DesperateJill 3,794 Posted September 21, 2020 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted September 21, 2020 By that I mean does it matter if other people are around when you are desperate or not and does that affect your enjoyment or lack of enjoyment of desperation? The way I see desperation isn't really exciting without the awkward embarrassing social component of other people knowing you are desperate. And if you are desperate by yourself I feel like it's not really that intense seeing as nothing is really happening, but when you are desperate around other people and interacting with them, particularly if they don't also have to pee, that makes the situation somehow more intense. In fact just the presence of other people around when I have to pee seems to make me have to go pee more. Do others find this to be the same or different? Quote Link to comment
Spectator9 957 Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 There must be some here who enjoy the challenge of holding a full bladder while in a social situation. Others might get panicky, but those with strong bladders may get satisfaction from being able to hold more and longer than those around them. I've seen men emerge from the toilet at a party after taking a loud minutelong pee with a smile of pride. Quote Link to comment
IHTPP 215 Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 Just depends on the level im at, i can hold well in social situations but if it gets really full, i get panicky. Quote Link to comment
Lils 464 Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 I can relate to @IHTPP's answer. If I can still hold somewhat comfortably, it is exciting to be around other people. If I think I'm nearing the point of losing control, it depends on the situation. If there are not that many people around, my accident will be concealed well (e.g. by wearing a dress, or by it being a dark evening and me wearing black workout pants), or I don't know anyone of the people around me (and will not meet anyone I know), I am still somewhat relaxed about it and can enjoy being desperate and close to losing it. Quote Link to comment
SoakedScott 39 Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 I love to hold in social situations. My mind is totally focused on the task. When I remove myself from a situation, my bladder sometimes comes at me inconsolably. Quote Link to comment
hubertheiser 156 Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 Having to hold in a social situation is just annoying for me. I want to be able to grab myself, squirm and pee-dance while drinking more without getting funny looks from other people. Quote Link to comment
Sucedáneo 36 Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 If someone notices I have to go and they know it's covenient for me to go. I have to go or they think I'm weird. Some people see the wierd way I drink. Like two drinks at once, watering things down. I have to pee a lot ñ so the is a big rush to get work done so I don't look lazy. Quote Link to comment
Kat_ie 700 Posted September 21, 2020 Share Posted September 21, 2020 I get desperate noticeably quicker when I'm in public. Often, I could be very desperate, lock myself in a stall and really hold myself, and the urge will go away for some time. I enjoy holding in both scenarios, public and private, and while it differs in whats exciting, I enjoy doing both equally. Quote Link to comment
CarmenCD 1,363 Posted September 22, 2020 Share Posted September 22, 2020 Social component definitely makes a difference when I'm desperate. It I'm in a situation where I really don't want to have an accident or even show people around me that I'm desperate, I just can't enjoy the desperation, because I'm constantly worried "what if a disaster struck"? Quote Link to comment
Anna B 274 Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 Social component makes a HUGE difference. The worst, most undesirable situation for me to be desperate is confined somewhere amongst people who I would not want to see me desperate or wet myself, and no foreseeable access to a toilet. The best situation, which I would hugely enjoy, would be with a person or persons who I think would find my desperation exciting. And anything in between, for example I sometimes go out shopping deliberately busting. I'll enjoy needing to squirm/pee dance a bit and maybe hold myself if I think I can get away with it, in a public area where I might be noticed anonymously, yet still be confident that I'll be able to hold on long enough to get to a toilet if I really have to, with nothing more than perhaps a few accidental spurts that I can hide if I push it a bit far. MrFoley 1 Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,794 Posted September 23, 2020 Author ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted September 23, 2020 Quote Social component makes a HUGE difference. The worst, most undesirable situation for me to be desperate is confined somewhere amongst people who I would not want to see me desperate or wet myself, and no foreseeable access to a toilet. The best situation, which I would hugely enjoy, would be with a person or persons who I think would find my desperation exciting. And anything in between, for example I sometimes go out shopping deliberately busting. I'll enjoy needing to squirm/pee dance a bit and maybe hold myself if I think I can get away with it, in a public area where I might be noticed anonymously, yet still be confident that I'll be able to hold on long enough to get to a toilet if I really have to, with nothing more than perhaps a few accidental spurts that I can hide if I push it a bit far. I can say for me paradoxically the situations that are the most exciting are also sort of partially the most undesirable ones because those are the most embarrassing ones, but I am turned on by the embarrassment of it. So to be desperate when I know people are enjoying seeing me desperate makes me self-conscious about every little move that I make. When I know I can't get to a bathroom that just makes it so much more intense. But to me being desperate alone doesn't really have any exciting effect. The very presence of others no what makes it exciting, paradoxically by making it extremely embarrassing! BB1BBB 1 Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,586 Posted September 24, 2020 Share Posted September 24, 2020 Being desperate in social situations makes me anxious. Since I can remember I never wanted people to know I needed to pee, let alone that I am desperately full. I hope they don't notice my discomfort or pain. It would be horrible if I started wetting myself. However, I can hold my pee significantly longer when people are around. But if my bladder is stretched way beyond capacity as soon as I am alone the extra holding power disappeared and my pee can come gushing out in my pants if I don't quickly find a place to pee. Quote Link to comment
BB1BBB 173 Posted September 27, 2020 Share Posted September 27, 2020 On 9/22/2020 at 5:55 PM, LizJWetting said: I do enjoy being desperate in public, it's the thrill of fearing I might wet myself in front of people that turns me on, though the idea of actually wetting in public is less desirable. In fact I used to do challenges were I'd drink plenty, head out to town to do some shopping, not allow myself to pee while there, and then try to get back dry. I've always managed to get home without wetting myself, though a few times I've thought I wasn't going to. Hey - if you need a shopping buddy, we're right there for you. 🙂 Quote Link to comment
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