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Why Does Omutsu Turn You On?


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I myself am not into omutsu or diapers, but I'd like to ask a question to the people who are. Why does omutsu turn you on? What specific part of omutsu turns you on? My question might not even make sense. I never really understood fetish things related to diapers so I'm just curious.

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I don't think anybody can fully explain the appeal they find in a certain kink, but I think I can at least strike near the target.  Everybody, even people who share the same broad interests, is different, but for me at least I think it comes down to a control dynamic.  I think for some people who are into ABDL / omutsu stuff it's about giving up control, sometimes to someone else and sometimes just in general.  For me particularly it's more about a safeguard against the potential loss of control.  It's an admission that something might happen, which to me is exciting.  I've always been more into the omorashi / desperation stuff so for me diapers are an extension of that.  Plus, it makes cleanup so much easier.  And they feel really nice too.

I started off having only a cursory interest in diapers and related materials, but over time that interest grew to be more dominant.  Now they are integral to this side of my personality.

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I think it's mostly the same as other kinks like leather or rubber. A physical object or sensation is the trigger for that pleasurable sense of being dominated by someone else or being helpless. Diapers themselves are just what gets me going, but the thoughts and emotions that come along with them are what is key to, uh, finishing the mission.

Feel free to ask more if I haven't done a good job of explaining.

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I remember being in diapers as an infant. I also remember being in rubber panties. Once I was potty trained I often wanted to be in diapers. My mother clearly had a fetish or kink that affected me; the only times I felt caring and affection from her was when she was changing me. It often seemed she was fantasizing about changing my diapers. For many years the only diapers readily available were infant and toddler diapers which are too small for me. However I could get the Gerber plastic panties on and frequently wore those when I wanted to wet but not have it visible. Once adult diapers became available I wore those in private. For me the thing was holding until I couldn’t hold it. Diapers and plastic panties were a turn on and a practical way to keep wetting private and to contain the consequences of wetting. 

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this was a taboo for so long for me. i was like 12 when i saw a photoshopped pic. of emma watson in a pull-up and started to think about it a lot. i was around 14 when i searched online for diaper videos and diapered wattpad stories, and then at 16 i jerked off for the first time and it was to a diaper vid.  when i was 18 ordered my first pull-ups and did naughty things in them. to me it's really about the taboo side. i fantasized about needing pull-ups because of bedwetting as a teen, i also liked to imagine that as one i have a boner in my wet pull-up and don't know what's that so i start to touch it until i realize it feels good and start to rub my padding and make creamies in my wet padding of my pull-up. i like this idea a lot, or a similar fantasy where i'm forced into pull-ups by a girl and she makes me cum in them because i'm a loser. or when a nurse sees me in my wet pull-up and wants to change me then starts to jerk me off into them 

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For me, Omutsu is both a kink and non-kink emotional comfort. I think part of the reason it might make me excited sometimes is the fact that it is sorta unusual and taboo. And when I'm with someone else who likes it or is okay with it and they support and encourage it and are giving my abdl side positive attention (by talking about it, giving diaper rubs/pats, etc.) it makes me feel really validated, safe, secure, and comfortable. Not all the time, but sometimes that can lead to me feeling, well, excited and turned on I guess 😅. Normally I'm not that sexual of a person, especially with others (but certainly have my moments), but I think when I'm openly expressing my abdl side I feel really vulnerable and when it's embraced it makes me feel comfortable and secure enough to be less shy about expressing my naughtier sexual side. Especially since I feel like I can trust, to an extent, those who know about and accept my abdl side since they still accept me even after knowing about my "deep dark secret" and I'm more comfortable getting intimate in both sexual and non-sexual ways with those I trust.

On 2/16/2021 at 4:58 AM, DiaperedBoy52 said:

... i was like 12 when i saw a photoshopped pic. of emma watson in a pull-up ...

omg, i'm pretty sure i know the exact pic you're talking about and it definitely stuck with me too lol

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Definitely a guilty pleasure. While omorashi is my preference oevr diapers by a large margin diapers still fill some exciting and small spaces in my desires. A few for the moment:

The feeling of its warmth against my skin. Even a snug dry diaper feels comforting to me.

The crinkling sound it makes even when I want to hide that sound.

The idea of someone squeezing it to check or even pulling back waistband for inspection.

The feeling of safety with a full bladder

The taboo feeling of knowing I have one on in another persons presence when they have no idea. Racing heart when I even buy them at a store.

The extra loud hissing it makes when being peed.

While I am not an AB I do enjoy the thought of being changed. In reality who knows if I actually would but I think I would.

These are just from the vantage point of myself wearing one. When a woman wears one it is enjoyable to me for even more reasons. I'm just not sure how to quantify them properly yet.

 

 

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I’m not an AB, but I’m a HUGE diaper lover. I guess I just really like the convenience of it, getting to go whenever you feel like it without having to go to the toilet. Not to mention you don’t have to worry about ruining your clothes and getting embarrassed when you pee yourself in public. And the warm feeling in the diaper when it’s soaked. I’ve tried out diapers a few times and it was great. They were just drug store incontinence briefs, but I really wanna try out real DL diapers some time.

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For me it's many reasons.

It feels good.  A diaper, no matter whether wet or dry, feels really good on.

Speaking of wet, it's much easier to clean up a wet diaper than wet clothes, plus shoes, floor, etc.

It's taboo.  A non-elderly adult isn't supposed to wear diapers, let alone enjoy it, and is expected to have good bladder control.  The fact I'm not following societal expectations is a turn on.

It's a way for me to relax.  It doesn't harm me like other things could, but has the same effects in helping me feel good.

I've also been hurt by people enough that while wearing diapers, since it is taboo and a way to relax, it's basically my space where I alone exist, unless I'm here posting.  So i can hide from the world while in diapers.

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Often have had perfectionist bosses.  Some jobs really needed that.  Getting home I like to relax and not worry about getting anything right -- even bladder control.

One of the few comfortable things a guy can wear.

Rebelling against my strick mother.

Not worrying (much) about wetting on a bus trip (50 minutes from my apartment to the mall) and other places with no restrooms.  I enjoy comfort shopping strips with small shops lacking restrooms (Robson? in Vancouver) and many Pacific coast beach towns.

 

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On 3/4/2021 at 8:28 AM, TenshiDrop said:

I’m not an AB, but I’m a HUGE diaper lover. I guess I just really like the convenience of it, getting to go whenever you feel like it without having to go to the toilet. Not to mention you don’t have to worry about ruining your clothes and getting embarrassed when you pee yourself in public. And the warm feeling in the diaper when it’s soaked. I’ve tried out diapers a few times and it was great. They were just drug store incontinence briefs, but I really wanna try out real DL diapers some time.

I feel the same. This quote is exaclty all the things i like about diapers. I didn't try them for a long time because it felt wrong. Now i have - being able to wet confidently in public and around people has taken my wetting to a whole new level

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On 3/8/2021 at 5:54 PM, NewWetter said:

I feel the same. This quote is exaclty all the things i like about diapers. I didn't try them for a long time because it felt wrong. Now i have - being able to wet confidently in public and around people has taken my wetting to a whole new level

Yeah, it felt pretty wrong at first and I was afraid of being judged or it being taken the wrong way, but I learned that everyone’s into their own weird stuff and it’s ok as long as it’s not illegal (talking about p*dos, zoos, etc).

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I'll describe it as best as I can,  I think for me diapers and omorashi is about allowing myself to be vulnerable and exposed, being able to fully relax, even if its for a short amount of time.  To put it another way, I had some sort of anxiety for as long as I can remember, diapers or the idea of them always seemed like the best way to just let my guard down. 

I think also for men in our society, we are ingrained with the idea  of  being tough and to show no weaknesses. Diapers for me, are an outlet from the rigid and professional front I have to put on to be successful in my industry. Albeit, it is exhausting sometimes.

If anyone has studied psych, I would love to hear their opinions as well.

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I kinda got into diapers at a young age. I always got yelled at though for it by my mom. But for me it is a sort of comfort in many ways. I was always bullied in school because of my weight and the fact I wore glasses. I found diapers as a good means of comfort and a good way to escape from the stress of real life. Even though I have to sneak wearing them and even buying them I still love to wear them. So for me they feel really amazing no matter what condition they are in. But its also a form of comfort to me. 

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I am both an AB and DL.

DL is simple.  Warm wet surface near sexual area.  It is very physical.

AB is a different story.  There does not need to be any sexual content.  It can be a PG rated story, even one with a little kid having an accident and being put in diapers.  It's a fantasy of being loved, comforted,  cuddled, diapered.  Loss of control is part of it, often with some regression, but it also includes being taken care of by someone like a parent.  

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I am not really into the AB side, but from the DL side there are a few perks. It makes clean up easier and the option for wetting without people knowing you are peeing increases dramatically. For instance I can absolutely soak my diaper in the car and when I go into the rest stop to change, no one would know I soaked my diaper. Also it feels nice knowing that you are always ready in case you have an accident (or an on purpose)

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I'm unsure the reason, but I have been into it ever since seeing ABDL fanart for the first time. Could be that it is linked to watersports and scat, and for some reason I really like seeing characters hypermess. Too bad a lot of ABDL artists either only draw females, only take commissions, or both.

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The thought of feeling a squishy pamper, in general. Also: since it’s related to wetting, I enjoy diapers very much, especially seeing my favourite characters wearing them/using them. 

On 5/16/2021 at 9:44 PM, Geniefan said:

I'm unsure the reason, but I have been into it ever since seeing ABDL fanart for the first time. Could be that it is linked to watersports and scat, and for some reason I really like seeing characters hypermess. Too bad a lot of ABDL artists either only draw females, only take commissions, or both.

I also do enjoy seeing hypermessing and hyperwetting in artwork, too. It’s a real shame most artists don’t really take requests or male characters.

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I think it’s a ton of things that have progressed over the years. I’ve been turned on by pee/wetting for as long as I can remember. When I found diaper porn I was instantly turned on by the vulnerability, the sounds, the look of pee filling a diaper, and sometimes by the shame. Then I started doing wetting by myself and with partners. And I loved the buildup, the physical feeling of letting go in my pants/underwear/diapers, and the attention. As it’s grown I also like the gender fluid aspect of it too. I’m pretty male in all aspects of life except for diaper space. In that space I like being able to play as a boy or girl. It’s a huge turn on and always evolving for me.

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