BigWoman 21 Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 What you prefer? Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? Any experiences? I like the idea of teasing someone a bit, but never wants them to feel bad, so also encouraging and comforting after wetting, especially if they are sad. squirmystud, richard3 and Lukhas 3 Quote Link to comment
lsn1 491 Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 Normally I like it rough and to be teased, but It might be nice to have some gentle encouragement to keep holding it for a change. I like it when my partner pretends to not realize I have to pee, and makes me come out and say it. Quote Link to comment
silvermoon 564 Posted September 14, 2020 Share Posted September 14, 2020 I think I prefer gentle. Not a romantic partner, just a friend who's into this stuff and knows about my weak bladder and there's been two times before where I was desperate and he gently encouraged me to let go and describing how it would feel, and it just seemed to sap all the strength I had. Apertado and trekkie 1 1 Quote Link to comment
SoggyShorts 815 Posted September 15, 2020 Share Posted September 15, 2020 How about a third option? Someone who tells me how cute or sexy it is when I wet my pants? Quote Link to comment
The Dark Wolf 1,746 Posted September 15, 2020 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted September 15, 2020 The second could be fun as a roleplay (with spanking as the punishment), if that's how the desperate wetter likes it. Otherwise a lot of my wetting fantasies I love for them to feel better when it's over, so mostly the first one. I also like the idea of being told to "just go". Quote Link to comment
Lukhas 391 Posted September 15, 2020 Share Posted September 15, 2020 I like both ways - to be encouraged that I can hold it and if I cannot so be comforted - to be teased and if I cannot hold it any longer be humiliated, laugh at me... and nice is if I cannot hold it, if you say me "ok, it happens you cannot hold it, so do it in your jeans... Quote Link to comment
petitewonder 480 Posted September 16, 2020 Share Posted September 16, 2020 4 hours ago, Lukhas said: I like both ways - to be encouraged that I can hold it and if I cannot so be comforted - to be teased and if I cannot hold it any longer be humiliated, laugh at me... and nice is if I cannot hold it, if you say me "ok, it happens you cannot hold it, so do it in your jeans... Yeah I like both as well. So many possibilities! Quote Link to comment
wettingman 1,584 Posted September 16, 2020 Share Posted September 16, 2020 I would not want to be gently encouraged to wet my pants. But there is no need to be nasty or mean, and I don't want to be "punished" like a child. This should be fun . I would LOVE to be strongly encouraged to hold my pee even past my ability to hold it and as I am already leaking, by an appreciative female. It would be awesome if she would not allow me to relieve myself no matter how badly I needed to go. Rxtree 1 Quote Link to comment
Guest Delete me Posted September 16, 2020 Share Posted September 16, 2020 I love both options so much I don't even know which is better. Maybe the ideal is something in between: being playfully teased in a way that makes you slightly embarrassed, but also shows that the person ok with it, or even enjoying it. Quote Link to comment
shinobi 293 Posted September 16, 2020 Share Posted September 16, 2020 I prefer mean/teasing while I am desperate - like, "I bet you have to go, don't you?" - or even just being ordered to hold it. Niceness just doesn't really do as much for me. I've never been made fun of afterwards. I could see it being fun if done right, but by that point, most of the fun is over for me, to be honest. Quote Link to comment
Ms. Tito 1,568 Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 P-please be gentle nya~~ Quote Link to comment
hubertheiser 156 Posted September 17, 2020 Share Posted September 17, 2020 (edited) When my partner "pushes my buttons" and gets me in a subby mood many ways can be fun. In general, I like my partner to be strict in not allowing me to use the bathroom and controlling my actions like e.g. leaking a little. Some bondage to prevent me from squirming and using my hands can greatly add to the fun from time to time. I'm not at all into humiliation and punishment, though. I'd rather see my partner enjoying by my struggles and "accidents" and engaging in more fun and maybe a "funishment" afterwards. When acting as a top I'd follow pretty much the same pattern. Edited September 17, 2020 by hubertheiser typo corrected, "funishment" added (see edit history) ilikeadultvids 1 Quote Link to comment
Here4theFun 1,960 Posted September 19, 2020 Share Posted September 19, 2020 Gentle, I like a bit of teasing and to get pushed a bit, but nothing near humiliation levels. It's also better at the time to ask for permission, rough doms usually drag it forever and I just get bored of them. Quote Link to comment
Guest shortmetalboi Posted September 19, 2020 Share Posted September 19, 2020 On 9/13/2020 at 8:02 PM, BigWoman said: What you prefer? Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? Any experiences? I like the idea of teasing someone a bit, but never wants them to feel bad, so also encouraging and comforting after wetting, especially if they are sad. Honestly I enjoy both, just depends on my mood. Quote Link to comment
Grayishlikepee 0 Posted September 19, 2020 Share Posted September 19, 2020 I like doing it entirely alone like a kinky little secret, I like having people see me desperate and wonder what the fuck I’m doing not peeing and when I bust I love people feeling bad but staying silent. Quote Link to comment
Guest Amaya Posted September 19, 2020 Share Posted September 19, 2020 On 9/14/2020 at 8:21 PM, SoggyShorts said: How about a third option? Someone who tells me how cute or sexy it is when I wet my pants? I like the third option most 😎 Quote Link to comment
richard3 57 Posted September 19, 2020 Share Posted September 19, 2020 On 9/13/2020 at 7:02 PM, BigWoman said: What you prefer? Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? Any experiences? I like the idea of teasing someone a bit, but never wants them to feel bad, so also encouraging and comforting after wetting, especially if they are sad. I'd have to say both appeal to me and I use both in fantasy. In real life when I was a kid I experienced both reactions from adults and peers but stern/mean or ridicule/humiliating were more common. (As you probably imagine) Quote Link to comment
BigWoman 21 Posted September 19, 2020 Author Share Posted September 19, 2020 It shouldn't be like that. Quote Link to comment
gottapee87 3 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 On 9/13/2020 at 8:02 PM, BigWoman said: What you prefer? Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? Any experiences? I like the idea of teasing someone a bit, but never wants them to feel bad, so also encouraging and comforting after wetting, especially if they are sad. I love, love, love getting teased. I don't really think of it as meanness but it takes a lot out of it when someone is making me hold it and they're *too* nice. I love when someone is doing everything they can think of to make me need to go worse while simultaneously telling me that peeing is not an option, no matter how badly I need to go. This is a little hard to explain but another thing I love is something I call "fake sympathy." I'm talking about statements like "oh, you must need to go so badly, your bladder must be aching, it's such a shame that you still can't go for hours..." On the surface it sounds sympathetic but it really isn't. I'm not into blatant humiliation/embarrassment but teasing is perfect. Quote Link to comment
waffle<3 441 Posted September 20, 2020 Share Posted September 20, 2020 Definetly the first one. I'd say I prefer soft dommes to hard dommes in most contexts. Quote Link to comment
Empeeror 154 Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 I prefer to encourage and comfort, but like both being teased and comforted Quote Link to comment
DesperateJill 3,781 Posted September 23, 2020 ✨ Legendary Member Share Posted September 23, 2020 "What you prefer? Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? Any experiences?" I personally feel all desperation is a bit mean-spirited because you are taking advantage of the fact that a person is in an embarrassing and uncomfortable situation and that they are vulnerable and stuck in that situation. When they are gentle and encouraging it's not as brutal but when they are teasing you that immediately puts you in a really submissive position and that's what makes it exciting but frustrating. Quote Link to comment
Sucedáneo 36 Posted September 23, 2020 Share Posted September 23, 2020 Gentle por favor ❤️ I appreciate the tease but I'm easily overburdened. Quote Link to comment
BurstingSpurt 39 Posted September 25, 2020 Share Posted September 25, 2020 I can take a bit of banter and generally prefer to be teased, but nothing bordering on the vulgar. And I like to know how much my partner enjoys my desperation and gets turned on by seeing me desperate and sharing my feelings as I confess how bad I have to go... Quote Link to comment
bursting2pee 5 Posted September 26, 2020 Share Posted September 26, 2020 On 9/14/2020 at 2:02 AM, BigWoman said: What you prefer? Someone who is gentle and during desperation encourages you or tells you to just go and after wetting comforts you? Or someone who is mean, teasing you while holding and humiliating or even punishing after wetting? Any experiences? I like the idea of teasing someone a bit, but never wants them to feel bad, so also encouraging and comforting after wetting, especially if they are sad. Plus one on that! The thing I enjoy most is teasing each other until some explodes first 😉 Quote Link to comment
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