When you are bursting to pee...

[kakkuru 1]

When you are bursting to pee,

1. can you go to the bathroom without rushing?
2. can you pretend to be calm?
3. can you keep your hand away from your crotch?

[sammilove 302]

1. Yes, unless I’m driving. Then it’s a mad dash.

2. Yes, just fidgety.

3. Yes, unless a leak escapes.

[MelodySeeker 26]

1) if I am being watched I can force myself to calmly walk and wait, if alone its a mad dash!
2) If i have to I can act up to a point, but eventually i'll be so desperate I don't care.

3) I can usually cope with squirming and sitting on my heel. 

 

[LizJWetting 105]

1. Depends what you mean by rushing. I won't be in a mad sprint or anything, but I'll probably be walking faster than usual.

2. Mostly. I might seem a bit quieter and more serious but otherwise I think I can hide it fairly well.

3. If there are people watching me yes. Otherwise my hand will be right in there.

[Stanley79 300]

To some extent I fail at all those.  Used to think I coveted my urgency well.  But sometimes when I was still married, my wife would say something like, "Don't get embarrased. Everyone gets desperate sometimes."  Lots of other things said by other people.

[peedesperate12 12]

I don't know if anyone else's bladder is like this but I swear my urge feels different when I'm in public or around friends that I'm not super close with 

So for me in public 

1 It depends, I usually speed walk if I'm bursting 

2. I can but I'll def keep my legs together and pay half attention 

3. I could but I'd have to keep my legs crossed super tight 

[shortmetalboi 102]

1: really depends on the situation

2: usually. Im probably very anxious, but i can hide it

3: its difficult lol. If im in public i dont touch but if im at home my hands are right there haha

[peedesperate12 12]

16 minutes ago, shortmetalboi said:

1: really depends on the situation

2: usually. Im probably very anxious, but i can hide it

3: its difficult lol. If im in public i dont touch but if im at home my hands are right there haha

dude right there with ya for 3 

[shortmetalboi 102]

3 minutes ago, peedesperate12 said:

dude right there with ya for 3 

Lol i think its partially because if im home and alone im horny because I know whats coming haha

[peedesperate12 12]

6 minutes ago, shortmetalboi said:

Lol i think its partially because if im home and alone im horny because I know whats coming haha

ah that's fair! Yeah if I get horny that messes with my urgency too 

[Stanley79 300]

Agree about urge feeling different in public.  For me it can change from completely managable to latch-key flood when I get home.

[Sudoers 31]

16 hours ago, kakkuru said:

When you are bursting to pee,

1. can you go to the bathroom without rushing?
2. can you pretend to be calm?
3. can you keep your hand away from your crotch?

1 yes I will walk at normal speed. 

2 yes I like to hide my deaperation. 

3 it depends on the position. At the point I cannot sit still I will use my hands.  I will not use my hands during walking. 

[CarmenCD 730]

1. It depends how bad it is.
2. Not really, if I'm too desperate.
3. Yes, if I'm in public or not alone. I rather leak in my panties than hold myself in public or in front of other people.

[KatyCisneros 1]

On 11/20/2020 at 8:42 AM, kakkuru said:

When you are bursting to pee,

1. can you go to the bathroom without rushing?
2. can you pretend to be calm?
3. can you keep your hand away from your crotch?

1 I can go without rushing but I'm desperatly moving my legs and desperately wanting to reach the bathroom, for example when I go to a supermarket and I'm bursting but I want nobody to see that I'm peeing myself I go slwoly but tensing my zipper area muscules 

2 yes, I can 

Yes I can, but when I'm on the limit, I'm on the limit

[K95F 5]

On 11/20/2020 at 8:42 AM, kakkuru said:

When you are bursting to pee,

1. can you go to the bathroom without rushing?
2. can you pretend to be calm?
3. can you keep your hand away from your crotch?

I can certainly walk normally, but if I'm bursting, I'm either booking it while leaking or walking incredibly carefully

 

I've gotten used to staying calm if I start wetting myself, but my body still twitches and squirms

 

Usually yea, my hands might twitch but if I'm in public I can *usually* keep it away

[petitewonder 50]

1.) Not really; I kind of ending up shifting from foot to foot and getting nervous because I can feel it coming.

2.) I've had anxiety all my life, diagnosed as GAD many years ago. I can never pretend to be calm lmao XD

3.) Yes.

[Golden Slumber 205]

No to all 3.. if im bursting you'll be able to tell. One time I checked into a hotel after a really long 8 hour drive I already took my soggy diaper off and had to pee so badly.. the guy working was taking so long I remember leaking in my pants and panicking that I was going to pee my pants infront of a lot of people.. 

But I remember breathing heavy and asking him to hurry up and like basically pee dancing slightly and than when I did get the key I peed myself a little on my way to the room but I did finish in the toilet. But I think he and everyone could tell I had to go. He kept talking to this other family and giving their kids candy and I remember being so bitter cause I had to pee so badly.

Edited November 23, 2020 by Golden Slumber (see edit history)

[lsn1 86]

On 11/20/2020 at 9:42 AM, kakkuru said:

When you are bursting to pee,

1. can you go to the bathroom without rushing?
2. can you pretend to be calm?
3. can you keep your hand away from your crotch?

1. No. I'm terrified of public wetting, so once I feel the urge, I absolutely have to find the nearest restroom right away. (No peeing outside for me!)

2. No. I won't admit that I need to pee, but I get really irritated and snippy. (One time I made my ex gf sleep on the couch because she made fun of me when I really had to pee.)

3. Yes. I would die of embarrassment if anyone knew that I had to pee without my consent, so I go to great lengths to hide it.

[Delta 2 1 32]

1. I can definitely keep a steady pace and if I'm really desperate then I'm walking slow anyways

 

2. For me theres a certain point where I just can't. I can keep calm even after holding a full bladder but once a certain threshold is passed, I just can't keep still.

 

3. Sort of; weirdly I find that when I'm standing I'll rarely do this unless I'm bursting, but when I'm sitting you can see my hands on my crotch in some way or another