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  • 2 weeks later...

Heres mine:

  • Messing
  • Wetting a diaper
  • Messing a diaper
  • Wetting in public (wetting yes, in public less keen)
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else
  • Controlling someone else's bladder
  • Being restrained while desperate
  • Getting peed on (Especially having someone wet them selves whilst sat on me)
  • Drinking pee
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting
  • Age regression

Adding a couple of my own...

  • Wetting myself
  • Getting desperate until having an accident
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  • Messing (don't enjoy the cleanup but the act is fun, I've done it on rare occasion)
  • Wetting a diaper (haven't done it but would be kind of fun)
  • Messing a diaper (haven't done it but would be kind of fun)
  • Wetting in public (way too shy about that kind of thing even if I find a partner I could have kinky fun with. Unless you count wetting a pair of shorts that don't show wetness, and wetting my snow pants, both in secluded areas, but I was in view of others while wet and no one could tell)
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else (had this done once on this site but was cut short too soon. One day I'd like a longer version of that)
  • Controlling someone else's bladder (did this a few times on this site, half of which ended in wettings, was fun for me and all of them)
  • Being restrained while desperate (haven't done it but would really like to, and for it to end wet)
  • Getting peed on (haven't done it but would be fun, IF they were peeing through panties, pants, shorts, etc.)
  • Drinking pee
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting (love the very thought of it and I have done it quite a few times)
  • Age regression (haven't done it but would be kind of fun)

As for standard wetting, I absolutely love it. Provided no one can ever see it, of course. Unless the day comes that I ever find a partner to have all kinds of kinky fun with, but I'm not holding my breath. Doing holds can be fun, though I would often get impatient for the wetting at the end and pee myself too early before a full loss of control (though I have experienced involuntary leaks). I kind of want to experience a full-blown loss of control.

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Can’t do the formatting correct because I’m on mobile but

  • Messing- Red
  • Wetting a diaper- Green
  • Messing a diaper- Red
  • Wetting in public - Purple (ambiguity of public)
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else - Purple
  • Controlling someone else's bladder - Purple
  • Being restrained while desperate - Green
  • Getting peed on - Purple
  • Drinking pee - Orange
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting- Purple
  • Age regression - Red

Wouldn’t touch messing at all, but diapers are basically just more convenient and absorbing underwear to wet in so I’d be down for it, haven’t really had the chance to experiment with other people or as much as I’d want but currently that’s where I’m at

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Also, I am a switch so I would feel the same way regardless of dynamic. 

  • Messing
  • Wetting a diaper
  • Messing a diaper
  • Wetting in public (I wasn't really sure on this one if it meant in a diaper, doing so where people could potentially see you, doing it privately in a bathroom stall and cleaning it up afterward? I'd be fine with the first and third, not the second.)
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else
  • Controlling someone else's bladder
  • Being restrained while desperate
  • Getting peed on (Have never really tried but would like to)
  • Drinking pee
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting
  • Age regression
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  • Messing
  • Rectum stuffed with non-smelly items (marbles, sausage,  . . .), holding, then pooing.  Ditto in diaper.
  • Wetting a diaper
  • Messing a diaper
  • Wetting visibly  in public
  • Wetting under long-coat  in public
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else
  • Controlling someone else's bladder
  • Being restrained while desperate
  • Getting peed on
  • Drinking pee
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting
  • Staying in pee-soaked diaper over underpants for more than a few minutes after wetting
  • Age regression
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  • 1 year later...

Green - I enjoy doing this. Orange - I do not enjoy doing this, but I would do it if my partner wanted me to. Red - I would not do this. Purple - I am not sure how I feel about this.

  • Messing
  • Wetting a diaper
  • Messing a diaper
  • Wetting in public (enjoyable in theory. Hidden in a diaper? Sure. Or in a remote location with my car 2 seconds away.)
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else (Doesn't do much for me because desperation isn't part of my kink. I'll do it but only if it'll lead to wetting).
  • Controlling someone else's bladder
  • Being restrained while desperate
  • Getting peed on (I don't DISLIKE/NOT enjoy it, I'm just neutral on it. It can definitely be fun, just doesn't sexually do much for me).
  • Drinking pee (Again, don't dislike/not enjoy, just neutral.)
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting
  • Age regression (Hard limit. You so much as say d*ddy to me and you're out the door).
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  • Messing - sometimes depending on mood (dislike the cleanup)
  • Wetting a diaper
  • Messing a diaper - as above
  • Wetting in public - big thrill but not where i cant hide it
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else - could by hot with the right partner
  • Controlling someone else's bladder - as a dom yes
  • Being restrained while desperate
  • Getting peed on - while the partner rides you is really hot. But i love being peed on to...
  • Drinking pee - if the partner has drunk a lot before not yellow pee
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting - sometimes yes
  • Age regression
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  • Messing
  • Wetting a diaper
  • Messing a diaper
  • Wetting in public
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else
  • Controlling someone else's bladder
  • Being restrained while desperate
  • Getting peed on
  • Drinking pee
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting
  • Age regression

I'm down for basically anything other than messing. I'll poop outdoors in the forest occasionally (I live in a wooded area), but I let it fall to the ground, rather than staying in clothing.

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Messing 

Wetting a diaper

Messing a diaper

Wetting in public (Pretty sure that I physically can't, haha. And I wouldn't want to make someone else have to clean it up.)

Having my bladder controlled by someone else

Controlling someone else's bladder

Being restrained while desperate

Getting peed on (Really didn't think I'd like this, but I tried it and I did.)

Drinking pee (Never done it, but it could turn out like the above if I ever try it.)

Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting

Age regression

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  • Messing
  • Wetting a diaper
  • Messing a diaper
  • Wetting in public (tbh this depends on what specifically is meant by 'public'; I would never wet myself in front of ppl, and I'd never wet my clothes outside period in case someone saw me, but I've dropped trou and pissed outside several times)
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else
  • Controlling someone else's bladder (I actually had to come back in and change this one lol, I'm such a sub it would be hard for me to do this, but I'd be willing to try for the right person)
  • Being restrained while desperate
  • Getting peed on (only if my partner was sitting in my lap and we were both at least partially clothed; i.e. from the waist down)
  • Drinking pee
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting
  • Age regression (I've read a few fics about this in the past that I was like, mildly into, but it depends on how everything would go in-scene)
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Green - I enjoy doing this. Orange - I do not enjoy doing this, but I would do it if my partner wanted me to. Red - I would not do this. Purple - I am not sure how I feel about this.

  • Messing
    • I enjoy doing this every once in awhile, but I have to be in the mood for it (same for if my partner was doing it).  
  • Wetting a diaper
  • Messing a diaper
  • Wetting in public
    • So if it's in a diaper that is absorbent, reduces odor, and there isn't a risk of someone hearing it, I'm game for that. 
    • But if it's wetting clothes, it's...I feel conflicted lmao.
      If I were to wet in public, I'd only do it in the bathroom and would clean up everything afterwards.
      However, it's also one of my biggest fantasies to wet/see someone wet in not just a bathroom. But I don't want to leave clean up for someone else.
      So, I guess it's the sort of thing where if it's actually an accident that can't be helped for whatever reason, it's going to be a huge turn on for me. But I would not do so intentionally unless I could do so discreetly and be the one to clean it up. 
      If someone was leaking a little, intentionally or unintentionally, I think I'd be okay with that too. 
  • Having my bladder controlled by someone else
    • Provided that it's the right time and place for it, absolutely. 
  • Controlling someone else's bladder
    • See above. 
  • Being restrained while desperate
  • Getting peed on
  • Drinking pee
    • And it would definitely need to be after diluting it lol. 
  • Staying in pee-soaked clothes for more than a few minutes after wetting
    • Maybe, depending on the situation? But not too long to avoid rashes. 
  • Age regression
    • If this is referring to mentally travelling back in time to when I was my younger self, being in an *actual* past, younger headspace like that, absolutely 100% no.
    • If this is referring to "little space" which is a more childlike/vulnerable version of my current adult self? Then yes. I don't like using the term "age regression" to refer to it though. Most ABDLs I've encountered don't but I don't know how common it is in the wider community. 
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