Guest Decim Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 Whenever I hold my bladder to the point of extreme desperation, I end up messing when I let go. It doesn't bother me though since I like messing as well. If I wasn't into messing this would be a serious annoyance. I think it's because I do more than just let go, I instinctively push really hard when I start peeing with so much left in me. I guess that strong push affects my bowels too. It's almost an involuntary thing and I have to actively try to not do it sometimes. It does feel really nice to just let it all out though. Has anyone else experienced this? Quote Link to comment
ADFSFFRFDFSFEF 7 Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 Can't say I have, but it's interesting to hear about Quote Link to comment
LemonSlushie 40 Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 Yep, and I absolutely can't stand messing. If I have any food in my stomach at all when I start a hold, I can almost guarantee it'll ruin things for me later :c Quote Link to comment
OmorashiOnna 143 Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 I've wet and messed at the same time, sure. Not always, but sometimes they both come out at once. Since I usually have my accidents in a diaper, it's not usually an issue, though getting diarrhea in my running miniskirt is...not exactly ideal in terms of keeping my accident hidden. nappypants 1 Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,406 Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 I do find that extreme bladder urgency stimulates the bowels and makes me want to poop as well, which can be annoying as I don't want the clean-up associated with doing that in my pants/nappy. Quote Link to comment
Rukako 210 Posted January 26, 2021 Share Posted January 26, 2021 I usually do the same, or at least need to poop after, but only if I’m super desperate to pee. It’s like a full bladder wetting triggers a little switch in my head that just goes “poop time too!” Quote Link to comment
Emma Bailey 311 Posted January 26, 2021 Share Posted January 26, 2021 I can usually wet without messing, but when I poo I'll pretty much always also pee at least a little bit. Maybe if I'm sitting on the toilet and pee it'll be hard not to also poo, but when wetting I can't say I remember a time when I also messed without being desperate. Stanley79 1 Quote Link to comment
trekkie 1,098 Posted January 26, 2021 Share Posted January 26, 2021 I've heard of guys pooping themselves while peeing at a urinal. Quote Link to comment
Soaked Sheets 37 Posted January 26, 2021 Share Posted January 26, 2021 It's not my thing, but I have done it, only a couple times. Once I was pretty drunk on the walk home from the bars, and had to piss like crazy. There was no way I was making it home, and there was no one around. Usually if I was walking home late at night and had to piss, I just wet my pants. I stopped walking and let go of my bladder, and the relief was so great that I bore down instinctively. Just about the time I felt my feet getting warm as my shoes filled up, I felt number 2 wanting to come out, and figuring I had already gone this far, I just pushed harder and let it happen. I didn't move until I was completely empty on both ends, then walked the rest of the way home and sneaked into my complex by a service entrance and freight elevator. Quote Link to comment
SlendrWetr 71 Posted January 28, 2021 Share Posted January 28, 2021 As I've gotten older and bowel behavior has changed, I've noticed and now have to anticipate this more often. Wasn't such a big deal in the 20s, but man does a body change after that. Very increasingly common that after taking a leak I need to rush into a stall to save my pants. I think there is something to the increased pressure on other internal organs as our prostates enlarge and/or retract. Also kind of works to an advantage because if you feel a bit clogged you know you can fill up the bladder and hopefully the increased pressure will trigger a bowel movement. Just a guess. Quote Link to comment
Stanley79 636 Posted January 29, 2021 Share Posted January 29, 2021 The pelvic floor muscle layer contais both the anal and urinary sphincters. The pelvic floor layer relaxes when we open a sphincter. So the one we don't open also has less support. Also, some people have a strong urinary-release refex when something stimulates the anal area. That something can be solid waste or a finger rubbing the anal hole. Maybe there's also a reflex working the other way. I read about this some years ago. Corrections welcome. Padded_girl and nappypants 2 Quote Link to comment
Barefoot247 145 Posted January 29, 2021 Share Posted January 29, 2021 That's never happened to me and I have had some real gushers. Glad I don't have that problem. Quote Link to comment
Lukhas 391 Posted January 29, 2021 Share Posted January 29, 2021 Sometimes it happens to me also. Not so much often but sometimes yes. Quote Link to comment
TheIrreverend 485 Posted January 29, 2021 Share Posted January 29, 2021 Thankfully, it's never happened to me. Even though I'm usually diapered for my accidents, I really wouldn't want to deal with the cleanup. On the other hand, if I poo I can't help but empty my bladder at the same time. Quote Link to comment
Omoboy31 75 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 (edited) Sometimes, but since I like messing as well it does not bother me! I guess that’s because I completely lose control when I wet myself, so it affects my other “urges” Edited January 30, 2021 by Omoboy31 (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
jboarder64L 766 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 (edited) All I can think of now is this .... Edited January 30, 2021 by jboarder64L img (see edit history) 33applepies, Emma Bailey and Viridis 2 1 Quote Link to comment
trekkie 1,098 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 @jboarder64L XD What?! jboarder64L 1 Quote Link to comment
jboarder64L 766 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 4 hours ago, trekkie said: @jboarder64L XD What?! Seemed fitting hahaha. I don’t remember where I saw that but it came to mind immediately! Quote Link to comment
nappypants 1,406 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 On 1/29/2021 at 1:09 AM, Stanley79 said: The pelvic floor muscle layer contais both the anal and urinary sphincters. The pelvic floor layer relaxes when we open a sphincter. So the one we don't open also has less support. Also, some people have a strong urinary-release refex when something stimulates the anal area. That something can be solid waste or a finger rubbing the anal hole. Maybe there's also a reflex working the other way. I read about this some years ago. Corrections welcome. It does seem a common theme that people who have pooping accidents then wet themselves at the same time... it could just be triggered by the shame of it or the feeling of having nothing left to lose so you might as well just go to the toilet in your pants in both senses, but it makes sense that there is a physical reflex that can cause the bladder to empty in this situation. Quote Link to comment
Viridis 200 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 13 hours ago, jboarder64L said: All I can think of now is this .... Beautiful wise words indeed. Brought a tear to my eye xd Anyway... About the topic at hand. I haven't had a messing accident whilst releasing my pee, but I think that's because I try my best to avoid it, as I'm not into messing. I've been forced to abandon holds a few times because of it, which was a bit annoying. Thus, I always try to poop immediately after drinking when I do a hold. Basically Release nr. 2 as quick as possible and save nr. 1 for later, so to speak lol jboarder64L 1 Quote Link to comment
jboarder64L 766 Posted January 30, 2021 Share Posted January 30, 2021 30 minutes ago, Viridis said: Beautiful wise words indeed. Brought a tear to my eye xd Just something I saw in some dark corner of the internet somewhere and it it just seemed so fitting for this thread lol. On 1/28/2021 at 8:09 PM, Stanley79 said: The pelvic floor muscle layer contais both the anal and urinary sphincters. The pelvic floor layer relaxes when we open a sphincter. So the one we don't open also has less support. Also, some people have a strong urinary-release refex when something stimulates the anal area. That something can be solid waste or a finger rubbing the anal hole. Maybe there's also a reflex working the other way. I read about this some years ago. Corrections welcome. As a guy you can probably attest that we unzip our pants and pee outdoors all the time without incident. I feel like most of these mentions of a dude pooping while peeing in a urinal or something @trekkie is almost without a doubt, what most of us would call a shart😂 The pelvic floor muscle contractions could maybe account for that urge to pass gas that we all get so often while peeing? I do wonder though, Is that just a guy thing or do the ladies get that too? Quote Link to comment
33applepies 42 Posted February 2, 2021 Share Posted February 2, 2021 On 1/29/2021 at 6:19 PM, jboarder64L said: All I can think of now is this .... Thank you, I needed this laugh today haha. To answer the question, I haven't noticed an urge to poop when I really have to pee. I'm probably jinxing myself. Not to get TOO tmi, but I generally poop in the morning, so I guess I simply don't need to poop later in the day. I don't purposely wet (it's not my thing), but I have had accidents, and have never had this problem. It might be one of those things that's different for everyone. I also find it much easier to hold in poop, honestly. jboarder64L 1 Quote Link to comment
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