not assume our own more conservative use of language is the "right way" and applies to everyone. After all, we are on a fetish site, and I think a bit of open-mindedness and license of language (barring racist language or other hateful language) is in the spirit of the environment. We aren't in a boardroom meeting or something.

@China Girl your English seems excellent (I'm sure you already know this!)

Now, if you wanted to debate whether asking about their sex life was appropriate -- when it was not explicitly shared -- that is perhaps more debatable (I mean I think its fine she asked -- he is clearly an adult and can refuse if he wishes). Again, we are on a fetish site.

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1 hour ago, sybil said:

Now, if you wanted to debate whether asking about their sex life was appropriate -- when it was not explicitly shared -- that is perhaps more debatable (I mean I think its fine she asked -- he is clearly an adult and can refuse if he wishes). Again, we are on a fetish site.

Well that was the original debate, and the fact that if you are going to ask people that kind of question then you perhaps need to be a bit more tactful about it than “did you f*ck her”. If people want to use the word to describe their own activities then fair enough.

Anyway I think the debate’s gone far enough and unless the OP has more to add I think we’re best leaving this thread behind now. @China Girl does post a lot of great content which I appreciate anyway!

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Jesus, things escalated quickly. Let's not read to much on China Girl's less polite words... It's part of the persona, all her posts are like that. I got a little baffled at first, but I didn't take offense. I made some friends over the years a who are just as direct, it's part of them and they don't mean any harm. And truth is, sometimes they are the only ones with the guts to say things others can't muster the courage...

Still I agree we always should measure our words, especially with strangers. And that's important even online, without a respectful environment these kind of forums don't work. 

Anyway, as I said, she is not from the community, although she was aware of this kink. Given so, we haven't mixed thigs and we'll take things slow. If we feel like sharing in the future, we will, but it's not something we even thought about yet. We need time to understand us first. 

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