Wulfgar85 28 Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 First time poster long time lurker. I have spent a lot of time of time on this site. Sorry in advance for the long read. Anyways I have been a fan of female wetting, desperation and pretty much anything to do with a female peeing outside of drinking it. My wife and I have been married for 11 years together for 15 in total. Along while back, she had accidentally discovered that I was into omo. We talked about it a tiny bit, she told back then it wasn't something she wasnt willing to try but wasn't bother by it either. I told her thats fine, that I would never push into doing something she didn't want to do. She has had a few wetting accident and used leak quite a bit when she cough, I would secretly enjoy her wet panties on my own time. Now let's fast forward to now. Recently I had to stay at a hotel for 5 weeks do to my work being under a covid outbreak. Our marriage had hit a rough patch, as much as it sucked being away from my wife and kids for 5 weeks it also got my wife and I talking a lot more and sorting out our issues. I confess that I liked to get my self off to her panties especially if she had leaked in them. That lead us to the wetting topic. At first she siad she would just be willing to pee in the shower naked, and I was completely on board, but then I asked if she would try it with panties on just once and to my surprise she has agreed. This is where the advice part comes in. Is there anything I can do to help relax? Help her maybe enjoy it? Make it easier for her? Or just any general suggestions for her, since she's not into it but willing to try. Thank you in advance and sorry for the long read. Bismiris 1 Quote Link to comment
treatedkitty 157 Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 This is so cute, I love stories like this. My advice would be to do anything you can that will make her more comfortable. Maybe suggest coming up with a safe word so that if she starts feeling uncomfortable, embarrassed, or just wants to stop, she’s in control. After care is also important imo, so you might want to talk about what she wants afterwards, like if she wants your attention/affection or to be left alone (both 100% valid). I’d also offer to take care of any cleanup. Basically, just make it clear that there’s a completely open line of communication and you want her to be honest with you about how she’s feeling before, during, and after. Best of luck, and I’d love to hear how it goes 💞 JMatthews1995, hubertheiser and Drip 3 Quote Link to comment
JMatthews1995 1,030 Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 Everything that treatedkitty has said really. Ask her if there is anything she'd like as well. Perhaps she really likes back massages for example. Stuff that perhaps you don't do often enough for her. Just make sure she knows you're open to her ideas and things she enjoys as well. 🙂 treatedkitty 1 Quote Link to comment
Wulfgar85 28 Posted February 21, 2021 Author Share Posted February 21, 2021 Thanks guys for the support i 100% will makes sure she knows it her choice and she can back out any time. Quote Link to comment
Guest eyeofthestorm Posted February 21, 2021 Share Posted February 21, 2021 I often find everyone gets loosened up and has a better time when a few drinks are involved (if you and her drink). In my experience having women try this for fun, a little bit of alcohol seems to help a lot of first time wetters get over the pee shyness and that block that stops them from psychologically being able to easily pee in their clothes. Letting her know how much it means being able to share something taboo like this together and how much you appreciate would help also! I t can be a really intimate thing! Quote Link to comment
Wulfgar85 28 Posted February 23, 2021 Author Share Posted February 23, 2021 Thanks Eye for your reply. Yeah I made the drink suggestion, we will probably do that. I think my concern is the immediate after math and how she will be feeling. I'm doing everything I can to show her I love and support her, and just her willingness to even try it. I told her there was no rush to actually do it. Quote Link to comment
ral 89 Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 Married almost thirty years. My wife refuses to comply. She will wear panties with full size mushroom shaped gussets on occasions. Really wild when other women notice it and stare. Good luck with your adventure Quote Link to comment
JensH2 602 Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 While I agree that you should make her feel comfortable, I'm not so sure about the "safe word" and talking too much beforehand. It might create the impression that you're doing something to her that's bad or disgusting and that she needs "safety measures". I don't think she does. She has complied to try it for you and if you're in an emancipated and healthy relationship, then she knows she can bail out if it becomes too much to her. I wouldn't talk too much unless she wants to talk about it. I made my wife feel comfortable when she realized how much it turned me on. I don't think you have to offer something in exchange. If you know that she likes back massages, then you should give her a back massage from time to time - no matter if she pisses herself for you or if she doesn't. TLDR: Don't make too big a thing out of it, it'll make her suspicious. You're adults and she wants to try something for you. Embrace it, don't talk too much. Just my opinion of course. Quote Link to comment
Charlie Kirby 829 Posted February 24, 2021 Share Posted February 24, 2021 It’s an interesting one to balance. I agree - safe words and talking are important, but as JensH2 says it’s also important not to alienate your wife by making a too bigger deal of it. Consider foreplay too. Sounds obvious but speaking from experience, it helps not to just go straight to the bathroom. Also, be light hearted. Joke and laugh about it. She’ll be really really uncomfortable when she inevitably gets pee shy, so laugh it off and worse case just say you’ll try another day as if it doesn’t matter all that much. Hide and downplay any disappointment. It’ll make her feel better. Patience is everything my friend. Don’t push, concede if she’s uncomfortable, and focus on her arousal above anything else. Sounds like you already know that anyway. hubertheiser 1 Quote Link to comment
Wulfgar85 28 Posted February 25, 2021 Author Share Posted February 25, 2021 Thank you everyone for your replies, I will definitely keep in mind everyone's input. I will let you all know how it turns out if and when it happens. I am going to try to be more active on this forums and not just be a lurker. Charlie Kirby 1 Quote Link to comment
JensH2 602 Posted February 25, 2021 Share Posted February 25, 2021 Have fun! It's great sharing this fetish with someone you love. Quote Link to comment
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