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I think it's to do with it being "wrong". Knowing that it's something we've been taught not to do, but beyond that, something that we kind of have to learn. It's not like how stealing is morally wrong

I've have heard that it stems from your childhood and I think that's where it stemmed from in me. I know personally I was always a weird child and I remember vividly being intrigued by pee. I would

I had very bad bladder inflammation 15 years ago .It started with this.

7 hours ago, OmorashiOnna said:

It's a bit vain for me to say, but yes. I think I'm lucky to have someone who puts up with all my fetishes, since it's not just Omorashi I'm into but also bondage, spanking and uniforms, but he says he's really lucky to have me too.

Nothing wrong with that.  I have a few myself and not sure that is a bad thing.  I mean variety is the spice of life, right?  I'm sure at least with the things that he's not directly into, he can probably get into them because the effect it has on you.  The fact it turns you on will probably turn him on.  I wouldn't be surprised if he warmed up to things you like just because you like them.  Anyway, you both sound lucky to enjoy one another and that's great.

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I used to wonder the same thing. Now I wonder more what makes have the likes and dislikes that we have in general. Really this isn't too different that any other like or dislike that we have in life. Why do some like vegetables, and other hate them? Why do some like massages, or hate being touched? Need I go on? I've always been curious about what makes us have these different likes, and how we all like different things. It quite an interesting study. So wetting is really no different than anything else that we like or dislike. 

For me, I love wetting any kind of clothes, preferably with underwear, except diapers and bathing suits. Diapers are meant to be wet in, and bathing suits are meant to be wet, so those just feel like cheating. Although I have to admit, I've experimented with those, just like anything else. 

One of the stories mentioned was how someone got so excited while kissing, that she just wet her diaper. I knew about a girl that did that in her pants once, and that has been a fantasy of mine ever since. A friend of mine told me about his girl friend doing that, and he was upset about it. I said to him "Dude, get over it! That just mean that she's in to you. I would love that!"

So why do we like this? Well, we just do. I've been mulling over this for many years, and that's my answer. This is just who we are, this is what we like. There is nothing wrong with it. We aren't harming anyone, and there is nothing wrong with it. No matter what your personal take on this is, or how you like to indulge, that is fine. It is just a part of you, and that is OK. Enjoy, and remember, Happiness is secretly wetting your pants. It's your own private warm feeling!

DWP (Dripping Wet Pants)

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I had already answered this in another post, but I want to extend my answer.  It started after several sightings, both of despair and accidents.

 Since I was little I think I have liked sadism, so the figure of a woman writhing until she loses control of her bladder and gets wet on it seemed very hot, and without realizing it I lost the disgust of urine, so I also  I decided to wet myself and the feeling of humidity is very satisfactory

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I woke up the other night, and found myself thinking about this very topic!

First I thought that giving oral sex is very popular - not really a fetish at all - and yet at least sometimes you will end up smelling and tasting your partner's pee. So maybe pee works much the same for humans as it does for many animals - it is a sex attractant! The smell of pee also seems dirty, so there is a sense of being attracted and repulsed at the same time.

I'll bet a lot of men (and maybe women too) get excited when giving oral sex because of the smell of pee. Maybe most of them are like me, and don't quite know how to tell their partner something like "Your pussy is wonderfully pissy this evening" (the adorable Alice Wetting excepted of course!) - pee smell is somehow also very embarrassing.

Wetting clothes clearly is likely to make them smell as well, and again there is that funny feeling that you shouldn't do it ..... but you want to so badly. The problem is, you can't possibly hide the fact that you did it deliberately to make yourself smell of pee 🙂

I know there are people here who say they don't like the smell of pee. I don't know what to make of them - but maybe part of them gets turned on by it , and another part is too pure to acknowledge it, even to themselves!

Finally, I know there are people here who say they enjoy wetting but don't see it as sexual. They mystify me too, but perhaps sex shouldn't be seen as just one thing - that instinct to break rules and make a smelly mess can just kick off on its own?

OK, I know that ended up a bit rambly, but it is a nice topic!

 

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For me I know it was childhood experiences.  I was (am) a bedwetter and was accident prone enough as a kid that pullups and even occasionally daytime diapers were a sometimes thing for me into my teens.

Looking back I realize now that I was "playing" some as a kid, and what I'm most into now pretty much looks like me recreating my childhood. 

I would never intentionally wet, but I would put myself in risky situations. The tension and fear of (desire for?) humiliation was so intense. 

Having easy access too (and even being made to wear) pullups on occasion during the day gave me huge opportunity with way less risk. 

I'd routinely only partially empty my bladder at a toilet break when traveling with my family in a pullup, thus upping the odds I'd end up desperate and making an accident much more likely.  Aside from my sneaky not finishing peeing the rest was completely real though.  Right down to the begging to stop at a bathroom and trying like crazy to hold it. Part of me was really embarrassed and did not want to wet myself, but obviously part of me felt very different, and I think that's how humiliation and pleasure became linked for me... everyone in the car knowing I was desperate,  then, if I didn't make it they knew I was peeing myself, and then until we stopped they knew I was sitting in a wet pullup and while it was excruciatingly embarrassing, it was also a massive pleasureable rush.  What can I say, it's a strange fetish lol.

 

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I can pinpoint the exact moment that I knew I had the fetish. I was watching “The Grudge 2” and the scene where the blond girl pees herself in fear really aroused me to the point that I had to masturbate. I was maybe 12 at the time? I thought it was because the girl was hot though and didn’t think it was about the peeing part. A few months after that, I was being driven home from an event with my friend and she had drank too much water (believe it was a volleyball game). She kept saying she had to pee really bad, and as luck would have it, her mom got pulled over on the way home for a taillight being out. I kept hearing fidgeting in the back and again noticed I was becoming very aroused. After the cop sent us on our way, I vividly recall a loud gasp, and she said “I just peed a little! I’ve never peed myself hurry up!” and that was actually enough to cause me to cum on the spot. About 2 minutes later and she yelled half crying “I’m peeing!” and I heard the pee shooting out. I remember her mom and I looking back at the same time and her mom hitting the overhead light, and when I looked down I saw her shorts covered in pee and pee squirting out of them and pooling around her crotch, and her hand was over her crotch so she was basically peeing into her hands. I came SO FREAKING HARD just seeing that lol. That’s when the fetish really kicked off for me. I don’t remember an event that would have led to arousal being associated with a girl peeing herself in my childhood, though I’m not ruling it out per se. It might just be there for certain people. 

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My first accident in school was coming back from a field trip on a bus, we were less than 5 minutes from the school when I hit my breaking point and no matter how hard I tried I just couldn't stop it. It was a humiliating moment that looking back now, I try to chase that feeling of true loss of control. It's like someone trying to chase a high or a feeling from a good moment, I want to feel that moment where I just can't control it anymore and it shoots out.

 

The other was the time one summer I was holding and waiting for someone to come out the bathroom. To try to hold a little longer I mindlessly grinded against my pillow, which admittedly felt really good, and without warning I came in my underwear, but at the time I thought I was peeing on myself and ran into the bathroom. 

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For me its the opposite to some here, I never accidentally wet my pants or the bed as a schoolkid, and don't remember any toilet training pressure, but from an early age I liked the feel of wet clothes (e.g. swimsuits) and struggled to understand why people made such a fuss about anyone wetting themselves.  So it's partly the fascination of a forbidden pleasure, at least until I was older and lived alone and could experiment.  I don't think I ever felt guilty about it, I just understood wetting was something you only do in private, like masturbation.  Freedom to wear wet pants all day if I wanted to did nothing to reduce the pleasure though, although the desire to do so comes and goes. It was only when the internet came along with readily available porn that I realised that pictures and videos of girls wetting was a sexual turn on, and despite the fact that I have no interest in homosexual relationships or sex, male wetting is if anything even more of a turn-on.

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I have a different perspective, I may be completely wrong but let me share my thoughts. You know how it's ingrained in you to find a partner with desirable characteristics, so that you could reproduce and have healthy kids? Like maybe someone tall, healthy, fit etc, though we all vary a bit on what we like, but if omorashi is also a desirable characteristic?

Some animals like giraffes are into golden showers, there's a video of a male giraffe licking a female giraffe peeing, and he does that to taste it and he can tell if the female giraffe is healthy from it.

Well we're not that intense, but what if being able to hold a good amount of pee (or poo if you're into that) is an indicator of a partner being healthy? Like my partner can hold over a liter of pee and it really turns me on, it's like my instincts are telling me that me that she's really healthy and has no digestive issues, whereas I can barely hold like 400 mL before leaking due to how my body is. Of course we're not interested in having kids or anything like that, but man it's like my instincts go crazy when I found a partner who can hold so much pee.

And practically in real life it comes in handy, using the bathrooms too much in public can be risky if you live in a dangerous areas, you can do more work where bathrooms aren't readily available, etc. And she can control it so well too, when she goes she can blast it and finish within 30 seconds, whereas I pee kinda slowly and it takes a while to empty myself (no medical issues, it's just how I'm built).

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I was maybe 4 or 5 years old and my brother and I would just pee on our toys and wherever else in our shared bedroom. I remember this strange feeling of it being naughty but kind of liberating.  

 

Fast forward to many many years later and I started experimenting with wetting myself and both feeling guilty about it and aroused by it. 

 

Later on I found I actually wanted to pee on a girl during sex. I met this woman who really liked rough sex and I found I loved it, loved being in control.  I mean at heart I'm not a violent abusive guy but I LOVE a submissive girl in bed, and of course the ultimate in her being submissive (for me)  is for me to make her wet herself, and for me to pee on her.  

 

It's cool to know I'm not totally alone in having this thing for urine.  I really don't share it with many people at all because of its taboo nature, but I'm no longer really feeling guilty about it. 

 

And like 2 days ago I fucked this sub girl I met and got to talking to her later and she said she's cool to engage in my fantasy so I'm elated. I mean how many of us actually get to live out our darkest fantasies? 

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to my knowledge, kinks and fetishes usually come from an experience being linked in some way to sex while your sexuality was developing

my best theory for me personally is when i was little i would watch tv in the morning and wouldn't want to get up to pee, so i would hold it by putting my hand in my pants which was unintentionally stimulating. so i think that stimulation + thinking about peeing created a connection between those two things. after that i always had a particular affinity for pee-related stuff -- i would make my toys pee, i would always take picture books where people peed themselves (or those educational puberty books that showed boys and girls peeing) into the bathroom to read over and over, my best friend and i would watch each other pee, my other friend and i would pee in our swimsuits in front of each other at his house, i drew comics a lot and always included one where someone peed their pants, etc.

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I don't think my interest is caused by anything I did or saw in childhood.  I wouldn't try to explain someone's sexual orientation in that way, and similarly I think that whatever triggers sexual arousal can't be explained so easily.

I think we naturally look back at incidents that triggered strong feelings of arousal, and think they were the cause of being turned on in that way.  But I suspect that I always had an unusually strong interest in peeing, particularly out-of-control peeing and the desperation leading to it.

There were three main pre-adolescent events that were powerful exciters for me.

One was when I wet myself in the school playground, in front of the whole school.  I was old enough to feel very embarrassed and ashamed.

Another was when one of my classmates wet her knickers in the same way, standing behind me.  Fascinated, I watched her pee streaming down her legs, falling from under her skirt and splattering into the dark, growing puddle between her feet.  She had completely lost control, and couldn't stop herself while she pissed through her underwear.  From my own experience I could later imagine what it must have felt like for her as she began leaking into her clothes, and then found herself unable to stop the flood.

The last was when another girl fainted in front of me.  All her muscles relaxed as her body flopped, and, as her eyes closed, her vulva opened and she spectacularly wet the floor, through her skirt.

During childhood sleepovers, after the lights went out, I'd enthusiastically try to steer the conversation to swap stories of seeing girls pee.

Later (in early adolescence) I discovered that I could see girls wet their swimming costumes, if I paid close attention to what was going on at the beach on family holidays. 

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Mainly I think there are 3 aspects to consider:

Sensation - The physical aspect given by the warm and damp feeling of wetting oneself or by the swollen bladder ready to explode. Despite the sensation being the same for everyone, it depends on each one whether it's judged as a good or a bad feeling.

Meaning - The social and cultural aspect that tells a lot about how wetting or being desperate to pee are seen in each one's society. For example, this is the dimension where you find the reason why it is considered humiliating or laughable and it is taught as such as we grow up. It's a completely arbitrary reason though: we could say that at a certain time in human history, we "decided" that it was an act that brings shame to the one who does it. I think this is the most interesting aspect to analyze and talk about, because I believe that pee accidents convey the particular psychological effects that most of us look for when we do omorashi. Effects that are linked to what is the meaning of having an accident or risking to have one for us and everyone else.

Psychology - This is the realm of the individual where everyone has their own reasons, conscious or subconscious, for why they are attracted to omorashi and other similar stuff. It depends on our life experience, our personal development from childhood to today, and so on.

I think we spend too much energies into finding out the common psychological reasons that make lots of people to converge on this fetish. In fact, when we confront our personal experiences and reasons we realize that we are different even if we share the interest for the same type of act. In other words, the object (the practice, or the action, if you want) is the same (even though, as a matter of fact, we also practise it differently), but the paths that lead to that object are different for anyone of us. 

What's in common is the general interpretation of the acts that omorashi implies. There are many facets that show up when we interpret wetting or being desperate to pee in the light of their social and cultural meaning, and individually we highlight some of them: the ones that are pleasant to us, the ones towards which our psychology guides to, thus making a more particular interpretation of it, which is the source of our personal drive for omorashi.

[Of course, if you're doing it just for the physical sensation and it almost has no psychological effects on you, aside from erotic pleasure and well-being, then that's just what matters for you and you can ignore the other two aspects, since they seem not to be relevant for you. So the Sensation aspect is kinda independent and in some cases it can be considered isolated from the other two].

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@Rajnish94

I agree that there are lots of social and psychological and other experiences that lead one to a fetish. I think that my fetishes largely the result of being in lots of desperate situations and where I live in a culture where women are expected to hold it in. Again I think it varies from culture to culture but I think more cultures are uptight about bathroom related stuff.


And my particular interest in the fetish are determined by personal experiences such as being aggravated by being desperate or being an unfair situations where others can go and I can't. Just because of experience that's where my focus on the fetish tends to go and I think that I particular fetish also has lots of subcategories, why are some people attracted to some aspects of the fetish but not to others, and I think that that really probably does have to do a lot with society and early experiences and varies a lot from culture to culture and person-to-person.

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I think it started for me because of (pee related) childhood trauma. the aspect of control is what really turns me on in that

1. I am the person in control when I am making someone else hold (the opposite of the lack of control I had over my abuser)

2. the person holding is willingly submitting and giving up their control. it is a consensual forfeiture of control, not a nonconsensual revocation of control (like abuse)

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CW:  abuse

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One of our parents' more minor abuses was not letting us use the bathroom after bedtime, and they usually refused to take us to a doctor for anything.  One year, for basically the whole year, I kept getting UTIs and all they would do to try to help solve my pain was give me cranberry juice.  I had to learn how to silently suffer with it, and that's also probably how I learned to fall asleep while desperate to pee.

 

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There are two big things I can think of.

The first inkling of interest I had in this stuff was when I was 13-14 or so. I was in the process of realizing that I was bisexual, and during this time I saw my first same-gender crush get super desperate during standardized testing at school. I was oddly captivated by that and I think that really wrapped together omorashi and sexuality for me.

The second thing was this: I used to get so wrapped up in video games or working on something or whatever else I was doing that I'd continually ignore the urge to pee. After reaching a pretty desperate level quite a few times because of that, I started to realize I enjoyed the desperate feeling and sometimes even got turned on over it. I started looking up omorashi stuff on the internet and started intentionally doing holds pretty often after that.

So I guess my kink for seeing others in omorashi situations and my kink for myself being in them started due to separate things, which is pretty uncommon I think.

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