Empeeror 154 Posted January 29, 2021 Share Posted January 29, 2021 What is it about being called a "good boy/girl/sub" that makes it feel good (for you, personally)? The idea that you've pleased your more dominant partner? The implication of a high degree of control? The idea that you're being trained by your more dominant partner? Something else? Link to comment
Brittanybunny 1,494 Posted January 29, 2021 Share Posted January 29, 2021 I generally get more turned on knowing someone else is a bit more dominant than me, i have never been the dominant type ever. A guy telling me ive been a good girl/bad girl makes me blush and feel semi embarrassed but also turns me on. Its hard to explain really moiamigo, Charlie Kirby and Empeeror 3 Link to comment
Charlie Kirby 829 Posted March 17, 2021 Share Posted March 17, 2021 Same. It’s complicated but I think in part it’s to do with self esteem/confidence too. Although I’m great at faking those to operated in social and professional situations, my comfort zone is being told what to do and being praised for doing it. I guess a big part is I’ve always found it hard to read other people’s limits, so worry constantly (in and out the bedroom) that I’m making them feel bad in some way. Crossing a limit, or just discomfort. Even like deciding what to have for dinner, or what show to put on the telly. I just prefer someone else to have control because that way I know they’re 100% comfortable and consensual about anything that happens. When my partner is dominant, I just do with the flow and don’t even have to think about any consequence of my decisions/actions. They do that for me, and I just feel like a good girl following along. moiamigo 1 Link to comment
Racergirl1404 644 Posted August 3, 2021 Share Posted August 3, 2021 That’s a turn on for me as well…especially if I’m praised for something like making it to the toilet in time Seifer69 and C.omoboy 2 Link to comment
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