Angusburger 156 Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 (edited) I ntoice when I do long holds at home sometimes i dont really feel pain its just impatience and not being able to keep still but I dont feel pain. Sometimes, though not pain, I feel my belly being stretched/full but even then I woudnt all it pain. What type of hurt/pain mean for you? Is it because my bladder is not full enough even though I have 1L in my bladder and I am leaking? Only once did I have some actual back pain a few years ago. IS it a gender thing where women are more likely to feel pain due to smaller bladders with less room to expand and weaker control? Edited January 23, 2021 by Angusburger (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Sassy1 48 Posted January 23, 2021 Share Posted January 23, 2021 Like it's achingly full, when you've not Been in ages. Or when it's full to bursting and feels so stretched! huberp76 1 Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 I think some people feel pain, because they can hold it for long time and get so full, it hurts. Those of us who have weak bladders and start leaking very soon, don't have this problem. huberp76 and April Nine 2 Quote Link to comment
Secret2020 68 Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 When my boyfriend holds it till bursting point, he says it hurts. I can barely touch his abdomen then. A sharp pain when his bladder contracts I think? I experience sharp pain when I'm holding as well. Quote Link to comment
Spectator9 957 Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 I think most of us may experience intense discomfort from a very full bladder, but not actual pain. If you feel sharp pains, it's time to pee right away. Also, pain from the kidney area is a warning. The "average" person usually can't hold their pee long enough to cause pain or damage, but those at this site aren't average. Quote Link to comment
Pee holder 0 Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 I'm doing a hold now and had to let it go once.... It wasnt like pain pain but just desperation to let it go... Have released and going again now... Bladder starting to fill. At a level 2... Keep talking to me.. Don't let me pee it out again Quote Link to comment
plas broek 23 Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 I think it indeed has to do with how long you can keep it. As a kid I just started leaking at some point, but if I haven't been to the bathroom for a long time now, it really hurts at some point. Quote Link to comment
Guest Decim Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 I'm a guy and my bladder control is really strong. When it hurts for me it means that the urine is starting to back up towards my kidneys and I am forced to forfeit the hold to avoid physical harm. This is why rapid desperation doesn't work and is kinda dangerous in my case. I have never had a legitimate loss of control because of this. In all of my holds I either get bored of holding or it starts to be painful, but It's always a choice to let go. Quote Link to comment
SpaceWonderer 699 Posted January 24, 2021 Share Posted January 24, 2021 I don't think it has to do anything with gender, and it varies a lot from person to person. Likely depends on the strength of sphincters and overall bladder sensitivity. Many people, I'm sure, don't feel bladder pain simply because they're unable to hold strong enough pressure to make bladder hurt, and lose control (or give up) before it begins. Some people (I spoke with a few like that) seem to be able to hold great pressure, but their bladders aren't very sensitive, like they don't have much nerve endings. For myself, when my bladder gets really full it begins as a moderate ache in my bladder (like a stomach ache), then grows into more sharp pain toward front part of the bladder, and eventually turns into burning/stinging sensation in the bladder walls. I've held past that few times, and then I start feeling dull ache in my lower back what I assume is kidney pain (that's where I sop hold no matter what because it's too dangerous to continue). Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted January 25, 2021 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted January 25, 2021 When I've gotten REALLY desperate (which only happened on my holds) I could feel some level of bladder pain. A bit of which carries over as my holding muscles recover but they always did so I knew it wasn't bladder damage or UTI or anything. Still never fully lost control though. Some involuntary leaks but my holds always end with me voluntarily peeing my pants out of impatience. Haven't felt kidney pain but I know to stop the hold immediately if I do. Quote Link to comment
Guest K95F Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 (edited) I feel whenever I feel a slight hint of pain, I'm usually losing it already. Its probably just got something with how sensitive people's bladders are than sex necessarily. Edited January 25, 2021 by K95F (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Anna B 274 Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 I think the sensations vary a lot from one person to another. Some say they get actual bladder pain. I don't get that, but I do get quite a "sharp" discomfort in my pussy. Probably that's why I've always found holding myself is such a natural reaction to being busting. Shoshana 1 Quote Link to comment
OmoDeviant 13 Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 I normally am never in true pain from holding. My experience is usually one of discomfort and to what other people may perceive as pain, would correspond to a strong sense of discomfort in myself. Quote Link to comment
holding-myself 355 Posted January 25, 2021 Share Posted January 25, 2021 I do also experience a veritable pain when my bladder is really full to the limit. I feel it on the lower front side of my bladder. I guess it is mainly the sphincter muscles, maybe mixed with the strain of the bladder tissue. Holding myself doesn't help much more after I passed this point. But soon after it starts to hurt I begin to leak, which releases some pressure and eases the pain. I have also experiences a mild kidney pain while trying rapid desperation, so I don't do that anymore. I have learned that I can also bring myself to the bursting point with less liquid intake. Quote Link to comment
Guest StrwbryMilkTae Posted January 26, 2021 Share Posted January 26, 2021 For me, it pulses and aches and sometimes cramps. It depends on how well you can hold and how much. I start to feel pain after having 1.5L or more usually. Quote Link to comment
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