Jump to content
Existing user? Sign In

Sign In



Sign Up

Question for submissives


Recommended Posts

  • 1 month later...

Same. It’s complicated but I think in part it’s to do with self esteem/confidence too. Although I’m great at faking those to operated in social and professional situations, my comfort zone is being told what to do and being praised for doing it.

I guess a big part is I’ve always found it hard to read other people’s limits, so worry constantly (in and out the bedroom) that I’m making them feel bad in some way. Crossing a limit, or just discomfort. Even like deciding what to have for dinner, or what show to put on the telly. I just prefer someone else to have control because that way I know they’re 100% comfortable and consensual about anything that happens.

When my partner is dominant, I just do with the flow and don’t even have to think about any consequence of my decisions/actions. They do that for me, and I just feel like a good girl following along.

Link to comment
  • 4 months later...
  • Recently Browsing   0 members

    • No registered users viewing this page.
×
×
  • Create New...