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Gentle or rough?


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What you prefer? 

Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? 

Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? 

Any experiences? 

I like the idea of teasing someone a bit, but never wants them to feel bad, so also encouraging and comforting after wetting, especially if they are sad. 

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Normally I like it rough and to be teased, but It might be nice to have some gentle encouragement to keep holding it for a change. I like it when my partner pretends to not realize I have to pee, and makes me come out and say it.

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The second could be fun as a roleplay (with spanking as the punishment), if that's how the desperate wetter likes it.

Otherwise a lot of my wetting fantasies I love for them to feel better when it's over, so mostly the first one. I also like the idea of being told to "just go".

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I like both ways

- to be encouraged that I can hold it and if I cannot so be comforted

- to be teased and if I cannot hold it any longer be humiliated, laugh at me...

and nice is if I cannot hold it, if you say me "ok, it happens you cannot hold it, so do it in your jeans...

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4 hours ago, Lukhas said:

I like both ways

- to be encouraged that I can hold it and if I cannot so be comforted

- to be teased and if I cannot hold it any longer be humiliated, laugh at me...

and nice is if I cannot hold it, if you say me "ok, it happens you cannot hold it, so do it in your jeans...

Yeah I like both as well. So many possibilities! 

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I would not want to be gently encouraged to wet my pants.

But there is no need to be nasty  or mean, and I don't want to be "punished"  like a child. This should be fun .

 I would LOVE to be strongly encouraged to hold my pee even past my ability to hold it and as I am already leaking, by an appreciative female. It would be awesome if she would not allow me to relieve myself no matter how badly I needed  to go.

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I prefer mean/teasing while I am desperate - like, "I bet you have to go, don't you?" - or even just being ordered to hold it. Niceness just doesn't really do as much for me. I've never been made fun of afterwards. I could see it being fun if done right, but by that point, most of the fun is over for me, to be honest.

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When my partner "pushes my buttons" and gets me in a subby mood many ways can be fun.

In general, I like my partner to be strict in not allowing me to use the bathroom and controlling my actions like e.g. leaking a little. Some bondage to prevent me from squirming and using my hands can greatly add to the fun from time to time. I'm not at all into humiliation and punishment, though. I'd rather see my partner enjoying by my struggles and "accidents" and engaging in more fun and maybe a "funishment" afterwards.

When acting as a top I'd follow pretty much the same pattern.

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typo corrected, "funishment" added (see edit history)
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On 9/13/2020 at 8:02 PM, BigWoman said:

What you prefer? 

Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? 

Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? 

Any experiences? 

I like the idea of teasing someone a bit, but never wants them to feel bad, so also encouraging and comforting after wetting, especially if they are sad. 

Honestly I enjoy both, just depends on my mood.  

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On 9/13/2020 at 7:02 PM, BigWoman said:

What you prefer? 

Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? 

Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? 

Any experiences? 

I like the idea of teasing someone a bit, but never wants them to feel bad, so also encouraging and comforting after wetting, especially if they are sad. 

I'd have to say both appeal to me and I use both in fantasy.  In real life when I was a kid I experienced both reactions from adults and peers but stern/mean or ridicule/humiliating  were more common. (As you probably imagine)

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On 9/13/2020 at 8:02 PM, BigWoman said:

What you prefer? 

Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? 

Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? 

Any experiences? 

I like the idea of teasing someone a bit, but never wants them to feel bad, so also encouraging and comforting after wetting, especially if they are sad. 

I love, love, love getting teased. I don't really think of it as meanness but it takes a lot out of it when someone is making me hold it and they're *too* nice. I love when someone is doing everything they can think of to make me need to go worse while simultaneously telling me that peeing is not an option, no matter how badly I need to go. This is a little hard to explain but another thing I love is something I call "fake sympathy." I'm talking about statements like "oh, you must need to go so badly, your bladder must be aching, it's such a shame that you still can't go for hours..." On the surface it sounds sympathetic but it really isn't. I'm not into blatant humiliation/embarrassment but teasing is perfect.

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"What you prefer? 

Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? 

Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? 

Any experiences?"

I personally feel all desperation is a bit mean-spirited because you are taking advantage of the fact that a person is in an embarrassing and uncomfortable situation and that they are vulnerable and stuck in that situation. When they are gentle and encouraging it's not as brutal but when they are teasing you that immediately puts you in a really submissive position and that's what makes it exciting but frustrating.

 

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