Omoboy31 75 Posted March 6, 2021 Share Posted March 6, 2021 Hi guys! I was wondering about your favorite holding style. Do you prefer holding with someone else (bf. gf, fuckbuddy or whatever) or alone? I love holding with my boyfriend, he initially was kind of skeptical about that, but in recent times he started to enjoy it and now we have holding contest (obviously, I always lose being accident prone). It’s wonderful because I feel embarrassed when I can’t hold it, but I also feel naughty hearing him being vocal about how desperate he is. It’s also arousing while I see wet patches growing on his pants, while he desperately moans! I also love when he allows me to have an accident on himself or viceversa! However, even though it seems really arousing, it’s not like I enjoy it more than being desperate on my own. It’s weird, but I perceive these two things as separate, like sex and masturbation. They are different, I can’t outline a hierarchy! What do you think? Quote Link to comment
secretomoact 2,353 Posted March 6, 2021 Share Posted March 6, 2021 I've written a few posts about my partner and I holding together. Sometimes only one of us is holding it while the other teases and encourages to wait longer. Others, we both hold it and see who can last longer. It's more fun than holding alone. Quote Link to comment
astralis 728 Posted March 6, 2021 Share Posted March 6, 2021 I usually hold by myself because no one knows I'm into this; my ex was super receptive to it and would talk out fantasies with me of her holding until she wet herself, also I held a few times while I was on the phone with her, which was incredibly intimate and freeing. We had plans to someday do a hold and wetting in person (we were LDR) but unfortunately things fell apart on that front... but anyway yeah for the most part I do holds when I'm alone, I used to do them in my dorm room or at my apartment in college pretty frequently but of course now I have to wait until my parents are both gone for a long, long time and that hardly ever happens anymore thanks to quarantine, but it's okay! Drip 1 Quote Link to comment
ClayJayton 249 Posted March 7, 2021 Share Posted March 7, 2021 I usually hold by myself but that’s because I don’t have anyone to hold with. I’d prefer holding with someone else because it just amplifies everything. Holding and wetting is something that has become a part of me and I want to share that with someone else. Quote Link to comment
Mbgpeelover 8,721 Posted March 7, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted March 7, 2021 I have never experienced in real life holding with someone else but I have done via chat on here and it was very thrilling indeed. While I get very turned on when I am desperate the thought that my desperation was having the exact same affect on someone else really did take things to a whole new level and it’s something I would love to do more. in the meantime I just ‘practice’ alone dreaming that someone might touch me while I hold and find it as erotic as I do. Marco, BurstingSpurt, wannawatch and 3 others 4 2 Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,793 Posted March 9, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted March 9, 2021 To me holding and desperation really don't do anything without the social component, so unless I am actually interacting with someone while desperate it really doesn't make it really exciting. The irony is that now when I do see other women desperate at my job I am so desperate myself that I am more focused on holding it than I am watching others desperate, although I definitely do watch and enjoy! But it's good to see that at least others are desperate with me because it is much harder to be desperate when you are the only one desperate and knowing that everybody else has relieved themselves or has empty bladders. For me solo desperation makes it so much more difficult to hold it and makes it so much more intense. Quote Link to comment
Guest shortmetalboi Posted March 9, 2021 Share Posted March 9, 2021 I always find it far more enjoyable and arrousing when Im holding with someone else. Im straight so I really only get something out of it if its a girl. I honestly dont hold much by myself unless Im chatting with someone Quote Link to comment
Simcaste 134 Posted March 10, 2021 Share Posted March 10, 2021 Do a holding with someone else amplify by several order of magnitude the whole experience. I rarely hold until my limit if I’m alone. I usually do a holding when I’m chatting with someone else who could push me further. I find it way more enjoyable. Quote Link to comment
NearNudeLayla 125 Posted March 10, 2021 Share Posted March 10, 2021 I would love to do a hold with someone else, but my partner isnt really into it. squirmystud 1 Quote Link to comment
RitaPinturas 14 Posted March 11, 2021 Share Posted March 11, 2021 My boyfriend is sort of coaching me to help increase my bladder capacity. I'm not sure yet whether it helps my performance if he holds it with me or not. I have yet to outperform him (but more on that later). My best hold so far was actually with only me holding. SpaceWonderer 1 Quote Link to comment
secretomoact 2,353 Posted March 11, 2021 Share Posted March 11, 2021 19 hours ago, Simcaste said: Do a holding with someone else amplify by several order of magnitude the whole experience. I rarely hold until my limit if I’m alone. I usually do a holding when I’m chatting with someone else who could push me further. I find it way more enjoyable. Doing a hold with someone where you're both desperate can be extra challenging. Seeing the other person squirm and fidget makes you so much more aware of your own need. Quote Link to comment
Alex62 1,481 Posted March 11, 2021 Share Posted March 11, 2021 With someone else definitely. As I love to see someone else desperate also. Quote Link to comment
Legscrossed 557 Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 I can certainly hold on longer if i am holding on here with someone ovee chat. Even longer if that someone has a dom like role squirmystud 1 Quote Link to comment
eucoloco 322 Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 Definitely holding with someone else. Having a chat desperate to pee..contest.. being competitive helps making new records it’s the only way to get me to genuine involuntary leaking and spurts Quote Link to comment
Lukhas 391 Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 I like both ways- only me self or with someone else (both via chat or personally). But if it is with someone else it is important that (s)he is into omo and do not do it because of me. Quote Link to comment
Viridis 200 Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 I've never held with anyone else, but I'd love to try it sometime. Sounds exciting! Omoboy31 and squirmystud 2 Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,586 Posted March 13, 2021 Share Posted March 13, 2021 (edited) Unfortunately for a very long time my holds have been exclusively alone, but not by choice. The only person to hold pee with me was my ex-wife. To be fully enjoyable I need an appreciative female observing me , and becoming aroused by it. Much better yet is holding her pee with me , so I can enjoy her desperation and eventual wetting as well. But lacking a partner, when I do a hold until I wet my pants for fun, I imagine in my mind a woman playing along with me. If I pleasure myself afterward it is always with a female enjoying my desperation with me, and asking for status updates, while urging me to keep holding . Edited March 13, 2021 by wettingman typo (see edit history) Omoboy31 and peedespes02 2 Quote Link to comment
petitewonder 480 Posted March 16, 2021 Share Posted March 16, 2021 I haven't really tried this but I like the idea of it and I think I'd like the idea of reading it in erotica/seeing it in porn. Especially as part of a truth or dare scenario. Quote Link to comment
Mariner62 1,554 Posted March 16, 2021 Share Posted March 16, 2021 I prefer to have a woman hold and wet with me. Quote Link to comment
kaileybaby199 43 Posted March 17, 2021 Share Posted March 17, 2021 I don’t really have a preference. I’ve done holds with my gf before. But it’s not super common where we do one. Quote Link to comment
sammilove 835 Posted March 17, 2021 Share Posted March 17, 2021 Honestly, I prefer it on my own. I enjoy doing milovana challenges or just challenges I set for myself to fail. But when I do hold with my wife, it’s really exciting as well. Quote Link to comment
Will8724 95 Posted March 20, 2021 Share Posted March 20, 2021 I've only ever held alone, but holding with someone is one of my biggest fantasies. I think it would be so hot to meet up with someone, and we each drink a bunch of water and hold as long as possible. We'd have each other to help push ourselves to our limits, and I feel like it could help me advance past the point I normally give up. Quote Link to comment
Bisonwin 83 Posted March 20, 2021 Share Posted March 20, 2021 I personally have not had the chance to do a hold with someone else- my first partner (Iv had two- both online) had kinda spoiled talking about romantic or sexual stuff since they were really into RPing which just kinda weirds me out just now. My second one who id met after discovering this fettish was suprisingly receptive to it but I was a twat and too young at the time to have properly used that oh so short time to its full advantage. I feel like it would probably be better after a few times but thinking about getting to a point where Im comfertable with someone enough to do something like that even if they were into it more than me makes me also uncomfertable Quote Link to comment
Will8724 95 Posted March 20, 2021 Share Posted March 20, 2021 7 hours ago, Bisonwin said: I feel like it would probably be better after a few times but thinking about getting to a point where Im comfertable with someone enough to do something like that even if they were into it more than me makes me also uncomfertable Same here. I've talked about pee habits with a bunch of people IRL, and a few of those have progressed to the point where they expressed openness to some sort of contest. I was afraid to try to follow through and attempt to set anything up, though. They were all pretty good friends, and despite their indications of openness, I was afraid that if I tried to make anything of it that our existing friendship would be ruined. Quote Link to comment
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