Simcaste 134 Posted October 18, 2020 Share Posted October 18, 2020 Hi everyone, I’ll write here a couple of experience I’ve had with my girlfriend. We’re together since 3 years now, but I really struggle in understanding her holding ability. She usually goes to pee really often, sometimes even every hour, and the amount of pee she does is extremely small (just because I can hear a few times, she has a strong gush). However, other times, she can hold it for ages, even more than me (which I’m pretty good). For instance, a couple of month ago, we’ve been visiting a city here nearby. We left home at 8.30 am. We didn’t have breakfast at home, but we stopped in a starbucks on the way. We both took a croissant and a large coffee. We’ve had lunch at 1 pm and we both drank a 33cl beer. When about to leave (around 2pm), I needed to pee (not badly though), so I decided to go (my girlfriend didn’t). Around 4pm, we stopped in a bar where I ordered a beer and she took a medium milkshake. Even then, she didn’t go to pee. We took a train to come back at 8.30 pm and while waiting for the train, she told me she was dying for a pee. However, she didn’t go at the station, neither in the train. While walking from the train station to home, she was starting to be quite desperate, showing clear sign of her full bladder. We arrive at home around 10 pm when she finally went to pee (I couldn’t hear, unfortunatly). Meanwhile, I had to pee quite a lot too, even though I went to the toilet at midday. Here my struggle. Do you think she has a strong bladder? If yes, why would she go every hour or so to the toilet when she’s at home? wettingman and JMatthews1995 2 Quote Link to comment
JMatthews1995 1,030 Posted October 18, 2020 Share Posted October 18, 2020 It sounds like she has a very strong bladder. And perhaps an issue with peeing in public. (which could be why she pees a lot at home). I remember dating a girl a while back. She was seriously very pee shy and she would never pee at my house. She would go sometimes 12 hours + just to avoid peeing at mine. Same when we were out. She must have had an incredible bladder! Quote Link to comment
Simcaste 134 Posted October 18, 2020 Author Share Posted October 18, 2020 You might be right. However, when we are, for example, at restaurants, she goes often, sometimes even more than once. Then there are days when she drinks a lot and she hold it literally for the whole day. It’s really difficult to understand for me, I would say that she has a strong bladder, but she doesn’t really act like a girl with a great holding ability. Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,586 Posted October 18, 2020 Share Posted October 18, 2020 Did she drink less on that day you were out? I agree she probably doesn't like peeing in public. This would allow her to hold it beyond her normal capacity. She might even be unable to go in public no matter how full her bladder is. I experienced this for years. She also might be doing habit pees at the slightest urge at home. I would think she actually has a decent sized bladder and control , but does not hold it u less she must. Quote Link to comment
MemeOverlord 49 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 Does your GF know that you have a peeing fetish? Have you considered asking her to do some pee things for you? Quote Link to comment
Simcaste 134 Posted October 19, 2020 Author Share Posted October 19, 2020 I think she doesn’t really pay attention to what she drinks. When we stopped in the pub at 4 pm, she was already needing to pee, but she has got a milkshake anyway. No, she doesn’t know. And It’s a long time since I’m thinking at about how to approach this, because I would like that she knows about it. All suggestions are well accepted. Quote Link to comment
MemeOverlord 49 Posted October 19, 2020 Share Posted October 19, 2020 (edited) 7 hours ago, Simcaste said: No, she doesn’t know. And It’s a long time since I’m thinking at about how to approach this, because I would like that she knows about it. All suggestions are well accepted. Brother, I can tell you that it is certainly no easy task to admit something like this to your partner. But I can attest, it is 100% worth it. My best suggestion would be to test the water first. Does your GF have a wild side? Have you guys tried any kinky or deviant things in the bedroom yet? If not, I would suggest you start doing some things like that, if she is willing, y'know stuff that is considered naughty or kinky, but not like taboo really. I.e. roleplay, bondage, unusual sex positions etc. And as you grow more comfortable, continue escalating the kinky things that you two are doing, and, if she's receptive to all of these things, you should be able to read the signs and finally feel comfortable enough with each other to bring up omorashi. It's important to respect your partner's boundaries of course, if there's anything she isn't willing to do. That being said, if she loves you enough, she won't be mad at you, disgusted by you, or try to humiliate you if you bring this up to her. Even if she isn't willing to try it, her reaction will be a good indication of wether or not the relationship is genuine. But, if someone loves you enough, or is experimental enough, you might just be surprised what they will be willing to try at least once. Edited October 19, 2020 by MemeOverlord Typo (see edit history) Dwayne 1 Quote Link to comment
Simcaste 134 Posted October 21, 2020 Author Share Posted October 21, 2020 That’s an amzing answer, thanks! The fact is that there’s absolutely nothing to be afraid of in admitting something like this, but... for some reason it’s taugh. I haven’t tried nothing like that in the bedroom, just ordinary sex (with wild position, this yes, but nothing even close to omorashi). The tactic I’m adopting in this last period is to hold my pee for long times when we go out for an entire day, mainly to see her reactions and to see if she’s somehow interested. Sometimes I get positive signal, sometimes neutral (never negative, though). I might switch to your approach soon and see if I get somewhere. All this, when a simple question like “do you like to hold your pee?” would solve all problems. But it’s a taugh question, damn! Quote Link to comment
MemeOverlord 49 Posted October 22, 2020 Share Posted October 22, 2020 (edited) Sadly, watersports are still considered taboo in many of our societies, so it's not an easy thing to talk about. Especially the fear of rejection. I wish you luck, keep us updated on your progress! Edited October 22, 2020 by MemeOverlord (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Simcaste 134 Posted October 23, 2020 Author Share Posted October 23, 2020 Thanks! I would say it’s more about being shy than fear of rejection, at least in my case. But I’ll work on that 👍🏼 Quote Link to comment
MemeOverlord 49 Posted October 23, 2020 Share Posted October 23, 2020 Gotcha. Anyway, as someone who has literally, "been there and done that" just feel free to ask me for any other questions or advice. You're welcome to message me too if you want, or keep posting here in the comments, either or. 🙂 Quote Link to comment
Simcaste 134 Posted October 23, 2020 Author Share Posted October 23, 2020 Thanks a lot! I’m new to this forum and I don’t know how to text you here. However, I’ve a Kik account, you could write me there at simcaste1. Quote Link to comment
MemeOverlord 49 Posted October 23, 2020 Share Posted October 23, 2020 I don't have kik, haha. But you should unlock messaging on here after you get out of introductory member stage. Quote Link to comment
Secret2020 68 Posted October 29, 2020 Share Posted October 29, 2020 (edited) This is even more interesting than the story about my boyfriend you reacted to! That she didn't go to the bathroom for so may hours and with quite al lot to drink, without a night in between. Have you talked with her yet? Edited October 29, 2020 by Secret2020 (see edit history) Quote Link to comment
Simcaste 134 Posted October 31, 2020 Author Share Posted October 31, 2020 No, I didnt. But I will, I’m pretty sure about this. In the end, it’s kind of a natural thing! I think the two stories are quite similar, I remember about yours. They both have quite a strong bladder! Quote Link to comment
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