Guest Armaril Posted February 3, 2021 Share Posted February 3, 2021 Do you like to dominate or be dominated? For me personally, I would love to dominate my partner. I love to see other people desperate and the idea of being the one in control of your partner's bladder? Yes. Also because I'm not necessarily the type to be dominated. First, I'm not a big fan of having a bursting bladder. I'm more turned on seeing others with a full bladder, not mine. Secondly, I don't really squirm when I'm desperate, especially when someone is watching me. The closest you'll get to seeing me squirm is some knee bouncing, that's it. Lastly, I'd just be too shy. As a socially awkward person, I would definitely ruin it with my stupid shy giggles. I imagine dominating my partner would make me feel confident, something I don't feel very often. I don't think I'll ever find a partner to dominate but I mean, a person can dream. Quote Link to comment
tennyson 465 Posted February 5, 2021 Share Posted February 5, 2021 I am a natural pleaser, so I guess I would be dominated. But, I do not respond well to harsh criticism or berating. What I like is being asked, led, lovingly pushed out of my comfort zone and into an area of play where I can give pleasure. Mbgpeelover 1 Quote Link to comment
Viridis 200 Posted February 5, 2021 Share Posted February 5, 2021 I'm a switch, so I can go either way really. I love both the thought of controlling someone else's bladder and having someone else control mine 😌 petitewonder 1 Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,793 Posted February 5, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted February 5, 2021 I am really submissive in general so it's easier to be dominated I suppose, although I can become a little bit dominant when I see another woman is in urinary distress, as I think that when one person has to pee and the other person doesn't it naturally creates a power dynamic where the person who doesn't have to go is in a dominant position and the person who does have to go is sort of at their mercy. Quote Link to comment
Baw42 71 Posted February 5, 2021 Share Posted February 5, 2021 On 2/3/2021 at 8:43 PM, Armaril said: Do you like to dominate or be dominated? For me personally, I would love to dominate my partner. I love to see other people desperate and the idea of being the one in control of your partner's bladder? Yes. Also because I'm not necessarily the type to be dominated. First, I'm not a big fan of having a bursting bladder. I'm more turned on seeing others with a full bladder, not mine. Secondly, I don't really squirm when I'm desperate, especially when someone is watching me. The closest you'll get to seeing me squirm is some knee bouncing, that's it. Lastly, I'd just be too shy. As a socially awkward person, I would definitely ruin it with my stupid shy giggles. I imagine dominating my partner would make me feel confident, something I don't feel very often. I don't think I'll ever find a partner to dominate but I mean, a person can dream. I think we are the same person Quote Link to comment
Emily Gold 57 Posted February 5, 2021 Share Posted February 5, 2021 I am far more submissive than dominant, so I would much prefer to be dominated, but I have gone the other way before and enjoyed it richard3, moiamigo and squirmystud 3 Quote Link to comment
FoxyFun 30 Posted February 5, 2021 Share Posted February 5, 2021 I'm a switch, I like it either way though I have some slight preferences on each side: -If I sub I would prefer to be forced to held since I enjoy the feeling of holding it -If I dom I would prefer it if my sub wetted the bed since I absolutely love the looked of crushed pride and rebuilding them in the aftercare Emily Gold 1 Quote Link to comment
Empeeror 154 Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 Oh, dominate (gently) I much prefer. Some of the most fun I've had was hypnotizing someone on here to be completely obedient, then guiding her to relax all her muscles until she wet herself completely. I also completely took away her bladder control for two days, and on a separate occasion, made holding and wetting cause her immensely pleasurable sensations. I'm a switch, and have been dominated before - it feels nice, but dominating is more fun for me. ilikeadultvids 1 Quote Link to comment
Will8724 95 Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 I frequently fantasize about both, but I haven't done either. Quote Link to comment
richard3 57 Posted February 6, 2021 Share Posted February 6, 2021 Fantasies always involve being dominated Quote Link to comment
Lukhas 391 Posted February 7, 2021 Share Posted February 7, 2021 I am switch so I like both ways. Maybe little more when I can dominate. Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted February 7, 2021 Share Posted February 7, 2021 I'm a submissive person by nature and can't be dominate, but I can be easily dominated by someone, as I found out in the past. I have hard time saying no to people, when told to do something. It's not so noticeable when interacting online, but I have very hard time saying "no" when told in person to do something. Varys 1 Quote Link to comment
Guest Hypnolover78 Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 I flip between the two quite often. I will say being dominated has so many things to enjoy...but every now and then it's nice to be the one on top. Quote Link to comment
AliceWetting 3,933 Posted February 8, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted February 8, 2021 I think I can be a mixture of dominant or submissive, depending on my mood lol. Sometimes I feel very submissive and girly and I like to have my bf dominate me and tell me I can't go to the toilet and I have no choice but to wet myself. Sonetimes while we cuddle and I'm so desperate but he holds me and spoons me until I have an accident and soak us both. Other times I like to dominate him, but not as much his bladder, more just dominating him to get what I want and pee all over him 🤭 especially during sex. The idea of me dominating a cute shy/innocent girl and making her wet the bed or sit in my lap and making her wet her pants and not letting her use the bathroom is red hot though too.😮 maybe one dat that will happen. I think it's good to mix it up a little, but it definitely depends on the person you're with I suppose. Emily Gold, moiamigo and Lasseman 1 2 Quote Link to comment
Cantholdit92 226 Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 i'm a switch, as much as I love being dominated I would still like to sometimes as well Quote Link to comment
ilikeadultvids 338 Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 I'm definitely sub, but I have preferences. I guess there are at least 2 different ways to be dominant and use pee. The dominant person may control their sub's bladder and either not let them go until they have an accident or command them to just let go in their pants. Then the dominant person could use their own pee to mark the sub as their own or use it in other fun and humiliating ways. I like the idea of a woman deciding to sit astride my lap and let go and make it look like I wet myself and tease me that I wet my pants or something along those lines This works great if she has a skirt on and leaves little evidence that it was her. I guess you could say that I'm sub, but I have very distinct ideas of how I like to be dominated. My girlfriend accuses me of trying to "top from bottom". Quote Link to comment
wannawatch 255 Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 1 hour ago, ilikeadultvids said: I'm definitely sub, but I have preferences. I guess there are at least 2 different ways to be dominant and use pee. The dominant person may control their sub's bladder and either not let them go until they have an accident or command them to just let go in their pants. Then the dominant person could use their own pee to mark the sub as their own or use it in other fun and humiliating ways. I like the idea of a woman deciding to sit astride my lap and let go and make it look like I wet myself and tease me that I wet my pants or something along those lines This works great if she has a skirt on and leaves little evidence that it was her. I guess you could say that I'm sub, but I have very distinct ideas of how I like to be dominated. My girlfriend accuses me of trying to "top from bottom". 'Trying to top from bottom'.. Love that idea! This D/sub-discussion is getting quite d e e p and sophisticated.. I like your ideas on the matter people, thank you for sharing! Personally I believe there's so much possible between the two far ends of this power-play, and I could easily see myself take on the role of a dominant as well as a sub, really. Especially when there's so much beauty and excitement to be experienced as with omorashi.. AliceWetting 1 Quote Link to comment
Lasseman 99 Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 Quote 4 hours ago, AliceWetting said: I think I can be a mixture of dominant or submissive, depending on my mood lol. Sometimes I feel very submissive and girly and I like to have my bf dominate me and tell me I can't go to the toilet and I have no choice but to wet myself. Sonetimes while we cuddle and I'm so desperate but he holds me and spoons me until I have an accident and soak us both. Other times I like to dominate him, but not as much his bladder, more just dominating him to get what I want and pee all over him 🤭 especially during sex. The idea of me dominating a cute shy/innocent girl and making her wet the bed or sit in my lap and making her wet her pants and not letting her use the bathroom is red hot though too.😮 maybe one dat that will happen. I think it's good to mix it up a little, but it definitely depends on the person you're with I suppose. How about your friend that was riding along in the car whit you and your bf?😉😘 AliceWetting 1 Quote Link to comment
AliceWetting 3,933 Posted February 8, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted February 8, 2021 6 minutes ago, Lasseman said: How about your friend that was riding along in the car whit you and your bf?😉😘 Haha maybe one day. We havent been able to hang out for a while because of lockdown here in the UK But I'd love to have her sit on my lap and make it warm 😉 Quote Link to comment
petitewonder 480 Posted February 8, 2021 Share Posted February 8, 2021 On 2/5/2021 at 6:32 AM, Viridis said: I'm a switch, so I can go either way really. I love both the thought of controlling someone else's bladder and having someone else control mine 😌 Same here. Quote Link to comment
Frank123 187 Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 This type of domination is one of my favourite pastimes. I love telling a sexy guy when to start and stop peeing, and I don't mind in the least if they return the favour. :) Quote Link to comment
Lasseman 99 Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 8 hours ago, AliceWetting said: Haha maybe one day. We havent been able to hang out for a while because of lockdown here in the UK But I'd love to have her sit on my lap and make it warm 😉 Yes all this lockdowns! Hope that the vaccine is delivered on time some we can start to hang out whit our friends soon! Time to get some extra warmth in the bed now, outside it’s some teen degrees below zero and a lot of wind! Have a nice warm wet day now Alice!😉 AliceWetting 1 Quote Link to comment
warmstream 6 Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 In my fantasies always submissive, in real life mostly submissive but occasionally dominant. Quote Link to comment
LemonSlushie 40 Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 I can do either, but I'm definitely more of a sub, though I think for different reasons than a lot of people here! I'm not at all a submissive person in 99% of situations, and I actually have an intellectual disability that, among other things, causes making decisions and sort of running my own life to be a thousand times more exhausting than it is for most people. So with omo, or sex in general really, while I can have a good time if I'm the one in control, it's *so* much more relaxing to just take all that pressure off of myself and let the other person decide what's going to happen. I'm not sure what it is about omo in particular, but being dominated in that context just relaxes me in a way that nothing else does! Quote Link to comment
OmorashiOnna 143 Posted February 9, 2021 Share Posted February 9, 2021 Either can be fun, however in my marriage I am submissive because my husband isn't into holding himself and besides male wetting isn't so much my thing anyway. I'm bisexual so I guess in another life I could be dominating another woman. We do some really fun stuff with him tickling me until I wet, or tying me up and making me wet myself. So fun. Emma Bailey and ilikeadultvids 2 Quote Link to comment
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