kakkuru 9 Posted November 20, 2020 Share Posted November 20, 2020 When you are bursting to pee, can you go to the bathroom without rushing? can you pretend to be calm? can you keep your hand away from your crotch? Quote Link to comment
sammilove 835 Posted November 20, 2020 Share Posted November 20, 2020 1. Yes, unless I’m driving. Then it’s a mad dash. 2. Yes, just fidgety. 3. Yes, unless a leak escapes. Quote Link to comment
MelodySeeker 57 Posted November 20, 2020 Share Posted November 20, 2020 1) if I am being watched I can force myself to calmly walk and wait, if alone its a mad dash! 2) If i have to I can act up to a point, but eventually i'll be so desperate I don't care. 3) I can usually cope with squirming and sitting on my heel. Quote Link to comment
Stanley79 636 Posted November 20, 2020 Share Posted November 20, 2020 To some extent I fail at all those. Used to think I coveted my urgency well. But sometimes when I was still married, my wife would say something like, "Don't get embarrased. Everyone gets desperate sometimes." Lots of other things said by other people. Quote Link to comment
peedesperate12 26 Posted November 21, 2020 Share Posted November 21, 2020 I don't know if anyone else's bladder is like this but I swear my urge feels different when I'm in public or around friends that I'm not super close with So for me in public 1 It depends, I usually speed walk if I'm bursting 2. I can but I'll def keep my legs together and pay half attention 3. I could but I'd have to keep my legs crossed super tight Quote Link to comment
Guest shortmetalboi Posted November 21, 2020 Share Posted November 21, 2020 1: really depends on the situation 2: usually. Im probably very anxious, but i can hide it 3: its difficult lol. If im in public i dont touch but if im at home my hands are right there haha Quote Link to comment
peedesperate12 26 Posted November 21, 2020 Share Posted November 21, 2020 16 minutes ago, shortmetalboi said: 1: really depends on the situation 2: usually. Im probably very anxious, but i can hide it 3: its difficult lol. If im in public i dont touch but if im at home my hands are right there haha dude right there with ya for 3 Quote Link to comment
Guest shortmetalboi Posted November 21, 2020 Share Posted November 21, 2020 3 minutes ago, peedesperate12 said: dude right there with ya for 3 Lol i think its partially because if im home and alone im horny because I know whats coming haha Quote Link to comment
peedesperate12 26 Posted November 21, 2020 Share Posted November 21, 2020 6 minutes ago, shortmetalboi said: Lol i think its partially because if im home and alone im horny because I know whats coming haha ah that's fair! Yeah if I get horny that messes with my urgency too Quote Link to comment
Stanley79 636 Posted November 21, 2020 Share Posted November 21, 2020 Agree about urge feeling different in public. For me it can change from completely managable to latch-key flood when I get home. Quote Link to comment
Sudoers 103 Posted November 21, 2020 Share Posted November 21, 2020 16 hours ago, kakkuru said: When you are bursting to pee, can you go to the bathroom without rushing? can you pretend to be calm? can you keep your hand away from your crotch? 1 yes I will walk at normal speed. 2 yes I like to hide my deaperation. 3 it depends on the position. At the point I cannot sit still I will use my hands. I will not use my hands during walking. Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted November 22, 2020 Share Posted November 22, 2020 It depends how bad it is. Not really, if I'm too desperate. Yes, if I'm in public or not alone. I rather leak in my panties than hold myself in public or in front of other people. John_John 1 Quote Link to comment
KatyCisneros 1 Posted November 22, 2020 Share Posted November 22, 2020 On 11/20/2020 at 8:42 AM, kakkuru said: When you are bursting to pee, can you go to the bathroom without rushing? can you pretend to be calm? can you keep your hand away from your crotch? 1 I can go without rushing but I'm desperatly moving my legs and desperately wanting to reach the bathroom, for example when I go to a supermarket and I'm bursting but I want nobody to see that I'm peeing myself I go slwoly but tensing my zipper area muscules 2 yes, I can Yes I can, but when I'm on the limit, I'm on the limit Quote Link to comment
Guest K95F Posted November 23, 2020 Share Posted November 23, 2020 On 11/20/2020 at 8:42 AM, kakkuru said: When you are bursting to pee, can you go to the bathroom without rushing? can you pretend to be calm? can you keep your hand away from your crotch? I can certainly walk normally, but if I'm bursting, I'm either booking it while leaking or walking incredibly carefully I've gotten used to staying calm if I start wetting myself, but my body still twitches and squirms Usually yea, my hands might twitch but if I'm in public I can *usually* keep it away Quote Link to comment
petitewonder 480 Posted November 23, 2020 Share Posted November 23, 2020 1.) Not really; I kind of ending up shifting from foot to foot and getting nervous because I can feel it coming. 2.) I've had anxiety all my life, diagnosed as GAD many years ago. I can never pretend to be calm lmao XD 3.) Yes. Quote Link to comment
lsn1 491 Posted November 24, 2020 Share Posted November 24, 2020 On 11/20/2020 at 9:42 AM, kakkuru said: When you are bursting to pee, can you go to the bathroom without rushing? can you pretend to be calm? can you keep your hand away from your crotch? 1. No. I'm terrified of public wetting, so once I feel the urge, I absolutely have to find the nearest restroom right away. (No peeing outside for me!) 2. No. I won't admit that I need to pee, but I get really irritated and snippy. (One time I made my ex gf sleep on the couch because she made fun of me when I really had to pee.) 3. Yes. I would die of embarrassment if anyone knew that I had to pee without my consent, so I go to great lengths to hide it. Quote Link to comment
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